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"Bronisław Malinowski's trilogy on the Trobrianders consists of Argonauts of the Western Pacific (1922), The Sexual Life of Savages in North-Western Melanesia (1929) and Coral Gardens and Their Magic (1935) .


"On the other hand, they would never eat heavy food on such occasions and especially would never carry it with them from the village. To them the idea of European boys and girls going out for a picnic with a knapsack full of eatables is as disgusting and indecent as their kwakwadu would be to a Puritan in our society (see also ch. iii, sec. 4)"


"In their food-collecting and primitive-hunting stage men gained their living collectively ; accordingly they also consumed collectively. When their womanfolk, having noticed the sprouting of seeds, invented primitive planting, thereby gaining a temporary ascendancy socially (in the so-called matriarchate or, more correctly, matrilinear society), collective work as a whole divided along the line of sex. B. Malinowski in his opus magnum reports that in the Trobriands males and females may have premarital sexual intercourse but never must they be seen eating together."--The Humanist - Volume 73 - Pagina 54, 1958


"Eating is not regarded as indispensable to life, nor is the value of food as a utility recognized and formulated by the natives. In fact, they have no idea that there is such a thing as physiological need for alimentation, or that the body is built up on food. According to them, one eats because one has appetite, because one is hungry or greedy. The act of eating is very pleasant, and it is a suitable expression of a joyful mood. Large accumulations of food (pi. 84), their formal distribution (sagali) and, at times, their immediate, though not public, consumption form the core of all native festivities and ceremonies. "We shall be glad, we shall eat till we vomit," say the natives, in anticipation of some tribal ceremony or festival. To give food is a, virtuous act. The provider of food, the organizer of many big sagali (distributions) is a great man and a good man. Food is displayed in all forms and on all occasions, and they show great interest in new crops, in a rich yield of garden produce, and in a large catch of fish (see pi. 85).

Yet meals are never taken in public, and eating is altogether regarded as a rather dangerous and delicate act. Not only will people never eat in a strange village, but even within the same community the custom of eating in common is limited. After a big distribution, the people retire to their own fireplaces with their portion, each group turning its back on the rest. There is no actual conviviality on a large scale. Even when the big communal cooldng of taro takes place, small groups of related people assemble round the pot which has been allotted to them, and which they have carried away to a secluded spot. There they eat rapidly, no one else witnessing the performance (pi. 86).

In fact, eating is rather a means of social division and discrimination than a way of bringing people together. To begin with, distinctions of rank are marked by food taboos. People of the highest rank are practically constrained to eat within their own circle, and those of a lower status have to forgo part of their normal diet if they eat in the presence of their superiors, in order not to shock them. Table manners are thus a household affair and are not very polished. Food is eaten with the fingers and smacking of lips, noisy expressions of enjoyment and belching are not considered incorrect. To be intently concentrated on one's food and to eat voraciously is, however, thought to be ugly."


"In their food-collecting and primitive-hunting stage men gained their living collectively ; accordingly they also consumed collectively. When their womanfolk, having noticed the sprouting of seeds, invented primitive planting, thereby gaining a temporary ascendancy socially (in the so-called matriarchate or, more correctly, matrilinear society), collective work as a whole divided along the line of sex. B. Malinowski in his opus magnum reports that in the Trobriands males and females may ..."--The Humanist - Volume 73 - Pagina 54, 1958

{{Template}} The Sexual Life of Savages in North-Western Melanesia (Życie seksualne dzikich w północno-zachodniej Melanezji) is a 1929 book by anthropologist Bronisław Malinowski. It contains ethnographic data that proves that the Freudian Oedipus complex is not universal.

This important work is his second in the trilogy on the Trobrianders, with the other two being Argonauts of the Western Pacific (1922), and Coral Gardens and Their Magic (1935).

Content

In the preface Malinowski says that sexuality "dominates in fact almost every aspect of culture".

Malinowski gives a detailed description of the social organisation of sexuality - social rites, partner choice, et al - "tracing the Trobriand lifecycle from birth through puberty, marriage, and death".

Children don't submit to a system of "domestic coercion" or "regular discipline" - they "enjoy considerable freedom and independence". The idea of a child being "beaten or otherwise punished in cold blood" by a parent is viewed as unnatural and immoral and when proposed by westerners (like the anthropologist) is "rejected with resentment". Things are asked "as from one equal to another; a simple command, implying the expectation of natural obedience, is never heard from parent to child in the Trobriands". The event of a person getting angry and striking another person "in an outburst of rage" sometimes happens but as often from parent to child as from child to parent.

In further chapters, the parent-child relationship of the Trobrianders is described with details of their complex matrilineal relationship structure in which the biological parentage is ignored.

Contents

  • The Relations Between the Sexes in Tribal Life
  • The Status of Woman in Native Society
  • Prenuptial Intercourse; The Avenues to Marriage
  • Marriage; Divorce and the Dissolution of Marriage by Death
  • Procreation and Pregnancy in Native Belief and Custom
  • Pregnancy and Childbirth
  • Customary Forms of License
  • Love-Making and the Psychology of Erotic Life
  • The Magic of Love and Beauty
  • Erotic Dreams and Fantasies; Morals and Manners
  • A Savage Myth of Incest.

Full text[1]

LIBRARY OF WELLES LEY COLLEGE



PURCHASED FROM LIBRARY FUNDS


THE SEXUAL LIFE OF SAVAGES


BOOKS BY THE SAME AUTHOR

The Family Among the Australian Aborigines. London: University of London Press (out of print), 191 3.

Primitive Religion and Social Differentiation. Cracow (in Polish, out of print), 1915.

■^'The Natives of Mailu." Adelaide: Trans, of the R. Soc. of S. Jus- tralia for 1915. Pp. 494-706. 1915.

Argonauts of the Western Pacific. London: Geo. Routledge and Sonsj New York: E. P. Dutton and Co. 1922.

"Magic, Science, and Religion," in Essays collected by J. Needham, under the title Science, Religion, and Reality. London: The Sheldon Press J New York and Toronto: The Macmillan Co. 1926.

Myth in Primitive Psychology. London: Kegan Paul and Co.j New York: W. W. Norton and Co. 1926.

Crime and Custom in Savage Society. London: Kegan Paul and Co.j New York: Harcourt, Brace and Co. 1926.

The Father in Primitive Psychology. London: Keg-an Paul and Co.j New York: W. W. Norton and Co. 1927.

Sex and Repression in Savage Society. London: Kegan Paul and Co.j

New York: Harcourt, Brace and Co. 1927.


THE SEXUAL LIFE OF SAVAGES

in North-We stern Melanesia

AN ETHNOGRAPHIC ACCOUNT OF COURTSHIP, MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE AMONG THE NATIVES OF THE TROBRIAND ISLANDS, BRITISH NEW GUINEA

BY

BPvONISLAW MALINOWSKI

PH. D.J D.SC.

Complete in One Volume

WITH A PREFACE BY HAVELOCK ELLIS


READERS LEAGUE OF AMERICA

Distributed by

EUGENICS PUBLISHING COMPANY

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Copyright, 1929, by Bronislaw Malinowski


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PREFACE

By Havelock Ellis

The sexual life of savages has long awaited its natural historian. Owing to sex taboos, that weigh at least as much on the civilized as on the savage mind, this subject has always been veiled in mystery. The mystery has been fascinating or sombre according to the general attitude to savagery that happened to prevail. In the eighteenth century it was fascinating. That century, especially in its French mode, virtually discovered what is loosely and in- correctly termed "Primitive Man," and found his finest embodiment in the new and Paradisiacal world of America and Oceania. These French voyagers and missionaries (though there were some notable but more sober-minded English and other sailors among them) were delighted and intoxicated as these strange manners and customs, often so gracious and fantastic, opened out before their astonished vision. They were incapable of understanding them, and they had no time to penetrate below the sur- face, but the enthusiastic impressions they honestly set down seemed a revelation to the Parisian world with its own widely unlike artificialities and conventions. Then was developed the conception of the "noble" savage of whom Tacitus had caught a glimpse in primeval German forests living in "a state of Nature." The nineteenth century grew contemptuous of what seemed to it Rous-

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seau's superficial and imaginative vision of the natural man. But Rousseau had really been a careful student of the narratives of explorers in his time, as there is clear evidence to show. The conclusions he drew were not more extravagant than those at the opposite extreme drawn by later generations and sometimes still persisting to-day. Diderot, likewise, when he wrote his famous Sufflefnent au Voyage de Bougainville y to exhibit to his fellow-countrymen the superior reasonableness in matters of sexual ethics of the Tahitian, brought forward various correct facts- — already set down in the attractive narrative of the great French navigator — ^but misleadingly, because he was ignorant of the social framework to which they belonged.

In the nineteenth century the more sombre view pre- vailed. The explorers were now mainly English, and they carried with them the Anglo-Saxon Puritanism for which all sexual customs that are unfamiliar are either shocking or disgusting. "Obscene" was the word com- monly used, and it was left to the reader's imagination to picture what that might mean. The sexual behaviour of savages seemed mostly unspeakable. The urethral sub- incision practised by some Australian tribes was mysteri- ously named "the terrible rite." A similar mutilation of the nose or ear, or anywhere a little higher up or a little lower down, would not have seemed "terrible" j but at that particular spot it aroused a shuddering and shame- faced awe.

In the twentieth century we have moved towards a calmer attitude. We are learning to view our own sex

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taboos a little less solemnly. At the same time we are acquiring a more scientific spirit in the investigation of the few remaining peoples yet not too completely under the influence of our own civilization, regarding them no longer with either adulation or contempt, but as valuable witnesses to unfamiliar aspects of our common human nature. The Cambridge Expedition to Torres Straits with its scientifically trained observers, and all that that expedition led to in subsequent observations in other parts of the world by such distinguished workers as Rivers and Seligman, may be regarded as a landmark. But we still pined in vain for a picture of the sexual life of any un- spoilt people. One or two investigators, like Roth in Queensland, noted a few precise objective facts of the sex life, and more recently Felix Bryk, in his Neger-EroSy has produced a valuable study of the erotic life in Equa- torial Africa, but it has not been easy to find any really comprehensive picture.

Such a task needed, indeed, a rare combination of quali- fications j not only a scientific equipment but a familiarity with various new fertilizing ideas, not always considered scientific, which have of late been thrown into the anthro- pological field j a long and intimate knowledge of the people to be investigated and of their language, for it is not only in civilization that the sexual life tends to be shy and recessive j not least, there was required in the inves- tigator a freedom alike from the traditions of Anglo- Saxon Puritanism, however estimable in their own place, and from the almost equally unfortunate reactions to which the revolt against those traditions may lead.

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All these qualifications are in a rare degree combined in Dr. Malinowski : the scientific outfit, the sensitive intel- ligence, the patience in observation, the sympathetic in- sight. He is known by numerous monographs on various sociological aspects of savage culture, mostly based on his research among the Trobriand Islanders off the east coast of New Guinea, among whom he lived in close touch for two years. His Argonauts of the Western Pacific — the original and elaborate analysis of the peculiar kula ex- change system of the Trobriands — is recognized as a bril- liant achievement of ethnographic research. It is, indeed, more than merely ethnographic, and as Sir James Frazer, who introduced the book, pointed out, it is characteristic of Dr. Malinowski's method that he takes full account of the complexity of human nature. An institution that, at the first glance, might seem to be merely economic, is found in his searching hands to be not merely commercial, but bound up with magic and ministering to the emotional and sesthetic needs of the people who exercise it.

In the field of sex, as I have remarked, it is only to-day that investigation has become possible. And this not sim- ply because our sex taboos have at last lost something of their stringency. It is only to-day that it has here be- come possible to ask those right questions which, as Bacon said, are the half of knowledge. A quarter of a century ago the study of sex was merely the study of extravagant aberrations, and, outside this, just sentimental rhapsody. It has now become — accordingly as we approach it — either a field of natural history, to be studied in the ordi- nary spirit of the field naturalist, or else a department of


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psychological dynamics where forces are at play which may often be traced beneath the surface and take on strange forms and influence even those modes of activity which seem most remote from sex. In this department, the genius of Freud — as some think, in ways that are exaggerated — has given an impetus to the study of the sexual impulse and to its possible manifestations even in the myths and customs of savages. To these develop- ments Dr. Malinowski is fully alive. He was even pre- pared at one time to be much more nearly a Freudian than we can now describe him. To-day he is neither Freudian nor anti-Freudian J he recognizes the fertilizing value of Freud's ideas, and he is prepared to utilize them whenever they seem helpful in elucidating the phenomena under investigation. These phenomena he views with a char- acteristically wide outlook 5 while not neglecting the pre- cise technique of the erotic art among the Trobriand Islanders, he duly investigates their whole sexual life in its aesthetic, emotional, family, and social implications. Now that he has shown the way, other students doubtless will be inspired to follow. But in this field not all who are called are chosen. The special combination of needed qualifications can rarely be found, and meanwhile the op- portunities are every year diminishing. It may safely be said that The Sexual Life of Savages in North-western Melanesia will become a classic of which the value must increase with the passage of time.

So far I have been speaking of this work in its relation to science. But I believe that it also has wider relations. It may interest not only those who are concerned with

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origins and with what they may perhaps consider exotic forms of social life, but also those who are concerned with the present or the future, and the forms of social life at home.

We often overlook the fact, which Is yet well estab- lished, that the rate and level of evolution are not at every point equal. We do not place the negro at the summit of human development 3 but at some points he is further evolved in physical form than the white man. Or, if we take a wider range, it has long been clear that the forefoot of the horse has reached a higher stage of evolution than that of other animals in general much higher in the scale. So, also, on the psychic side, we are accustomed to regard the civilization of classic antiquity as in some respects higher than our own which yet has pro- gressed much further along other lines.

In the life of sex we are concerned with an impulse of profound interest to mankind from the first. It occupies a field, one may note, which may be cultivated even by peoples whose level of culture is, in many important re- spects, far from high. It may even be said that an absorp- tion in other fields of culture is actually detrimental to culture in the sexual field, and, as we know, a marvellous expansion of the mechanical arts and exalted achievements in the intellectual sphere may co-exist with a sexual cul- ture thrust back into conventions and routines which are scarcely even regarded as open to discussion. It is pos- sible to be sensitive and alive to achievement In the more complex human arts and yet, at the same time, remain

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crude in the more fundamental arts. The reverse devel- opment is also possible.

So it may happen that, in presence of the picture Dr. Malinowski here presents to us, we become aware, not only of a unique contribution to anthropological research, but of suggestions bearing on civilized life and its efForts towards social reform. The Trobriand Islanders are a small community living in a confined space 5 they only supply one of the patterns of savage life, though it may well be a fairly typical pattern. When we study it we find not merely that in this field the savage man is very like the civilized man, with the like vices and virtues under different forms, but we may even find that in some respects the savage has here reached a finer degree of civilization than the civilized man. The comparisons we can thus make furnish suggestions even for the critical study of our own social life.

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Preface by Havelock Ellis Introduction by the Author .


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I. The Relations Between the Sexes in Tribal Life

1. The Principles of Mother-Right

2. A Trobriand Village ....

3. Family Life ......

4. The Division of Property and Duties Accord

ing to Sex ......


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The Status of Woman in Native Society

1. The Privileges and Burdens of Rank

2. Mortuary Rites and Festivities

3. Woman's Share in Magic

Prenuptial Intercourse .

1. The Sexual Life of Children

2. Age Divisions .....

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The Amorous Life of Adolescence The Bachelors' House .


The Avenues to Marriage

1. Motives for Marrying .

2. The Consent of the Wife's Family

3. Marriage Gifts

4. Infant Betrothal and Cross-Cousin Marriage

5. Matrimonial Alliances in a Chief's Family

6. Ceremonies of Infant Betrothal .


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Marriage

Husband and Wife as Companions

Adultery and Sexual Jealousy

Economic Tribute from the Wife's Family

The Polygamy of Chiefs

The Domestic Aspect of Polygamy


Divorce and the Dissolution of Marriage BY Death . . . . ...

1. Divorce ........

2. Death and the Bereaved

3. Funeral Ceremonies and the Obligations of

Mourning .......

4. The Ideology of Mourning ....

Procreation and Pregnancy in Native Be- lief AND Custom

1. The Male and Female Organism and the

Sexual Impulse in Native Belief

2. Reincarnation and the Way to Life Through

the Spirit World

3. Ignorance of Physiological Paternity

4. Words and Deeds in Testimony

5. Fatherless Children in a Matrilineal Society .

6. The Singular Claims of Sociological Paternity


Pregnancy and Childbirth

Preparation for the First Pregnancy Rites Ceremonial of First Pregnancy Customs of Pregnancy and Confinement Mother and Child


Customary Forms of Licence

1. The Erotic Element in Games

2. Games Involving Physical Contact

3. Seasons of Love and Festivity

4. Ceremonial Gatherings — Kayasa .

5. Orgiastic Festivals . . . .


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6. Ulatile — ^Youth in Search of Amorous Ad-

venture .......

7. Katuyausi — A Ceremonial Escapade of Girls

8. Yausa — Orgiastic Assaults by Women .

9. Actuality of Orgiastic Licence

Love-Making and the Psychology of Erotic

Life

Erotic Attraction .....

Repulsion by Ugliness, Age, and Disease Beauty of the Human Face and Body . The Care of the Body The Course of an Intrigue . Cases of Personal Attachment The Commercial Aspect of Love Jealousy ......

Beauty, Colour, and Scent in Love-Making The Conversation of Tv^^o Lovers Erotic Approaches ....

The Act of Sex . . r . .


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XL The Magic of Love and Beauty .

1. The Importance of Beauty

2. Ceremonial Occasions of Beauty Magic

3. Beauty Magic: The Ritual of Washing

4. Beauty Magic: The Ritual of Adornment

5. The Magic of Safety and Renown at Festivi

ties ......

6. The Magic of Love

7. The Rite and the Spell in Love Magic

8. The Realities of Love Magic

9. The Magic of Oblivion


Erotic Dreams and Fantasies

1. Dreams ......

2. Sex in Folk-Lore — String Figures .

3. Sex in Folk-Lore — Facetise

4. Sex in Folk-Lore — Legend and Myth

5. The Erotic Paradise of the Trobriander


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XIII. Morals and Manners

1. Decency and Decorum .

2. The Morals of Sex

3. The Censure of Sexual Aberrations

4. Modesty in Speech and Behaviour .

5. Exogamy and the Prohibition of Incest

6. The Supreme Taboo


XIV. A Savage Myth of Incest

1. The Sources of Love

2. The Original Text of the Myth

3. Cases of Actual Incest .


Magic


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LIST OF ILLUSTRATIONS

Two Pretty Girls, One Disfigured by Mourning

Frontisfiece

1. The Central Place of Omarakana

2. The Chief and His Sons

3. Two Hereditary Enemies

4. The Chief's Favourite Wife and Her Family

5. Ceremonial Cooking of Taro

6. Women with Carrying Pads

7. A Family on the Road

8. Native Interior

9. A Stage in Skirt Making

10. Drying Skirt Fibre

1 1 . The Mortuary Dance

12. Distribution of Skirts in Mortuary Ritual

13. Decorated Women

14. Men in Full Festive Attire

15. Children Showing a Game to the Ethnog-

rapher

16. The Children's Republic

17. Small Boys Playing at Sagali

18. A Group of Girls

19. Boys in the Yam Garden

20. A Decorated Bachelors' House

21. Girl IN Front OF A 5c7XC7M^T?7L^

22. Kalogusa, the Chief's Son

23. Marriage Gift in Preparation

24. The Marriage Gift Displayed

25. MiTAKATA and OrAYSE

26. A Happy Family

27. The Marriage Tribute in the Garden

28. Carrying the Harvest Gift

29. The Urigubu in the Village

30. A Polygamous Family


LIST OF ILLUSTRATIONS

31. A Chief's Wife and Her Annual Dowry

32. Decorated Corpse

33. Body After First Exhumation

34. Widow in Full Mourning

35. Widow in Half Mourning

36. A Decorated Jawbone

37. TOMWAYA LaKWABULO THE SeER

38. Albino

39. An Unmarried Mother

40. Two Brothers

41. Father and Son

42. The Pregnancy Cloak

43. First Charming of the Pregnancy Robes

44. Cutting the White Lily Leaves

45. The Way into the Water

46. The Ritual Bathing

47. Second Charming of the Pregnancy Cloaks

48. Guarded from Contact with Earth

49. Return to the Father's House

50. Vigil on the Platform

51. A Mother and Her First-born

52. Children in a Round Game

53. A Figure Game

54. Rats

55. The Fishing of Kuboya

56. Typical Scenery of Hide and Seek

57. A Harvest Scene

58. A Ceremonial Dancing Demonstration

59. The U l ATI le of Kwaybwaga

60. Ulatilb on the Lagoon

61. Girls Decorated for Katuyausi or Harvest

Visit

62. Katuyausi Party

63. The Beach of the Lagoon

64. Bagido'u

65. Kaydebu Dance

66. A Melanesian Beauty

67. A Type Not Admired by the Natives

68. Ethnographer with a Man in a Wig


LIST OF ILLUSTRATION^

69. The Leaf and the Dress

70. Lousing

71. Ceremonial Distribution of Food

72. After the Distribution

73. Rehearsal of a Kasawaga Dance

74. The Crowd Assembled Outside the Village

for Beauty Magic

75. The Magic of Mother of Pearl

76. Magical Face Painting

77. The Ritual Placing of the Vana

78. The Last Touch to the Dancers' Toilet

79. Ready for the Final Dance

80. Women in the Water Collecting Shells .

81. Head Pool of the Tidal Creek of Kwabulo

82. The Inuvayla'u Dance

83. UsiKELA Bananas in Kaulagu

84. Accumulation of Food for a Feast

85. Crowd Collected on a Beach to Admire a

Large Catch

86. A Small Group Eating Taro

87. Typical Lagoon Village

88. Tokeda — the Belt of Jungle Adjoining a

Garden

89. Ancestral Emergence Spot in a Small Vil-

lage ON THE Island of Vakuta

90. Mother and Child

91. Father and Child

The Trobriand Islands

Fig.

1. Plan of Village of Omarakana

2. Plan of a Dwelling-House

3. Cats' -Cradle

4. The Beach of Kumilabwaga


INTRODUCTION


INTRODUCTION

I HAVE chosen for this book the plainest, that is the most truthful title, partly to contribute towards the re- habilitation of the indispensable and often misused term sexual, partly to announce directly what the reader has to expect in the most outspoken paragraphs. Sex is not a mere physiological transaction to the primitive South Sea Islander any more than it is to us 3 it implies love and love-making j it becomes the nucleus of such vener- able institutions as marriage and the family j it pervades art and it produces its spells and its magic. It dominates in fact almost every aspect of culture. SeXy in its widest meaning — and it is thus that I have used it in the title of this book — is rather a sociological and cultural force than a mere bodily relation of two individuals. But the scientific treatment of this subject obviously involves also a keen interest in the biological nucleus. The anthro- pologist must therefore give a description of the direct approaches between two lovers, as we find them in Oceania, shaped by their traditions, obeying their laws, following the customs of their tribe.

In Anthropology the essential facts of life must be stated simply and fully, though in scientific language, and such a plain statement cannot really offend the most deli- cately minded nor the most prejudiced reader j nor can it be of any use to the seeker after pornography 3 least of all

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can it entice the unripe interest of the young. For pruri- ency consists in oblique day-dreaming and not in simple and direct statement. The reader will find that the na- tives treat sex in the long run not only as a source of pleasure, but, indeed, as a thing serious and even sacred. Nor do their customs and ideas eliminate from sex its power to transform crude material fact into wonderful spiritual experience, to throw the romantic glamour of love over the technicalities of love-making. The institu- tions of the Trobriand community allow mere brutal pas- sion to ripen into life-long love, to be shot through with personal affinities, to be strengthened by the manifold bonds and attachments created through the advent of children, by the mutual anxieties and hopes, by the com- mon aims and interests of family life.

It is perhaps in the blending of the directly sensual with the romantic and in the wide and weighty socio- logical consequences of what to start with is the most per- sonal event — it is in this richness and multiplicity of love that lies its philosophic mystery, its charm for the poet and its interest for the anthropologist. This many-sided- ness of love exists among the Trobrianders as well as with us, and it brings nearer to us even that which to most might at first appear crude and uncontrolled.

To ignore this latter aspect, however, to shirk treating the material foundations of love would in a scientific work mean completely to stultify all results. It would be to commit the unpardonable sin of evading the real issue. Anyone who does not wish to be concerned with sex need not acquire or read this book 5 and those who approach the subject in a non-scientific spirit may be warned from

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the outset that they will find nothing suggestive or allur- ing in the following chapters.

I want to make it quite clear that the comparisons be- tween native and European conditions scattered here and there, especially in the later chapters, are not meant to serve as a sociological parallel — for that they are far too slight. Still less are the native-European parallels of the present book meant to provide a homily on our own fail- ings or a pasan on our virtues. They are given simply because, in order to explain strange facts, it is necessary to hark back to familiar ones. The Anthropologist in his observations has to understand the native through his own psychology, and he must form the picture of a foreign culture from the elements of his own and of others prac- tically and theoretically known to him. The whole diffi- culty and art of field-work consists of starting from those elements which are familiar in the foreign culture and gradually working the strange and diverse into a compre- hensible scheme. In this the learning of a foreign cul- ture is like the learning of a foreign tongue: at first mere assimilation and crude translation, at the end a complete detachment from the original medium and a mastery of the new one. And since an adequate ethnographic descrip- tion must reproduce in miniature the gradual, lengthy, and painful processes of field-work, the references to the familiar, the parallels between Europe and the Trobriands have to serve as starting points.

After all, to reach the reader I have to rely upon his personal experiences which are built up in our own society. Exactly as I have to write in English, and translate na- tive terms or texts into English, so also I have, in order

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to make them real and comprehensible, to translate Mela- nesian conditions into our own. Whatever error there is in either procedure is inevitable. An Anthropologist may be well aware of traduttore tradltorey but he cannot help it — he cannot banish his few patient readers for a couple of years to a South Sea atoll, and make them live the life for themselves 3 he has, alas, to write books about his savages and lecture on them!

One more point about the method of presentation. Every conscientious scientific observer should state not only what he knows and how he has come to know it, but also indicate those gaps in his knowledge of which he is aware, the failures and omissions in his fieJd-work. I have given already (^Argonauts of the Western Pad fie ^ ch. i) a full account of my credentials: length of time spent on the islands, linguistic qualifications, methods of collecting documents and statements. I shall not repeat this all here, and the few necessary additional remarks on the difficult study of native intimate life, the reader will find in the text (ch. ix, 95 ch. x, intro.5 chs. xii and xiii, intros.)

The competent and experienced ethnographer and anthropologist — and only such a one is interested in the margin of accuracy, in the methodology of evidence and in the gaps in information — will easily see from the data presented throughout this book, where the documentation is thin and where it is full. When I make a simple state- ment without illustrating it from personal observation or adducing facts, this means that I am mainly relying on what I was told by my native informants. This is, of course, the least reliable part of my material.

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I am especially aware that my knowledge of obstetrical facts and of the women's attitude at pregnancy and child- birth is rather meagre. Again the father's behaviour at the time of childbirth and male psychology with regard to it, were not studied as fully as they should have been. Many minor points throughout the book are treated in a manner which will make clear to the specialist, not only where the information is incomplete, but also what fur- ther inquiry would be needed to fill out the gaps. On most points of fundamental importance, I am convinced that I have come down to bedrock.

One gap, regrettable but hardly to be remedied, is the small number of illustrations bearing directly on erotic life. Since this, however, takes place in deep shadow, literally as well as figuratively, photographs could only be faked, or at best, posed — and faked or posed passion (or sentiment) is worthless.

The many obligations incurred in the course of my field-work have been acknowledged elsewhere {Argonauts of the Western Pacific) j but I should like here to men- tion a very special indebtedness to my friend, Billy Hancock, trader and pearl-buyer in the Trobriands, whose mysterious death occurred while I was writing this book. He was ill, and awaiting the South-bound boat at Samarai, the European settlement in the east of New Guinea. One evening he disappeared, never to be seen or heard of again. He was not only an excellent informant and help- mate, but a real friend, whose company and assistance added a great deal of material comfort and moral support in a somewhat exacting and tedious existence.

In writing this book I was greatly stimulated by the

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interest taken in it by Mr. Havelock Ellis, whose work and whose example as a pioneer in honest thought and outspoken research I have always admired and revered. His preface materially enhances the value of this book.

The group of my friends, pupils, and colleagues who have been associated with Anthropological Research Work and Teaching at the London School of Economics for the last few years, have helped me greatly to clarify my ideas and to present my material, more especially on the sub- ject of family life, kinship organization, and marriage law. The names of Mrs. Robert Aitken (Miss Barbara Freire-Marecco), of Dr. R. W. Firth (now in the Solo- mons), of Mr. E. E. Evans-Pritchard (now among the Azande), of Miss Camilla Wedgwood (now in Aus- tralia), of Dr. Gordon Brown (now in Tanganyika), of Dr. Hortense Powdermaker (now on the way to Papua), of Mr. I. Schapera (late of South Africa), of Mr. T. J. A. Yates (late of Egypt), of Miss Audrey Rich- ards, will in my mind be always gratefully remembered in association with the drafting of the more difficult socio- logical chapters of this book.

My greatest debt in this book, as in most I have written, is to my wife. Her counsel and practical co-operation have made the writing of the Argonauts of the Western Pacific and of this an agreeable task instead of a drudgery. If there is any value and interest in these books for me personally, it comes from her share in the common work.

B. M.

London.

January^ 1929.

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CHAPTER I

THE RELATIONS BETWEEN THE SEXES IN TRIBAL LIFE

Man and woman in the Trobriand Islands — ^their rela- tions in love, in marriage, and in tribal life — ^this will be the subject of the present study.

The most dramatic and intense stage in the intercourse between man and woman, that in which they love, mate, and produce children, must occupy the dominant place in any consideration of the sexual problem. To the aver- age normal person, in whatever type of society we find him, attraction by the other sex and the passionate and sentimental episodes which follow are the most significant events in his existence, those most deeply associated with his intimate happiness and with the zest and meaning of life. To the sociologist, therefore, who studies a par- ticular type of society, those of its customs, ideas, and institutions which centre round the erotic life of the in- dividual should be of primary importance. For if he wants to be in tune with his subject and to place it in a natural, correct perspective, the sociologist must, in his research, follow the trend of personal values and in- terests. That which means supreme happiness to the individual must be made a fundamental factor in the scientific treatment of human society.

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But the erotic phase, although the most important, is only one among many in which the sexes meet and enter into relations with each other. It cannot be studied out- side its proper context, without, that is, being linked up with the legal status of man and woman 3 with their do- mestic relations 5 and with the distribution of their eco- nomic functions. Courtship, love, and mating in a given society are influenced in every detail by the way in which the sexes face one another in public and in private, by their position in tribal law and custom, by the manner in which they participate in games, and amusements, by the share each takes in ordinary daily toil.

The story of a people's love-making necessarily has to begin with an account of youthful and infantile asso- ciations, and it leads inevitably forward to the later stage of permanent union and marriage. Nor can the narra- tive break oflF at this point, since science cannot claim the privilege of fiction. The way in which men and women arrange their common life and that of their children reacts upon their love-making, and the one stage cannot be properly understood without a knowledge of the other.

This book deals with sexual relations among the na- tives of the Trobriand Islands, a coral archipelago lying to the north-east of New Guinea. These natives belong to the Papuo-Melanesian race, and in their physical ap- pearance, mental equipment, and social organization com- bine a majority of Oceanic characteristics with certain features of the more backward Papuan population from the mainland of New Guinea.^

1 For a full general account of the Northern Massim, of whom the

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THE PRINCIPLES OF MOTHER-RIGHT

We find in the Trobriands a matrilineal society, in which descent, kinship, and every social relationship are legally reckoned through the mother only, and in which women have a considerable share in tribal life, even to the taking of a leading part in economic, ceremonial, and magical activities — a fact which very deeply influences all the customs of erotic life as well as the institution of marriage. It will be well, therefore, first to consider the sexual relation in its widest aspect, beginning with some account of those features of custom and tribal law which underlie the institution of mother-right, and the various views and conceptions which throw light upon it j after this, a short sketch of each of the chief domains of tribal life — domestic, economic, legal, ceremonial, and magical — ^will combine to show the respective spheres of male and female activity among these natives.

The idea that it is solely and exclusively the mother who builds up the child's body, the man in no way con- tributing to its formation, is the most important factor in the legal system of the Trobrianders. Their views on the process of procreation, coupled with certain myth- ological and animistic beliefs, affirm, without doubt or re-

Trobrianders form a section, cf. the classical treatise of Professor C. G. Seligman, Melanesians of British Neiv Guinea, Cambridge, 1910, which also shows the relation of the Trobrianders to the other races and cultures on and around New Guinea. A short account of Trobriand culture will also be found in my Argonauts of the Western Pacific (E. P. Dutton and Co., 1923).


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serve, that the child is of the same substance as its mother, and that between the father and the child there is no bond of physical union whatsoever (see ch. vii).

That the mother contributes everything to the new being to be born of her is taken for granted by the natives, and forcibly expressed by them. "The mother feeds the infant in her body. Then, when it comes out, she feeds it with her milk." "The mother makes the child out of her blood." "Brothers and sisters are of the same flesh, because they come of the same mother." These and similar expressions describe their attitude towards this, their fundamental principle of kinship.

This attitude is also to be found embodied, in an even more telling manner, in the rules governing descent, in- heritance, succession in rank, chieftainship, hereditary offices, and magic — in every regulation, in fact, concerning transmission by kinship. Social position is handed on in the mother-line from a man to his sister's children, and this exclusively matrilineal conception of kinship is of paramount importance in the restrictions and regulations of marriage, and in the taboos on sexual intercourse. The working of these ideas of kinship can be observed, break- ing out with a dramatic intensity, at death. For the social rules underlying burial, lamentation, and mourning, to- gether with certain very elaborate ceremonies of food dis- tribution, are based on the principle that people joined by the tie of maternal kinship form a closely knit group, bound by an identity of feelings, of interests, and of flesh. And from this group, even those united to it by marriage and by the father-to-child relation are sharply excluded,

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as having no natural share in the bereavement (see ch. vi, sees. 2-4).

These natives have a well-established institution of marriage, and yet are quite ignorant of the man's share in the begetting of children. At the same time, the term "father" has, for the Trobriander, a clear, though ex- clusively social, definition: it signifies the man married to the mother, who lives in the same house with her, and forms part of the household. The father, in all discus- sions about relationship, was pointedly described to me as tomakavay a "stranger," or, even more correctly, an "out- sider." This expression would also frequently be used by natives in conversation, when they were arguing some point of inheritance or trying to justify some line of be- haviour, or again when the position of the father was to be belittled in some quarrel.

It will be clear to the reader, therefore, that the term "father," as I use it here, must be taken, not as having the various legal, moral, and biological implications that it holds for us, but in a sense entirely specific to the soci- ety with which we are dealing. It might seem better, in order to avoid any chance of such misconception, not to have used our word "father" at all, but rather the native one tamUy and to have spoken of the ^Hama relation- ship" instead of "fatherhood" j but, in practice, this would have proved too unwieldy. The reader, therefore, when he meets the word "father" in these pages, should never forget that it must be defined, not as in the English dic- tionary, but in accordance with the facts of native life. I may add that this rule applies to all terms which carry

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special sociological implication, that is to all terms of relationship, and such words as "marriage," "divorce," "betrothal," "love," "courtship," and the like.

What does the word tama (father) express to the native? "Husband of my mother" would be the answer first given by an intelligent informant. He would go on to say that his tama is the man in whose loving and pro- tecting company he has grown up. For, since marriage is patrilocal in the Trobriands, since the woman, that is to say, moves to her husband's village community and lives in his house, the father is a close companion to his children 5 he takes an active part in the cares which are lavished upon them, invariably feels and shows a deep affection for them, and later has a share in their education. The word tama (father) condenses, therefore, in its emo- tional meaning, a host of experiences of early childhood, and expresses the typical sentiment existing between a boy or girl and a mature affectionate man of the same household 3 while socially it denotes the male person who stands in an intimate relation to the mother, and who is master of the household.

So far tama does not differ essentially from "father" in our sense. But as soon as the child begins to grow up and take an interest in things outside the affairs of the household and its own immediate needs, certain complica- tions arise, and change the meaning of tama for him. He learns that he is not of the same clan as his tama^ that his totemic appellation is different, and that it is identical with that of his mother. At the same time he learns that

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all sorts of duties, restrictions, and concerns for personal pride unite him to his mother and separate him from his father. Another man appears on the horizon, and is called by the child kadagu ("my mother's brother"). This man may live in the same locality, but he is just as likely to reside in another village. The child also learns that the place where his kada (mother's brother) resides is also his, the child's, "own village" 5 that there he has his property and his other rights of citizenship j that there his future career awaits himj that there his natural allies and associates are to be found. He may even be taunted in the village of his birth with being an "outsider" {toma- kava)y while in the village he has to call "his own," in which his mother's brother lives, his father is a stranger and he a natural citizen. He also sees, as he grows up, that the mother's brother assumes a gradually increasing authority over him, requiring his services, helping him in some things, granting or withholding his permission to carry out certain actions j while the father's authority and counsel become less and less important.

Thus the life of a Trobriander runs under a two-fold influence — a duality which must not be imagined as a mere surface play of custom. It enters deeply into the existence of every individual, it produces strange compli- cations of usage, it creates frequent tensions and diffi- culties, and not seldom gives rise to violent breaks in the continuity of tribal life. For this dual influence of paternal love and the matrilineal principle, which pene- trates so far into the framework of institutions and into


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the social ideas and sentiments of the native, is not, as a matter of fact, quite well adjusted in its working/

It has been necessary to emphasize the relationship be- tween a Trobriander and his father, his mother, and his mother's brother, for this is the nucleus of the complex system of mother-right or matriliny, and this system gov- erns the whole social life of these natives. The question is, moreover, specially related to the main theme of this book: love-making, marriage, and kinship are three aspects of the same subject j they are the three facets which it presents in turn to sociological analysis.


A TROBRIAND VILLAGE

We have so far given the sociological definition of fatherhood, of the mother's brother's relation, and of the nature of the bond between mother and child j a bond founded on the biological facts of gestation and the ex- tremely close psychological attachment which results from these. The best way to make this abstract statement clear will be to display the inter-working of the three rela- tionships in an actual community in the Trobriands. Thus we can make our explanations concrete and get into touch with actual life instead of moving among ab- stractions j and, incidentally, too, we can introduce some personalities who will appear in the later parts of our narrative.

The village of Omarakana is, in a sense, the capital

^ Cf. my Crime and Custom in Salvage Society, Harcourt, Brace, 1926.

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of Kiriwina, the main district of these islands. It is the residence of the principal chief, whose name, prestige, and renown are carried far and wide over the Archipela- goes, though his power does not reach beyond the prov- ince of Kiriwina/ The village lies on a fertile, level plain in the northern part of the large, flat coral island of Boyowa (see map). As we walk towards it, from the lagoon anchorages on the western shore, the level road leads across monotonous stretches covered with low scrub, here and there broken by a tabooed grove, or by a large garden, holding vines trained on long poles and looking, in its developed form, like an exuberant hop-yard. We pass several villages on our way 5 the soil becomes more fertile and the settlement denser as we approach the long ridge of raised coral outcrop which runs along the eastern shore and shuts oflF the open sea from the inland plains of the island.

A large clump of trees appears at a distance — ^these are the fruit-trees, the palms and the piece of uncut virgin jungle which together surround the village of Omara- kana. We pass the grove and find ourselves between two rows of houses, built in concentric rings round a large open space (see fig. i and plate i). Between the outer ring and the inner one a circular street runs round the whole of the village, and in it, as we pass, we see groups of people sitting in front of their huts (see pi. 4). The outer ring consists of dwelling-houses, the inner of store-

^ For further references to this eminent personage and for an account of chieftainship, see C. G. Seligman, op. cit., chapters xlix and li ; also my Argonauts of the Western Pacific, passim, and "Baloma, Spirits of the Dead." Journ. R, Anthrop. Inst.^ 1916.


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huts in which the taytu^ a variety of yam, which forms the staple food of the natives, is kept from one harvest to the next. We are struck at once by the better finish, the greater constructive elaboration, and the superior em- bellishment and decoration which distinguish the yam- houses from the dwellings (see pi. 31). As we stand on the wide central space we can admire the circular row of storehouses in front of us, for both these and the dwell- ings always face the centre. In Omarakana a big yam- house belonging to the chief stands in the middle of this space. Somewhat nearer the ring, but still well in the centre stands another large building, the chief's living hut (see pis. i and 2).

This singularly symmetrical arrangement of the village is of importance, for it represents a definite sociological scheme. The inner place is the scene of the public and festive life. A part of it is the old-time burial ground of the villagers, and at one end is the dancing ground, the scene of all ceremonial and festive celebrations. The houses which surround it, the inner ring of store-huts that is, share its quasi-sacred character, a number of taboos being placed upon them. The street between the two rows is the theatre of domestic life and everyday occur- rence (see pis. 4 and 39). Without over-labouring the point, the central place might be called the male portion of the village and the street that of the women.

Let us now make preliminary acquaintance with some of the more important inhabitants of Omarakana, be- ginning with the present chief, To'uluwa (see pis. 2 and 41). Not only are he and his family the most prominent

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members of the community^ but they occupy more than half of the village. As we shall see (ch. v, sec. 4), the chiefs in the Trobriands have the privilege of polygamy. To'uluwa, who lives in the large house in the middle of the village, has a number of wives who occupy a whole row of huts (A — B on the plan, fig. i). Also his maternal kinsmen, who belong to his family and sub-clan called Tabalu, have a separate space in the village for them- selves (A — C). The third section (B — C) is inhabited by commoners who are not related to the chief either as kinsmen or as children.

The community is thus divided into three parts. The first consists of the chief and his maternal kinsmen, the Tabalu, all of whom claim the village as their own, and consider themselves masters of its soil with all attendant privileges. The second consists of the commoners, who are themselves divided into two groups: those claiming the rights of citizenship on mythological grounds (these rights are distinctly inferior to those of the chief's sub- clan, and the claimants remain in the village only as the chief's vassals or servants) 3 and strangers in the heredi- tary service of the chief, who live in the village by that right and title. The third part consists of the chief's wives and their offspring.

These wives, by reason of patrilocal marriage, have to settle in their husband's village, and with them, of course, remain their younger children. But the grown-up sons are allowed to stay in the village only through the personal influence of their father. This influence over- rules the tribal law that every man ought to live in his

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own — that is his mother's — ^village. The chief is always much more attached to his children than to his maternal kinsmen. He prefers their company j like every typical Trobriand father, he takes, sentimentally at least, their side in any dispute j and he invariably tries to grant them as many privileges and benefits as possible. This state of affairs is naturally not altogether appreciated by the chief's legal successors, his maternal kinsmen, the children of his sister 5 and frequently considerable tension and sharp friction arise between the two sections in conse- quence.

Such a state of tension revealed itself recently in an acute upheaval, which shook the quiet tribal life of Omarakana and for years undermined its internal har- mony.^ There was a feud of long standing between Namwana Guya'u, the chief's favourite son, and Mitakata, his nephew and third in succession to the rule (see pi. 3). Namwana Guya'u was the most influential man in the village, after the chief, his father: To'uluwa allowed him to wield a great deal of power, and gave him more than his share of wealth and privilege.

One day, about six months after my arrival in Omara- kana, the quarrel came acutely to a head. Namwana Guya'u, the chief's son, accused his enemy, Mitakata, the nephew and one of the heirs, of committing adultery with his wife, brought him before the White Resident Magistrate, and thereby caused him to be imprisoned for

1 The following account has been already published (in Crime and Custom, pp. loi sq.). Since it is an almost exact reproduction of the original entry in my field-notes, I prefer to give it here once more in the same form, with a few verbal alterations only.

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a month or so. The news of this imprisonment reached the village from the Government compound, a few miles distant, at sunset, and created a panic. The chief shut himself up in his personal hut, full of evil forebodings for his favourite, who had thus rashly outraged tribal law and feeling. The kinsmen of the imprisoned heir to chieftainship were boiling with suppressed anger and indignation. As night fell, the subdued villagers settled down to a silent supper, each family over its solitary meal. There was nobody on the central place. Nam- wana Guya'u was not to be seen, the chief To'uluwa re- mained secluded in his hut, most of his wives and their children staying indoors also. Suddenly a loud voice rang out across the silent village. Bagido'u, the heir apparent and eldest brother of the imprisoned man, stand- ing before his hut, cried out, addressing the offender of his family:

"Namwana Guya'u, you are a cause of trouble. We, the Tabalu of Omarakana, allowed you to stay here, to live among us. You had plenty of food in Omarakana. You ate of our food. You partook of the pigs brought to us as a tribute, and of the flesh. You sailed in our canoe. You built a hut on our soil. Now you have done us harm. You have told lies. Mitakata is in prison. We do not want you to stay here. This is our village! You are a stranger here. Go away! We drive you away! We drive you out of Omarakana."

These words were uttered in a loud, piercing voice, which trembled with strong emotion: each short sentence was spoken after a pause j each, like an individual missile,

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was hurled across the empty space to the hut where Namwana Guya'u sat brooding. Next, the younger sister of Mitakata rose and spoke, and then a young man, one of their maternal nephews. Their words were in each case almost the same as Bagido'u's, the burden being the formula of dismissal or driving away, the yoha. These speeches were received in deep silence. Nothing stirred in the village. But, before the night was over, Namwana Guya'u had left Omarakana for ever. He had gone over and settled a few miles away, in Osapola, his "own" vil- lage, whence his mother came. For weeks she and his sister wailed for him with loud lamentations as for the dead. The chief remained for three days in his hut, and when he came out he looked aged and broken by grief. All his personal interest and affection were on the side of his favourite son, yet he could do nothing to help him. His kinsmen had acted strictly within their rights, and, according to tribal law, he could not possibly dissociate himself from them. No power could change the decree of exile. Once the words "Go away" — huhula^ "we drive thee away" — kayabaimy had been pronounced, the man had to go. These words, very rarely uttered in earnest, have a binding force and an almost ritual power when pronounced by citizens against a resident outsider. A man who would try to brave the dreadful insult involved in them and remain in spite of them, would be dis- honoured for ever. In fact, anything but immediate compliance with a ritual request is unthinkable for a Tro- briand Islander.

The chief's resentment against his kinsmen was deep

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and lasting. At first he would not even speak to them.' For a year or so, not one of them dared to ask to be taken on overseas expeditions by him, although they were fully entitled to this privilege. Two years later, in 191 7, when I returned to the Trobriands, Namwana Guya'u was still resident in the other village and keeping aloof from his father's kinsmen, though he frequently visited Omarakana in order to be in attendance on his father, especially when To'uluwa went abroad. His mother had died within a year after his expulsion. As the natives described it: "She wailed and wailed, refused to eat, and died." The relations between the two main enemies were completely broken, and Mitakata, the young chieftain who had been imprisoned, had repudiated his wife, who belonged to the same sub-clan as Namwana Guya'u. There was a deep rift in the whole social life of Kiriwina.

This incident was one of the most dramatic which I have ever witnessed in the Trobriands. I have described it at length, as it contains a striking illustration of the nature of mother-right, of the power of tribal law, and of the passions which work against and in spite of these. It shows also the deep, personal attachment which a father feels for his children, the tendency which he has to use all his personal influence to give them a strong position in the village, the opposition which this always evokes among his maternal kinsmen, and the tension and rifts thus brought about. Under normal conditions, in a smaller community where the contending powers are humbler and less important, such tension would merely mean that, after the father's death, the children would

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have to return to his maternal kinsmen practically all the: material benefits they had received from him during his lifetime. In any case, a good deal of discontent and friction and many roundabout methods of settlement are involved in this dual play of paternal affection and matri- lineal authority: the chief's son and his maternal nephew can be described as predestined enemies.

This theme will recur in the progress of the following narrative. In discussing consent to marriage, we shall see the importance of paternal authority and the functions of the matrilineal kinsmen. The custom of cross-cousin marriage is a traditional reconciliation of the two oppos- ing principles. The sexual taboos and prohibitions of incest also cannot be understood without a clear grasp of the principles discussed in this section.

So far we have met To'uluwa, his favourite wife Kadamwasila, whose death followed on the village tragedy, their son Namwana Guya'u, and his enemy Mitakata, son of the chief's sister, and these we shall meet again, for they were among my best informants. We shall also become acquainted with the other sons of the chief, and of his favourite wife, and with some of his maternal kinsmen and kinswomen. We shall follow sev- eral of them in their love affairs, and in their marriage arrangements j we shall have to pry into their domestic scandals, and to take an indiscreet interest in their intimate life. For all of them were, during a long period, under ethnographic observation, and I obtained much of my material through their confidences, and especially from their mutual scandal-mongering.

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Many examples will also be given from other com- munities, and we shall make frequent visits to the lagoon villages of the western shore, to places on the south of the island, and to some of the neighbouring smaller islands of the Archipelago. In all these other communities more uniform and democratic conditions prevail, and this makes some difference in the character of their sexual life.


FAMILY LIFE

In entering the village we had to pass across the street between the two concentric rows of houses/ This is the normal setting of the everyday life of the community, and thither we must return in order to make a closer survey of the groups of people sitting in front of their dwellings (see pi. 4). As a rule we find that each group consists of one family only — ^man, wife, and children — taking their leisure, or engaged in some domestic activity which varies with the time of day. On a fine morning we would see them hastily eating a scanty breakfast, and then the man and woman preparing the implements for the day's work, with the help of the bigger children, while the baby is laid out of the way on a mat. Afterwards, during the cool hours of the forenoon, each family would prob- ably set off to their work, leaving the village almost deserted. The man, in company with others, may be fishing or hunting or building a canoe or looking for

1 A good glimpse of the "street," can be obtained on pi. 12, where two dwelling huts, right and left, can be seen behind the two yam houses in the middle.

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timber. The woman may have gone collecting shell-fish or wild fruits. Or else both may be working in the gardens, or paying a visit. The man often does harder work than the woman, but when they return in the hot hours of the afternoon he will rest, while the woman busies herself with household aflFairs. Towards evening, when the descending sun casts longer, cooler shadows, the social life of the village begins. At this time we would see our family group in front of their hut, the wife preparing food, the children playing, the husband, per- haps, seated amusing the smallest baby. This is the time when neighbours call on one another, and conversation may be exchanged from group to group.

The frank and friendly tone of intercourse, the obvious feeling of equality, the father's domestic helpfulness, especially with the children, would at once strike any observant visitor. The wife joins freely in the jokes and conversation 5 she does her work independently, not with the air of a slave or a servant, but as one who man- ages her own department. She will order the husband about if she needs his help. Close observation, day after day, confirms this first impression. The typical Trobriand household is founded on the principles of equality and independence of function: the man is considered to be the master, for he is in his own village and the house belongs to him, but the woman has, in other respects, a considerable influence 5 she and her family have a great deal to do with the food supply of the household^ she is the owner of separate possessions in the house 5 and she is — ^next to her brother — ^the legal head of her family.

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The division of functions within the household is, in certain matters, quite definite. The woman has to cook the food, which is simple, and does not require much preparation. The main meal is taken at sunset, and con- sists of yams, taro, or other tubers, roasted in the open fire — or, less frequently, boiled in a small pot, or baked in the ground — ^with the occasional addition of fish or meat. Next morning the remains are eaten cold, and sometimes, though not regularly, fruit, shell-fish, or some other light snack may be taken at mid-day.

In some circumstances, men can and do prepare and cook the food: on journeys, oversea voyages, fishing or hunting expeditions, when they are without their women folk. Also, on certain occasions, when taro or sago dumplings are cooked in the large clay pots, men are required by tradition to assist their wives (pi. 5). But within the village and in normal daily life the man never cooks. It would be considered shameful for him to do so. "You are a he-cook {tokakabwasi yoku) would be said tauntingly. The fear of deserving such an epithet, of being laughed at or shamed {kakayuwa)^ is extreme. It arises from the characteristic dread and shame, found among savages, of not doing the proper thing, or, worse still, of doing something which is intrinsically the attribute of another sex or social class (see ch. xiii, sees. 1-4).

There are a number of occupations strictly assigned by tribal custom to one sex only. The manner of carrying loads is a very noteworthy example. Women have to carry the special feminine receptacle, the bell-shaped basket, or any other kind of load upon their heads 5 men

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must carry only on the shoulder (pis. 6, 7, and 28). It would be with a real shudder, and a profound feeling of shame, that an individual would regard carrying anything in the manner proper to the opposite sex and nothing would induce a man to put any load on his head, even in fun.

An exclusively feminine department is the water supply. The woman has the water bottles of the house- hold in her charge. These are made out of the woody shell of a mature coconut, with a stopper of twisted palm- leaf. In the morning or near sunset she goes, sometimes a full half-mile, to fill them at the water-hole: here the women forgather, resting and chatting, while one after another fills her water-vessels, cleans them, arranges them in baskets or on large wooden platters, and, just before leaving, gives the cluster a final sprinkling of water to cover it with a suggestive gloss of freshness. The water-hole is the woman's club and centre of gossip, and as such is important, for there is a distinct woman's public opinion and point of view in a Trobriand village, and they have their secrets from the male, just as the male has from the female.

We have already seen that the husband fully shares in the care of the children. He will fondle and carry a baby, clean and wash it, and give it the mashed vege- table food which it receives in addition to the mother's milk almost from birth. In fact, nursing the baby in the arms or holding it on the knees, which is described by the native word kofo^y is the special role and duty of the father {tamo). It is said of the children of unmarried

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women who, according to the native expression, are "with- out a tama*^ (that is, it must be remembered, without a husband to their mother), that they are "unfortunate" or "bad" because "there is no one to nurse and hug them {gala lay tola bikofoH)?^ Again, if anyone inquires why children should have duties towards their father, who is a "stranger" to them, the answer is invariably: "because of the nursing {fela kofo^t)^'^ "because his hands have been soiled with the child's excrement and urine" (cf. ch. vii).

The father performs his duties with genuine natural fondness : he will carry an infant about for hours, looking at it with eyes full of such love and pride as are seldom seen in those of a European father. Any praise of the baby goes directly to his heart, and he will never tire of talking about and exhibiting the virtues and achievements of his wife's offspring. Indeed, watching a native family at home or meeting them on the road, one receives a strong impression of close union and intimacy between its members (see pis. 7, 26). Nor, as we have seen, does this mutual affection abate in later years. Thus, in the in- timacy of domestic life, we discover another aspect of the interesting and complicated struggle between social and emotional paternity, on the one hand, and the explicitly acknowledged legal mother-right on the other.

It will be noticed that we have not yet penetrated into the interior of a house, for in fine weather the scene of family life is always laid in front of the dwelling. Only when it is cold and raining, at night, or for intimate uses, do the natives retire into the interior. On a wet or windy evening in the cooler season we should find the village

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streets deserted, dim lights flickering through small inter- stices in the hut walls, and voices sounding from within in animated conversation. Inside, in a small space heavy with dense smoke and human exhalation, the people sit on the floor round the fire or recline on bedsteads covered with mats.

The houses are built directly on the ground and their floors are of beaten earth. On the adjoining diagrammatic plan (fig. ii) we see the main items of their very simple furniture: the fireplace, which is simply a ring of small stones with three large ones to support a potj wooden sleeping bunks, placed one over another against the back and side walls opposite the fireplace (cf. pi. 8) and one or two shelves for nets, cooking pots, women's grass petticoats, and other household objects. The chief's per- sonal dwelling is built like an ordinary house, but is larger. The yam houses are of somewhat different and more complicated construction, and are slightly raised above the ground.

A normal day in a typical household forces the family to live in close intimacy — they sleep in the same hut, they eat in common and spend the best part both of their working and of their leisure hours together.


THE DIVISION OF PROPERTY AND DUTIES ACCORDING

TO SEX

Members of the household are also bound together by community of economic interest. On this point, how-

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ever, a more detailed statement is necessary, as the sub- ject is important and complicated. To begin with the right of ownership, it must be realized that personal pos- session is a matter of great importance to the native. The title toU- ("owner" or "master," used as a prefix to the objea possessed) has a considerable value in itself as con- ferring a sort of distinction, even when it does not give a claim to rights of exclusive use. This term and the con- ception of ownership are, in every particular case, very well defined, but the relationship varies with different objects, and it is impossible to summarize it in one for- mula covering all cases.^

It is remarkable that in spite of the close union within the household, domestic utensils and the many objects lit- tering the hut are not owned in common. Husband and wife have each his or her own possessions. The wife owns her grass petticoats, of which there are usually some twelve to twenty in her wardrobe, for use on various occasions. Also she relies on her own skill and industry to procure them. So that in the question of toilet, a Kir- winian lady depends solely upon herself. The water ves- sels, the implements for dressmaking, a number of articles of personal adornment, are also her own property. The man owns his tools, the axe and adze, the nets, the spears, the dancing ornaments, and the drum, and also those objects of high value, called by the natives vaygu^a, which consist of necklaces, belts, armshells, and large polished axe-blades.

Nor is private ownership in this case a mere word

^ Cf. Argonauts of the Western Pacific, ch. vi, and passim.

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without practical significance. The husband and the wife can and do dispose of any article of their own property, and after the death of one of them the objects are not inherited by the partner, but distributed among a special class of heirs. When there is a domestic quarrel a man may destroy some of his wife's property — he may wreak his vengeance on the water bottles or on the grass petti- coats — and she may smash his drum or break his dancing shield. A man also has to repair and keep his own things in order, so that the woman is not the housekeeper in the general European sense.

Immovable goods, such as garden-land, trees, houses, as well as sailing-vessels, are owned almost exclusively by men, as is also the live stock, which consists mainly of pigs. We shall have to touch on this subject again, when we speak of the social position of women, for ownership of such things goes with power.

Passing now from economic rights to duties, let us consider the partition of work according to sex. In the heavier type of labour, such as gardening, fishing, and carrying of considerable loads, there is a definite division between man and woman. Fishing and hunting, the latter of very slight importance in the Trobriands, are done by men, while only women engage in the search for marine shell-fish. In gardening, the heaviest work, such as cut- ting the scrub, making fences, fetching the heavy yam supports, and planting the tubers, is done exclusively by men. Weeding is the women's special duty, while some of the intermediate stages, in which the plants have to be looked after, are performed by mixed male and female

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labour. Men do such tending as there is to be done of the COCO'- and areca-nut palms and o£ the fruit-trees, while it is chiefly the women who look after the pigs.

All oversea expeditions are made by men, and the building of canoes is entirely their business. Men have to do most of the trading, especially the important exchange of vegetable food for fish which takes place between the inland and coastal villagers. In the building of houses, the framework is made by men, and the women help with the thatching. Both sexes share in the carrying of bur- dens^ the men shoulder the heavier ones, while the women make up by carrying more frequently. And, as we have seen, there is a characteristic sexual distinction in the mode of placing the burden.

As regards the minor work of manufacturing small objects, the women have to make the mats and plait the armlets and belts. Of course, they alone fashion their personal dress, just as men have to tailor their own not very extensive but very carefully finished garment, the pubic leaf. Men do the wood carving, even in the case of objects used exclusively by women j they manufacture lime gourds for betel chewing and, in the old days, they used to polish and sharpen all stone implements.

This specialization of work according to sex gives, at certain seasons, a characteristic and picturesque touch to village life. When harvest approaches new skirts of the coloured variety have to be made, ready to wear when the crops are brought in and at the subsequent festivities. Quantities of banana and pandanus leaf are brought to the villages, and are there bleached and toughened at the fire. At night the whole village is bright with the shining

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of these fires, at each of which a couple of women sit opposite each other and pass the leaf to and fro in front of the flame (see pi. 9). Loud chatter and song enlivens the work, gay with the anticipation of the coming enter- tainments. When the material is ready, it has still to be cut, trimmed, and dyed. Two kinds of roots are brought from the bush for the dyeing, one giving a deep purple, and the other a bright crimson. The dye is mixed in large bowls made of giant clam shells 5 in these the leaf strips are steeped, and then they are hung up in thick bunches to dry in the central place, enlivening the whole village with their gay colour (see pi. 10). After a very complex process of piecing together, a resplendent "crea- tion" results 3 the golden yellow of the pandanus, the soft hay-green or dun of the banana-leaf, the crimson and purple of the dyed layers form a really beautiful har- mony of colour against the smooth, brown skin of the woman.

Some manufactures are carried out by men and women together. Both sexes, for example, take part in the elaborate process which is necessary in preparing certain shell ornaments,^ while nets and water-vessels may be made by either sex.

It will have been seen, then, that women do not bear the brunt of all the drudgery and hard work. Indeed, the heaviest tasks in the gardens and the most monotonous ones are performed by men. On the other hand, women have their own province in economic activity 5 it is a con- spicuous one, and through it they assert their status and importance.

^ Cf. ch. XV of Argonauts of the Western Pacific,

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CHAPTER II

THE STATUS OF WOMAN IN NATIVE SOCIETY

The ideas of the native concerning kinship and descent, with their assertion of the mother's exclusive part in propagation 5 the position of woman within the household, and her considerable share in economic life: these imply that woman plays an influential role in the community, and that her status cannot be low or unimportant. In this section it will be necessary to consider her legal status and her position in the tribe 5 that is, her rank, her power, and her social independence of man.

In the first section of the previous chapter we have dis- cussed the kinship ideas of the natives, founded on the matrilineal principle that everything descends through the mother. We have also seen that the real guardianship of her family remains not with herself, but with her brother. This can be generalized into the formula that, in each generation, woman continues the line and man rep- resents itj or, in other words, that the power and func- tions which belong to a family are vested in the men of each generation, though they have to be transmitted by the women.

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family, woman as well as man is indispensable 5 there- fore both sexes are regarded by the natives as being of equal value and importance. When you discuss genealo- gies with a native, the question of continuity of line is constantly considered in relation to the number of women alive. This was noticeable whenever a man of a sub-clan of high rank, such as the Tabalu of Omarakana, discussed the ethnographic census of its members with me: the fact that there was a great number of women would be em- phasized with pleasure, and said to be good and impor- tant. That there were only two women of that sub-clan of high rank in Omarakana, while there were several male members, was obviously a sore point, and every Tabalu informant volunteered the statement that there were, how- ever, more women in the younger line of Olivilevi, a village in the south of the island also ruled by the Tabalu. A man of any clan would often, in speaking of his family relations, expatiate on the number of his sisters and of their female children as being a matter of real importance to his lineage. Thus girls are quite as welcome at birth as boys, and no difference is made between them by the parents in interest, enthusiasm, or affection. It is needless to add that the idea of female infanticide would be as absurd as abhorrent to the natives.

The general rule that women hand on the privileges of the family and men exercise them, must be examined as it works. When that is done we shall be able to under- stand the principle better and even to qualify it somewhat. The idea of rank — that is, of an intrinsic, social superiority of certain people as their birthright — ^is very highly deveL

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oped among the Trobriand Islanders 3 and a consideration of the way in which rank aflFects the individual will best explain the working of the general principle.

Rank is associated with definite hereditary groups of a totemic nature, which have already been designated here as sub-clans (see also ch. xiii, sec. 5). Each sub-clan has a definite rank 3 it claims to be higher than some, and admits its inferiority to others. Five or six main cate- gories of rank can, broadly speaking, be distinguished, and within these the minor grades are of but small impor- tance. For the sake of brevity and clarity, I shall chiefly concern myself with a comparison of the sub-clan of Tabalu, the highest of all in rank, with its inferiors.

Every village community "belongs to" or is "owned by" one such sub-clan, and the eldest male is the headman of the village. When the sub-clan is of highest rank, its oldest male not only is headman of his own village, but exercises over-rule in a whole district, and is what we have called a chief. Chieftainship and rank are, there- fore, closely associated, and rank carries with it, not only social distinction, but also the right to rule. Now, one of these two attributes, but one only, social distinction, is shared by men and women alike. Every woman of the highest rank, that of Tabalu, enjoys all the personal privileges of nobility. The male members of the clan will perhaps say that man is more aristocratic, more guya^u than woman, but probably this merely expresses the general assumption of male superiority. In all con- crete manifestations of rank, whether traditional or social, the two sexes are equal. In the extensive mythology re-

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f erring to the origin of the various sub-clans, a woman ancestress always figures beside the man (her brother), and there are even myths in which a woman alone inau- ^, ^urates a line.^

Another important manifestation of rank is the complex system of taboos, and this is equally binding on man and woman. The taboos of rank include numerous prohibi- tions in the matter of food, certain animals especially being forbidden, and there are some other notable restrictions, such as that prohibiting the use of any water except from water-holes in the coral ridge. These taboos are enforced by supernatural sanction, and illness follows their breach, even if it be accidental. But the real force by which they are maintained is a strong conviction on the part of the taboo keeper that the forbidden food is intrinsically in- ferior, that it is disgusting and defiling in itself. When it is suggested to a Tabalu that he should eat of stingaree or bush pig he shows unmistakable signs of repulsion 3 and cases are quoted in which a man of rank has vomited, with every sign of nausea, some forbidden substance which he had taken unwittingly. A citizen of Omarakana will speak of the stingaree eaters of the lagoon villages with the same disgusted contempt as the right-minded Briton uses towards the frog- and snail-eaters of France, or the European towards the puppy- and rotten-egg-eaters of China.

Now a woman of rank fully shares in this disgust, and in the danger from breaking a taboo. If, as does occa- sionally happen, she marries a man of lower rank, she

^ Cf. my Myth in Primitive Psychology, ch. ii

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must have all food, all cooking utensils, dishes, and drink- ing vessels separate from her husband, or else he must forgo all such diet as is taboo to herj the latter is the course more usually adopted.

Rank entitles its possessors to certain ornaments, which serve both as its insignia and as festive decorations. For instance, a certain kind of shell ornament, the red spondy- lus shell-discs, may only be worn on the forehead and on the occiput by people of the highest rank. As belts and armlets they are also permitted to those next in rank. Again, an armlet on the forearm is a mark of the first aristocracy. Varieties and distinctions in personal adorn- ment are very numerous, but it will be enough to say here that they are observed in exactly the same manner by male and female, though the ornaments are more frequently made use of by the latter.

Certain house decorations, on the other hand, such as carved boards and ornaments of shell (pis. 2, 20, and 23), which are in pattern and material exclusive to the several higher ranks, are primarily made use of by the male representatives. But a woman of rank who marries a commoner would be fully entitled to have them on her house.

The very important and elaborate ceremonial of respect observed towards people of rank is based on the idea that a man of noble lineage must always remain on a physically higher level than his inferiors. In the presence of a noble, all people of lower rank have to bow the head or bend the body or squat on the ground, according to the degree of their inferiority. On no account must any head reach

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higher than that of the chief. Tall platforms are always built on to the chief's house, and on one of these he will sit so that the people may freely move below him during tribal gatherings (see pi. 2, where we see the chief lean- ing against such a platform). When a commoner passes a group of nobles seated on the ground, even at a dis- tance, he has to call out tokay ("arise"), and the chiefs immediately scramble to their feet and remain standing while he crouches past them.^ One would think that so uncomfortable a ceremonial of homage would have been circumvented in some way 3 but this is not the case. Many times when I was sitting in the village in conversation with the chief, a commoner would pass through the village grove, and call out tokay ^ and though this would happen every quarter of an hour or so, my friend had to rise while the other, bending low, walked slowly by.^

Women of rank enjoy exactly the same privilege in this matter. When a noblewoman is married to a com- moner, her husband has to bend before her in public, and others have to be still more careful to do so. A high platform is erected for her and she sits upon it alone at tribal assemblies, while her husband moves or squats be- low with the rest of the crowd.

^ Tokay, as noun, also means "commoner." The noun is perhaps de- rived etymologically from the verb.

2 When To'uluwa, the paramount chief of the Trobriands, was put in jail by the resident magistrate, the latter, mostly, I am afraid, because he wanted to humiliate his native rival, forbade the commoners incarcerated with the chief to crouch before him. In spite of this, I have been told on good authority by several eye-witnesses that all the commoners in jail did constantly move bending, except when the white satrap appeared upon the scene. This is an example of the short-sighted policy of^ the typical white official, who thinks that his authority can only be maintained at the expense of the native chiefs, and thus undermines native tribal law and introduces a spirit of anarchy.

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The sanctity of the chief's person is particularly local- ized in his head, which is surrounded by a halo of strict taboos. More especially sacred are the forehead and the occiput with the neck. Only equals in rank, the wives and a few particularly privileged persons, are allowed to touch these parts, for purposes of cleaning, shaving, ornamenta- tion, and delousing. This sanctity of the head extends to the female members of the noble sub-clans, and if a noblewoman marries a commoner, her brow, her occiput, her neck and shoulders, should not — in theory at least — be touched by the husband even during the most intimate phases of conjugal life.

Thus in myth, in the observation of taboo, and in the ceremonial of bending, the woman enjoys exactly the same privileges of rank as the man 3 but she never exercises the actual power associated with it. No woman is ever the head of any sub-clan, and thus she cannot be a chief tainess. What would happen should there be no male members in a given generation I cannot say, for there are no actual cases of this on record j but the interim regency of a woman seems by no means incompatible with the ideas of the Trobrianders. But, as we shall see later on (ch. v, sec. 4), the privilege of polygamy is the foundation of a chief's or iieadman's power, and women, of course, have no such similar privilege of polyandry.

Many other social functions of rank are directly exer- cised by men alone, the women participating only in the social prestige. Thus ownership of canoes, for instance, as vested in the headman — ^though all the villagers enjoy definite rights in them — ^but his kinswomen only have

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the benefit of the renown (hutura)^ that is, the privilege of talking in proprietary terms of the canoes and of boast- ing about them.^ Only in exceptional cases do they accom- pany their men-folk on oversea expeditions. Again, all sorts of rights, privileges, and activities connected with the kulay a special system of exchange in valuables, are the prerogatives of men. The woman, whether the man's wife or sister, is only occasionally drawn personally into the matter. For the most part she but basks in reflected glory and satisfaction. In war, men have the field of action entirely to themselves, though the women witness all the preparations and preliminary ceremonies, and even take an occasional peep at the battlefield itself.^

It is important to note that in this section, when com- paring the parts played by the sexes, we have had quite as often to set the brother and sister side by side as the hus- band and wife. Within the matrilineal order, the brother and the sister are the naturally linked representatives of the male and female principle respectively in all legal and customary matters. In the myths concerning the origin of families, the brother and sister emerge together from underground, through the original hole in the earth. In family matters, the brother is the natural guardian and head of his sister's household, and of her children. In tribal usage, their respective duties and obligations are strictly regulated, and these form, as we shall see, one of

1 These questions have been discussed in detail in Argonauts of the Western Pacific, ch. iv, sees, iv and v, and ch. xi, sec. ii. Cf. also ch. vi of that book, and Crime and Custom.

2 For a full description of the kula, see Argonauts; fighting has been described in the article on "War and Weapons Among the Natives of the Trobriand Islands," Man, 1920.

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the main strands in the social fabric. But in their personal relations the strictest taboo divides brother from sister — and prevents any sort of intimacy between them/

As woman is debarred from the exercise of power, land ownership, and many other public privileges, it follows that she has no place at tribal gatherings and no voice in such public deliberations as are held in connection with gardening, fishing, hunting, oversea expeditions, war, cere- monial trade, festivities and dances.


MORTUARY RITES AND FESTIVITIES

On the other hand, there are certain ceremonial and festive activities in connection with which women have a great deal both to say and to do. The most important of these in solemnity and sanctity, as well as the most imposing in display and extent, are the mortuary cere- monies. In the tending of the corpse, the parade of grief, the burial with its manifold rites and long series of cere- monial food distributions: in all these activities, which begin immediately after the death of any important tribes- man and continue at intervals for months or ^ven years afterwards, women play a large part and have their own definite duties to fulfil. Certain women, standing in a special relationship to the deceased, have to hold the corpse on their knees, and fondle itj and while the corpse is tended in the hut, another category of female relatives performs a remarkable rite of mourning outside: a number

1 Cf. ch. xiii, sec. 6, and ch. xlv.

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of them, some in couples facing each other and some singly, move in a slow dance, forwards and backwards across the central place, to the rhythm of the wailing dirge (see pi. 1 1). As a rule, each of them carries in her hand some object worn or possessed by the deceased. Such relics play a great part in mourning and are worn by the women for a long time after their bereavement. The wrapping up of the corpse and the subsequent vigil over the grave is the duty of yet another category of the dead man's womenkind.

Some functions of burial, notably the gruesome custom of cutting up the corpse, are performed by men. In the long period of mourning which follows, the burden of the dramatic expression of grief falls mostly on the women j a widow always mourns longer than a widower, a mother longer than a father, a female relative longer than a male of the same degree. In the mortuary distributions of food and wealth, based on the idea that the members of the deceased's sub-clan give payment to the other relatives for their share in the mourning, women play a conspicuous role, and conduct some parts of the ceremonial distribu- tions themselves (see pi. 12).

I have barely touched on the mortuary ceremonies, as we shall have to return to them presently (ch. vi, sees. 3 and 4), but I have said enough to show how large a share women take in this class of religious or ceremonial display. Some tribal ceremonies in which women alone are active will be described in detail later, and it is only necessary here to state briefly that in the long and com- plicated ceremonial of first pregnancy (ch. viii, sees. I and

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2) and in the rites o£ beauty magic at festivities (ch. xi, sees. 2-4) women are the main actors. On certain occa- sions, such as first pregnancy ritual and the first appear- ance after childbirth, as well as at big tribal dances and kayasa (competitive displays), women appear in full dress and decoration (pi. 13), which correspond to the men's full festive attire (as seen on pis. 14 and 79).

An interesting incident occurs during the milamalay the annual season of dancing and feasting held after the harvest. This period is inaugurated by a ceremony, the principal aim of which is to break the taboo on drums. In this initial feast there is a distribution of food, and the men, adorned in full dancing attire, range themselves for the performance, the drummers and the singers in the centre of a ring formed by the decorated dancers. As in a normal dance, standing in the central place, the singers intone a chant, the dancers begin to move slowly and the drummers to beat time. But they are not allowed to proceed: almost at the first throb of the drums, there breaks forth from inside the huts the wailing of those women who are still in mourning 5 from behind the inner row of houses, a crowd of shrieking, agitated female figures rush out and attack the dancers, beat them with sticks, and throw coconuts, stones, and pieces of wood at them. The men are not bound by custom to display too considerable courage and in a trice the drummers, who had so solemnly initiated the performance, have entirely disappeared j and the village lies empty, for the women pursue the fugitives. But the taboo is broken and, on the

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afternoon of the same day, the first undisturbed dance of the festivities is held.

In full dress dancing (see pis. 14, 58, 6$, 73, 82), it is mainly the men who display their beauty and skill. In some dances, such as those performed in a quick tempo with carved dancing boards or with bunches of streamers or in conventionalized imitation of animals, men alone may participate (pis. 6$, 73, 82). Only in one tradi- tional type of dance, for which men put on the fibre pet- ticoats of the female (see pis. 3, 58), are women not debarred by custom from participation. But though I witnessed scores of performances of this type, I only once saw a wqmanly actually dance, and she was of the very highest rank. As passive witnesses and admirers, how- ever, women form a very important adjunct to this form of display.

There are many other long, continuous periods of amusement in the Trobriands besides the dancing season, and in these women take a more active share. The nature of the amusement is fixed in advance, and has to remain the same during the whole period. There are different kinds of kayasa, as these entertainments are called (see ch. ix, sees. 2-4). There is a kayasa in which, evening after evening, groups of women, festively adorned, sit on mats and sing; in another, men and women, wearing wreaths and garlands of flowers, exchange such ornaments with each other 5 or a kayasa is announced, the main theme of which is a general daily display of a certain type of ornament. Sometimes the members of a community pre- pare small toy sailing canoes and hold a miniature regatta

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daily on shallow water. There can be also a kayasa of erotic pastimes. Some of these entertainments are exclu- sively feminine (singing and certain ornaments) j in others both sexes participate (flowers, erotics, and hair decora- tion) j in others only men (the toy canoes).

In all the public festivals and entertainments, whether women take an active part or no, they are never excluded from looking on or freely mixing with the men 5 and this they do on terms of perfect equality, exchanging banter and jokes with them and engaging in easy conversation.


One aspect of public life is very important to the Trobriander and stands apart as something peculiar and specific. The native sets on one side a certain category of facts, one type of human behaviour, and designates these by the word megway which may be quite adequately translated as "magic." Magic is very intimately associated with economic life and indeed with every vital concern 5 it is also an instrument of power and an index of the im- portance of those who practise it. The position of women in magic deserves therefore very special consideration.

Magic constitutes a particular aspect of reality. In all important activities and enterprises in which man has not the issue firmly and safely in hand, magic is deemed indispensable. Thus appeal is m'ade to it in gardening and fishing, in building a large canoe, and in diving for valuable shell, in the regulation of wind and weather, in

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war, in matters of love and personal attraction, in secur- ing safety at sea and the success of any great enterprise j and, last but not least, in health and for the infliction of ailments upon an enemy. Success and safety in all these matters is largely and sometimes entirely dependent upon magic, and can be controlled by its proper application. Fortune or failure, dearth or plenty, health or disease are felt and believed to be mainly due to the right magic rightly applied in the right circumstances.

Magic consists of spells and rites performed by a man who is entitled by the fulfilment of several conditions to perform them. Magical power resides primarily in the words of the formula, and the function of the rite, which is as a rule very simple, is mainly to convey the magician's breath, charged with the power of the words, to the object or person to be affected. All magical spells are, believed to have descended unchanged from time imme- morial, from the beginning of things.

This last point has its sociological corollary 5 several systems of magic are hereditary, each in a special sub- clan, and such a system has been possessed by that sub-clan since the time it came out from underground. • It can only be performed by a member, and is, of course, one of the valued attributes and possessions of the sub-clan itself. It is handed on in the female line, though usually, as with other forms of power and possession, it is exercised by men alone. But in a few cases such hereditary magic can also be practised by women.

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important types of magic the rites are intimately inter- woven with the activities which they accompany and are not merely superimposed upon them. Thus, in garden magic, the officiator plays an economically and socially important role and is the organizer and director of the work. It is the same in the building of a canoe and its magic, and in the rites associated with the conduct of an oversea expedition: the man who technically directs and is the leader of the enterprise has also the duty or privilege of performing the magic."^ Both functions, the directive and the magical, are indivisibly united in the same person. In other types of magic, which are placed by the natives in the category of buluhwalata (black magic) — ^and this comprises all sorcery and, among others, the charms for drought or rain — the practitioner has an immense and direct influence over other tribesmen. Magic is indeed by far the most efficient and frequently used instrument of power.

As magic is so intimately bound up with the activity which it accompanies, it is clear that, in certain types of occupation, the division of functions between the sexes will involve a corresponding division in magical per- formance. Those types of work which customarily only men perform will demand a man as officiating magician 5 where women are occupied with their own business, the magician must be female. Thus, looking at the table given below, we see that in fishing and hunting, as well as in wood carving, activities in which no woman ever participates, magic is exclusively practised by men. War

1 Cf. Argonauts of the Western Paci^c, csp. chs. iv, r, vii, and xvii.

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magic, too, which is now in abeyance, was an hereditary system of spells and rites always practised by a man of a certain sub-clan. The long and complex series of spells which accompany the building of a sea-going canoe can never be made by a v/oman, and, as no woman ever goes- on a ceremonial overseas expedition, the magic of safety and of kula which then has to be performed can only be done by a man.


Division of Magic Between the Sexes


Male


Public garden magic

( Towosi) Fishing Hunting Canoe building Magic of kula

(Mivasila) Weather (sun and

rain) Wind

War magic (Boma) Safety at sea

{Kayga'u) Wood carving {Kabi-

tam) Sorcery {Bivaga'u)


Female

Rites of first preg- nancy

Skirt making

Prevention of dangers at birth

Toothache

Elephantiasis, swell- ings

Affections of the geni- tals with discharge (Gonorrhoea?)

Abortion

Female witchcraft {Yoyova or Muluk- loausi)


Mixed


Beauty magic

Love magic

Private garden magic


Again there are some important types of magic which are obviously adapted to female hands and lips, for they are attached to activities or functions which by their nature or by social convention exclude the presence of men. Such is the magic associated with the ceremony of first preg- nancy (see ch. viii, sees, i and 2) 5 the magic of the expert which gives skill in the manufacture of fibre petticoats j and the magic of abortion.

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fluence, such as gardening or love-making, the control of the weather or human health, where at first glance there appears to be no association with one sex rather than the other. Yet garden magic is invariably a man's concern and women never perform the important public rites, most scrupulously observed and highly valued by the natives, which are carried out by the village magician over the gardens of the whole community.^ Even those phases of gardening, such as weeding, which are undertaken ex- clusively by women, have to be inaugurated by the male garden magician in an official ceremony. Wind, sunshine, and rain are also controlled entirely by male hands and mouths.

In certain mixed activities a man or a woman can equally well perform the required magic, and some minor rites of private garden magic, used by each individual for his or her own benefit, can be carried out indiscriminately by men or women. There is the magic of love and beauty, of which the spells are recited by anyone who suffers from unrequited love or needs to enhance his or her personal charm. Again, on certain occasions, such, for instance, as the big tribal festivals, the spells of beauty are publicly recited by women over men (ch. xi, sqc. 3), and, at other times, men apply a form of beauty magic to their own persons and ornaments.^

The most definite allocation of magical powers to one

1 In the Amphlett Islands, on the other hand, garden magic is made mainly if not exclusively by women. Among the natives of Dobu Island and on the north-eastern shores of Dawson Straits in the d'Entrecasteaux Archipelago, women also play a preponderating role in garden magic.

2 Cf. Argonauts of the Western Pacific, ch. xiii, sec. i.

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or other of the sexes is to be found in the dark and dreaded forces of sorcery: those forces which most pro-;- foundly affect human hope and happiness. The magic of illness and health, which can poison life or restore its natural sweetness, and which holds death as it were for its last card, can be made by men and women alike j but its character changes entirely with the sex of the prac- titioner. Man and woman have each their own sorcery, carried on by means of different rites and formulae, acting in a different manner on the victim's body and surrounded by an altogether different atmosphere of belief. Male sorcery is much more concrete, and its methods can be stated clearly, almost as a rational system. The sorcerer's supernatural equipment is restricted to his power of van- ishing at will, of emitting a shining glow from his person, and of having accomplices among the nocturnal birds. Extremely poor means of supernatural action if we com- pare them with the achievements of a witch!

A witch — and be it remembered that she is always a real woman and not a spiritual or non-human being — ^goes out on her nightly errand in the form of an invisible double j she can fly through the air and appears as a falling star j she. assumes at will the shape of a fire-fly, of a night bird or of a flying-fox j she can hear and smell at enormous distances 5 she is endowed with sarcophagous propensities, and feeds on corpses.

The disease which witches cause is almost incurable and extremely rapid in its action, killing, as a rule, immedi- ately. It is inflicted by the removal of the victim's inside, which the woman presently consumes. The wizard, on

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the other hand, never partakes of his victim's flesh, his power is much less effective, he must proceed slowly, and the best he can hope for is to inflict a lingering disease, which may, with good luck, kill after months or years of steady labour. Even then another sorcerer can be hired to counteract his work and restore the patient. But there is little chance of combating a witch, even if the help of another witch be sought immediately.

A witch, when she is not old, is no less desirable sex- ually than other women. Indeed, she is surrounded by a halo of glory due to her personal power, and usually she has also that strong individuality which seems to ac- company the reputation for witchcraft. The attraction which a marriageable young witch has for the other sex need not be altogether disinterested, for witchcraft is occasionally a source of income and of personal influence in which it is pleasant to have a share. But the profes- sion of witch, unlike that of sorcerer, is not exercised openly 3 a witch may receive payment for healing, but she never undertakes to kill for a fee. In this again she differs from the sorcerer who derives the greater part of his income from black rather than from curative practice. Indeed, even when a woman is generally known to be a witch, she is never supposed to admit it explicitly, even to her husband.

Witchcraft is inherited from mother to daughter, and an early initiation has to take place. In later life, the art of female necromancy is sometimes further enhanced by less reputable means. Some women are said to have sexual relations with non-human, highly malignant beings

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called tauva^u who bring epidemics and various evils upon the people (see ch. xii, sec. 4). By them they are further instructed in the art of harming, and such women are greatly feared. Several of my personal acquaintance were definitely pointed out as having a leman from the sphere of tauva*Uy notably the wife of the headman o£ Obweria, a very intelligent and enterprising character, who is seen, as the main performer, on plates 77 and 78.

From the point of view of the investigating sociologist, the most important difference between male and female sorcery lies in the fact that the wizard actually carries on his trade, while the witch's activity exists only in folk- lore and in the imagination of the native. That is to say, a sorcerer actually knows the magic of his trade j when called upon he will utter it over the proper substances j will go out at night to waylay his victim or visit him in his hut J and in certain cases, I suspect, may even admin- ister poison. The witch, on the other hand, however much she may be believed to play the part of a yoyoyUy does not — needless to say — ^really fly or abstract the in- sides of people, and she knows no spells or rites, since this type of female magic lives merely in legend and fiction.

There are a number of minor ailments, among them toothache, certain tumours, swelling of the testicles and genital discharge (gonorrhoea?), which woman can inflict on man by means of magic. Toothache is exclusively a female specialty, and one woman will be called in to cure it when some other has caused it. A witch can pro- duce it through her magical power over a small beetle

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called kifyiy which is very similar to the one which makes holes in taro. The resemblance between dental caries and the cavities bored by the beetle in taro is a sufficient proof that similar effects have been produced by similar causes. But some of my informants had actually seen the small black scarab fall out of a man's mouth while a woman was performing the curative formula.

There are, as we have seen, forms of hereditary magic which can be -carried on only by male members of a sub- clan, or, exceptionally, by the son of such a member. (And in the latter case he has to relinquish it at his fa- ther's death.) Now, if the males of a certain generation were to die out, a woman could learn such magic, though she would not be allowed to practise it, and when she bore a male heir to her sub-clan, would teach him the formula for his future use. Thus woman can tide over the gap of one generation, carrying in her memory a sys- tem of garden magic, or weather and wind charms, or spells for fishing, hunting, canoe building, and oversea trade. She can even preserve a system of war magic, but she must never learn the formula of masculine sor- cery, which is strictly taboo to the female sex. Nor is there any necessity for her to do so, since this magic is never strictly hereditary within a sub-clan.

Thus we see that the strong tribal position of women is also buttressed by their right to exercise magic — that toughest and least destructible substance of belief.

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are taking a bird's-eye view of a native village, and are trying to form a compound moving picture of the life of the community. Casting our glance over the central place, the street, and the surrounding grove and garden land, we see them peopled by men and women mixing freely and on terms of equality. Sometimes they go to- gether to work in the garden, or to collect food-stuffs in the jungle or on the sea-shore. Or else they separate, each sex forming a group of workers engaged in some special activity, and performing it efficiently and with interest. Men predominate on the central place, discuss- ing, perhaps, in a communal gathering the prospects of the garden, or preparing for an oversea expedition or for some ceremony. The street is peopled by women, busying themselves with household work, and there the men will presently join them, helping them to amuse the children or in some domestic task. We can hear the women scold their husbands, usually in a very good- natured manner.

Let us suppose our attention to be drawn to some sin- gular event, to a death, a tribal squabble, a division of inherited wealth, or to some ceremony. We watch it with understanding eyes, and see, side by side, the work- ings of tribal law and custom, and the play of personal passion and interest. We see the influence of matrilineal principles, the working of paternal rule, usages of tribal authority, and the results of totemic division in the clans and sub-clans. In all this there is a balance between the influence of male and female, the man wields the power while the woman determines its distribution.

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Or perhaps the central place is thronged by a mixed gathering, gay with festive dress and decorations. Women move with a soft swaying motion in their holiday attire, coquettishly aware of the lines of their bodies and the elegant swish-swish of their full, crimson, purple, and golden skirts. The men are more soberly dressed, and affect a stiff, immovable dignity. They move very little, unless they are among the performers in the dance or other festive function. These last are covered gorgeously with ornaments, and are instinct with life and motion. The performance starts j it is carried on sometimes by men only, and sometimes by women. As it progresses, later in the afternoon or in the evening, the young men and women begin to show some interest in each other: here and there snatches of conversation, bursts of laugh- ter and giggling can be heard. Nothing in the slightest degree obscene, indecent, or sexually improper can be observed in their behaviour, though their vocabulary is by no means prim. But, since we understand this com- munity. We know that assignations are being made and intrigues inaugurated. Thus we are led up to the closer study of the erotic phase of native life 5 and we now proceed to a systematic description of this subject.


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CHAPTER III

PRENUPTIAL INTERCOURSE BETWEEN THE

SEXES

The Trobrianders are very free and easy in their sexual relations. To a superficial observer it might indeed ap- pear that they are entirely untrammelled in these. This, however, is not the case 3 for their liberty has certain very well-defined limits. The best way of showing this will be to give a consecutive account of the various stages through which a man and a woman pass from childhood to maturity — a sort of sexual life-history of a representa- tive couple.

We shall have first to consider their earliest years, for these natives begin their acquaintance with sex at a very tender age. The unregulated and, as it were, capricious intercourse of these early years becomes systematized in adolescence into more or less stable intrigues, which later on develop into permanent liaisons. Connected with these latter stages of sexual life, there exists in the Trobriand Islands an extremely interesting institution, the bachelors' and unmarried girls' house, called by the natives buku- matula; it is of considerable importance, as it is one of those arrangements sanctioned by custom which might appear on the surface to be a form of "group-marriage."

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I

THE SEXUAL LIFE OF CHILDREN

Children in the Trobriand Islands enjoy considerable freedom and independence. They soon become emanci- pated from a parental tutelage which has never been very strict. Some of them obey their parents willingly, but this is entirely a matter of the personal character of both parties: there is no idea of a regular discipline, no system of domestic coercion. Often as I sat among them,, observing some family incident or listening to a quarrel between parent and child, I would hear a youngster told to do this or that, and generally the thing, whatever it was, would be asked as a favour, though sometimes the request might be backed up by a threat of violence. The parents would either coax or scold or ask as from one equal to another. A simple command, implying the ex- pectation of natural obedience, is never heard from parent to child in the Trobriands.

People will sometimes grow angry with their children and beat them in an outburst of ragej but I have quite as often seen a child rush furiously at his parent and strike him. This attack might be received with a good- natured smile, or the blow might be angrily returned 5 but the idea of definite retribution, or of coercive pun- ishment, is not only foreign, but distinctly repugnant tO' the native. Several times, when I suggested, after some flagrant infantile misdeed, that it would mend matters for the future if the child were beaten or otherwise pun-

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ished in cold blood, the idea appeared unnatural and im- moral to my friends, and was rejected with some re- sentment.

Such freedom gives scope for the formation of the children's own little community, an independent group, into which they drop naturally from the age of four or five and continue till puberty. As the mood prompts them, they remain with their parents during the day, or else join their playmates for a time in their small republic (see pis. 15, 16, and 17). And this community within a community acts very much as its own members determine, standing often in a sort of collective opposition to its elders. If the children make up their minds to do a cer- tain thing, to go for a day's expedition, for instance, the grown-ups and even the chief himself, as I often ob- served, will not be able to stop them. In my ethno- graphic work I was able and was indeed forced to collect my information about children and their concerns directly from them. Their spiritual ownership in games and childish activities was acknowledged, and they were also quite capable of instructing me and explaining the in- tricacies of their play or enterprise (see pi. 15).

Small children begin also to understand and to defer to tribal tradition and custom 5 to those restrictions which have the character of a taboo or of a definite command of tribal law, or usage or propriety.^

1 The processes by which respect for tribal taboo and tradition is in- stilled in the child are described throughout this book, especially in ch. xiii. Custom must not be personified nor is its authority absolute or autonomous, but it is derived from specific social and psychological mech- anisms. Cf. my Crime and Custom, 1926.

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The child's freedom and independence extend also to sexual matters. To begin with, children hear of and witness much in the sexual life of their elders. Within the house, where the parents have no possibility of find- ing privacy, a child has opportunities of acquiring prac- tical information concerning the sexual act. I was told that no special precautions are taken to prevent children from witnessing their parents' sexual enjoyment. The child would merely be scolded and told to cover its head with a mat. I sometimes heard a little boy or girl praised in these terms: "Good child, he never tells what happens between his parents." Young children are allowed to listen to baldly sexual talk, and they understand per- fectly well what is being discussed. They are also themselves tolerably expert in swearing and the use of obscene language. Because of their early mental develop- ment some quite tiny children are able to make smutty jokes, and these their elders will greet with laughter.

Small girls follow their fathers on fishing expeditions, during which the men remove their pubic leaf. Naked- ness under these conditions is regarded as natural, since it is necessary. There is no lubricity or ribaldry asso- ciated with it. Once, when I was engaged in the discus- sion of an obscene subject, a little girl, the daughter of one of my informants, joined our group. I asked the father to tell her to go away. "Oh, no," he answered, "she is a good girl, she never repeats to her mother any- thing that is said among men. When we take her fish- ing with us we need not be ashamed. Another girl would describe the details of our nakedness to her companions

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or her mothers/ Then these will chaflF us and repeat what they have heard about us. This little girl never "says a word." The other men present enthusiastically assented, and developed the theme of the girl's discre- tion. But a boy is much less in contact with his mother in such matters, for here, between maternal relations, that is, for the natives, between real kindred, the taboo of incest begins to act at an early age, and the boy is re- moved from any intimate contact of this sort with his mother and above all with his sisters.

There are plenty of opportunities for both boys and girls to receive instruction in erotic matters from their companions. The children initiate each other into the mysteries of sexual life in a directly practical manner at a very early age. A premature amorous existence begins among them long before they are able really to carry out the act of sex. They indulge in plays and pastimes in which they satisfy their curiosity concerning the ap- pearance and function of the organs of generation, and incidentally receive, it would seem, a certain amount of positive pleasure. Genital manipulation and such minor perversions as oral stimulation of the organs are typical forms of this amusement. Small boys and girls are said to be frequently initiated by their somewhat older com- panions, who allow them to witness their own amorous dalliance. As they are untrammelled by the authority of their elders' and unrestrained by any moral code, except that of specific tribal taboo, there is nothing but their de-

1 That Is, "classificatory mothers," mother, maternal aunts, etc. Cf. ch. ixiii, sees. 5 and 6,

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gree of curiosity, of ripeness, and of "temperament" or sensuality, to determine how much or how little they shall indulge in sexual pastimes.

The attitude of the grown-ups and even of the parents towards such infantile indulgence is either that of com- plete indijfference or that of complacency — ^they find it natural, and do not see why they should scold or interfere. Usually they show a kind of tolerant and amused inter- est, and discuss the love affairs of their children with easy jocularity. I often heard some such benevolent gos- sip as this: "So-and-so (a little girl) has already had intercourse with So-and-so (a little boy)." And if such were the case, it would be added that it was her- first experience. An exchange of lovers, or some small love drama in the little world would be half-seriously, half- jokingly discussed. The infantile sexual act, or its sub- stitute, is regarded as an innocent amusement. "It is their play to kayta (to have intercourse). They give each other a coconut, a small piece of betel-nut, a few beads or some fruits from the bush, and then they go and hide, and kayta,^^ But it is not considered proper for the children to carry on their affairs in the house. It has always to be done in the bush.

The age at which a girl begins to amuse herself in this manner is said to coincide with her putting on the small fibre skirt, between, that is, the ages of four and five. But this obviously can refer only to incomplete practices and not to the real act. Some of my informants insisted that such small female children actually have intercourse with penetration. Remembering, however, the Trobri-

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ander's very strong tendency to exaggerate in the direc- tion of the grotesque, a tendency not altogether devoid of a certain malicious Rabelaisian humour, I am inclined to discount those statements of my authorities. If we place the beginning of real sexual life at the age of six to eight in the case of girls, and ten to twelve in the case of boys, we shall probably not be erring very greatly in either direction. And from these times sexuality will gradually assume a greater and greater importance as life goes on, until it abates in the course of nature.

Sexual, or at least sensuous, pleasure constitutes if not the basis of, at least an element in, many of the children's pastimes. Some of them do not, of course, provide any sexual excitement at all, as for instance those in imitation of the grown-up economic and ceremonial activities (see pi. 17), or games of skill or childish athletics 5 but all sorts of round games, which are played by the children of both sexes on the central place of the village, have a more or less strongly marked flavour of sex, though the outlets they furnish are indirect and only accessible to the elder youths and maidens, who also join in them. In- deed, we shall have to return later (chs. ix and xi) to a consideration of sex in certain games, songs, and stones, for as the sexual association becomes more subtle and indirect it appeals more and more to older people alone and has, therefore, to be examined in the contexts of later life.

There are, however, some specific games in which the older children never participate, and into which sex di- rectly enters. The little ones sometimes play, for in-

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stance, at house-building, and at family life. A small hut of sticks and boughs is constructed in a secluded part of the jungle, and a couple or more repair thither and play at husband and wife, prepare food and carry out or imitate as best they can the act of sex. Or else a band of them, in imitation of the amorous expeditions of their elders, carry food to some favourite spot on the sea-shore or in the coral ridge, cook and eat vegetables there, and "when they are full of food, the boys sometimes fight with each other, or sometimes kayta (copulate) with the girls." When the fruit ripens on certain wild trees in the jungle they go in parties to pick it, to exchange presents, make kula (ceremonial exchange) of the fruit, and en- gage in erotic pastimes.^

Thus it will be seen that they have a tendency to pal- liate the crudity of their sexual interest and indulgence by associating it with something more poetic. Indeed, the Trobriand children show a great sense of the singular and romantic in their games. For instance, if a part of the jungle or village has been flooded by rain, they go and sail their small canoes on this new watery or if a very strong sea has thrown up some interesting flotsam, they proceed to the beach and inaugurate some imaginative game around it. The little boys, too, search for unusual animals, insects, or flowers, and give them to the little girls, thus lending a redeeming aesthetic touch to their premature eroticisms.

In spite of the importance of the sexual motive in the

1 For a description of the real kula, cf. Argonauts of the Western Pacific,

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life of the youngest generation, it must be kept in mind that the separation of the sexes, in many matters, obtains also among children. Small girls can very often be seen playing or wandering in independent parties by them- selves. Little boys in certain moods — and these seem their more usual ones — scorn the society of the female and amuse themselves alone (pi. 17). Thus the small republic falls into two distinct groups which are perhaps to be seen more often apart than together j and, though they frequently unite in play, this need by no means be necessarily sensuous.

It is important to note that there is no interference by older persons in the sexual life of children. On rare occasions some old man or woman is suspected of taking a strong sexual interest in the children, and even of hav- ing intercourse with some of them. But I never found such suspicions supported even by a general consensus of opinion, and it was always considered both improper and silly for an older man or woman to have sexual dealings with a child. There is certainly no trace of any custom of ceremonial defloration by old men, or even by men belonging to an older age class.

2

AGE DIVISIONS

I have just used the expression "age class," but I did so in a broad sense only: for there are no sharply distin- guished age grades or classes among the Trobriand na- tives. The following table of age designations only

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roughly indicates the stages of their life 3 for these stages in practice merge into one another.


Designations of Age


1. JVaywaya (foetus; infant till the age of"^ crawling, both male and female)

2. Piuapiua'iva (infant, till the stage of walk- ing, male or female)

3. Giuadi (child, till puberty, male or female)

4. Monag'wadi (male 4. Inagivadi (female child) child)


5. To'ulaiile (youth from puberty till marriage)

6. Tobuhonva'u (ma- ture man)

6a. Tovavaygile (mar- ried man)

7. Tomivaya (old man)

7fl. Toboma (old honoured man)


5. Nakapugula or N akubukivabuya (girl from puberty I till marriage)

6. Nabuboiva'u (ripej woman)

6a. Navavaygile (married woman)

7. Numivaya (old woman)


I. Stage : Givadi — Word used as a generic designation for all these stages 1-4, meaning child, male or female, at any time between birth and maturity


II. Stage: Generic designations — Ta'u (man), Vivila (woman)


III. Stage: Old age


The terms used in this table will be found to overlap in some instances. Thus a very small infant may be re- ferred to as waywaya or fwafwawa indiscriminately, but only the former term as a rule would be used in speaking of a foetus or referring to the pre-incarnated children from Tuma.^ Again, you might call a few months old child either gwadi or fwafwaway but the latter term would be but seldom used except for a very small baby. The term gwadi moreover can be used generically, as "child" in English, to denote anything from a foetus to a young boy or girl. Thus, it will be seen that two terms may encroach on each other's field of meaning, but only


1 Cf . ch. vii, sec. a.


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if they be consecutive. The terms with sex prefixes (4) are normally used only of elder children who may be dis- tinguished by their dress.

There are, besides these more specific subdivisions, the three main distinctions of age, between the ripe man and woman in the full vigour of life and the two stages — those of childhood and of old age^which limit man- hood and womanhood on either side. The second main stage is divided into two parts, mainly by the fact of mar- riage. Thus, the words under (5) primarily designate unmarried people and to that extent are opposed to (60), but they also imply youth fulness or unripeness, and in that respect are opposed to (6).

The male term for old age, tomwuya (7) can also de- note rank or importance. I myself was often so ad- dressed, but I was not flattered, and much preferred to be called tohoma (literally "the tabooed man"), a name given to old men of rank, but stressing the latter attribute rather than the former. Curiously enough, the compli- ment or distinction implied in the word tomwaya be- comes much weaker, and almost disappears in its feminine equivalent. Numwaya conveys that tinge of scorn or ridicule inseparable from "old woman" in so many lan- guages.

3

THE AMOROUS LIFE OF ADOLESCENCE

When a boy reaches the age of from twelve to four- teen years, and attains that physical vigour which comes with sexual maturity, and when, above all, his increased

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strength and mental ripeness allow him to take part, though still in a somewhat limited and fitful manner, in some of the economic activities of his elders, he ceases to be regarded as a child (gwadi)^ and assumes the position of adolescent {ulatile or to^ulatile). At the same time he receives a different status, involving some duties and many privileges, a stricter observance of taboos, and a greater participation in tribal affairs. He has already donned the pubic leaf for some time 5 now he becomes more careful in his, wearing of it, and more interested in its appearance. The girl emerges from childhood into adolescence through the obvious bodily changes: "her breasts are round and fullj her bodily hair begins to growj her menses flow and ebb with every moon," as the natives put it. She also has no new change in her attire to make, for she has much earlier assumed her fibre skirt, but now her interest in it from the two points of view of elegance and decorum is greatly increased.

At this stage a partial break-up of the family takes place. Brothers and sisters must be segregated in obedi- ence to that stringent taboo which plays such an important part in tribal life.^ The elder children, especially the males, have to leave the house, so as not to hamper by their embarrassing presence the sexual life of their par- ents. This partial disintegration of the family group is effected by the boy moving to a house tenanted by bach- elors or by elderly widowed male relatives or friends. Such a house is called hukumatula^ and in the next section we shall become acquainted with the details of its arrange-

1 Cf. ch. xiii, 6, and ch. xiv.

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ment. The girl sometimes goes to the house of an elderly widowed maternal aunt or other relative.

As the boy or girl enters upon adolescence the nature of his or her sexual activity becomes more serious. It ceases to be mere child's play and assumes a prominent place among life's interests. What was before an unstable relation culminating in an exchange of erotic manipula- tion or an immature sexual act becomes now an absorbing passion, and a matter for serious endeavour. An adoles- cent gets definitely attached to a given person, wishes to possess her, works purposefully towards this goal, plans to reach the fulfilment of his desires by magical and other means, and finally rejoices in achievement. I have seen young people of this age grow positively miserable through ill-success in love. This stage, in fact, differs from the one before in that personal preference has now come into play and with it a tendency towards a greater permanence in intrigue. The boy develops a desire to retain the fidelity and exclusive affection of the loved one, at least for a time. But this tendency is not asso- ciated so far with any idea of settling down to one exclu- sive relationship, nor do adolescents yet begin to think of marriage. A boy or girl wishes to pass through many more experiences j he or she still enjoys the prospect of complete freedom and has no desire to accept obligations. Though pleased to imagine that his partner is faithful, the youthful lover does not feel obliged to reciprocate this fidelity.

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munity is conspicuous in every village. Adolescence fur- nishes the community with another small group, of youths and girls. At this stage, however, though the boys and girls are much more bound up in each other as regards amorous interests, they but rarely mix in public or in the daytime. The group is really broken up into two, according to sex (pis. i8 and 193 see also pis. 59 and 61). To this division there correspond two words, to^ulatile and nakubukwabuyay there being no one expres- sion — such as there is to describe the younger age group, gugwadiy children — to define the adolescent youth of both sexes.

The natives take an evident pride in this, "the flower of the village," as it might be called. They frequently mention that "all the to^ulatile and nakubukwahuya (youths and girls) of the village were there." In speaking of some competitive game, or dance or sport, they compare the looks or performance of their own youths with those of some other village, and always to the advantage of their own. This group leads a happy, free, arcadian existence, devoted to amusement and the pursuit of pleasure.

Its members are so far not claimed by any serious du- ties, yet their greater physical strength and ripeness give them more independence and a wider scope of action than they had as children. The adolescent boys participate, but mainly as free-lances, in garden work (see pi. 19), in the fishing and hunting and in oversea expeditions j they get all the excitement and pleasure, as well as some of the prestige, yet remain free from a great deal of the

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drudgery and many of the restrictions which trammel and weigh on their elders. Many of the taboos are not yet quite binding on them, the burden of magic has not yet fallen on their shoulders. If they grow tired of work, they simply stop and rest. The self-discipline of ambition and subservience to traditional ideals, which moves all the elder individuals and leaves them relatively little per- sonal freedom, has not yet quite drawn these boys into the wheels of the social machine. Girls, too, obtain a certain amount of the enjoyment and excitement denied to children by joining in some of the activities of their elders, while still escaping the worst of the drudgery.

Young people of this age, besides conducting their love affairs more seriously and intensely, widen and give u greater variety to the setting of their amours. Both sexes arrange picnics and excursions and thus their in- dulgence in intercourse becomes associated with an enjoy- ment of novel experiences and fine scenery. They also form sexual connections outside the village community to which they belong. Whenever there occurs in some other locality one of the ceremonial occasions on which custom permits of licence, thither they repair, usually in bands either of boys or of girls, since on such occasions opportunity of indulgence offers for one sex alone (see ch. ix, esp. sees. 6 and 7).

It is necessary to add that the places used for love- making differ at this stage from those of the previous one. The small children carry on their sexual practices surreptitiously in bush or grove as a part of their games, using all sorts of makeshift arrangements to attain pri-

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vacy, but the ulatile (adolescent) has either a couch d£ his own in a bachelors' house, or the use of a hut belong- ing to one of his unmarried relatives. In a certain type of yam-house, too, there is an empty closed-in space in which boys sometimes arrange little "cosy-corners," af- fording room for two. In these, they make a bed of dry leaves and mats, and thus obtain a comfortable gargon- nierey where they can meet and spend a happy hour or two with their loves. Such arrangements are, of course, necessary now that amorous intercourse has become a pas- sion instead of a game.

But a couple will not yet regularly cohabit in a bach- elors' house {hukumatuld) y living together and sharing the same bed night after night. Both girl and boy prefer to adopt more furtive and less conventionally binding methods, to avoid lapsing into a permanent relationship which might put unnecessary restraint upon their liberty by becoming generally known. That is why they usually prefer a small nest in the sokwayfa (covered yam-house), or the temporary hospitality of a bachelors' house.

We have seen that the youthful attachments between boys and girls at this stage have ripened out of childish games and intimacies. All these young people have grown up in close propinquity and with full knowledge of each other. Such early acquaintances take fire, as it were, under the influence of certain entertainments, where the intoxicating influence of music and moonlight, and the changed mood and attire of all the participants, trans- figure the boy and girl in each other's eyes. Intimate observation of the natives and their personal confidences

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have convinced me that extraneous stimuli of this kind play a great part in the love affairs of the Trobrianders. Such opportunities of mutual transformation and escape from the monotony of everyday life are afforded not only by the many fixed seasons of festivity and permitted licence, but also by that monthly increase in the people's pleasure-seeking mood which leads to many special pas- times at the full of the moon/

Thus adolescence marks the transition between infan- tile and playful sexualities and those serious permanent relations which precede marriage. During this interme- diate period love becomes passionate and yet remains free.

As time goes on, and the boys and girls grow older, their intrigues last longer, and their mutual ties tend to become stronger and more permanent. A personal pref- erence as a rule develops and begins definitely to over- shadow all other love affairs. It may be based on true sexual passion or else on an affinity of characters. Prac- tical considerations become involved in it, and, sooner or later, the man thinks of stabilizing one of his liaisons by marriage. In the ordinary course of events, every mar- riage is preceded by a more or less protracted period of sexual life in common. This is generally known and spoken of, and is regarded as a public intimation of the matrimonial projects of the pair. It serves also as a test of the strength of their attachment and extent of their mutual compatibility. This trial period also gives time for the prospective bridegroom and for the woman's family to prepare economically for the event.

1 Cf. ch. ix.

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Two people living together as permanent lovers are described respectively as "his woman" {la vivila) and "her man" {la ta^u). Or else a term, also used to de- scribe the friendship between two men, is applied to this relationship {lubay-j with pronominal suffixes). In order to distinguish between a passing liaison and one which is considered preliminary to marriage, they would say of the female concerned in the latter: "/^ vivila mokita; imisiya yambwata yambwata^^ — "his woman truly 5 he sleeps with her always always." In this locution the sexual relationship between the two is denoted by the verb "to sleep with" {imisiya)y the durative and iterative form of masisiy to sleep. The use of this verb also em- phasizes the lawfulness of the relation, for it is used in talking of sexual intercourse between husband and wife, or of such relations as the speaker wishes to discuss seri- ously and respectfully. An approximate equivalent in English would be the verb "cohabit." The natives have two other words in distinction to this. The verb kaylasiy which implies an illicit element in the act, is used when speaking of adultery or other forms of non-lawful inter- course. Here the English word "fornicate" would come nearest to rendering the native meaning. When the na- tives wish to indicate the crude, physiological fact, they use the word kayta^ translatable, though pedantically, by the verb "copulate with."

The pre-matrimonial, lasting intrigue is based upon and maintained by personal elements only. There is no legal obligation on either party. They may enter into and dissolve it as they like. In fact, this relationship dif-

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fers from other liaisons only in its duration and stability. Towards the end, when marriage actually approaches, the element of personal responsibility and obligation becomes stronger. The two now regularly cohabit in the same house, and a considerable degree of exclusiveness in sexual matters is observed by them. But they have not yet given up their personal freedom j on the several occasions of wider licence affianced couples are invariably separated and each partner is "unfaithful" with his or her tempo- rary choice. Even within the village, in the normal course, the girl who is definitely going to marry a par- ticular boy will bestow favours on other men, though a certain measure of decorum must be observed in this 5 if she sleeps out too often, there will be possibly a dissolu- tion of the tie and certainly friction and disagreement. Neither boy nor girl may go openly and flagrantly with other partners on an amorous expedition. Quite apart from nocturnal cohabitation, the two are supposed to be seen in each other's company and to make a display of their relationship in public. Any deviation from the exclusive liaison must be decent, that is to say, clandes- tine. The relation of free engagement is the natural outcome of a series of trial liaisons, and the appropriate preliminary test of marriage.


THE bachelors' HOUSE

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strengthening intimacies, is an institution which might be called "the limited bachelors' house," and which, indeed, suggests at first sight the presence of a "group concu- binage." It is clear that in order to enable pairs of lovers permanently to cohabit, some building is needed which will afford them seclusion. We have seen the makeshift arrangements of children and the more comfortable, but not yet permanent love-nests of adolescent boys and girls, and it is obvious that the lasting liaisons of youth and adult girls require some special institution, more defi- nitely established, more physically comfortable, and at the same time having the approval of custom.

To meet this need, tribal custom and etiquette offer accommodation and privacy in the form of the hukuma- tulay the bachelors' and unmarried girls' house of which mention has already been made (see pis. 20 and 21). In this a limited number of couples, some two, three, or four, live for longer or shorter periods together in a temporary community. It also and incidentally offers shelter for younger couples if they want amorous pri- vacy for an hour or two.

We must now give some more detailed attention to this institution, for it is extremely important and highly significant from many points of view. We must consider the position of the houses in the village, their internal arrangements and the manner in which life within the hukufnatula shapes itself.

In the description of the typical village in the Tro- briands (ch. i, sec. 2), attention was drawn to its schematic division into several parts. This division expresses cer-

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tain sociological rules and regularities. As we have seen, there is a vague association between the central place and the male life of the community 5 between the street and feminine activities. Again, all the houses of the inner row, which consists principally of storehouses (pis. 10 and 82), are subject to certain taboos, especially to the taboo of cooking, which is believed to be inimical to the stored yam. The outer ring, on the other hand, consists of household dwellings, and there cooking is allowed (pis. 4 and 5). With this distinction is associated the fact that all the establishments of married people have to stand in the outer ring, whereas a bachelor's house may be allowed among the storehouses in the middle. The inner row thus consists of yam-houses {hwayma)^ per- sonal huts of a chief and his kinsmen {Usiga) (pi. i), and bachelors' houses {hukumatuld) , The outer ring is made up of matrimonial homes {bulaviyaka)^ closed yam-houses {sokwaypa^j and widows' or widowers' houses {hwala nakaka^u). The main distinction between the two rings is the taboo on cooking. A young chief's I'lsiga (personal hut) is as a rule used also to accommodate other youths and thus becomes a hukumatula with all that this implies (pi. 20).

At present there are five bachelors' establishments in Omarakana, and four in the adjoining village of Kasana'i. Their number has greatly diminished owing to missionary influence. Indeed, for fear of being singled out, admon- ished and preached at, the owners of some hukumatula now erect them in the outer ring, where they are less conspicuous. Some ten years ago my informants could

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count as many as fifteen bachelors' homes in both villages, and my oldest acquaintances remember the time when there were some thirty. This dwindling in number is due, of course, partly to the enormous decrease of popu- lation, and only partly to the fact that nowadays some bachelors live with their parents, some in widowers' houses, and some in the missionary compounds. But whatever the reason, it is needless to say that this state of affairs does not enhance true sex morality.

The internal arrangements of a bukumatula are simple. The furniture consists almost exclusively of bunks with mat coverings. Since the inmates lead their life in asso- ciation with other households in the day-time, and keep all their working implements in other houses, the inside of a typical bukiunatula is strikingly bare. It lacks the feminine touch, the impression of being really inhabited.

In such an interior the older boys and their temporary mistresses live together. Each male owns his own bunk and regularly uses it. When a couple dissolve their liaison, it is the girl who moves, as a rule, to find another sleeping-place with another sweetheart. The bukumatula is, usually, owned by the group of boys who inhabit it, one of them, the eldest, being its titular owner. I was told that sometimes a man would build a house as a bukumatula for his daughter, and that in olden days there used to be unmarried people's houses owned and tenanted by girls. I never met, however, any actual instance of such an arrangement.

At first sight, as I have said, the institution of the bukumatula might appear as a sort of "Group Marriage"

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or at least "Group Concubinage," but analysis shows it to be nothing of the kind. Such wholesale terms are always misleading, if we allow them to carry an extrane- ous implication. To call this institution "Group Concu- binage" would lead to misunderstanding 5 for it must be remembered that we have to deal with a number of cou- ples who sleep in a common house, each in an exclusive liaison, and not with a group of people all living promis- cuously together j there is never an exchange of partners, nor any poaching nor "complaisance." In fact, a special code of honour is observed within the bukumatula^ which makes an inmate much more careful to respect sexual rights within the house than outside it. The word kaylasiy indicating sexual trespass, would be used of one who of- fended against this code 3 and I was told that "a man should not do it, because it is very bad, like adultery with a friend's wife."

Within the hukumatula a strict decorum obtains. The inmates never indulge in orgiastic pastimes, and it is con- sidered bad form to watch another couple during their love-making. I was told by my young friends that the rule is either to wait till all the others are asleep, or else for all the pairs of a house to undertake to pay no atten- tion to the rest. I could find no trace of any "voyeur" interest taken by the average boy, nor any tendency to exhibitionism. Indeed, when I was discussing the posi- tions and technique of the sexual act, the statement was volunteered that there are specially unobtrusive ways of doing it "so as not to wake up the other people in the hukumatulaP

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Of course, two lovers living together in a hukumatula are not bound to each other by any ties valid in tribal law or imposed by custom. They forgather under the spell of personal attraction, are kept together by sexual passion or personal attachment, and part at will. The fact that in due course a permanent liaison often develops out of a temporary one and ends in marriage is due to a complexity of causes, which we shall consider later j but even such a gradually strengthening liaison is not bind- ing until marriage is contracted. Bukumatula relation- ships, as such, impose no legal tie.

Another important point is that the pair's community of interest is limited to the sexual relation only. The couple share a bed and nothing else. In the case of a per- manent liaison about to lead to marriage, they share it regularly 3 but they never have meals together 3 there are no services to be mutually rendered, they have no obli- gation to help each other in any way, there is, in short, nothing which would constitute a common menage. Only seldom can a girl be seen in front of a bachelors' house as in plate 21, and this as a rule means that she is very much at home there, that there has been a liaison of long standing and that the two are going to be married soon. This must be clearly realized, since such words as "liaison" and "concubinage," in the European use, usually imply a community of household goods and interests. In the French language, the expression vrure en menage^ describing typical concubinage, implies a shared domestic economy, and other phases of life in common, besides sex. In Kiriwina this phrase could not be correctly applied to a couple living together in the hukumatula.

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In the Trobriands two people about to be married must never have a meal in common. Such an act would greatly shock the moral susceptibility of a native, as well as his sense of propriety. To take a girl out to dinner without having previously married her — a thing permitted in Eu- rope — ^would be to disgrace her in the eyes of a Tro- briander. We object to an unmarried girl sharing a man's bed — the Trobriander would object just as strongly to her sharing his meal. The boys never eat within, or in front of, the bukumatulay but always join their parents or other relatives at every meal.

The institution of the hukumatula is, therefore, char- acterized by: (i) individual appropriation, the partners of each couple belonging exclusively to one another j (2) strict decorum and absence of any orgiastic or las- civious display 5 (3) the lack of any legally binding ele- ment 5 (4) the exclusion of any other community of in- terest between a pair, save that of sexual cohabitation.

Having described the liaisons which lead directly to marriage, we end our survey of the various stages of sexual life previous to wedlock. But we have not ex- hausted the subject — ^we have simply traced the normal course of sexuality and that in its main outlines only. We have yet to consider those licensed orgies to which reference has already been made, to go more deeply into the technique and psychology of love-making, to examine certain sexual taboos, and to glance at erotic myth and folk-lore. But before we deal with these subjects, it will be best to carry our descriptive narrative to its logical conclusion — marriage.

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CHAPTER IV

THE AVENUES TO MARRIAGE

The institution of marriage in the Trobriands, which is the theme of this and the following chapter, does not present on its surface any of those sensational features which would endear it to the "survival" monger, the "origin" hunter, and the dealer in "culture contacts." The natives of our Archipelago order their marriages as simply and sensibly as if they were modern European agnostics, without fuss, or ceremony, or waste of time and substance. The matrimonial knot, once tied, is firm and exclusive, at least in the ideal of tribal law, morality, and custom. As usual, however, ordinary human frailties play some havoc with the ideal. The Trobriand mar- riage customs again are sadly lacking in any such interest- ing relaxations as jus frlnue noctisy wife lending, wife exchange, or obligatory prostitution. The personal rela- tions between the two partners, while most illuminating as an example of the matrilineal type of marriage, do not present any of those "savage" features, so lurid, and at the same time so attractive to the antiquarian.

If, however, we dig beneath the surface and lay bare the deeper aspects of this institution, we shall find our- selves face to face with certain facts of considerable im- portance and of a somewhat unusual type. We shall see that marriage imposes a permanent economic obligation

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on the members of the wife's family: for they have to contribute substantially towards the maintenance of the new household. Instead of having to buy his wife, the man receives a dowry, often relatively as tempting as that of a modern European or American heiress. This fact makes marriage among the Trobrianders a pivot in the constitution of tribal power, and in the whole eco- nomic system 3 a pivot, indeed, in almost every institution. Moreover, as far as our ethnological records go, it sets aside their marriage customs as unique among those of savage communities.

Another feature of Trobriand marriage which is of supreme importance to the sociologist is the custom of infant betrothal. This is associated with cross-cousin marriage, and will be seen to have interesting implica- tions and consequences.


MOTIVES FOR MARRYING

The gradual strengthening of the bonds between two partners in a liaison, and the tendency to marry displayed at a certain stage of their mutual life in the bukumatula, have already been described in the foregoing chapter. We have seen how a couple who have lived together for a time and found that they want to marry, as it were advertise this fact by sleeping together regularly, by showing themselves together in public, and by remaining with each other for long periods at a time.

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requires a more minute consideration than we have yet given it, especially as it is one of those general, seemingly obvious questions which do not challenge attention. Yet, if in a closer sociological study we try to place it in its proper perspective, and to bring it into harmony with other features of native life, a real problem at once be- comes evident. To us marriage appears as the final ex- pression of love and the desire for union j but in this case we have to ask ourselves why, in a society where mar- riage adds nothing to sexual freedom, and, indeed, takes a great deal away from it, where two lovers can possess each other as long as they like without legal obligation, they still wish to be bound in marriage. And this is a question to which the answer is by no means obvious.

That there is a clear and spontaneous desire for mar- riage, and that there is a customary pressure towards it, are two separate facts about which there can be not the slightest doubt. For the first there are the unambiguous statements of individuals — ^that they married because they liked the idea of a life-long bond to that particular per- son — and for the second, the expression of public opinion, that certain people are well suited to each other and should therefore marry.

I came across a number of cases in which I could ob- serve this desire for marriage developing over a prolonged period. When I came to Omarakana, I found several couples engaged to be married. The second youngest brother of Namwana Guya'u, Kalogusa (pi. 22), had been previously engaged to Dabugera, a girl of the highest rank, his father's sister's daughter's daughter (i.e.

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the matrilineal grand-niece of To'uluwa, the present chief and father of Kalogusa, see below, sec. 5). Dur- ing a particular absence of her betrothed, which lasted for a year, the girl married another man. On his return, Kalogusa consoled himself by upsetting the engagement of his elder brother, Yobukwa'u, and taking the latter's betrothed, Isepuna, for himself. These two, Kalogusa and Isepuna were very fond of each other; they were always together, and the boy was very jealous. The elder brother did not take his loss very seriously; he started a liaison with another girl, rather plain, lazy, trained in a Mission, and altogether unsatisfactory. Both brothers married their fiancees a few months after I be- came acquainted with them (see pi. 4, where Kalogusa is seen standing near the hut and Yobukwa'u in the centre, each behind his wife).

Another man, Ulo Kadala, one of the less privileged sons of the chief, was deeply enamoured of a girl whose people, however, did not approve of the match. When I returned again after two years, these two were still not married, and I had an opportunity of witnessing the man's culminating failure to bring about the wedding. I often received confidences from boys longing to marry and faced by some obstacle. Some of them hoped to obtain material help from me, others to be backed by the white man's authority. It was clear that, in all such cases, the pair were already living sexually with each other, but that the thing which they specially desired was marriage. A great friend of mine, Monakewo, had a long and lasting intrigue with Dabugera, the niece of

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To'uluwa just mentioned, who by that time had divorced her first husband. He knew that he would never be able to marry her, for her rank was too high for him, and he was genuinely unhappy on this account.

Such instances show clearly that young people want to marry, even when they already possess each other sex- ually, and that the state of marriage has real charm for them. But before I could entirely understand all the reasons and motives for this desire, I had to grasp the complexities and deeper aspects of the institution, and its relation to other elements in the social system.

The first thing to be realized is that the Trobriander has no full status in social life until he is married. As we saw in the table of age designations, the current term for a man in the prime of life is tovavaygile (married man). A bachelor has no household of his own, and is debarred from many privileges. There are, in fact, no unmarried men of mature age, except idiots, incurable invalids, old widowers and albinos. Several men were widowed during my stay in the Islands, and others were deserted by their wives. The former remarried almost as soon as their mourning was over, the latter as soon as their attempts at reconciliation had proved fruitless.

The same applies to women. Provided she is at all sexually tolerable, a widow or divorcee will not have long to wait. Once released from mourning, a widow again becomes marriageable. She may sometimes delay a lit- tle, in order to enjoy the sexual freedom of her unmar- ried state, but such conduct will ultimately draw on her the censure of public opinion, and a growing reputation

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for "immorality" — ^that is disregard of tribal usage — ^will force her to choose a new mate.

Another very important reason for marriage, from the man's point of view, is economic advantage. Marriage brings with it a considerable yearly tribute in staple food, given to the husband by the wife's family. This obliga- tion is perhaps the most important factor in the whole social mechanism of Trobriand society. On it, through the institution of rank and through his privilege of po- lygamy, rests the authority of the chief, and his power to finance all ceremonial enterprises and festivities. Thus a man, especially if he be of rank and importance, is com- pelled to marry, for, apart from the fact that his eco- nomic position is strengthened by the income received from his wife's family, he obtains his full social status only by entering the group of tovavaygile.

There is, further, the natural inclination of a man past his first youth to have a house and a household of his own. The services rendered by a woman to her husband are naturally attractive to a man of such an agej his craving for domesticity has developed, while his desire for change and amorous adventure has died down. Moreover, a household means children, and the Tro- briander has a natural longing for these. Although not considered of his own body nor as continuing his line, they yet give him that tender companionship for which, when he reaches twenty-five or thirty, he begins to crave. He has become used, it should be remembered, to play- ing with his sister's children and with those of other rela- tives or neighbours.

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These are the reasons — social, economic, practical and sentimental — which urge a man towards marriage. And last, though not least, personal devotion to a woman and the promise of prolonged companionship with one to whom he is attached, and with whom he has sexually lived, prompt him to make certain of her by means of a permanent tie, which shall be binding under tribal law.

The woman, who has no economic inducement to marry, and who gains less in comfort and social status than the man, is mainly influenced by personal affection and the desire to have children in wedlock.

This personal motive comes out very strongly in the course of love affairs which do not run smoothly, and brings us from the reasons for marriage in general to the motives which govern the individual's particular choice.

In this matter it must ifirst be realized that the choice is limited from the outset. A number of girls are ex- cluded completely from a man's matrimonial horizon, namely those who belong to the same totemic class (see ch. xiii, sec. 5). Furthermore, there are certain endoga- mous restrictions, though these are by no means so pre- cisely defined as those imposed by exogamy. Endogamy enjoins marriage within the same political area, that is within some ten to twelve villages of the same district. The rigidity of this rule depends very much on the par- ticular district. For instance, one area in the north-west corner of the island is absolutely endogamous, for its in- habitants are so despised by the other Islanders that the latter would not dream either of marrying or of having sexual relations within it. Again, the members of the

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most aristocratic province of Kiriwina seldom marry out- side their own district, except into the neighbouring island of Kitava, or into certain eminent families from one or two outside villages (see also ch. xiii, sec. 5).

Even within this limited geographical area, there are further restrictions on the choice of a mate, and these are due to rank. Thus, members of the highest sub-clan, the Tabalu, and more especially their women, would not marry into a sub-clan of very low caste, and a certain correspondence in nobility is considered desirable even in marriage between less important people.

It follows that choice must be made from among per- sons who are not of the same clan, who are not widely different in rank, who reside within the convenient geo- graphical area, and who are of a suitable age. In this limited field, however, there is still sufficient freedom of selection to allow of manages d^atnour^ de raison, et de convenance; and, as with Kalogusa and Isepuna of whom I have spoken, individual preference and love are often the determining factors of choice. And many other mar- ried couples, whom I knew well personally, had been governed in their choice by the same motive. This could be gathered from their history, and from the happy, harmonious tone of their common life.

There are also fnariages de convenance^ where wealth, that is the quantity of yams which a girl's family can pro- vide, or pedigree, or status has determined the choice. Such considerations have, of course, a special importance in marriage by infant betrothal, of which we shall speak presently.

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THE CONSENT OF THE WIFE's FAMILY

Permanent liaisons which are on the point of ripening into marriage become known and are talked about in the village, and now the girl's family, who, so far, have taken no interest in her love aflFairs, who have, indeed, kept ostentatiously aloof, must face the fact about to be ac- complished, and make up their minds whether or no they will approve it. The man's family, on the other hand, need show little interest in a matter in which they have practically no say. A man is almost entirely independent with regard to matrimony, and his marriage, which will be a matter of constant and considerable effort and worry to his wife's family, will continue to lie completely out- side the sphere of his own people's concerns.

It is remarkable that, of all the girl's family, the per- son who has most to say about her marriage, although legally he is not reckoned as her kinsman (veyola)^ is her father. I was astonished when this information was given to me early in the course of my field work, but it was fully confirmed later on by observation. This para- doxical state of affairs becomes less incomprehensible, however, if we bring it into relation with certain rules of morals and etiquette, and with the economic aspect of marriage. One would naturally expect a girl's brothers and maternal kinsmen to take the most important part in deliberations concerning her marriage, but the strict taboo which rules that the brother must have nothing at all to


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do with the love affairs of his sister, and her other ma- ternal kinsmen but little, debars them from any control over her matrimonial plans.

Thus, although her mother's brother is her legal guardian, and her own brothers will in the future oc- cupy the same position with regard to her own household, they must all remain passive until the marriage is an accomplished fact. The father, say the natives, acts in this matter as the spokesman of the mother, who is the proper person to deliberate upon her daughter's love in- trigues and marriage. It will also be seen that the father is closely concerned in the work of his sons from the eco- nomic standpoint, and that, after the marriage of their sister, these will have to divide the fruits of their labour between her and their mother, instead of, as previously, giving them all to the parental household. When two lovers have decided on marriage, the young man becomes assiduous in his attentions to his sweetheart's family, and perhaps her father will, on his own initiative, say: "You sleep with my child: very well, marry her." As a matter of fact, if the family are well disposed to the youth, they will always take this initiative either by such a direct dec- laration or else by asking him for small gifts, an equally unambiguous indication that he is accepted.

When the family are definitely opposed to the match and give no sign of goodwill, the boy may take the ini- tiative and plead on his own behalf. If he is refused it may be either because he is of too low a rank, or because he is notoriously lazy, and would be too great a drag on his future relatives-in-law, or else because the girl is in-

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tended for someone else. After such a refusal, the pair may relinquish their plans, or, if they are strong enough to fight the matter out, they may try to bring about their marriage in the teeth of opposition. If they decide to do this, the bride stays in her lover's house (that is, in his parents' house), as if she were really married, and the news is spread abroad that the man is attempting to wed her in spite of her people. Sometimes the two actually elope and go to another village in the hope of impressing and mortifying their hard-hearted opponents. In any case, they stay indoors all day, and do not eat any food to see if this will soften the hearts of her family. This abstention from the common meal, which, as we know, constitutes a definite declaration of marriage, shows that they are still waiting for her family's consent.

In the meantime, the boy's father or maternal uncle may go as an ambassador to the girl's family and offer them a gift of high value to melt their resistance. Under this combined pressure the latter may give in, and send the customary present to the young couple. If, on the other hand, they do not relent, they repair in great num- bers to the spot where the girl stays with the youth and "pull her back," a customary and technical expression, but one which also indicates what actually occurs. The boy's relatives and friends may possibly oppose the "pulling back," and then a scuffle will ensue. But the girl's people always have the whip hand, for, as long as they withhold their consent, nobody can force them to supply the pair with food, and without this the household is soon dis- solved in the natural course.

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A few examples of such abortive marriage occurred in my own experience. Mekala'i, a boy whom I often used as a temporary servant, became enamoured of Bodulela, a really attractive young girl, and the step-daughter of the headman of Kabululo, who, as was well known in the vil- lage, lived incestuously with her (see ch. xiii, sec. 6). Mekala'i made an heroic attempt to abduct and retain her in his parents' house in Kasana'i, but he had no wealthy relatives or powerful friends to back him up. On the first afternoon of their joint life, the headman of Kabu- lulo simply walked over to Kasana'i, took his abashed and truant step-daughter by the hand, and led her back to his own house j that was the end.

Another and a more complicated case was that of Ulo Kadala, who was mentioned in the last section. He wooed a girl during my first stay in Omarakana and was refused by her parents. The couple attempted to settle down to married life, but the family pulled the girl back by force. Ulo Kadala still continued his faithful court- ship. On my second visit to Omarakana two years later, the girl came to the village once more and took up her abode in the house of Isupwana, the adoptive mother of Ulo Kadala, a stone's throw from my tent. This second attempt at marriage lasted, I think, for a day or two, while To'uluwa was making some not very energetic ef- forts towards reconciliation. One afternoon the parents arrived from the neighbouring village, and laid hold of the girl and unceremoniously carried her away. The pro- cession passed in front of my tent, the wailing girl led by her father and followed by vociferous partisans, wha

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hurled abuse at each other. The girPs people said quite explicitly what they thought of Ulo Kadala, of his lazi- ness, his incapacity for doing anything properly, and his well-known greed. "We do not want you, we shall not give her any food." This argument clinched the refusal, and that was the last attempt which the two young peo- ple made.

When the parents are well disposed and signify their pleasure in the match by asking the intended for a small present, the engaged couple must still wait for a little in order to give necessary time for the preparations. But one day the girl instead of returning in the morning to her parents' house, will remain with her husband, take her meals in the house of his parents and accompany him throughout the day. The word goes round: "Isepuna is already married to Kalogusa." Such proceedings consti- tute the act of marriage. There is no other rite, no other ceremony to mark the beginnings of wedlock. From the morning on which she has remained with the bridegroom, the girl is married to him, provided, of course, the con- sent of the parents has been given. Without this, as we have seen, the act constitutes only an attempt at marriage. Though utterly simple, this act of remaining with the man, of openly sharing a meal with him, and of staying under his roof, has a legally binding force. It is the con- ventional public declaration of marriage. It has serious consequences, for it changes the life of the two concerned, and it imposes considerable obligations on the girl's fam- ily, obligations associated in turn with counter-obligations on the part of the bridegroom.

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MARRIAGE GIFTS

This simple declaration of marriage is followed by that exchange of gifts which is so typical of any social transaction in the Trobriands. Each gift is definite in nature and quantity, each has to take its proper place in a series and each is reciprocated by some corresponding contribution. The subjoined table will help to make clear the description which follows it:

Marriage Gifts

!i. Katuvila — cooked yams, brought in baskets by the girl's parents to the boy's family. 3. Pepe'i — several baskets of uncooked yams, one given by each of the girl's relatives to the boy's parents. 3. Kaykaboma — cooked vegetables, each member of the girl's family bringing one platter to the boy's house. /4. Mapula Kaykaboma — repayment of gift (3), given in ,, j exactly the same form and material by the boy's rela-

■p__p < tives to the girl's family.

I 5. Takivalela Pepe'i — valuables given by the boy's father in ^ repayment of gift (2) to the girl's father.

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(7. Saykivala — gift of fish brought by the boy to his wife's

IV ) father in repayment of (6).

B — G \ 8. Takivalela Filakuria — a gift of valuables handed by the

(^ boy's father to the girl's father in payment of (6).

G — ^B (girl to boy), gifts from the girl's family; B — G, return gifts from the boy's relatives to the girl's.

The girl's family have to make the first offering to signify their consent to the marriage. Since their agree- ment is absolutely essential, this gift, in conjunction with the public declaration of the union of the partners, con-

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stitutes marriage. It is a small gift, a little cooked food brought in baskets and offered by the girl's father to the boy's parents. It is set down in front of their house with the words kam katuvila, "thy katuvila gift." It must be given on the day on which the two remain together, or on the morning of the next day. As we have seen, when the consent of the girl's family is doubtful the two part- ners often abstain from food till this gift is brought.

Soon afterwards, usually on the same day, the girl's relatives bring a bigger present. Her father, her ma- ternal uncle, and her brothers who now for the first time emerge from the inaction imposed on them by the spe- cific brother-sister taboo, each bring a basket of uncooked yam food, and offer it to the boy's parents. This gift is called fefe^i. But even this is not enough. A third of- fering of food is brought to the boy's parents, cooked this time and carried on large platters, such as can be seen on plates 4 and 5. This gift is called kaykaboma}

The boy's family must not delay long before they re- ciprocate. The last gift, cooked food on trays, is returned almost immediately and in exactly the same form as it was received. A more important gift follows. The boy's father has already prepared certain valuables of the vaygu^a type, that is to say, large, polished axe-blades of green stone, necklaces of polished spondylus shell discs, and armlets made of the conus shelly also, when the sec-

1 The reader who has grasped the complex psychology of ceremonial gifts in the kula and in associated activities will understand the great importance of the exchanges which accompany so many social transac- tions in the Trobriands. Cf. Argonauts of the Western Pacific, espe- cially chs. iii and vi.

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ond gift o£ uncooked food was brought to him by the girPs family, he made a small distribution of it among his own relatives, and they in turn now bring him other valu- ables to add to his own. All these he presents to the girl's family 3 he has kept the baskets in which the food was brought to him 3 he puts the valuables into these, and they are carried by himself and his family to the girl's house. This gift is called takwalela fefe^l^ or "repayment in valu- ables of the fefe*t gift."

The reader is perhaps weary of all these petty details, but this meticulous absorption in small gifts and counter- gifts is highly characteristic of the Trobrianders. They are inclined to boast of their own gifts, with which they are entirely satisfied, while disputing the value and even quarrelling over what they themselves receive, but they regard these details as most important and observe them scrupulously. In the exchange of marriage gifts, as a rule, they are less cantankerous than on other occasions, and a more generous and friendly spirit prevails. After the takwalela fefe^i there is a long pause in the exchange of gifts, which lasts until the next harvest. During this time and while the couple's own dwelling is being built, the wife usually remains with her husband in his father's house. At harvest time they will receive the first sub- stantial gift due from the girl's family, and of this they will themselves make a distribution by way of payment to those who have helped in the building of their new home.

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at every harvest they will have to help the new house- hold with a substantial contribution of fresh yams. The first present of this sort, however, has a special name (vilakuria), and is surrounded by a ceremonial of its own. Prism-shaped receptacles (pwata^i) sltq constructed of poles, in front of the young couple's yam-house (see pis. 23 and 24), and the girPs family, after selecting a large quantity, a hundred, two hundred, or even three hundred basketf uls of the best yams, arrange them in these recep- tacles with a great amount of ceremony and display.

This gift also must be repaid without any too great delay. Fish is considered a proper counter-oflFering. In a coastal village, the husband will embark with his friends on a fishing expedition. If he lives inland, he has to pur- chase the fish in one of the coastal villages, paying for them in yams.

The fish is laid in front of the girPs parents' house, with the words ^^Kam saykwala'^ (thy saykwala gift). Sometimes, if the young husband is very rich, or else if he and his family were not able previously to repay the pepe^i present, a gift of vaygu^a (valuables) will be given at this point in answer to the first harvest oflFering. This is called takwalela vilakuria (repayment by valuables of the vilakuria present), and closes the series of initial mar- riage gifts.

This series of gifts appears at first sight unnecessarily complicated. But, if we examine it more closely, we find that it represents a continuous story, and is no mere dis- connected jumble of incident. In the first place it ex- presses the leading principle in the economic relation

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which will subsequently obtain for the whole duration of the marriage: that the girl's family provide the newly established household with food, being occasionally repaid with valuables. The small initial gifts (i, 2, and 3), express the consent of the girl's family, and are a sort of earnest of their future and more considerable contribu- tions. The return offering of food (4), made immedi- ately by the boy's family, is a characteristically Trobriand answer to a compliment. And the only really substantial gifts from the bridegroom's family to the bride's (5, or 8, or both) exert a definitely binding force on the husband, for if the marriage be dissolved, he does not recover them save in exceptional cases. They are about equivalent in value to all the other first year's gifts put together. But this present from the husband must emphatically not be considered as purchase money for the bride. This idea is utterly opposed both to the native point of view and to the facts of the case. Marriage is meant to confer substantial material benefits on the man. These he re- pays at rare intervals with a gift of valuables, and it is such a gift that he has to offer at the moment of mar- riage. It is an anticipation of the benefits to follow, and by no means a price paid for the bride.

It may be mentioned that not all of this series of gifts are equally indispensable. Of the first three, only one (either i or 2) must be given at all costs. Of the rest, 6 and 7 are never omitted, while either 5 or 8 is abso- lutely obligatory.

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to the savage point of view. Closely observing the care and anxiety with which the gifts are gathered and given, it is possible to determine the psychology of the acts themselves. Thus Paluwa, the father of Isepuna, worried good-humouredly as to how he might collect sufficient food to offer to a chief's son, his daughter's future hus- band j and he discussed his troubles with me at length. He was faced by the difficulty of having three daughters and several female relatives, and only three sons. Every- body's working power had already been taxed to provide food for the other married daughters. And now Isepuna was going to wed Kalogusa, a man of high rank in his own right, and also a son of To'uluwa, the paramount chief. All his people exerted themselves to the utmost to produce as big a crop as possible that season, in order to be able to give a fine vilakuria present. And To'uluwa, the bridegroom's father, on his side, revealed to me his own anxiety. Could he provide a worthy counter gift? Times were hard, and yet something fine had to be given. I inspected several of the chief's valuables, and discussed their respective suitability with him. There was an under- current of suggestion, in the conversation of both parties, that some tobacco from the white man would be a much appreciated addition to either gift.

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INFANT BETROTHAL AND CROSS-COUSIN MARRIAGE

There is another way of arranging marriages in the Trobriands beside the ordinary method of courtship, and

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in many respects the two are in sharp contrast to each other. Normal marriage is brought about by free choice, by trialj and by the gradual strengthening of bonds which assume a legal obligation only after marriage. In mar- riage by infant betrothal, a binding agreement is made by the parents in the children's infancy 5 the boy and girl grow up into the relationship, and find themselves bound to each other before they have had an opportunity to choose for themselves.

The great importance of this second type of marriage lies in the fact that infant betrothal is always associated with cross-cousin marriage. The two people who, accord- ing to native ideas, are most suited for marriage with each other — a man's son and the daughter of his sister — are betrothed in infancy. When the father's sister's daughter is too old to be betrothed to her male infant cousin, her daughter may replace her. By the native legal system the two are equivalent, for the purposes of this marriage.

The significance of this institution can be understood only if we return to a consideration of the compromise between father-love and matriliny.^ Cross-cousin mar- riage is an arrangement whereby both tribal law, which enjoins matrilineal succession, and the promptings of paternal love, which incline the father to bestow all pos- sible privileges on his son, find equitable adjustment and adequate satisfaction.

Let us take a concrete instance. A chief, a village headman — or, indeed, any man of rank, wealth, and

^ Cf. also Crime and Custom^

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power, will give to a favourite son all that he can safely alienate from his heirs j some plots in the village lands, privileges in fishing and hunting, some of the hereditary- magic, a position in the kula exchange, a privileged place in the canoe and precedence in dancing. Often the son becomes in some sort his father's lieutenant, performing magic instead of him, leading the men in tribal council, and displaying his personal charm and influence on all those occasions when a man may win the much-coveted butura (renown). As examples of this tendency, which I have found in every community where there was a chief of outstanding influence, we may take the arrogant Namwana Guya'u, before his banishment the leading figure in the village life of Omarakana (see ch. i, sec. 2). Again, in the sister village of Kasana'i, the chief's son Kayla'i, a modest and good-natured fellow, wielded the power of thunder and sunshine in virtue of the supreme system of weather-magic which his father had imparted to him. And the coastal villages of Kavataria, Sinaketa, Tuk- wa'ukwa, each had its leader in a son of the chief. But such privileged positions are invidious and insecure, even while they last, as the rightful heirs and owners in matriliny resent being pushed aside during the lifetime of the chief 5 and, in any case, all such benefits cease with the father's death. There is only one way by which the chief can establish his son permanently in the village with rights of full citizenship for himself and his progeny, and secure possession of all the gifts until death j and that is by contracting the son in paternal cross-cousin marriage, marriage with his sister's daughter or with this daughter's

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daughter. The following diagram will help to make the genealogy of the relation clear.

Diagrammatic Genealogy of Cross-Cousin Marriage


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$ Chief's daughter Chief's son ^ = $ Chief's sister's $ Chief sister's I daughter I son and his


Orthodox cross-cousin j

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Our diagrammatical chief has a sister j and she has a son, the chief's heir and successor, and a daughter, the chief's niece by his sister, a girl who will continue the aristocratic line. The husband of this girl will enjoy a very privileged position, into which he will step on the day of his marriage. By native law and custom he will have a definite claim on his wife's brother or brothers and other male relatives, who will be obliged to give him annual tribute of food, and will be considered his ex- officio allies, friends, and helpers. He also acquires the right to live in the village if he choose, and to participate in tribal affairs and in magic. It is clear, therefore, that he will occupy practically the same position as that en- joyed by the chief's son during his father's lifetime, and

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from which he is ousted by the rightful heir at his father's death. This type of marriage difFers from the ordinary one also in that the husband comes to live in his wife's community. Cross-cousin marriage is thus matrilocal in contradistinction to the ordinary patrilocal usage.^

The obvious and natural solution, therefore, of the chief's difficulty is to marry his son to his niece or grand- niece. Usually all parties benefit by the transaction. The chief and his son get what they want 5 the chief's niece marries the most influential man in the village, and in so doing confirms this influence j and an alliance is established between the son of the chief and his lawful heirs which frustrates the potential rivalry between them. The girl's brother cannot oppose the marriage, because of the taboo (see ch. xiii, sec. 6) 3 nor, as it is contracted in the chief's son's infancy, would he normally be in a position to do so.


Whenever there is a possibility of it, a cross-cousin marriage will always be arranged, a fact which is well illustrated in the family of To'uluwa (see the adjacent pedigree).

When Namwana Guya'u, the eldest son of To'uluwa's favourite and most aristocratic wife, was born, there was no marriageable girl available for him in his father's

1 1 think that any man could settle In his wife's community if he wished. But by doing so, he would both degrade himself and suffer disabilities. A chief's son, however, is an exception owing to his position in the village and his vested interests.

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family, that is to say, among To'uluwa's maternal kins- women. Ibo'una and Nakaykwase were, by that time, almost marriageable and could not be affianced to a little child, and their daughters were yet unborn. And the pedigree shows no other female in the sub-clan of the Tabalu, To'uluwa's matrilineal lineage. But by the time a younger son, Kalogusa, was born to To'uluwa, his grand-niece, Ibo'una, had a small daughter, Dabugeraj therefore the two were betrothed. In this case the cross- cousin marriage failed, for, as we have seen (see above, sec. i), the girl married another man during her fiance's absence abroad.

In the same pedigree we can take another example from the previous generation. Purayasi, the penultimate chief of Omarakana, had a son called Yowana, who belonged to the same sub-clan as Namwana Guya'u. Yowana was a man of great talent and strong personality 5 he was renowned for his mastery of several systems of important magic which he performed for his father, and for his skill as a gardener, sailor, and dancer. He married Kadubulami, Purayasi's grand-niece, and lived all his life in Omarakana in the enjoyment of his personal privileges. He instructed his son, Bagido'u, the present heir apparent, in all his magical and other accomplishments.

In his turn Bagido'u had a son by his first wife, but he died in infancy. This child, soon after birth, had been betrothed to an infant daughter of Bagido'u's youngest sister Nakaykwase. Thus, in one small pedigree, we see three cases of cross-cousin marriage arranged by infant betrothal. It must be remembered, however, that this

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pedigree includes the noblest family of the chieftains of Omarakana and the sub-clan Kwoynama of Osapola, both regarded as especially suitable for entering into matri- monial alliance.

Cross-cousin marriage is, undoubtedly, a compromise between the two ill-adjusted principles of mother-right and father-love^ and this is its main raison cPetre. The natives are not, of course, capable of a consistent theo- retical statement 5 but in their arguments and formulated motives this explanation of the why and wherefore of the institution is implicit, in an unmistakable though piecemeal form. Several points of view are expressed and reasons given by them which throw some further light on their ideas, but all, if pushed to a conclusion, point to the same ultimate reason for cross-cousin marriage. Sometimes, for instance, it will be stated as a rider to the principle of exogamy that "the marriage between brother and sister is wrong" ("brother and sister" in the extended sense, all people of opposite sex and of the same generation re- lated through the mother). "To marry a tabula (cross- cousin) is right j the true tabula (the first cross-cousin) is the proper wife for us."

Let us make clear one more point: among all the mar- riages possible between cousins, only one is lawful and desirable for the Trobriander. Two young people of opposite sex, whose mothers are sisters, are, of course, subject to the strict sexual taboo which obtains between brother and sister. A boy and a girl who are the children of two brothers stand in no special relation to each other. They may marry if they like, but there is no reason why

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they should 5 no special custom or institution is connected with such a relationship, since in a matrilineal society it is irrelevant. Only a boy and a girl, descendants of a brother and sister respectively, can conclude a marriage which is lawful and which, at the same time, stands out from mere haphazard alliances 3 for here, as we have seen, a man gives his own kinswoman to his son for a wife. But an important point must here be noted: the man's son has to marry the woman's daughter, and not the man's daughter the woman's son. Only in the former combina- tion do the two people call each other tabugUy a term which implies lawfulness of sexual intercourse. The other couple joined by a dotted line on the diagram (sec. 4) stand in a different relation according to native ideas of kinship (see the discussion of these kinship terms in ch. xiii, sec. 6). A girl calls the son of her father's sister tamagu "my father." Marriage with the real father or with the father's brother is incestuous and strictly tabooed. Marriage with the tama ("father"=father's sister's son) is not incestuous, but it is viewed with dis- favour and happens only rarely. Such a marriage offers few inducements. A chief might like his daughter to be married to another chief or to a man of rank in his own family, but she would not thus acquire any specially high or privileged position. On the other hand, as his daughter will have to be supported by the same men who now work for her mother, the chief's wife, he may prefer for his own sake to marry her to a humbler and less exact- ing person than his heir. It all depends on his relations

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with his heir, which are, as we have seen, by no means so uniformly friendly and intimate as those with his own son.

The advantages of cross-cousin marriage were put to me from another point of view by Bagido'u, when I asked him why he had wanted his little son Purayasi to marry Kabwaynaya. "I wanted a daughter-in-law who would be my real kinswoman," he said. "I wanted, when I got old, to have someone of my family to look after me 5 to cook my foodj to bring me my lime-pot and lime-stick, to pull out my grey hairs. It is bad to have a stranger to do that. When it is someone of my own people, I am not afraid." His fear was, of course, of sorcery. It should be realized that since marriage is patrilocal, and since the son, in the case of important people, often re- mains near the father, this latter has good reasons to be interested in his daughter-in-law. Since she is his kins- woman there is yet another justification for his son's resi- dence in the father's community. Thus we are brought back to cross-cousin marriage as the reconciling compro- mise between the claims of father-love and matriliny. The man may have to rely, in his old age, on the atten- tions of his son and his son's wife, but neither of them are his real kindred unless the daughter-in-law is also his sister's child. In spite of his personal affection for his son, he prefers to have someone of his own veyola (ma- ternal kindred) about him, and this can only be achieved if the son marries the right cross-cousin, that is the father's sister's daughter or her daughter.

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CEREMONIES OF INFANT BETROTHAL

Now that we have grasped the principles of cross- cousin marriage, a brief account must be given of the steps and ceremonies by which it is brought about. The initiative is always taken by the brother, who, on behalf of his son, asks his sister for the hand of her daughter in marriage. A man has a definite right to make such a request 5 as the natives say: "Is he not the kadala (mater- nal uncle) of the girl? Are his sister and her child not his real veyola (maternal kindred)? Has he not raised the prigubu (annual harvest contribution) for the house- hold?"

The request may be made when the son is born, if his sister has a daughter, or perhaps a granddaughter (daugh- ter's daughter), who will not be too old to become the wife of the new-born infant later on. The disparity of age should never exceed two or three years.

Or the boy's father may wait, and if within ten years or so a girl is born to his sister, he may requisition her as a future daughter-in-law. His sister is not allowed to refuse his application. Soon after the preliminary agree- ment has been concluded, the man has to take a vaygu^a (valuable), a polished axe-blade or shell ornament, and give it to his sister's husband, the father {tamo) of the infant bride. "This is the katufwoyna kapo^ula for your child," he says, and adds that it is given "so that she may

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not sleep with men, nor make katuyausi (licentious esca- pades), nor sleep in the hukumatula (bachelors' house). She must sleep in her mother's house only." Shortly- after this, three gifts of food are offered by the girl's family to the boy's father. They are similar in nature to the three initial gifts in ordinary marriage, and are designated by the same names: ka-tuvilay fefe^iy and kaykaboma.

The natives regard vayfokala (infant betrothal) as equivalent to actual marriage. The betrothed are spoken of as husband and wife, and thus address each other. As in adult wedding, the three gifts are considered to con- clude the marriage and the infant bridegroom's family have to repay the last present by a return gift of food — mafula kaykaboma. At the next harvest, the girl's father brings a vilakuria (substantial contribution of yam food) to the boy's parents. This latter fact is interesting, since it is a reversal, on account of the anticipated marriage, of what happens in the previous' generation. The boy's father, who is the brother of the girl's mother, has to give a harvest gift year by year to the girl's parents j and this at the time of his sister's marriage he had inaugurated by a gift of vilakuria. Now he receives on behalf of his infant son a vilakuria gift from his sister's husband, who- acts as the representative of his own son or sons, that is the brother or brothers of the future bride, who later on will annually bring substantial harvest offerings to the household, when it becomes such. As yet, however, the yearly urigubu (harvest gifts) do not follow the first

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offering of crops (the vilakuria)^ and this interval in the exchange of gifts lasts until betrothal culminates in actual marriage.

This concludes the preliminary exchange of gifts at infant betrothal. Although it is called by the natives a marriage, the de facto difference between betrothal and marriage is recognized in the explicit statements of the natives and in custom, for when the two grow up they have to marry again. The bride, that is, has to go offi- cially to the bridegroom's house, share his bed there, take her meals with him and be publicly announced to have married him. The initial gifts of ordinary marriage, however (Nos. 1-4 of the table in sec. 3) are omitted on this occasion. Only the large harvest gift (vilakuria), and its repayment {takwalela vilakuria) are exchanged.

But before this stage is reached and the two are safely married, a somewhat difficult course has to be steered. Although nobody seriously expects the young people to be chaste and faithful to each other, appearances have to be kept up. A flagrant transgression of the obligation to the betrothed would be resented by the offended party, and with some exaggeration called "adultery." It is con- sidered a great shame to the girl if her fiance openly has a liaison with someone else, and she on her side must not make a hukufnutula her permanent abode either in the company of her betrothed or of anyone else j nor may she go to other villages on those avowedly sexual expedi- tions called katuyausi (see ch. ix, sec. 7). Both parties to the betrothal must carry on their amours discreetly and sub rosa. This, of course, is neither easy nor pleasant for

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them, and they tread the strait path of superficial decorum only under heavy pressure. The boy knows what he has to lose, so he is as careful as he can bring himself to be. Also, the father controls his son to some extent, and at the same time exercises some authority over his future daughter-in-law, through his status of maternal uncle. A man who had betrothed his son and niece to each other put the matter thus to me: "She is afraid that she might die (that is, by sorcery), or that I might hit her." And, of course, her mother is very careful and does what she can to conceal and make light of her daughter's delinquencies.

In spite of this, friction is common and ruptures not unknown. One of my earliest informants was Gomaya of Sinaketa, an enterprising, but very lazy and dishonest man, and a great coureur de jermnes, I got his story partly from himself, partly from gossip, and partly by personal observation. He was betrothed to his cross- cousin, but in spite of this, entered into a flagrant intrigue with a good-looking girl, one Ilamweria of Wakayse, a village near Omarakana (see ch. vii, sec. 4). Once, when he brought this girl to Sinaketa, the kinsmen of his fiancee wanted to kill her and she had to run away. When Gomaya grew tired of his amour and went back to his native village, he wished to sleep with his betrothed, but she refused. "You always sleep with Ilamweria," she said, "so go to her." He at once applied to a man acquainted with love magic and asked for a spell, saying: "I want to sleep with my wife (that is, my fiancee) j she refuses me. I must make some magic over her." And

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it was only after the required rites had been performed that she yielded. The marriage, however, was never completed, for in the end her parents dismissed him as a lazy good-for-nothing. The presents were not re- turned, for this is not customary when a cross-cousin betrothal is dissolved. We have also seen that the be- trothal between Kalogusa and Dabugera never resulted in marriage. But in my opinion both these failures, which are of recent date, were largely due to the subversive in- fluence of the white man on native custom.

In the foregoing sections we have given an account of the various inducements to marriage and of the two modes of contracting it. In the next chapter we shall pass to a description of the phases of wedded life itself, and of the sociological features of marriage as an institu- tion.


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Husband and wife in the Trobriands lead their common life in close companionship, working side by side, sharing certain of the household duties, and spending a good deal of their leisure with each other, for the most part in excellent harmony and with mutual appreciation. We have already visited a native household, while taking a general survey of the relations between the sexes, and have gained this impression from our preliminary inspec- tion. With our present greater knowledge of Trobriand sociology, and better understanding of sexual matters, we must now reconsider the subject of the personal relations between husband and wife.


HUSBAND AND WIFE AS COMPANIONS

We left the young couple starting their common life in the hut of the bridegroom's parents j here they remain until the protracted series of marriage gifts and counter- gifts, and the redistribution of every one of these among more distant relatives, has been completed. Only about the time of the next harvest do they build their own home 3 until then they have to spend a protracted "honey-

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moon" under the parental roof. This must seem a most unsatisfactory state of affairs to the European reader. But he must avoid drawing too close a parallel to our own conditions. The young people have left the pas- sionate stages of their life together behind them in the bukumatulay and the initial months of matrimony, on which they now enter, are not of predominantly sexual interest to them. Now it is the change in their social status, and the alteration which their relations undergo, both towards their own families and towards the other people in the village, which mainly preoccupy them.

Although there is no definite sexual taboo at this time, the newly wedded couple probably think less of love- making during the stage which corresponds to our honey- moon than they have done for a long time previously. I have heard this statement volunteered: "We feel ashamed in the house of our mother and father. In the bukumatula a man has intercourse with his sweetheart before they marry. Afterwards they sleep on the same bunk in the parental house, but they do not take off their garments." The young couple suffer from the embar- rassment of new conditions. The earlier nights of marriage are a natural period of abstinence.

When the pair move on to their own hut, they may or may not share the same bunk 5 there seems to be no rule in this matter. Some of my native authorities specifically informed me that married couples always sleep in the same bed at first, but later on they separate and come together only for intercourse. I suspect, however,

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that this is rather a piece of cynical philosophy than a statement of accepted usage.

It must be remembered that it is impossible to get direct information from any man concerning his own conjugal lifej for in this matter a very strict etiquette has to be observed. In speaking to a husband the slightest allusion to this must be avoided. Nor is any reference allowed to their common sexual past, nor to the woman's previous love adventures with other men. It would be an unpardonable breach of etiquette were you to men- tion, even unwittingly and in passing, the good looks of a wife to her husband: the man would walk away and not come near you for a long time. The Trobriander's grossest and most unpardonable form of swearing or insult is Kwoy um kwava (copulate with thy wife). It leads to murder, sorcery, or suicide (see ch. xiii, sec. 4).

There is an interesting and, indeed, startling contrast between the free and easy manner which normally obtains between husband and wife, and their rigid propriety in matters of sex, their restraint of any gesture which might suggest the tender relation between them. When they walk, they never take hands or put their arms about each other in the way, called kayfafa^ which is permitted to lovers and to friends of the same sex. Walking with a married couple one day, I suggested to the man that he might support his wife, who had a sore foot and was limping badly. Both smiled and looked on the ground in great embarrassment, evidently abashed by my im- proper suggestion. Ordinarily a married couple walk one behind the other in single file. On public and festival

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occasions they usually separate, the wife joining a group of other women, the husband going with the men. You will never surprise an exchange of tender looks, loving smiles, or amorous banter between a husband and wife in the Trobriands.

To quote a terse statement of the case made by one of my informants: "A man who puts his arm round his wife on the baku (central place of the village, i.e. in public) 5 a man who lies down beside his wife on his yam- house platform — he is a fool. If we take hold of our wife by the hand — ^we act as fools. If a husband and wife catch each other's lice on the haku — that is correct" (see pi. 25), With the possible exception of the last point, it will be conceded that married couples in the Trobriands push their etiquette to a point which would seem unnaturally exaggerated and burdensome to us.

This punctilio, as we know, does not preclude good- humoured familiarity in other respects. Husband and wife may talk and exchange banter in public as long as any allusion to sex is rigidly excluded. Generally speak- ing, husband and wife remain on excellent terms, and show a marked liking for each other's company. In Omarakana, Oburaku, Sinaketa, and in the many other places where I became intimately acquainted with the domestic life of the people, I found the majority of couples united by unwavering sexual attachment or by real congeniality of temperament. Kalogusa and his wife, to take an instance from among friends already mentioned, I found as good comrades after two years of marriage as in the days of courtship. And Kuwo'igu, the wife of

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my best informant and chief favourite, Tokulubakiki, made him a good mate, for the two were well-matched in looks, in dignity, in decency of character and in sweet- ness of temper (see pi. 26). Mitakata and his wife Orayayse, before their divorce, Towese'i and Ta'uyaj Namwana Guya'u and Ibomala were all, in spite of occa- sional differences, excellent friends and companions. Be- tween older couples also a real affection is sometimes found. The chief, To'uluwa, for instance, was genuinely attached to his wife, Kadamwasila. But affection, in some cases, is not sufficient to stand against the stress of cir- cumstance. Thus Mitakata and Orayayse, an exemplary couple when I first knew them in 191 5, were forced apart by the quarrel between the husband and the wife's kins- man, Namwana Guya'u (ch. i, sec. 2). Two of the finest looking people whom I knew in the Trobriands, Tomeda of Kasana'i, and his wife, Sayabiya, whom I had supposed most tenderly attached during my first visit, were already divorced on my return. But the existence of attachments lasting into old age shows that conjugal affection in the Trobriands can be real, even though perhaps it is not always deep.

I seldom witnessed quarrels or heard bad language among married people. If a woman is a shrew {uriweri) and the husband not sufficiently dominated to bear the fact meekly, or vice versa^ marriage is so easily dissolved that there is hardly ever an unsuccessful match which survives the first outbreak long. I can remember only two or three households, where relations between husband and wife were outwardly and chronically strained. Two married

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people in Oburaku frequently indulged in lengthy- quarrels, to such a degree that the matter became a serious nuisance to me and disturbed my field-work. As their hut was next door to my tent/ I could hear all their do- mestic differences — it almost made me forget that I was among savages and imagine myself back among civilized people. MorovatOj a reliable informant and friend of mine, was ordered about by his wife and badly henpecked, and I could cite perhaps one more really unfortunate marriage in Sinaketa. That there are fewer matches in which the man, and not the woman, is the aggressor in the quarrel is probably due to the fact that it is a rather more serious loss to a man to break up a good home than it is to a woman (see next chapter). A couple living in Liluta used to have difficulties owing to the man's aggressive and jealous temper. Once, when he scolded and ill-treated his wife very brutally for making kula (ceremonial ex- change) of aromatic wreaths of the hutia flower with another man, she went away to her own village. I saw an embassy of several men come from the husband to the wife, bringing her reconciliation presents (lula). This was the only case of wife-beating which actually occurred during my stay in Kiriwina, and it was done in a fit of jealousy.


ADULTERY AND SEXUAL JEALOUSY

Jealousy, with or without adequate reason, and adultery are the two factors in tribal life which put most strain on the marriage tie. In law, custom and public opinion,

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sexual appropriation is exclusive. There is no lending of wives, no exchange, no waiving of marital rights in favour of another man. Any such breach of marital fidelity is as severely condemned in the Trobriands as it is in Christian principle and European lawj indeed the most puritanical public opinion among ourselves is not more strict. Need- less to say, however, the rules are as often and as easily broken, circumvented, and condoned as in our own society.

In the Trobriands the norms are strict, and though deviations from them are frequent, they are neither open nor, if discovered, unatonedj they are certainly never taken as a matter of course.

For example, in October, 191 5, during one of the chief's long absences overseas, the village of Omarakana was put under the usual taboo. After sunset, no people were supposed to leave their houses, no young men from the neighbourhood were allowed to pass through, the village was deserted save for one or two old men who had been appointed to keep watch. Night after night, when I was out in search of information, I found the streets empty, the houses shut, and no lights to be seen. The village might have been dead. Nor could I get anyone from Omarakana or the neighbourhood to come to my tent. One morning before I was up, a great com- motion arose at the other end of the village, and I could hear loud quarrelling and screaming. Startled, I hurried to make inquiries and was able to find one or two of my special friends in the angry, vociferating crowd, who told me what had occurred. Tokwaylabiga, one of the less

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noble sons of To'uluwa, the chief, who had not accom- panied his father, had left Omarakana on a visit. Re- turning before he was expected, he was told that his wif e^ Digiyagaya, had slept in his absence with another son of To'uluwa, Mwaydayle, and that they had that very morn- ing gone together to the gardens, the woman taking her water-bottles as a pretext. He ran after them and, according to gossip, found them under compromising conditions, though the real facts will never be known. Tokwaylabiga, not a very bloodthirsty man, vented his passion and revenged himself on his wife by smashing all her water-bottles. Obviously a philosopher like M. Bergeret, he did not want to cause any serious trouble, and yet was not willing to suppress his injured feelings alto- gether. The commotion which had attracted my attention was the reception given to husband and wife on their re- turn to the village 5 for the taboo had been broken, and all the citizens were out taking sides with one party or the other. The same evening I saw the outraged husband sitting beside his wife in perfect harmony.^

Another case of adultery has been previously men- tioned in the account of Namwana Guya'u's expulsion. Rightly or wrongly, he suspected his father's nephew and heir, Mitakata, of having committed adultery with his wife, Ibomala. But he also did not push his conjugal vindictiveness beyond bringing the case before the white magistrate, and after he left the capital, he and his wife

1 Another case of breach of the sexual taboo imposed on the village during the chiefs absence has been described in Argonauts of the West" em Facile, p. 484. See also pp. 205-6 of that book.

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^ere to be seen together in his own village apparently ■on excellent terms.

There are more serious cases of conjugal infidelity on record, however. In a small village near Omarakana, there lived a man called Dudubile Kautala, who died in 191 6, apparently of old age, and whose funeral I at- tended. I remember his wife, Kayawa, as a terrible old iiag, shrivelled like a mummy and smeared all over with grease and soot as a sign of mourning^ and I can still feel the dreadful atmosphere pervading her little widow's cage, where I paid her a visit soon after her bereavement. History tells us, however, that once she was fair and tempting, so that men were driven to suicide for her. Molatagula, chief of a neighbouring village, was among those who succumbed to her beauty. One day, when the husband had gone to procure fish from a lagoon village, the love-sick chieftain entered Kayawa's house knowing her to be indoors — a gross breach of usage and manners. The story runs that Kayawa lay asleep naked upon her bed, offering a most alluring sight to the intruder, as the natives somewhat crudely put it. He approached her and took advantage of her sleep and helplessness, without, says my version, still gallantly partial to the lady, any connivance on her part. But when the husband returned, panting under a load of fish, he found them together. Both were undressed and there was more besides to com- promise them. The adulterer tried to carry it off with effrontery, and said he had only come to fetch some fire. But the evidence was against him, and when the husband seized an axe, the offender tore a big hole in the thatch

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and escaped. Public opinion was unfavourable and the villagers insulted and ridiculed Molatagula. So he took some of the fish poison which is, as a matter of fact, the resource of those who wish to leave a loop-hole in the suicide forced upon them. He was, in fact, saved by emetics, and lived in all honour and good health for some time afterwards.

A more tragic story is that told in Omarakana about a man called Taytapola, belonging to a generation now passed away. He caught his wife Bulukwau'ukwa in the very act of adultery with Molukwayawa, a man of the same village. The adulterer succeeded in making his escape. The husband pursued him- spear in hand, but failing to overtake him, came back to his hut and blew the conch shell. His maternal kinsmen {yeyold) rallied round him 5 and they all repaired to the adversary's end of the village, where they accused the culprit and insulted him in front of his sub-clan. A village fight ensued, the two principals facing each other, each supported by his kinsmen. The offender was speared and died. In such a case, the attack was probably concentrated on him per- sonally, and the defence of the wrongdoer lacked the impetus of conviction.

Kouta'uya, a chief of the compound village of Sinaketa, went on a kula expedition to Gumasila.^ One of his wives, Bogonela, had a lover, by name Kaukweda Guya'u. Both men are still alive and well known to me. The eldest wife of the absent chief, Pitaviyaka, was suspicious

1 He and his sailings are familiar to readers of Argonauts of the JVest- em Pacific*

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of her fairer companion and watched her. Hearing a noise one night, she went to Bogonela's hut and found the two lovers together. A great scandal broke out in the village. The guilty wife was publicly harangued and insulted by the female relatives of her husband: "You like carnal pleasures too muchj you are too fond of male charms." Bogonela did as the custom and ideal of per- sonal honour dictated. In her best attire and adorned with all her valuable ornaments, she climbed a tall coconut palm on the central place of the village. Her little daughter, Kaniyaviyaka, stood under the tree and cried. Many people were assembled. She commended her child to the care of the eldest wife and jumped from the tree. She was killed on the spot.

There are many such stories which prove the existence of strong passions and complex sentiments among the natives. Thus a man of Sinaketa named Gumaluya was married to Kutawouya, but fell in love with Ilapakuna, and entered into a regular liaison with her. His wife refused to cook for him or to bring him water, so he had to receive these from a married sister. One evening, at the time when a village is socially astir with families sitting over their supper or gossiping round the fire, Kutawouya made a scene in public, and her scolding rang right through the village: "You are too fond of dissi- pation j you are in a constant state of sexual excitement j you never tire of copulation" j these were fragments of her speech, retailed to me in a vividly coloured narrative. She goaded herself into a fury, and insulted the man in such shocking words that he also became blinded by pas-

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sion, and seized a stick and beat her into senselessness. Next day she committed suicide by taking the gall-bladder of the soka fish (a species of globe-fish), a poison which acts with lightning rapidity.

Isakapu, a fine-looking young woman, virtuous and hard-working, was, if we are to believe the testimony of historical gossip, quite faithful to her husband, yet wrong- fully suspected by him. One day, returning home after a prolonged absence, he fell into a fury of jealousy 3 he accused and insulted her in a loud voice, and beat her mercilessly. She wept and lamented, crying: "I am sore all over, my head aches, my back aches, my buttocks ache. I shall climb a tree and jump down." A day or two after the quarrel, she adorned herself, climbed a tree and cried aloud to her husband: "Kabwaynaka, come here. Look at me as I see you. I never committed adultery. You beat and insulted me without reason. Now I shall kill myself." The husband tried to reach her in time to stop her, but when he was half-way up the tree, she threw herself down and thus ended her life.

For some reason Bolobesa, one of the wives of Numa- kala, the predecessor of the present chief of Omarakana, left her husband for a time and returned to her own vil- lage, Yalumugwa. Her maternal uncle, Gumabudi, chief of that village, sent her back to her husband. She refused to go and turned back again half-way, although, I was told, she quite intended to return to her husband ulti- mately. Her uncle insisted, and insulted her so grossly that she committed suicide.

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to leave her husband j or, in the last quoted incident, to return to him. In each, she was evidently prevented from adopting this easy solution by some strong attachment, or by amour frofre and a sense of personal honour. Death was preferable to life in the village where she had been dishonoured, preferable too to life in any other village. It was unbearable to live with the man, and impossible to live without him, a state of mind which, though it might seem incredible among savages whose sexual life is so easy and carnal, yet can exercise real influence on their married life. v

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We now come to the most remarkable and, one might say, sociologically sensational feature of Trobriand mar- riage. It is so important that I have already had to anticipate my statement of it several times. Marriage puts the wife's family under a permanent tributary obli- gation to the husband, to whom they have to pay yearly contributions for as long as the household exists. From the moment when they signify by the first gift that they accept the marriage, they have to produce, year after year by their own labour, a quantity of yams for their kins- woman's family. The size of the offering varies with the status of both partners, but covers about half the annual consumption in an average household.

When, after their "honeymoon" in the boy's parental house, the couple set up for themselves, they have to erect a yam-store as well as a dwelling-hut, and the former,

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as we know, will stand in the inner ring facing the latter. The yam-house has a ceremonial compartment, contained between the beams of a square well, and into this the annual contribution of the wife's family is regularly stowed at harvest. At the same time the master of the new household is himself delivering a large quantity of yams to his own sister or female relatives. He keeps for himself only the inferior tubers, stowed under the thatch in the top compartment and in the inferior yam-houses, sokfimiyfa. He also produces his own seed yams and all other vegetables: peas, pumpkins, taro and viya.

Thus everyone keeps back a fraction of his garden- yield for himself. The rest goes to his female relatives and their husbands. When a boy is young, his duty is to provide for his nearest female relative, his mother. Later on, he has to maintain his sister when she marries j or perhaps a maternal aunt, or a maternal aunt's daughter, if these have no nearer male kinsmen to provide for them.

There are several types of garden, each of a different nature and with a different name. There are the early gardens, kaymugwa^ planted with mixed crops, which begin to yield new food after the last year's harvest has been exhausted. This keeps the household going until the new, main harvest has begun. And there is the taro garden, tafofu.. Both of these every family makes for its own use. Then there is the main garden, kaymatay the yield of which is chiefly devoted to the supply of the female relatives. All that the man produces for his own use is called by the generic term taytumwala; what he

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grows for his women-folk and their husbands is called uriguhu.

The harvest of the main gardens inaugurates a long and elaborate series of activities, associated with the oflFer- ing of annual gifts. The members of each household — for digging is always done en famille — repair to their own garden-plot within the large, communal enclosure. The yams of the small variety, called taytUy which are by far the most important of all native vegetables, are then dug up by means of pointed sticks and carried to a shady arbour {kaUmomyo) made of poles and yam vine, where the family group sit down and carefully clean the dug-up tubers, shaking the earth from them and shaving off the hairs with sharpened shells. Then a selection is made. The best yams are placed in a large conical heap in the middle, and this is the urigubu yield (see pi. 27). The rest are stowed away in the corners in less regular and much smaller heaps. The main heap is constructed with almost geometrical precision, with the best yams carefully distributed all over its surface, for it will remain in the little shed for some time, to be admired by people from the village and neighbouring communities. All this part of the work, which, as can easily be seen, has no utili- tarian value, is done eagerly, with interest and con amorey under the stimulus of vanity and ambition. The chief pride of a Trobriander is to gain renown as a "master- gardener" {tokway-bagula) . And to achieve this, he will make great efforts and till many plots in order to produce a considerable nunAer of heaps with a large quantity of

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yams in each. It must also be remembered that the mar- riage gift is the chief and most ostentatious product of the garden work.

In about a week or a fortnight, the taytu (small yams) are brought in from the gardens to the village. The owner then engages a number of helpers — men, women, and children — to carry the gift to his sister's husband, perhaps right at the other end of the district (pi. 28). These put on semi-festive dress (see pi. 61), paint their faces, adorn themselves with flowers and set out in a merry crowd J this is a time for gaiety and rejoicing. The carrier parties walk about all over the gardens, inspect and admire or criticize the crops. Perhaps a man, through special luck or excess of zeal in labour, has an outstandingly good yield, and the renown {buturd) of this has spread. Or there may be a famous master-gardener in the village, and his crops have to be viewed and compared with his previous achievements. Sometimes a village community, or several of them, agree to have a kayasa (competitive) harvest, and all strive td the utmost to do themselves and their community credit. The rivalry is so strong that in old days there was seldom a kayasa harvest without a war, or at least fights, to follow.

The gardens have a picturesque and festive appearance at this time. The uprooted heaps of taytu vine litter the soil with large, decorative leaves, shaped like those of the fig or of the grape. Among them groups of people are seated cleaning the yams and arranging them, while gay parties of sightseers come and go through the welter of leaves. The copper-colour of their bodies, the red and

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gold of the girls' gala petticoats, the crimson of the hibiscus, the pale yellow pandanus, and the green of the garlands of trailing foliage, catching at limb or breast, make up a half Bacchic, half idyllic South Sea pastoral.

After they have rested and admired the gardens, the crowd of carriers engaged for the occasion repair to the owner's plot. There the yams are dealt out and measured with a standard basket. For each basketful, a small petal is torn oflF a cycas leaf. Each tenth petal is left standing, to mark the tithe. For a big plot, several cycas leaves may have to be used. The carriers then proceed to the recipient's village, men and women mixing together, with jokes and laughter. The owner supplies them with dainties on the road: cocoa-drinks to quench their thirst, betel-nut as a stimulant, succulent bananas to refresh them. The village is entered at high speedy the men run ahead, pandanus petals streaming from their armlets, and the women follow closely. As they come among the houses, a collective litany is shouted, the fore-runner re- peating a series of meaningless traditional words very quickly at the top of his voice: ^^Bomgoyy yakakoyy siyaloy . . ." while the whole crowd thunder back in unison a loud and strident "Yah." Then in front of the recipient's yam-house, they build the yams into a circular heap, quite as fine as the one made before in the garden (pi. 29). It is only after a few days that the next cere- monial event takes place, when the vegetables are re- moved to the inside of the yam-house.

Returning now to the sociological and economic im- portance of the annual marriage endowment, it has very

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considerable effect not only on the marriage institution itself, but on the whole economy and constitution o£ the tribe. Looked at from the point of view of the recipient, it is clear that every man has to guide his marital choice according to his needs, and to his prospective wife's en- dowment. For he will be dependent, not only on his own industry and capacity, but also on that of his rela- tives-in-law. A fortune-hunter will lay siege to a girl who is the only sister of several brothers — ^the very ex- istence of whom would at once cool the ardour of a Euro- pean with a similar end in view. Only a man who could face destitution with equanimity would court a girl who had several sisters and but a single brother. As a man's wife bears sons and they grow up, he acquires as it were home-made relatives-in-law — for in a matrilineal society children are naturally classed with relatives-in-law — and their first duty is to provide for the parental household. Ordinarily the husband receives the main part of his wife's endowment from one relative-in-law only 5 but in the case of a chief or a man of importance, though one man will nominally be responsible, many others will co-operate with him to provide a suitable gift. Even a commoner, however, receives, besides the urigubu from his chief donor, a number of smaller gifts named kovisi or tay- tufeta from his wife's other relatives. They are all presented at harvest time and consist of several baskets of yams and other vegetables.

A man also receives from his relatives-in-law various services, given as occasion demands. They have to assist him when he builds a house or canoe, arranges for a

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fishing expedition, or takes part in one of the public fes- tivals. In illness, they must keep watch over him against sorcerers, or carry him to some other place where he hopes to get better. In feuds or in other emergencies he may, given certain circumstances, command their services. Finally, after his death, the bulk of mortuary duties will fall upon them. Only from time to time has the man to repay the annual services of his relatives-in-law by a gift of valuables — such occasional gifts being called youlo.

The most interesting question about this institution of annual harvest gifts, and the most difficult to under- stand, is this: what are the legal, social, or psychological forces which impel a man to give freely and liberally year after year, and to strain his working power to the utmost in so doing? The answer is: tribal custom and personal pride. There are no definite punishments to enforce this dutyj those who neglect it merely sink in the public esteem and have to bear public contempt.

A Trobriander is extremely ambitious and there are two points at which his ambition is specially sensitive. One of them is his family pride. A man's sister is his nearest relation, and her honour, her position and her dignity he identifies with his own. The other point of honour is concerned with food supply. Scarcity of food, hunger, lack of superabundance are considered very shameful indeed/ Thus, when it is necessary to uphold the honour of his family by providing his sister with food, a Trobriander, unless he is entirely devoid of de-

1 For this psychology of food honour, compare Argonauts of the West' em Pacific, esp. ch. vi, and Crime and Custom.

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cency and morality, works with a will. When his sister's husband is a man of higher rank than himself, then all the weight of the latter's prestige is added to the stimulus of ambition 3 and if the husband is of a rank lower than himself, then the sister's status must be the more en- hanced. In short, the sense of what is right, the pressure of public opinion, and inequalities of rank in either direc- tion, produce strong psychological incentives which only in very rare and exceptional cases fail in their effect.

From the point of view of tribal economy, this system of annual marriage endowment introduces extraordinary elements of complication: there is all the additional work associated with display and ceremonial offering j there is the sorting, cleaning, and arrangement of the heaps j there is the building of an arbour. In addition there is the work of transport, which is sometimes very considerable j for a man has to make his garden in the place where he lives and to transport the produce to his brother-in-law's village, perhaps six or eight miles away at the other end of the district. Sometimes, where the distance is excep- tionally great, a few hundred basketf uls of yams have to be carried in relays to a coastal village, transported thence by canoe, and afterwards carried again. It is easy to see the enormous amount of waste involved in all this. But if a benevolent white reformer, and there are, alas, many such at work even in the Trobriands, tried to break down the native system, the good would be very doubtful and the harm most certain. In general, the destruction of any tribal custom is subversive of order and morals. And

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more than this: if we examine the roundabout methods of native economy more closely, we see that they provide a powerful incentive to industrial efficiency. If he worked just to satisfy his own immediate wants, and had only the spur of directly economic considerations, the native, who has no means of capitalizing his surplus, would have no incentive to produce it. The deep-rooted motives of ambition, honour, and moral duty have raised him to a relatively high level of efficiency and organization which, at seasons of drought and scarcity, allows him to produce just enough to tide over the calamity.

In this extraneous economic endowment of households, we see again the dual workings of father-right and matriliny. The husband is only partially the head of the household 3 he is also only partially its provider. His wife's brother, who according to tribal law remains the guardian of the wife and her children, has heavy economic duties towards the household. Thus there is an economic counterpart to the wife's brother's interference with household affairs. Or in other words, the husband, through his marriage, acquires an economic lien on his male relatives-in-law, while they, in exchange for their services, retain a legal authority over the wife and her children. This, of course, is a formulation in abstract terms of the state of affairs as the sociologist sees it, and contains no hypothesis as to the relative priority in time or importance of father-right and mother-right. Nor does it represent the point of view of the natives, who would be incapable of producing such an abstract formula.

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POLYGAMY OF CHIEFS

Monogamy is so much the rule among the Trobri- anderSj that our treatment of their marriage customs has, so far, assumed the existence of one wife only. In a way this is not misleading, since if a man has several wives, all that has been said refers to each union separately. But a few supplementary notes must be added on plurality of wives. Polygamy (vilayawa) is allowed by custom to people of higher rank or to those of great importance, such as, for instance, the sorcerers of renown. In certain cases, indeed, a man is obliged to have a great number of wives by virtue of his position. This is so with every chief, that is to say, every headman of high rank who exercises an over-rule in a more or less extended district. In order to wield his power and to fulfil the obligations of his position, he must possess wealth, and this in Trobriand social conditions is possible only through plu- rality of wives.

It is a very remarkable fact in the constitution of the tribe of which we are speaking, that the source of power is principally economic, and that the chief is able to carry out many of his executive functions and to claim certain of his privileges only because he is the wealthiest man in the community. A chief is entitled to receive tokens of high respect, to command observance and require services 5 he can ensure the participation of his subjects in war, in any expedition and in any festival 5 but he needs to pay

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heavily for all these things. He has to give great feasts and finance all enterprises by feeding the participants and rewarding the chief actors. Power in the Trobriands is essentially plutocratic. And a no less remarkable and unexpected feature of this system of government is that, although the chief needs a large revenue, there is nothing of the sort directly attached to his office: no substantial tributes are paid him by the inhabitants as from subject to chief. The small annual offerings or tribute in special dainties — ^the first fish caught, vegetable primitiae, special nuts and fruits — are by no means a source of revenue j in fact the chief has to repay them at full value. For his real income he has to rely entirely on his annual marriage contribution. This, however, in his case, is very large, for he has many wives, and each of them is far more richly dowered than if she had married a commoner.

A statement of the specific conditions will make matters clearer. Each chief has a tributary district comprising several villages — a few dozen in the case of Kiriwinaj a dozen or so in Luba or Tilataulaj one or two in the cases of some minor chiefs — and this district is tributary through marriage. Each subject community renders a considerable contribution to the chief, but only and exclu- sively in the form of a dowry, paid annually in yams. Each village — and in the case of a compound village each constituent part of it — is "owned" by a sub-clan (see ch. i, sec. 2) and ruled by the headman of that sub-clan. From every one of these sub-clans the chief takes a wife and she is, as it were, perpetual, since on her death another wife, her substitute {kaymafula)^ is immediately wed to

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him from the same sub-clan. To the dowry of this one woman, the chosen representative of the sub-clan, all its male members contribute their share, though the whole is presented collectively by the headman. Thus every man in a district works for his chief, but he works for him as for his relative-in-law, however distant.

The headman of Omarakana, and chief of Kiriwina, is supreme in rank, power, extent of influence and renown. His tributary grasp, now considerably restricted by white men and crippled by the disappearance of some villages, used to reach all over the northern half of the island and comprise about five dozen communities, villages, or sub-divisions of villages, which yielded him up to sixty wives (of whom a remnant may be seen on pi. 30). Each of these brought him in a substantial yearly income in yams. Her family had to fill one or two storehouses each year (pi. 31) containing roughly five to six tons of yams. The chief would receive from 300 to 350 tons of yams per annum.^ The quantity which he disposes of is cer- tainly sufiicient to provide enormous feasts, to pay crafts- men for making precious ornaments, to finance wars and oversea expeditions, to hire dangerous sorcerers and as- sassins — to do all, in short, which is expected of a person in power.

Thus wealth emphatically forms the basis of power, though in the case of the supreme chief of Omarakana, it is reinforced by personal prestige, by the respect due to

^ This rough computation was made for me by a trader who was en- gaged among other things in exporting yams for the mainland plantations. As I was unable to check it, it must be received with caution.

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his tabooed or holy character, and by his possession of the dreaded weather magic through which he can make or mar the prosperity of the whole country. The smaller chiefs have usually only a few villages to draw uponj the smallest merely the other component parts of their own settlement. In every case their power and status depend entirely on their privilege of polygamy and on the excep- tionally rich dowry due to a woman who marries a chief. This account though short and necessarily incomplete will yet be sufficient to indicate the enormous and mani- fold influence of marriage and polygamy on the consti- tution of power and on the whole of social organizatioa in the Trobriands.^


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Turning now to the domestic aspect of polygamy, let us consider the steps by which a chief acquires his several wives. It will be best to take a specific instance j that of To'uluwa, for example. He began his sexual life in the ordinary way, passing through the stages of complete freedom, then of a liaison in the hukumatulay and finally of a permanent attachment. His first choice fell on Kadamwasila, of the clan of Lukwasisiga, the sub-clan Kwaynama of Osapola village (see pi. 4 and diag. in ch. iv, sec. 5). It was quite a suitable match, for this sub-

1 1 cannot enter here more deeply into the political nature of chieftain- ship; I have treated the subject somewhat more fully elsewhere {Argo- nauts, ch. ii, sec. v, pp. 62-70). Nor can I deal in extenso with the eco- nomic aspect of power; this has been examined in "The Primitive Eco- nomics of the Trobriand Islanders," Economic Journal, March, 1921.

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clan is the very one from which a Tabalu chief ought to choose his principal wife. The girl must have been very good-looking, and she certainly was a "real lady," possess- ing charm, dignity, and simple honesty. The two were deeply attached to each other and remained soj and the union was blessed by five boys and a girl, the youngest child. I have called Kadamwasila "the chief's favourite wife," meaning by that that theirs was a union of love, a real companionship, and undoubtedly in its early years, a passionate relation. The chief, however, even before his accession, took to himself other wives, each from one of the communities which have to supply him with an annual contribution. It often happens that when a chief's wife dies, the community from which she came supplies the heir apparent, instead of the actual chief himself, with a girl who counts as substitute for the deceased. To'uluwa had become possessed of three or four wives of this kind, when his elder brother and predecessor died. Then he inherited the late chief's widows, who auto- matically and immediately became his wives, while their children became part of his household. The majority of the widows were fairly old, some having passed through the hands of three husbands. It seems that the chief would not have any obligation to live sexually with such inherited wives, but of course he could do so if he wished. Subsequently To'uluwa married four other wives, from such communities as were not represented among his com- plement at the time. The marriage of a chief does not differ from that of a commoner, except that his wife is

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brought to him by her parents openly, and that the gifts exchanged are more substantial.

At present a stop is being gradually put to the whole system of the chief's polygamy. The first administrators, benevolently conceited and megalomaniacally sensitive as all those with arbitrary power over an "inferior" race are apt to be, were not guided by any sympathetic under- standing of native custom and institutions. They did not grope, but proceeded at once to hit about them in the dark. They tried to destroy such native power as they found, instead of using it and working through it. Po- lygamy, a practice uncongenial to a European mind and indeed regarded by it as a sort of gross indulgence,, seemed a weed proper for extirpation. So the chiefs, and especially he of Omarakana, though allowed to retain such wives as they had, were forbidden to fill the place left by each death, as would have been done in olden days. This prohibition was, by the way, an arbitrary act on the part of the white Resident, since it was justified by no law or regulation of the colony.^ Now To'uluwa's wealth and influence are declining, and would already have ceased to exist if it had not been for the faithful obedience of his subjects to native custom. They were openly encouraged to forgo payment of the annual gifts, and the wives were invited to leave their husband j

1 1 am unable to say whether the Magistrate's taboo on polygamy was ever embodied in a definite statement or order, or only verbally given to the natives. But I know that chiefs and headmen have not acquired re- cently any new wives and that they not only allege, as a reason for this, a taboo from the white authorities, but they are genuinely afraid of defying this taboo, and also deeply resent it.

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but so far loyalty and tradition have prevailed. At the death of the present chief, however, a complete disor- ganization is sure to take place among the natives of the Trobriands, and is certain to be followed by a gradual disintegration of culture and extinction of the race.^

Returning to the chief's household, it is clear that his relations with his different wives cannot be the same. Three classes of these latter may be roughly distin- guished.

The first of these consists of wives acquired from his predecessor, a man much older than himself. These should be regarded as dowager tribute-bringers, who cannot be repudiated, and are living in dignity and retire- ment, but hardly exercise sexual allurement. Some of them, indeed, play an important role and enjoy a high degree of prestige. The eldest wife of To'uluwa, Boku- yoba (fourth from right on pi. 30), whom he inherited from his elder brother, has, though childless, a right of precedence in many matters, and is considered the head of the giyovila (chief's wives) whenever, for ceremonial or festival purposes or during private receptions, they act as a body. Next come Bomiyototo, Bomidabobu, and others, and there is also Namtauwa, mother of two strap- ping fellows, sons of the last chief, who take next place after To'uluwa's own sons. The chief has probably never actually lived sexually with these venerable relicts of the former regime.

The second class of wives are those whom the chief

1 Cf. the excellent analysis of such conditions in other parts of Mela- nesia in G. Pitt-Rivers's Clash of Culture, pp. 134 sq. and passim.

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married in his youth, women acquired and not inherited. There is usually one favourite among these: Kadamwasila filled this position in youth, and in her old age she was highly respected and had considerable influence. This influence was exercised directly and also indirectly through her sons, one of whom is the banished Namwana Guya'u.

The third class consists of younger women, adopted in exchange for such older ones as have died. Some of them are really pretty, for the most attractive women are al- ways chosen for the chief. The method of choice is sim- ple j the chief simply indicates which of the girls pleases him best, and, irrespective of her previous attachments, she is given to him. With these younger women their husband unquestionably has sexual intercourse, but the same degree of intimacy and companionship as with the wives of his youth does not, as a rule, obtain.

The latest acquisition of To'uluwa, Ilaka'ise (second from right on pi. 30, and on pi. 31) is one of the best- looking girls in the Trobriands. But the chief is seldom seen in her company. Isupwana (pi. 18), the eldest of the third class of acquisitions, really stands on the border- line between the second and the last category. She is the present favourite of the chief, and is often to be seen with him in the garden, or on visits, or in front of his personal hut. But he always used to prefer to take his meals at the house of Kadamwasila during her life-time, and — apart from his own personal hut — made it his home.

The outward relations of the chief's wives towards each other are noticeably good. Nor could I discover from indiscreet village gossip the existence of any vio-

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lent rivalries and hatreds among them. Bokuyoba, the oldest wife, who, as has been said, enjoyed a privileged position among them, is undoubtedly popular and liked by them all. She is also supposed to keep an eye on their morals, a somewhat invidious task which always falls to the oldest wife. It will be remembered that Pitaviyaka, the first wife of Kouta'uya, one of the chiefs of Sinaketa, actually discovered an act of adultery among her col- leagues, a discovery which, as we have seen, ended so tragically in the suicide of the guilty one. In Omarakana, however, the first wife is less of a Mrs. Grundy.

Scandal reports many breaches of marital fidelity among To'uluwa's wives, especially and naturally on the part of the youngest ones. The point on which village gossip centres its most eager and malicious interest is the fact that several of the most prominent sons of the chief himself are among the adulterers. Of course, this rela- tion has not the same incestuous flavour as it would pos- sess for us, since the bodily tie between father and son is not recognized 5 but it is bad enough to scandalize the na- tives, or rather to arouse their interest by its piquancy. Ilaka'ise, the youngest wife, a girl of not more than twenty-five and, with her tall figure, soft and well-de- veloped contour, and shapely face, a model of Melane- sian beauty, has a permanent intrigue with Yobukwa'u. He is the third son of To'uluwa and Kadamwasila, and one of the finest-looking, best-mannered, and really most satisfactory fellows of my acquaintance. As the reader may remember, he has recently married a girl who is not his equal either in character or in personal charm

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(see ch. iv, sec. i). His friends smiled at the suggestion that his marriage might mean a rupture with Ilaka'ise.

Isupwana, the chief's favourite of his younger wives and a woman who has the air of a stately yet comely matron, is enamoured, among others, of Yabugibogi, a young son of the chief. This youth, though good- looking enough and endowed, according to the scandal- mongers, with great attractions for a jaded feminine taste, is perhaps the most obnoxious waster in the whole community.

Namwana Guya'u, the eldest son of Kadamwasila and his father's favourite, does not consider this fact a suffi- cient reason for being more abstemious than his brothers. He has chosen Bomawise for his mistress, the least at- tractive of the few younger wives of his father. Both before his marriage and after it, he lived in a faithful though incestuous relation with her, which only ended with his banishment.

The greatest scandal of all was caused by Gilayviyaka, the second son of Kadamwasila, a fine and intelligent native, who died soon after my first departure from the Trobriands. Unfortunately for himself, he married a very attractive girl, Bulubwaloga, who seems to have been passionately fond and very jealous of him. Before his marriage, he had an intrigue with Nabwoyuma, one of his father's wives, and did not break it off after the wed- ding. His wife suspected and spied upon him. One night, the guilty couple were caught in 'flagrante delicto in Nabwoyuma's own hut by the adulterer's wife. The alarm was given, and a dreadful public scandal ensued.

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The outraged wife left the village immediately. A great social upheaval took place in Omarakana, and a perma- nent estrangement ensued between the father and son. For, though the chief probably knows a good deal of what goes on and condones it, once a scandal becomes public, custom demands the punishment of the offenders. In olden days they would have been speared, or destroyed by sorcery or poison. Now that the chief's power is para- lysed, nothing so drastic can happen 5 but Gilayviyaka had to leave the village for some time, and after his return was always under a cloud. His wife never returned to him. The chief's wife remained with a stain on her char- acter, and in great disfavour with her husband.

I heard many other items of scandalous gossip which space forbids me to retail. It is sufficient to say that the behaviour of the eldest sons of Kadamwasila is typical. The chief's other male children seem to have no such permanent intrigues with special wives, but they are not held in greater public esteem because of that, since they are known to take any opportunity of a temporary affair with any one of their father's wives. Nowadays, when the law and the moral pretence of the white rule have done much to rot away the real morality and sense of what is right among the natives, all these inter-family adulteries are committed much more openly and shame- lessly. But, even in the old days, as some of my more ancient informants told me with a reminiscent smile, the young wives of an old chief would never suffer a sad lot in resignation, and would always seek comfort, with dis-

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cretion, but not without success. Polygamy in the Tro~ briands was never a cruel and inhuman institution.

In this chapter we have discussed marriage in its do- mestic aspect, and in the aspect of the economic and legal obligations which it imposes on the wife's family with regard to the household. Finally we have discussed the effect on public and political life which it exerts through the fact of the chief's polygamy. In the next chapter we shall see what light is thrown on marriage in the Tro- briands by the modes of its dissolution through divorce and death.


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CHAPTER VI

DIVORCE AND THE DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE BY DEATH

The nature of matrimonial bonds reveals itself in their breaking in life by divorce, as it does also in their disso- lution by death. In the first instance we can observe the strain to which they are submitted j we can see where they are strong enough to resist and where they most easily yield. In the second we can estimate the strength of the social ties and the depth of personal sorrow by their ex- pression in the ceremonial of mourning and burial.


DIVORCE

Divorce, called by the natives vaypaka (yay = mar- riage 5 faka^ from faykiy to refuse), is not infrequent. Whenever husband and wife disagree too acutely, or whenever bitter quarrels or fierce jealousy makes them chafe too violently at the bond between them, this can be dissolved — provided the emotional situation does not lead instead to a more tragic issue (see sec. 2 of the pre-» vious chapter). We have seen why this solution, or rather dissolution, of the difiiculty is a weapon used by the woman rather than the man. A husband very seldom repudiates his wife, though in principle he is entitled to

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do so. For adultery, he has the right to kill her 5 but the usual punishment is a thrashing, or perhaps merely re- monstrance or a fit of the sulks. If he has any other se- rious grievance against her, such as bad temper or laziness, the husband, who is little hampered by marriage ties, easily finds consolation outside his household, while he still benefits by the marriage tribute from his wife's relatives.

There are, on the other hand, several instances on rec- ord of a woman leaving her husband because of ill-treat- ment or infidelity on his part, or else because she had become enamoured of someone else. Thus, to take a case already described, when Bulubwaloga caught her husband, Gilayviyaka, m flagrante delicto with his father's wife, she left him and returned to her family (see ch. v, sec. 5). Again, a woman married to Gomaya, the ne'er- do-well successor to one of the petty chiefs of Sinaketa, left him because, in his own words, she found him an adulterer and also "very lazy." Bolobesa, the wife of the previous chief of Omarakana, left him because she was dissatisfied or jealous, or just tired of him (ch. v, sec. 2). Dabugera, the grand-niece of the present chief, left her first husband because she discovered his infidelities and found him, moreover, not to her taste. Her mother, Ibo'una, the chief's grand-niece, took as a second husband one Iluwaka'i, a man of Kavataria and at that time inter- preter to the resident magistrate. When he lost his po- sition she abandoned him, not only, we may presume, because he was less good-looking without his uniform, but also because power attracts the fair sex in the Trobriands

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as elsewhere. These two ladies of rank display an exact- ing taste in husbands, and indeed the fickleness of those privileged by birth has become proverbial in the Tro- briands: "She likes the phallus as a woman of guya^u (chief) rank does."

But among people of lower rank, also, there are many instances of a woman leaving her husband simply be- cause she does not like him. During my first visit to the Trobriands, Sayabiya, a fine-looking girl, bubbling over with health, vitality, and temperament, was quite happily married to Tomeda, who was a handsome, good-natured and honest, but stupid man. When I returned, she had .gone back to live in her village as an unmarried girl, simply because she was tired of her husband. A very good-looking girl of Oburaku, Bo'usari, had left two husbands, one after the other, and, to judge from her intrigues, was looking for a third. Neither from her, nor from the intimate gossip of the village, could I get any good reason for her two desertions, and it was ob- vious that she simply wanted to be free again.

Sometimes extraneous conditions, more especially quar- rels between the husband and the wife's family, lead to divorce. Thus as one result of the quarrel between Namwana Guya'u and Mitakata, Orayayse, Mitakata's wife, had to leave her husband because she belonged to iiis enemy's family. In a dispute between two communi- ties, marriages are often dissolved for the same reason.

An interesting case of matrimonial misfortune which Jed to divorce is that of Bagido'u, the heir apparent of Omarakana (pi. 64). His first wife and her son died,

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and he then married Dakiya, an extremely attractive woman who bore traces of her good looks even at the somewhat mature age at which I first saw her. Dakiya's younger sister Kamwalila was married to Manimuwa, a renowned sorcerer of Wakayse. Kamwalila sickened, and her sister Dakiya went to nurse her. Then between her and her sister's husband evil things began. He made love magic over her. Her mind was influenced, and they committed adultery then and there. When, after her sister's death, Dakiya returned to her husband Bagido'u, matters were not as before. He found his food tough, his water brackish, the coconut drinks bitter, and the betel nut without a bite in it. He would also discover small stones and bits of wood in his lime pot, twigs lying about in the road where he used to pass, pieces of foreign mat- ter in his food. He sickened and grew worse and worse, for all these substances were, of course, vehicles of evil magic, performed by his enemy, the sorcerer Manimuwa, assisted in this by the faithless wife. In the meantime, his wife trysted with her leman.

Bagido'u scolded and threatened her until one day she ran away and went to live with Manimuwa, an altogether irregular procedure. The power of the chiefs being now only a shadow, Bagido'u could not use special force to bring her back 5 so he took another wife — a broad-faced, sluggish, and somewhat cantankerous person by the name of Dagiribu'a. Dakiya remained with her wizard lover, and married him. The unfortunate Bagido'u who obvi- ously suffers from consumption, a disease with which all his family are more or less tainted, attributes his ills to

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his successful rival's sorcery, even now, as he believes, active against him. This is very galling, for he has the injury of black magic added to the insult of his wife's seduction. When I came back to Omarakana in 191 8, I found my friend Bagido'u much worse. By now (1928), this man of extraordinary intelligence, good manners, and astounding memory, the last worthy depository of the family tradition of the Tabalu, is no doubt dead.

The formalities of divorce are as simple as those by which marriage is contracted. The woman leaves her husband's house with all her personal belongings, and moves to her mother's hut, or to that of her nearest ma- ternal kinswoman. There she remains, awaiting the course of events, and in the meantime enjoying full sexual freedom. Her husband, as likely as not, will try to get her back. He will send certain friends with "peace offerings" {koluluvly or lula) for the wife and for those with whom she is staying. Sometimes the gifts are rejected at first, and then the ambassadors are sent again and again. If the woman accepts them, she has to return to her husband, divorce is ended and marriage re- sumed. If she means business, and is determined not to go back to her wedded life, the presents are never ac- cepted j then the husband has to adjust himself as best he may, which means that he begins to look for another girl. The dissolution of marriage entails in no case the restitution of any of the inaugural marriage gifts ex- changed, unless, as we shall see, the divorced woman should remarry.

The girl, if she is still young enough, now resumes her prenuptial life and leads the free, untrammelled

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existence of a nakubukwabuya (unmarried girl), entering upon liaison after liaison, and living in bachelors' houses. jOne of the liaisons may lengthen out and develop into a new marriage. Then the new husband must present a valuable object {yaygu^a) to his predecessor, in recom- pense for the one given to the wife's family at the begin- ning of the first marriage. The new husband must also give another vaygu^a to his wife's relatives, and he then receives from them the first annual harvest gift — vila- kurm — and the subsequent yearly tribute in yams. It seemed to me that a divorcee was much more independ- ent of family interference in choosing her new husband than an ordinary unmarried girl. The initial gifts of food {fefe^iy etc.) are not given in the case of such a remarriage. There is, apparently, no social stigma on a girl or a man who has been married and divorced, al- though as a matter of amour frofre no one wishes to own that he or she has been abandoned by the other.

It goes without saying that the children, in case of di- vorce, always follow their mother 3 and this is no doubt another reason why divorce is less popular with men than with women. During the interim, when their mother is living as a spinster, they remain in the household of her nearest married maternal relative.


DEATH AND THE BEREAVED

When a man dies, his wife is not set free by the event. It may be said without paradox that, in a way, the strictest and heaviest shackles of marriage are laid on her after

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the real tie has been dissolved by death. Custom com- pels her to play the burdensome role of chief mourner 5 to make an ostentatious, dramatic, and extremely onerous display of grief for her husband from the moment of his demise until months, at times years, afterwards. She has to fulfil her part under the vigilant eyes of the public, jealous of exact compliance with traditional morals, and under the more suspicious surveillance of the dead man's kindred, who regard it as a special and grievous offence to their family's honour if she flags for a single moment in her duty. The same applies in a smaller degree to a widower, but in his case the mourning is less elaborate and burdensome, and the vigilance not so relentless.

The ritual in the early stages of widowhood reveals in a direct and intimate manner a most interesting complex of ideas — some very crude and quaint — concerning kin- ship, the nature of marriage, and the purely social ties between father and children. The whole mortuary ritual is, in fact, perhaps the most difficult and bewildering aspect of Trobriand culture for the investigating sociolo- gist. In the overgrowth of ceremonial, in the inextricable maze of obligations and counter-obligations, stretching out into a long series of ritual acts, there is to be found a whole world of conceptions — social, moral, and mytho- logical — the majority of which struck me as quite unex- pected and difficult to reconcile with the generally accepted views of the human attitude towards death and mourning.

Throughout this ritual, the unfortunate remains of the man are constantly worried. His body is twice exhumed 5 it is cut up 5 some of its bones are peeled out of the car-

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cass, are handled, are given to one party and then to another, until at last they come to a final rest. And what makes the whole performance most disconcerting is the absence of the real protagonist — Hamlet without the Prince of Denmark. For the spirit of the dead man knows nothing about all that happens to his body and bones, and cares less, since he is already leading a happy existence in Tuma, the netherworld, having breathed of the magic of oblivion and formed new ties (see ch. xii, sec. 5). The ritual performances at his twice-opened grave and over his buried remains, and all that is done with his relics, are merely a social game, where the various groupings into which the community has re-crystallized at his death play against each other. This, I must add with great emphasis, represents the actual contemporary view of the natives, and contains no hypothetical refer- ence to the origins or past history of this institution. Whether the dead man always had his spiritual back turned on the Trobriand mortuary ritual, or whether his spirit has gradually evaporated from it — it is not for the field-worker to decide. In this context we shall have to confine ourselves to the study of mortuary practices in their barest outline only. A complete account of them would easily fill a volume of the present size. We shall, therefore, select such features as throw light on the ties of marriage, and on the ideas of kinship and relationship 5 and even this will have to be done in a somewhat sche- matic and simplified form.^

1 Compare the brief account of these ceremonies among the Northern Massim, by Professor C. G. Seligman, The Melanesians .of British Neio Guinea.

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Let us take the death of a man of consequence in the fulness of age, leaving behind a widow, several children and brothers. From the moment of his death, the dis- tinction between his real, that is matrilineal, kinsmen iyeyola) on the one hand, and his children, relatives-in- law and friends on the other, takes on a sharp and even an outwardly visible form. The kinsmen of the deceased fall under a taboo 3 they must keep aloof from the corpse. They are not allowed either to wash or adorn or fondle or bury it 5 for if they were to touch or to come near it, pernicious influences from the body would attack them and cause their disease and death. These pernicious in- fluences are conceived in the form of a material exhala- tion, issuing from the corpse and polluting the air. It is called bwauloy a word which also designates the cloud of smoke which surrounds a village especially on steamy, calm days. The necrogenic hwauloy invisible to common eyes, appears to a witch or sorcerer as a black cloud shrouding the village. It is innocuous to strangers, but dangerous to kinsmen (ch. xiii, sec. i).

The kindred must also not display any outward signs of mourning in costume and ornamentation, though they need not conceal their grief and may show it by weeping. Here the underlying idea is that the maternal kinsmen {yeyola) are hit in their own persons 5 that each one suf- fers because the whole sub-clan to which they belong has been maimed by the loss of one of its members. "As if a limb were cut off, or a branch lopped from a tree." Thus, though they need not hide their grief, they must not parade it. This abstention from outward mourning

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extends, not only to all the members of the sub-clan be- yond the real kinsmen, but to all the members of the clan to which the dead man belonged. On the other hand, the taboo against touching the corpse applies primarily to the members of the sub-clan and especially to the actual kinsmen, to whom, of course, the temptation to touch the corpse, as an expression of love, would be strongest.

Quite different, in the native idea, is the relation of the widow, and of the children and relatives-in-law, to the dead and to his corpse. They ought, according to the moral code, to suffer and to feel bereaved. But in feeling thus they are not suffering directly j they are not griev- ing for a loss which affects their own sub-clan (dala) and therefore their own persons. Their grief is not sponta- neous like that of the veyola (maternal kinsmen), but a duty almost artificial, springing as it does from acquired obligations. Therefore they must ostentatiously express their grief, display it, and bear witness to it by outward signs. If they did not, they would offend the surviving members of the dead man's sub-clan. Thus an interest- ing situation develops, giving rise to a most strange spec- tacle: a few hours after the death of a notable, the vil- lage is thronged by people, with their heads shaven, the whole body thickly smeared with soot, and howling like demons in despair. And these are the non-kinsmen of the dead man, the people not actually bereaved. In contrast to these a number of others are to be seen in their usual at- tire, outwardly calm and behaving as if nothing had hap- pened. These represent the sub-clan and clan of the de- ceased, and are the actually bereaved. Thus by a devious

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reasoning, tradition and custom produce the reverse of what would seem natural and obvious to us or any ob- server from almost any other culture.

Among those who display their grief, it is easy to dis- tinguish several groups and grades. There is the rank and file of mourners, comprising all the people belonging to the remaining three clans j for, when a notable dies, everyone in the village community puts on mourning, except the members of his own clan. A small group is busy about the body and the grave 3 this consists of the male children and brothers-in-law of the deceased. Near- est to the corpse and plunged most deeply in the mimicry of grief are seated a few women, among whom one, the widow, is conspicuous, supported by her daughters and sisters. In this group, and it may be in that of the sons also, an observer well acquainted with these natives would be able to distinguish an interesting interplay of feigned and merely histrionic grief with real and heartfelt sorrow.


FUNERAL CEREMONIES AND THE OBLIGATIONS OF MOURNING

With this sociological scheme before us, we can now follow the sequence of event and ritual which begins automatically with a man's death. When death is seen to be approaching, the wife and children, kinsmen and relatives-in-law crowd round the bed, filling the small hut to overflowing. The consummation of death is -marked by a frantic outburst of wailing. The widow,

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who generally stands at the head of the dying man, ut- ters the first piercing shriek, to which immediately other women respond, till the village is filled with the strange harmonies of the melodious dirge. From this moment all the varied activities of the days, and even weeks, which follow will be carried on to the choral accompani- ment of a long-drawn wail which never stops for one instant. At times it swells up in violent and discordant gusts 3 then ebbs again into soft, melodious strains, mu- sically well expressing sorrow. To me, this powerful uneven stream of sound, flowing over the village and enveloping as it were all these human beings in a feeble, imbecile protest against death, became symbolic of all that was deeply human and real in the otherwise stifF, conventional, incomprehensible ritual of mourning.

First the corpse is washed, anointed, and covered with ornaments (pis. 32 and 33), then the bodily apertures are filled with coconut husk fibre, the legs tied together, and the arms bound to the sides. Thus prepared, it is placed on the knees of a row of women who sit on the floor of the hut, with the widow or widower at one end holding the head.^ They fondle the corpse, stroke the skin with caressing hands, press valuable objects against chest and abdomen, move the limbs slightly and agitate the head. The body is thus made to move and twist with slow and ghastly gestures to the rhythm of the incessant wailing. The hut is full of mourners, all intoning the melodious lamentation. Tears flow from their eyes and

1 Cf. pi. Ixv in Argonauts of the Western Pacific, where this act is re- constructed outside the hut for purposes of photography and the widow is replaced by the son.

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mucus from their noses, and all the liquids of grief are carefully displayed and smeared over their bodies or otherwise conspicuously disposed. Outside, certain women, usually relatives-in-law of the dead man, per- form a slow rhythmic dance (the vaysalt) with relics in their hands (pi. ii).

The sons in the meantime dig the grave, which in olden days was always on the central place of the village, but which now, by the white man's decree, must be on the outskirts. A few hours after death the body is laid in it, wrapped in mats, and is covered with logs, which leave a shallow space above. On this layer of logs the widow lies down to keep vigil over the corpse. Her daughter may be beside her j round the brink of the grave are her sisters, kinswomen and friends, and the other relatives- in-law of the dead man. As night draws on, the central place fills with people j for even nowadays the white man's regulations against burial in the baku are circum- vented by making a temporary grave there, or placing the corpse on the ground. Here the mourners, the kinsmen, all the villagers and many guests from far afield congre- gate to hold a most remarkable wake {yawali).

The chief mourners and kinsmen in appropriate groups keep the central position round the grave. Outside this inner ring, the villagers and guests are seated, each com- munity in a separate body, their mood and behaviour be- coming less tragic as they are farther removed from the corpse, until on the outskirts of the crowd, we find people in animated conversation, eating and chewing betel nut. The central group of mourners intones the deep wail of

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sorrow, the others sing songs, and, as the night goes on, people will stand up and recite fragments of magic in honour of the departed, chanting them over the heads of the crowd.

The body is not allowed to remain long in peace — if the weird, noisy, and discordant din of singing, wailing, and haranguing can be so described. On the following evening, the body is exhumed, and inspected for signs of sorcery (see pi. 33). Such an inspection yields most im- portant clues, as to who caused the death by witchcraft and for what motive this was done. I have assisted at this ceremony several times 5 the photograph for plate 33 was taken during the first exhumation of Ineykoya, wife of Toyodala, my best informant in Oburaku.^

Before daybreak after the first exhumation, the body is taken out of the grave, and some of the bones are re- moved from it. This anatomical operation is done by the man's sons, who keep some of the bones as relics and dis- tribute the others to certain of their relatives. This prac- tice has been strictly forbidden by the Government — another instance of the sacrifice of most sacred religious custom to the prejudice and moral susceptibilities of the "civilized" white. Yet the Trobrianders are so deeply attached to this custom that it is still clandestinely per- formed, and I have seen the jaw-bone of a man with whom I had spoken a few days before dangling from the neck of his widow (see pis. 34, 25y and 2^^).

The excision of the bones and their subsequent use as

1 For further information about the signs of sorcery, see Crime and Custom, pp. 87-91.

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relics is an act of piety 5 the process of detaching them from the putrefying corpse, a heavy, repugnant, and dis- gusting duty. The sons of the deceased are expected by custom to curb and conceal their disgust, and to suck some of the decaying matter when they are cleaning the bones. Speaking with virtuous pride they will say: "I have sucked the radius bone of my father 5 I had to go away and vomit 3 I came back and went on." After they have cleansed the bones, which is always done on the seashore, they return to the village, and the dead man's kinswomen ceremonially "wash their mouths" by giving them food and purify their hands with coconut oil. The bones are converted to various purposes, serviceable and ornamental : the skull is made into a lime pot to be used by the widow 5 the jaw-bone is turned into a neck ornament to hang on her breast 5 the radius, ulna, tibia, and some other bones are carved into lime spatulas to be used with betel and areca nut.

A curious mixed sentiment underlies this complex of customs. On the one hand, it should be the wish of the widow and children to keep a part of the beloved dead. "The relic {kayvaluha) brings the departed back to our mind and makes our inside tender." On the other hand, the use of these relics is regarded as a harsh and un- pleasant duty, as a sort of pious repayment for all the benefits received from the father. As it was explained to me: "Our mind is grieved for the man who has fed us, who has given us dainties to eat 5 we suck his bones as lime spatulse." Or again: "It is right that a child should suck the father's ulna. For the father has held

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out his hand to its excrement and allowed it to make water on to his knee" (compare similar locutions quoted in section 3 of chapter i). Thus the use of relics is at the same time a relief to the bereaved widow and chil- dren, and an act of filial piety which must be rigorously- observed.

To the dead man's maternal kinsmen (veyola) the use of his bones is strictly tabooed. If they broke this taboo they would fall ill, their bellies would swell and they might die. The contact is most dangerous when the bone is still wet with the dead man's bodily juices. When, after a few years, the bones are handed over to the kins- men, they are presented carefully wrapped in dry leaves, and are then only gingerly handled by them. They are finally deposited on rocky shelves overlooking the sea. Thus the bones pass several times from hand to hand be- fore they come to their final rest.

More distant relatives-in-law and friends of the dead man have his nails, teeth and hair, which they make into all sorts of mourning ornaments and wear as relics. The dead man's personal possessions are used in the same way, and nowadays, when the bodily relics have frequently to be concealed, this practice is very much in favour (see frontispiece).

After the second exhumation the body is buried, the wake is over, and the people disperse 5 but the widow, who, during all this time, has not stirred from her hus- band's side, nor eaten nor drunk nor stopped in her wail- ing, is not yet released. Instead she moves into a small cage, built within her house, where she will remain for

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months together, observing the strictest taboos. She must not leave the place j she may only speak in whispers j she must not touch food or drink with her own hands, but wait till they are put into her mouth j she remains closed up in the dark, without fresh air or light 5 her body is thickly smeared over with soot and grease, which will not be washed oflF for a long time. She satisfies all the neces- sities of life indoors, and the excreta have to be carried out by her relatives. Thus she lives for months shut up in a low-roofed, stuflFy, pitch-dark space, so small that with outstretched hands she can almost touch the walls on either sidej it is often filled with people who assist or comfort her, and pervaded by an indescribable atmosphere of human exhalations, accumulated bodily filth, stale food, and smoke. Also she is under the more or less active control and surveillance of her husband's matri- lineal relatives, who regard her mourning and its inherent privations as their due. When the term of her widow- hood has almost run its course — ^its length depends upon the status of her husband and varies from about six months to two years — she is gradually released by the dead man's kinsmen. Food is put into her mouth accord- ing to a ritual which gives her permission to eat with her own hands. Then, ceremonially, she is allowed to speak j finally she is released from the taboo of confinement and, still with appropriate ritual, requested to walk forth. At the ceremony of her complete release by the female veyola of the dead man, the widow is washed and anointed, and dressed in a new gaudy grass skirt in three colours. This makes her marriageable again.

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THE IDEOLOGY OF MOURNING

Throughout the rigorous ritual of mourning, in which the widow, the orphans, and to a much lesser degree the other relatives-in-law of the deceased are caught and held as in a vise, we can observe the working of certain ideas belonging to the tribal tradition of the Trobrianders. One especially, the taboo on maternal kinsmen, which forces them to keep aloof since it is both dangerous to approach the corpse and superfluous to show grief, is strikingly visible throughout the whole course of burial, exhumation, and grave-tending. The corresponding idea, that it is the imperative duty of the widow and her rela- tives to show grief and perform all the mortuary services, emphasizes the strength and the permanence of marriage bonds as viewed by tradition. It is also a posthumous continuation of the remarkable system of services which have to be given to a married man by his wife's family, including the woman herself and her children.

In the mortuary phase of these services, however, the dead man's sub-clan have to render payment more strictly and more frequently than he had to do in his life-time. Immediately after the bones have been cut out and the remains buried, the dead man's sub-clan organize the first big distribution of food and valuables, in which the widow, children, and other relatives-in-law, as well as the unre- lated mourners, are richly paid for the various services rendered in tending the corpse and digging the grave.

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Other distributions follow at stated intervals. There is one expressly for women mourners 5 one for the tenders of the grave j one for the rank and file of mourners j one, by far the largest, in which presents of valuables and enor- mous quantities of food are given to the widow and chil- dren, in so far as they, in grief and piety, have used the bones of the dead man for their lime-chewing or as orna- ments. This intricate series of distributions stretches out into years, and it entails a veritable tangle of obligations and duties 3 for the members of the deceased's sub-clan must provide food and give it to the chief organizer, the headman of the sub-clan, who collects it and then dis- tributes it to the proper beneficiaries. These, in their turn, partially at least, re-distribute it. And each gift in this enormous complex trails its own wake of counter- gifts and obligations to be fulfilled at a future date.

The ostentation with which the widow and children have to display their grief, the thickness — ^literally and metaphorically speaking — with which they put on their mourning are indeed striking 3 and the underlying com- plex psychology of these things must have become ap- parent in the above account. In the first place, it is a duty towards the dead and towards his sub-clan, a duty strongly enjoined by the code of morals and guarded by public opinion, as well as by the kinsmen. "Our tears — they are for the kinsmen of our father to see," as one of the mourners simply and directly told me. In the second place, it demonstrates to the world at large that the wife and children were really good to the dead and that they took great care of him in his illness. Lastly, and this is

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very important, it allays any suspicion of their complicity in his murder by black magic. To understand the last queer motive, one has to realize the extreme fear, the ever-vigilant suspicion of sorcery, and the unusual lack of trust in anyone at all with reference to it. The Tro- brianders, in common with all races at their culture level, regard every death without exception as an act of sorcery, unless it is caused by suicide or by a visible accident, such as poisoning or a spear thrust. It is characteristic of their idea of the bonds of marriage and fatherhood — ^which they regard as artificial and untrustworthy under any strain — that the principal suspicion of sorcery attaches al- ways to the wife and children. The real interest in a man's welfare, the real affection, the natural innocence of any attempt against him are, by the traditional system of ideas, attributed to his maternal kinsmen. His wife and children are mere strangers, and custom persists in ignor- ing any real identity of interest between them.^

How utterly this traditional view is generally at vari- ance with the economic and psychological reality, has been shown, and illustrated by many facts in chapter i, sections i and 2. For, apart from the personal attach- ment which always exists between husband and wife, father and children, it is clear that a man's children lose more at his death than do his kinsmen, who, as his heirs, always gain materially, especially in the case of a man of wealth, rank, and importance. And, in reality, the actual

1 Even this is a simplified account, one in which the ideal of native law and tradition is emphasized, as is always done by the natives themselves. The full account of native ideas about sorcery in relation to kinship and relationship by marriage will have to be postponed to a later publication.

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feelings of the survivors run their natural course inde- pendently of the mimic and official display of grief. The existence of an individual reality of thought, sentiment, and impulse, unfolding itself side by side with the con- ventional sentiment and idea contained in and imposed by a traditional pattern, is one of the most important sub- jects of social psychology — a subject on which we need more material from ethnological investigation, carried on with a good deal of detail and based upon personal knowledge of the savages observed.

In the Trobriands, the genuine sorrow of the widow and children is blurred, overlaid, and made almost un- recognizable by the histrionic display of grief. But their real feelings can be gauged by observing their behaviour at other times, especially under critical conditions. I have seen more than one case of a husband sitting night after night at his sick wife's bedside. I have seen his Jiopes surge and ebb, and unmistakable, even deep, de- spair set in as the apparent chances of survival waned. Differences are clearly distinguishable in the sorrow of ■widows and widowers, some merely conforming to cus- tom, others genuinely grieving. To'uluwa, the chief, though a rather selfish and shallow character, could not •speak about the death of Kadamwasila, his favourite wife, without visible and real emotion. Toyodala, the nicest man I knew in Oburaku (see pi. 2^2)7 was for weeks anx- iously watching his wife's illness, and hoping for her re- covery. When she died, he behaved at first like a mad- man, and then, during his mourning confinement, in which I often visited him, he wept so bitterly that his

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eyesight suffered. There is no doubt at all that the kinsmen feel the personal loss much less. On the other hand, their conventional sentiment of bereavement and realization of the maiming of their group do not leave them unaffected. But here we enter upon a problem, that of feelings and ideas relating to the solidarity of the clan, which, if followed up, would take us too far away from our subject.

The study of marriage has led us away from the study of sex in the narrower sense of the word. We have had to consider questions of social organization, and the legal, economic, and religious setting of the relation between husband and wife, parents and children. This last sub- ject, parenthood, will still occupy us in the next two chapters, before we pass to the detailed analysis of the sexual impulse in its cultural manifestations among our natives.


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CHAPTER VII

PROCREATION AND PREGNANCY IN NATIVE BELIEF AND CUSTOM

The dependence o£ social organization in a given society upon the ideas, beliefs, and sentiments current there is of primary importance to the anthropologist. Among sav- age races we often find unexpected and fantastic views about natural processes, and correspondingly extreme and one-sided developments of social organization as regards kinship, communal authority, and tribal constitution. In this chapter I shall give an account of the Trobrianders' idea of the human organism as it affects their beliefs about procreation and gestation, beliefs which are embodied in oral tradition, customs, and ceremonies, and which exer- cise a deep influence on the social facts of kinship and on the matrilineal constitution of the tribe.


THE MALE AND FEMALE ORGANISM AND THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN NATIVE BELIEF

The natives have a practical acquaintance with the main features of the human anatomy, and an extensive vocabulary for the various parts of the human body and for the internal organs. They often cut up pigs and other animals, while the custom of fost mortem dissec-

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tion of corpses, and visits among their overseas cannibal neighbours supply them with an exact knowledge of the homologies of the human and animal organism. Their physiological theories, on the other hand, are remarkably defective 3 there are many notable gaps in their knowledge about the functions of the most important organs, side by side with some fantastic and strange ideas.

Their understanding of sexual anatomy is, on the whole, limited in comparison with what they know about other parts of the human body. Considering the great interest which they take in this matter, the distinctions which they make are superficial and rough, and their terminology meagre. They distinguish and name the following parts: vagina {wila)^ clitoris {kasesa)^ penis {kwila)y testes {fuwala). They have no words to de- scribe the mons veneris as a whole, nor the labia major a and minora. The glans fenis they describe as the "point" of the penis {matala kwila) and the prepuce as the skin of the penis {kanivinela kwila). The internal female organs are called generically bam^ and this comprises the uterus and the placenta. There is no special word for the ovaries.

Their physiological views are crude. The organs, of sex serve for excretion and for pleasure. The excretive urinary processes are not associated with the kidneys. A narrow duct {wotuna) leads from the stomach directly to the bladder, from which it passes through the male and female genitals. Through this canal the water which we drink passes slowly till it is expelled, and on its way it becomes discoloured and sullied in the stomach by contact

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with excrement. For food begins to be changed into excrement in the stomach.

Their ideas about the sexual functions of the genitals are more complex and systematic, and present a sort of psycho-physiological theory. The eyes are the seat of desire and lust (magila kayta^ literally "desire of copu- lation"). They are the basis or cause (u^ula) of sexual passion. From the eyes, desire is carried to the brain by means of the wotuna (literally, tendril or creeper j in the anatomical context, vein, nerve, duct, or sinew), and thence spreads all over the body to the belly, the arms, the legs, until it finally concentrates in the kidneys. The kidneys are considered the main or middle part or trunk {tafwand) of the system. From them, other ducts (wo tuna) lead to the male organ. This is the tip or point (matalay literally eye) of the whole system. Thus, when the eyes see an object of desire they "wake up," communicate the impulse to the kidneys, which transmit it to the penis and cause an erection. Hence the eyes are the primary motive of all sexual excitement: they are "the things of copulation" 3 they are "that which makes us de- sire to copulate." In proof of this the natives say: "A man with his eyes closed will have no erection" 3 though they qualify this statement by admitting that the olfac- tory sense can sometimes replace the eyes, for "when a woman discards her grass petticoat in the dark, desire may be aroused."

The process of sexual excitement in the female is analogous. Thus the eyes, the kidneys and the sexual organs are united by the same system of wo tuna (com-

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municating ducts). The eyes give the alarm, which passes through the body, takes possession of the kidneys, and produces sexual excitation of the clitoris. Both the male and female discharge are called by the same name (jnomona or momold)^ and they ascribe to both the same origin in the kidneys, and the same function, which has nothing to do with generation, but is concerned with lubricating the membrane and increasing pleasure.

I first obtained this account of the subject from Nam- wana Guya'u and Piribomatu, the former an amateur and the latter a professional sorcerer ^ both were intelligent men and both, in virtue of their profession, were inter- ested in human anatomy and physiology. Thus it repre- sents the highest development of Trobriand knowledge and theory. I obtained similar statements in other parts of the island, and in their main outline — such as the sexual functions of the kidneys, the great importance of the eyes and the olfactory sense, and the strict parallel between male and female sexuality — all were in agree- ment.

And on the whole, it is a fairly consisteiit, and not altogether nonsensical view of the psycho-physiology of sexual libido. The drawing of a parallel between the two sexes is consistent. The indication of the three car- dinal points of the sexual system is sound, and character- istic of native canons of classification. In many subjects they distinguish these three elements: the uWlay the taf- wanay and the matala. The image is derived from a tree or a pillar or a spear: u^ula — in its literal sense the foot of the tree, the base, the foundation — has come, by ex-

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tension, to mean cause, origin, source of strength 5 taf- wanay the middle part of the trunk, also means the trunk itself, the main body of any elongated object, the length of a road 3 fnatala — originally eye, or point (as in a spear), and sometimes replaced by the word dogma or dahwanay the tip of a tree or the top of any high object — stands for the highest part, or, in more abstract metaphor, the final word, the highest expression.

The comparison as generally applied to the sexual mechanism is not, as we have said, altogether devoid of meaning, and only becomes nonsensical in ascribing a special function to the kidneys. These are regarded as a highly important and vital part of the human organism, and mainly because they are the source of the seminal fluid. Another view attributes male and female dis- charge, not to the kidneys, but to the bowels. In either case, the natives consider that something in the bowels is the actual agent of ejaculation: ipipsi motnona — "it squirts out the discharge."

Very remarkable is their entire ignorance of the physio- logical function of the testes. They are not aware that anything is produced in this organ, and leading questions as to whether the male fluid {momond) has not its source there are answered emphatically in the negative. "See, women have no testes and yet they produce momona?^ This part of the male body is said to be only an orna- mental appendage {katuhuhula) . "Indeed, how ugly would a penis look without the testes," a native aesthete will exclaim. The testes serve "to make it look proper" {hwoynd),

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Love or affection {yobwaylt) has its seat in the intes- tines, in the skin of the belly, and of the arms, and only to a lesser extent in those springs of desire, the eyes. Hence, we like to look at those of whom we are fond, such as our children, our friends, or our parents, but when this love is strong we want to hug them.

Menstruation the Trobrianders regard as a phenome- non connected with pregnancy in a vague manner: "the flow comes, it trickles, it trickles, it ebbs — it is over." They denote it simply by the word blood, buyaviy but with a characteristic grammatical peculiarity. While or- dinary bodily blood is always mentioned with the pronoun of nearest possession, which is affixed to all the parts of a human body, menstruous blood is spoken of with the same possessive pronouns as are used for ornamentation and articles of apparel (second nearest possession). Thus huyavlgUy "blood-mine" ("part of me — ^blood"), means bodily blood coming from a cut or haemorrhage 5 agu buyaviy "my blood" ("belonging to me — ^blood"), means menstruous blood.

There is no pronounced masculine dislike or dread of menstruous blood. A man will not cohabit with his wife or sweetheart during her monthly period, but he will remain in the same hut and participate in the same food, and only refrains from sleeping in the same bed. Women, during menstruation, wash themselves daily, for purposes of cleanliness, in the same large water hole from which the whole village draws its drinking water, and in which, also, males occasionally take a bath. There are no special ablutions ceremonially carried out at the end of the pe-

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riod, nor is any rite performed when a girl menstruates for the first time. The women have no special way of dressing during menstruation, except that at times they wear a longer skirt, and there is no particular modesty on the subject between the sexes.


REINCARNATION AND THE WAY TO LIFE THROUGH THE SPIRIT WORLD

The relation between menstruous blood and the for- mation of the foetus has been observed and recognized by the natives, but their ideas about it are extremely vague. Such as they are, they are so mixed up with beliefs about the incarnation of spiritual beings, that physiological process and spiritual agencies will have to be considered together in this account. Thus we shall preserve the natural sequence and perspective of native doctrine. Since the new life, in Trobriand tradition, begins with death, we shall now have to move to the bedside of a dying man, and follow the progress of his spirit till we trace him back to earthly existence again.^

The spirit after death moves to Tuma, the Island of the Dead, where he leads a pleasant existence analo- gous to the terrestrial life — only much happier. Into

1 In my article "Baloraa, the Spirits of the Dead" already quoted, I have given a short preliminary account of native beliefs concerning pro- creation. I also expressed certain opinions about primitive ignorance of paternity in general, some of which were challenged by Professor Wester- marck {History of Human Marriage, 5th edition, vol. i, pp. 290 sq.) and by Professor Carveth Read (article, "No Paternity" in the Journal of the Anthropological Institute, 1917). The fuller evidence adduced in this chapter answers certain questions of fact raised by my critics.

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the nature of this bliss we shall have to inquire in some- what more detail, for sex plays an important part in it.^ Here we are concerned with one of its features only: per- petual youth, preserved by the power of rejuvenation. Whenever the spirit {haloma) sees that bodily hair is cov- ering his skin, that the skin itself is getting loose and wrinkled, and that his head is turning grey, he simply sloughs his covering and appears fresh and young, with black locks and smooth hairless skin.

But when a spirit becomes tired of constant rejuvena- tion, when he has led a long existence "underneath" as the natives call it, he may want to return to earth again 5 and then he leaps back in age and becomes a small pre- born infant. Some of my informants pointed out that in Tuma, as on earth, there are plenty of sorcerers. Black magic is frequently practised, and can reach a spirit and make him weak, sick and tired of life 3 then, and then only, will he go back to the beginnings of his existence and change into a spirit-child. To kill a spirit by black magic or accident is quite impossible 5 his end will always mean merely a new beginning.

These rejuvenated spirits, these little pre-incarnated babies or spirit-children, are the only source from which humanity draws its new supplies of life. A pre-born infant finds its way back to the Trobriands and into the womb of some woman, but always of a woman who be- longs to the same clan and sub-clan as the spirit child itself. Exactly how it travels from Tuma to Boyowa, how it enters the body of its mother, and how there the

1 Cf. below, ch. xii, last section.

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physiological processes of gestation combine with the spirit activity, are questions on which native belief is not alto- gether consistent. But that all spirits have ultimately to end their life in Tuma and turn into unborn infants j that every child born in this world has first come into exist- ence {ibubuli) in Tuma through the metamorphosis of a spirit j that the only reason and real cause of every birth is spirit activity, are facts known to everybody and firmly believed by all.

Owing to its importance, I collected details and vari- ants of this system of beliefs with special care. The re- juvenation process is associated in a general way with sea water. In the myth which describes how humanity lost the privilege of regaining youth at will, the scene of the last rejuvenation is laid on the seashore in one of the lagoon inlets.^ In the first account of rejuvenation which I obtained in Omarakana, I was told that the spirit "goes to the beach and bathes in the salt water." Tomwaya Lakwabulo the Seer (pi. 37), who in his trances often goes to Tuma and has frequent intercourse with the spirits, told me: "The baloma go to a spring called sofiwina (literally Vashing water') j it lies on the beach. There they wash their skin with brackish water. They become to^ulatile (young men)." Likewise in the final rejuvenation, which makes them return to the infant state, the spirits have to bathe in salt water, and, when they become babies again, they go into the sea and drift. They are always spoken

1 This story is given in Myth in Primitive Psychology, pp. 80-106. The village of Bwadela, where the loss of immortality occurred, is on the west shore of the southern half of the main island.

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of as floating on drift-logs, or on the leaves, boughs, dead seaweed, sea-scum, and the other light substances which litter the surface of the sea. Tomwaya Lakwabulo says that they float all the time around the shores of Tuma,, wailing wa^ way wa. "At night I hear their wailing. I ask, 'What is it?' 'Oh, children j the tide brings them^ they come.' " The spirits in Tuma can see these pre- incarnated infants, and so can Tomwaya Lakwabulo when he descends into the spirit world. But to ordinary people they are invisible. At times, however, fishermen from the northern villages of Kaybola and Lu'ebila, when they go far out into the sea after shark, will hear the wailing — way way wa — in the sighing of the wind and the waves. Tomwaya Lakwabulo and other informants maintain that such spirit children never float far away from Tuma. They are transported to the Trobriands by the help of another spirit. Tomwaya Lakwabulo gives the following account. "A child floats on a drift log. A spirit sees it is good-looking. She takes it. She is the spirit of the mother or of the father of the pregnant woman (nasu- suma) . Then she puts it on the head, in the hair, of the pregnant woman, who suffers headache, vomits, and has an ache in the belly. Then the child comes down into the belly, and she is really pregnant. She says: 'Already it (the child) has found mej already they (the spirits) have brought me the child.' " In this account we find two leading ideas: the active intervention of another spirit — • the one who somehow conveys the child back to the Tro- briands and gives it to the mother — ^and the insertion of

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it through the head, with which (not in the statement quoted, but usually) is associated the idea of an effusion of blood, first to the head and then into the abdomen.

As to how the transportation is actually accomplished opinions vary: there are natives who imagine that the Dlder spirit carries the baby either in some sort of re- ceptacle — a plaited coconut basket or a wooden dish — or else simply in her arms. Others say candidly that they do not know. But the active control of another spirit is essentially important. When natives say that the chil- dren are "given by a balomay^ that "a baloma is the real cause of childbirth," they refer always to this controlling spirit (as we might call it), and not to the spirit baby itself. This controlling spirit usually appears in a dream to the woman about to be pregnant (see ch. viii, sec. i). As Motago'i, one of my best informants, volunteered: ^'She dreams her mother comes to her, she sees the face of her mother in a dream. She wakes up, and says: 'Oh, there is a child for me.' "

Frequently a woman will tell her husband who it was that brought the baby to her. And the tradition of this spiritual godfather or godmother is preserved. Thus the present chief of Omarakana knows that it was Bugwab- waga, one of his predecessors in office, who gave him to his mother. My best friend, Tokulubakiki, was a gift to his mother from her kadala^ mother's brother. Tokulu- bakiki's wife received her eldest daughter from her mother's spirit. Usually it is some maternal relative of the prospective mother who bestows the gift; but it may be her father, as in Tomwaya Lakwabulo's statement.

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The physiological theory associated with this belief has already been touched on. The spirit-child is laid by the bringer on the woman's head. Blood from her body rushes there, and on this tide of blood the baby gradually descends until it settles in the womb. The blood helps to build the body of the child — it nourishes it. That is the reason why, when a woman becomes pregnant, her men- struous flow stops. A woman will see that her menstrua- tion has stopped. She will wait one, two, three moons, and then she will know for certain that she is pregnant. A much less authoritative belief maintains that the baby, is inserted fer vaginam.

Another version of the story of reincarnation ascribes more initiative to the pre-incarnated infant. It is sup- posed to be able to float of its own will towards the Tro- briands. There it remains, probably in company with others, drifting about the shores of the island, awaiting its chance to enter the body of a woman while she bathes. Certain observances kept by girls in coastal villages are evidence that the belief has vitality. The spirit children are imagined, as around Tuma, to be attached to drift logs, scum, leaves, and branches, or else to the small stones on the bottom of the sea. Whenever, through wind and tide, much debris accumulates near the shore, the girls will not enter the water for fear they might con- ceive. Again, in the villages on the northern coast, there is a custom of filling a wooden baler with water from the sea which is then left overnight in the hut of a woman who wishes to conceive, on the chance that a spirit-child might have been caught in the baler and transfer itself

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during the night into the woman. But even in this case, the woman is said to be visited in her dream by the spirit of some deceased maternal relative, so that a controlling spirit is still essential to conception. It is important to note that the water must always be fetched by her brother or by her mother's brother 5 that is, by a maternal kins- man. To give an example: a man from the village of Kapwani, on the northern shore, was asked by his sister's daughter to procure her a child. He went several times to the beach. One evening he heard a sound like the wailing of children. He drew water from the sea into the baler and left it in his kadaWs (niece's) hut over night. She conceived a child, a girl. This child, unfor- tunately, turned out to be an albino, but this mischance was not due to the method of conception.

The chief points in which this belief differs from the one first described are that the pre-incarnated spirit child is endowed with more spontaneity — it can float across the sea and enter the bathing woman without help — and that its entry is effected fer vaglnaniy or else through the skin of the abdomen if conception takes place in the hut. I found this belief prevalent in the northern part of the island, and especially in its coastal villages.

The nature of the spirit-child, or pre-incarnated baby, is not very clearly defined in traditional folk-lore. In answer to a direct question, the majority of informants said that they did not know what it was or what it looked like. One or two, however, who, through their superior intelligence, had worked out their beliefs in greater detail and with more consistency, said that it was like the foetus

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in the womb which, they added, "looks like a mouse." Tomwaya Lakwabulo volunteered the statement that pre- incarnated infants look like very minute and fully devel- oped children, and that they are sometimes very beautiful. He had to say something, of course, since, on his own showing, he had seen them frequently in Tuma. Even the nomenclature is not quite definite. Usually it is called

  • maywayay small child or foetus, but sometimes the word

fwafwawa is used, which, though almost synonymous with waywaya^ refers perhaps rather to a child already born than to the foetus or a pre-incarnated baby. Quite as often, however, it is spoken of simply as "child," gwadi (plural, gugwadi).

I was told, though I was not able to verify this com- pletely, that there is a magic performed over a species of betel leaf (kwega) called kaykatuv'tlena kwega^ to induce pregnancy. A woman in Yourawotu, a small village near Omarakana, knows this magic, but unfortunately I was unable to get into touch with her/

Thus, as is always the case, this belief dissolves into various and only pai-tially consistent elements when ex- amined under the magnifying glass of detailed research made over an extended area. The divergencies are not wholly due to geographical differences 5 nor can they be assigned to special social layers, for some of the incon- sistencies occurred in the account of one and the same

^ A' statement which I guardedly gave on the authority of a trader in my article for the Journal of the Anthropological Institute, 1916, p. 404, to the effect that there are "some stones in Sinaketa, to which a woman who wants to become enceinte may have recourse," I found quite baseless after careful inquiries on the spot.

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man. Tomwaya Lakwabulo, for instance, insisted that the children cannot travel alone, but must be carried by a controlling spirit and placed in the woman j yet he in- formed me that their wailing could be heard on the north shore near Kaybola. Or, again, the man of Kiriwina, who told me how the spirit child might enter from a baler, also spoke of an older spirit "giving" that child. Such inconsistencies are probably the result of several mytho- logical cycles of ideas, meeting, so to speak, and inter- secting on the locus of this belief. One of these cycles contains the idea of rejuvenation 5 another that of fresh life floating on the sea towards the island j another that a new member of the family comes as a gift from some ancestral spirit.

It is important, however, that, in all principal points, the various versions and descriptions agree, overlap and fortify one another 5 and we are left with a composite picture which, though blurred in some of its details, pre- sents a strong outline when viewed from a distance. Thus all spirits rejuvenate j all children are incarnated spirits; the identity of sub-clan is preserved throughout the cycle j the real cause of childbirth is the spirit initiative from Tuma,

It must be remembered, however, that the belief in reincarnation is not one which exercises a great influence over custom and social organization in the Trobriands; rather it is one of those doctrines which lead a quiet and passive existence in folk-lore, and affect social behaviour only to a small extent. Thus, for instance, although the Trobrianders firmly believe that each spirit becomes a pre-

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born infant, and that this again becomes reincarnated into a human being, yet no consciousness of personal identity- is preserved through the process. That is, no one knows whose incarnation the infant is- — who he was in his previous existence. There is no remembrance of past lif-e in Tuma or on earth. Any questioning of the natives makes it obvious that the whole problem appears to them irrelevant and indeed uninteresting. The only recognized rule which guides these metamorphoses is that the con- tinuity of clan and sub-clan is preserved throughout. There are no moral ideas of recompense or punishment embodied in their reincarnation theory, no customs or ceremonies associated with it or bearing witness to it.


IGNORANCE OF PHYSIOLOGICAL PATERNITY

The correlation of the mystical with the physiological aspects in pregnancy belief — of the origin of the child in Tuma and its journey to the Trobriands with the sub- sequent processes in the maternal body, the welling up of the blood from the abdomen to the head and down again from the head to the womb — provides a co-ordi- nated and self-contained, though not always consistent, theory of the origin of human life. It also gives a good theoretical foundation for matriliny^ for the whole process of introducing new life into a community lies between the spirit world and the female organism. There is no room for any sort of physical paternity.

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indispensable for conception and child-birth, which com- plicates their theory and blurs the clear outline of their belief. This condition is related to sexual intercourse, and brings us face to face with the difficult and delicate question: are the natives really entirely ignorant of physi- ological fatherhood? Is it not rather a fact of which, they are more or less aware, though it may be overlaid and distorted by mythological and animistic beliefs? Is it not an instance of empirical knowledge possessed by a backward community, but never formulated because it is too obvious to need explicit statement, whereas the tradi- tional legend which is the basis of their social structure is carefully expressed as a part of the body of authoritative, dogma? The facts which I am about to adduce contain an unambiguous and decisive answer to these questions. I shall not anticipate the conclusion, which, indeed, as we shall see, will be drawn by the natives themselves.

A virgin cannot conceive.

Tradition, diffuse folk-lore, certain aspects of custom and customary behaviour, teach the natives this simple physiological truth. They have no doubt about it, and it will be seen from what follows that they can formulate it tersely and clearly.

This statement was volunteered by Niyova, a sound informant in Oburaku: "A virgin does not conceive, be- cause there is no way for the children to go, for that woman to conceive. When the orifice is wide open, the spirits are aware, they give the child." This is quite clear 5 but during the same sitting, the same informant had previously given me a detailed description of how the

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spirit lays the child on the woman's head. The words of Niyova, here quoted verbatim, imply an insertion fer vaglnam. Ibena, a clever old man of Kasana'i, gave me a similar explanation — in fact, it was he who first made it clear to me that virginity mechanically impedes spirit impregnation. His method of explanation was graphic. Holding out his closed fist, he asked: "Can anything enter?" Then, opening it, he continued: "Now, of course, it is easy. Thus it is that a hulabola (large orifice) con- ceives easily, and a naka-patu (small or closed entrance, a virgin) cannot do it."

I have quoted these two statements in extensOy as they are telling and characteristic j but they are not isolated. I received a great number of similar declarations, all ex- pressing the view that the way must be open for the child, but this need not necessarily be brought about by sexual intercourse. The point is quite clear. The vagina must be opened to remove the physiological obstacle, called simply kdafatu (her tightness). Once this has been done, in the normal way by sexual intercourse, there is no need for male and female to come together in order to produce a child.

Considering that there are no virgins in the villages — for every female child begins her sexual life very early — we may wonder how the natives arrived at this conditio sine qua non. Again, since they have got so far, it may appear difficult to see why they have not advanced just a little further and grasped the fertilizing virtue of seminal fluid. Nevertheless, there are many facts to prove that they have not made this advance: as certainly

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as they know the necessity of a mechanical opening of the vagina, so they do not know the generative power of the male discharge. It was in discussing the mythological tales of mankind's beginnings on earth (see below, ch. xiii, sec. 5) and fantastic legends of distant lands, to the account of which I shall now proceed, that I was made aware of this subtle yet all-important distinction between mechanical dilation and physiological fertilization 5 and was thus enabled to place native belief regarding pro- creation in its proper perspective.

According to native tradition, mankind originated from underground, whence a couple, a brother and a sister, emerged at different specified places. According to certain legends, only women appeared at first. Some of my com- mentators insisted upon this version: "You see, we are so many on the earth because many women came first. Had there been many men, we would be few." Now, whether accompanied by her brother or not, the primeval woman is always imagined to bear children without the interven- tion of a husband or of any other male partner 5 but not without the vagina being opened by some means. In some of the traditions this is mentioned explicitly. Thus on the island of Vakuta there is a myth which describes how an ancestress of one of the sub-clans exposed her body to falling rain, and thus mechanically lost her vir- ginity. In the most important Trobriand myth, a woman, called Mitigis or Bolutukwa, mother of the legendary hero Tudava, lives quite alone in a grotto on the seashore. One day she falls asleep in her rocky dwelling, reclining under a dripping stalactite. The drops of water pierce

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her vagina, and thus deprive her of virginity. Hence her second name, Bolutukwa: bo, female, prefix Utukway dripping water. In other myths of origin the means of piercing the hymen are not mentioned, but it is often explicitly stated that the ancestress was without a man, and could, therefore, have no sexual intercourse. When asked in so many words how it was that they bore children without a man, the natives would mention, more or less coarsely or jestingly, some means of perforation which they could easily have used, and it was clear that no more ■was necessary.

Moving into another mythological dimension — into present-day legends of countries far to the north — ^we find the marvellous land of Kaytalugi, peopled exclu- sively by sexually rabid women.^ They are so brutally profligate that their excesses kill every man thrown by chance upon their shores, and even their own male chil- dren never attain maturity before they are sexually done to death. Yet these women are very prolific, producing many children, male and female. If a native is asked how this can be, how these females become pregnant if there are no men, he simply cannot understand such an absurd question. These women, he will say, destroy their virginity in all sorts of ways if they cannot get hold of a man to torture to death. And they have got their own haloma, of course, to give them children.

I have adduced these mythical instances first, for they clearly demonstrate the native point of view 5 the need for perforation, and the absence of any idea concerning

1 Cf. ch. xil, sec. 4.

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the fertilizing value of the semen. But there are some convincing present-day instances which show that the natives believe that a girl can be with child without previous sexual intercourse. Thus, there are some women so ugly and repulsive that no one believes that they can ever have had intercourse (save, of course, for those few who know better, but who are very careful to keep silent from shame j see ch. x, sec. 2). There is Tilapo'i, now an old woman, who was famous for her hideousness in youth. She has become blind, was always almost an idiot, and had a repulsive face and deformed body. Her unattractiveness was so notorious that she became the subject of a saying: Kwoy Tilafo^i ("have connection with Tilapo'i"), a form of abuse used in mild chaff (ch. xiii, sec. 4). Altogether she is an infinite source and pivot of all kinds of matrimonial and obscene jokes, all based on the presumed impossibility of being Tilapo'i's lover or prospective husband. I was assured, over and over again, that no one ever could have had connection with her. Yet this woman has had a child, as the natives would triumphantly point out, when I tried to persuade them that only by intercourse can children be produced. Again, there is the case of Kurayana, a woman of Sinaketa, whom I never saw, but who, I was told, was "so ugly that any man would be ashamed" to have inter- course with her. This saying implies that social shame would be an even stronger deterrent than sexual repul- sion, an assumption which shows that my informant was not a bad practical psychologist. Kurayana, as thoroughly chaste as anyone could be — ^by necessity, if not by virtue —

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had no less than six children, five of whom died and one of whom still survives/

Albinos, male and female, are considered unfit for sexual intercourse. There is not the slightest doubt that all the natives feel real horror of and disgust for these unfortunate beings, a horror perfectly comprehensible after one has seen specimens of such unpigmented natives (see pi. 38). Yet there are on record several instances of albino women who have brought forth a numerous progeny. "Why did they become pregnant? Is it because they copulate at night time? or because a haloma has given them children?" Such was the clinching argument of one of my informants, for the first alternative appeared obviously absurd. Indeed, the whole of this line of argu- ment was volunteered to me in one of my early discus- sions of the subject, although I obtained confirmatory data by subsequent research. For as a means of testing the firmness of their belief, I sometimes made myself definitely and aggressively an advocate of the truer physi- ological doctrine of procreation. In such arguments the natives would quote, not only positive instances, such as those just mentioned, of women who have children with- out having enjoyed any intercourse 3 but would also refer to the equally convincing negative aspect, that is, to the many cases in which an unmarried woman has plenty of intercourse and no children. This argument would be repeated over and over again, with specially telling con-

1 In the already quoted article in the Journal of the Anthropological Institute, 1916, I did an injustice to Kurayana in stating on p. 412 that she was the mother of five children only. Six is the correct number, all produced without the assistance of a man.

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Crete examples of childless persons renowned for prof- ligacy, or of women who lived with one white trader after another without having any baby.


WORDS AND DEEDS IN TESTIMONY

Although I was never afraid of using a leading ques- tion, or of eliciting the natives' point of view by con- tradicting it, I was somewhat astonished at the fierce opposition evoked by my advocacy of physiological pater- nity. Only late in my Trobriand career did I find out that I was not the first to attack this part of native belief, having been preceded by the missionary teachers. I speak mainly of the coloured onesj for I do not know what attitude was taken by the one or two white men who were in charge of the mission before my time, and those who came to the islands while I was there only held office for a short period and did not go into such details. But all my native informants corroborated the fact, once I had discovered it, that the doctrine and ideal of Paternity, and all that tends to strengthen it, is advocated by the coloured Christian teachers.

We must realize that the cardinal dogma of God the Father and God the Son, the sacrifice of the only Son and the filial love of man to his Maker would completely miss fire in a matrilineal society, where the relation between father and son is decreed by tribal law to be that of two strangers, where all personal unity between them is denied, and where all family obligations are associated

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with mother-line. We cannot then wonder that Paternity must be among the principal truths to be inculcated by proselytizing Christians. Otherwise the dogma of the Trinity would have to be translated into matrilineal terms, and we should have to speak of a God-kadala (mother's brother), a God-sisterVson, and a divine halofna (spirit).

But apart from any doctrinal difSculty, the missionaries are earnestly engaged in propagating sexual morality as we conceive it, in which endeavour the idea of the sexual act as having serious consequences to family life is indispensable. The whole Christian morality, moreover, is strongly associated with the institution of a patrilineal and patriarchal family, with the father as progenitor and master of the household. In short, a religion whose dogmatic essence is based on the sacredness of the father to son relationship, and whose morals stand or fall by a strong patriarchal family, must obviously proceed by con- firming the paternal relation, by showing that it has a natural foundation. Only during my third expedition to New Guinea did I discover that the natives had been somewhat exasperated by having an "absurdity" preached at them, and by finding me, so "unmissionary" as a rule, engaged in the same futile argument.

When I found this out, I used to call the correct physiological view "the talk of the missionaries," and goad the natives into comment or contradiction. In this manner I obtained some of my strongest and clearest statements, from which I shall select a few.

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answer to a somewhat arrogantly framed affirmation that the missionaries were right, exclaimed: —

^^Gala walal Isasofast: yamhwata yamhwata Not at all! They lie: always always

nakubukwahuya momona ikasewo

unmarried girls seminal fluid it is brimful

Utusi gala,^^

children theirs not.

Which may be freely rendered: "Not at all, the mis- sionaries are mistaken j unmarried girls continually have intercourse, in fact they overflow with seminal fluid, and yet have no children."

Here, in terse and picturesque language, Motago'i ex- presses the view that, after all, if sexual intercourse were causally connected with child production, it is the un- married girls who should have children, since they lead a much more intensive sexual life than the married ones — a puzzling difficulty which really exists, as we shall see later on, but which our informant exaggerates slightly, since unmarried girls do conceive, though not nearly as frequently as anyone holding the "missionary views" would be led to expect. Asked in the course of the same discussion: "What, then, is the cause of pregnancy?" he answered: "Blood on the head makes child. The seminal fluid does not make the child. Spirits bring at night time the infant, put on women's heads — it makes blood. Then, after two or three months, when the blood [that is, menstruous blood] does not come out, they know: ^Oh, I am pregnant!' "

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An informant in Teyava, in a similar discussion, made several statements of which I adduce the two most spon- taneous and conclusive ones. "Copulation alone cannot produce a child. Night after night, for years, girls copu- late. No child comes." In this we see again the same argument from empirical evidence j the majority of girls, in spite of their assiduous cultivation of intercourse, do not bring forth. In another statement the same infor- mant says: "They talk that seminal fluid makes child. Lie! The spirits indeed bring [children] at night time."

My favourite informant in Omarakana, Tokulubakiki, on whose honesty, goodwill, and dispassionate reflection I could always rely, when I wanted a final test of my information, gave a clear, though somewhat Rabelaisian, statement of the native point of view: —

^^Takaytay itokay vivila italagila

We copulate she gets up woman it runs out

fnomona — iwokwo?^

seminal fluid — it is finished.

In other words, after the traces of sexual intercourse have been removed, there are no further consequences.

These sayings are trenchant enough, as were those pre- viously quoted 5 but, after all, an opinion is a mere aca- demic expression of belief, the depth and tenacity of which can best be gauged by the test of behaviour. To a South Sea native, as to a European peasant, his domestic animals — that is, his pigs — are the most valued and cher- ished members of the household. And if his earnest and genuine conviction can be seen anywhere, it will be in his

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care for the welfare and quality of his animals. The South Sea natives are extremely keen to have good, strong, and healthy pigs, and pigs of a good breed.

The main distinction which they make in the matter of quality is that between the wild or bush-pigs, and the tame village pigs. The village pig is considered a great delicacy, while the flesh of the bush-pig is one of the strongest taboos to people^ of rank in Kiriwina, the trans- gression of which they hold in genuine horror and disgust. Yet they allow the female domestic pigs to wander on the outskirts of the village and in the bush, where they can pair freely with male bush-pigs. On the other hand, they castrate all the male pigs in the village in order to improve their condition. Thus, naturally, all the progeny are in reality descended from wild bush sires. Yet the natives have not the slightest inkling of this fact. When I said to one of the chiefs, "You eat the child of a bush-pig," he simply took it as a bad jokej for making fun of bush-pig eating is not considered altogether good taste by a Trobriander of birth and standing. But he did not understand at all what I really meant.

On one occasion when I asked directly how pigs breed, the answer was : "The female pig breeds by itself," which simply meant that, probably, there is no haloma involved in the multiplication of domestic animals. When I drew parallels and suggested that small pigs are brought by their own balomas, they were not convinced j and it was evident that neither their own interest, nor the data sup- plied by tradition, went far enough to inspire any con- cern as to the procreation of pigs.

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Very important was a statement volunteered to me by Motago'i: "From all male pigs we cut off the testes. They copulate not. Yet the females bring forth." Thus he ignored the possible misconduct of the bush-pigs, and adduced the castration of domestic hogs as final proof that intercourse has nothing to do with breeding. On another occasion, I instanced the only two goats in the Archipelago, one male and one female, which a trader had recently imported. When I asked whether the female would bear any young if the male were killed, there was no uncertainty about the answer: "Year after year she will breed." Thus they have the firm conviction that if a female animal were entirely cut off from any male of the species, this would by no means interfere with her fecundity.

Another crucial test is provided by the recent importa- tion of European pigs. In honour of the first man who brought them, the late Mick George, a Greek trader and a truly Homeric character, they are called by the natives bulukwa Miki (Mick's pigs), and they will give five to ten of the native pigs in exchange for one of them. Yet when they have acquired it, they will not take the slightest precautions to make it breed with a male of the same superior race, though they could easily do so. In one instance when, having several small pigs of European race they castrated all the males, they were reproved by a white trader, and told that by so doing they lowered the whole breed. But they simply could not be made to understand, and all over the district they continue to allow their valued European pigs to mis-breed.

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In the article already quoted {Journal of the An- thropological Institute y 191 6) I gave verbatim a remark of one of my informants about pigs, obtained early in the course of my field-work. "They copulate, copulate, pres- ently the female will give birth." My comment was: ^'Thus here copulation appears to be the u^ula (cause) , of pregnancy." This opinion, even in its qualified form, is incorrect. As a matter of fact, during my first visit to the Trobriands, after which this article was written, I never entered deeply into the matter of animal procrea- tion. The concise native utterance quoted above, cannot, in the light of subsequent fuller information, be inter- preted as implying any knowledge of how pigs really breed. As it stands, it simply means that vaginal dilation is as necessary in animals as in human beings. It also implies that, according to native tradition, animals are not subject in this, as in many other respects, to the same causal relations as man. In man, spirits are the cause of pregnancy: in animals — it just happens. Again, while the Trobrianders ascribe all human ailments to sorcery, with animals disease is just disease. Men die because of very strong evil magic 3 animals — ^just die. But it would be quite incorrect to interpret this as evidence that the natives know, in the case of animals^ the natural causes of impregnation, disease, and death 3 while in man they obliterate this knowledge by an animistic superstructure. The true summary of the native outlook is that they are so deeply interested in human affairs that they construct a special tradition about all that is vital for manj while

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in what concerns animals, things are taken as they come, without any attempt at explanation, and also without any insight into the real course of nature.

Their attitude to their own children also bears witness to their ignorance of any causal relation between congress and the ensuing pregnancy. A man whose wife has con- ceived during his absence will cheerfully accept the fact and the child, and he will see no reason at all for sus- pecting her of adultery. One of my informants told me that after over a year's absence he returned to find a newly born child at home. He volunteered this statement as an illustration and final proof of the truth that sexual intercourse has nothing to do with conception. And it must be remembered that no native would ever discuss any subject in which the slightest suspicion of his wife's fidelity could be involved. In general, no allusion is ever made to her sexual life, past or present. Her preg- nancy and childbirth are, on the other hand, freely dis- cussed.

There is another instance of a native of the small island of Kitava, who, after two years' absence, was quite pleased to find a few months' old baby at home, and could not in the slightest degree understand the indiscreet taunts and allusions of some white men with reference to his wife's virtue. My friend Layseta, a great sailor and ma- gician of Sinaketa, spent a long time in his later youth in the Amphlett Islands. On his return he found two children, borne by his wife during his absence. He is very fond of them and of his wife 5 and when I discussed the

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matter with others, suggesting that one at least of these children could not be his, my interlocutors did not under- stand what I meant.

Thus we see, from these instances, that children born in wedlock during a prolonged absence of the husband, will yet be recognized by him as his own children, that is as standing to him in the social relation of child to father. An instructive parallel to this is supplied by cases of chil- dren born out of wedlock, but during a liaison as exclu- sive as a marriage. In such a case, the physiological father would be obvious to usj yet a Trobriander would not recognize the children as his, and further, since for a girl it is dishonourable to bear children before she is married, he might refuse to marry her. Of this I had a good example: Gomaya, one of my early informants, whom we know already (ch. iv, sec. 6), had a liaison with a girl called Ilamweria (pi. 39). They lived together and were going to be married, but she became pregnant and gave birth to a girl, whereupon Gomaya abandoned her. He Was quite convinced that she had never had any relations with another boy, so, if any question of physiological fatherhood had come into his mind, he would have ac- cepted the child as his own, and married the mother. But, in accordance with the native point of view, he simply did not inquire into the question of fatherhood 3 it was enough that there was prenuptial motherhood.

Thus of children borne by a married woman, her hus- band is the father ex officio^ but for an unmarried mother, there is "no father to the child." The father is defined socially, and in order that there may be fatherhood there

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must be marriage. And traditional sentiment regards illegitimate children, as we have said, as improper on the part of the mother. Of course there is no implication of sexual guilt in this censure, but, to the native, to do wrong is simply to act contrary to custom. And it is not the custom for an unmarried girl to have babies, although it is the custom for her to have as much sexual intercourse as she likes. When asked why it is considered bad, they will answer: —

^^Pela gala tamala^ gala taytala bikofoH^^ \ "Because no father his, no man he [who] might take [it] in his arms."

"Because there is no father to the child, there is no man to take it in his arms." In this locution, the correct definition of the term tamala is clearly expressed: it is the mother's husband, the man whose role and duty it is to take the child in his arms and to help her in nursing and bringing it up.

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This seems a convenient place to speak about the very interesting problem of illegitimate children, or, as the natives word it, "children borne by unmarried girls," "fatherless children." Several questions must, no doubt, have already obtruded themselves on the reader. Since there is so much sexual freedom, must there not be a great number of children born out of wedlock? If this is not so, what means of prevention do the natives possess? If

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it is so, how do they deal with the problem, what is the position of illegitimate children?

As to the first question, it is very remarkable to note that illegitimate children are rare. The girls seem to remain sterile throughout their period of licence, which begins when they are small children and continues until they marry j when they are married they conceive and breed, sometimes quite prolifically. I express myself cau- tiously about the number of illegitimate children, for in most cases there are special difficulties even in ascertain- ing the fact. To have prenuptial children is, as I have said, by an arbitrary ruling of doctrine and custom, con- sidered reprehensible. Thus, out of delicacy towards people present, out of family interest or local pride, the existence of such children is invariably concealed. Such children are often adopted by some relative, and the elasticity of kinship terms makes it very difficult to dis- tinguish between actual and adopted children. If a mar- ried man says, "This is my child," it may quite easily be his wife's sister's illegitimate baby. So that only an approximate estimate can be made even in a community with which one is very well acquainted. I was able to find roughly a dozen illegitimate children recorded genealogically in the Trobriands, or about one per cent. In this the illegitimate children of the ugly, deformed, or albino women mentioned above are not included, as none of them happens to figure in the genealogical records made by me.

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so few illegitimate children? On this subject I can only speak tentatively, and I feel that my information is per- haps not quite as full as it might have been, had I con- centrated more attention upon it. One thing I can say with complete confidence: no preventive means of any description are known, nor the slightest idea of them entertained. This, of course, is quite natural. Since the procreative power of seminal fluid is not known, since it is considered not only innocuous but beneficent, there is no reason why the natives should interfere with its free arrival in the parts which it is meant to lubricate. In- deed, any suggestion of neo-Malthusian appliances makes them shudder or laugh according to their mood or tem- perament. They never practice coitus interrupuSy and still less have any notion about chemical or mechanical preventives.

But though I am quite certain on this point, I cannot speak with the same conviction about abortion, though probably it is not practised to any large extent. I may say at once that the natives, when discussing these matters, feel neither fear nor constraint, so there can be no question of any difficulties in finding out the state of affairs because of reticence or concealment. My informants told me that a magic exists to bring about premature birth, but I was not able either to obtain instances in which it was per- formed, or to find out the spells or rites made use of. Some of the herbs employed in this magic were mentioned to me, but I am certain that none of them possess any physiological properties. Abortion by mechanical means

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seems, in fine, the only effective method practised to check the increase of population, and there is no doubt that even this is not used on a large scale.

So the problem remains. Can there be any physio- logical law which makes conception less likely when women begin their sexual life young, lead it indef atigably, and mix their lovers freely? This, of course, cannot be answered here, as it is a purely biological question j but some such solution of the diiiiculty seems to me the only one, unless I have missed some very important eth- nological clue. I am, as I have said, by no means con- fident of my researches being final in this matter.

It is amusing to find that the average white resident or visitor to the Trobriands is deeply interested in this sub- ject, and in this subject only, of all the ethnological prob- lems opened to him for consideration. There is a belief prevalent among the white citizens of eastern New Guinea that the Trobrianders are in possession of some mysterious and powerful means of prevention or abortion. This belief is, no doubt, explicable by the remarkable and puzzling facts which we have just been discussing. It is enhanced by insufficient knowledge, and the tendency towards exaggeration and sensationalism so characteristic of the crude European mind. Of insufficient knowledge, I had several examples 3 for every white man with whom I spoke on the subject would start with the dogmatic assertion that unmarried girls among the Trobrianders never have children, saving those who live with white traders 5 whereas, as we have seen, illegitimate children are on record. Equally incorrect and fantastic is the

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belief in mysterious contraceptives, for which not even the oldest residents, who are firmly convinced of their ex- istence, can supply any basis in fact. This seems to be an example of the well-known truth, that a higher race in contact with a lower one has a tendency to credit the members of the latter with mysterious demoniacal powers. Returning now to the question of "fatherless children," we find among the Trobrianders a trend of public opinion with regard to illegitimacy which almost amounts to a moral rule. We, in our own society, share this opinion very emphatically j but with us it is connected with our strong moral condemnation of unchastity. In theory at least, if not in practice, we condemn the fruits of sexual immorality, because of the cause and not because of the consequence. Our syllogism runs thus: "All intercourse out of wedlock is bad 3 pregnancy is caused by intercourse 5 hence all unmarried pregnant girls are bad." Thus, when we find in another society the last term of the syllogism endorsed, we jump to the conclusion that the other terms also obtain, especially the middle one. That is, we as- sume that the natives are aware of physiological paternity. We know, however, that the first proposition is not ac- cepted in the Trobriands, for intercourse out of wedlock is quite free from censure unless it offends the special taboos of adultery, exogamy, and incest. Therefore the middle term cannot serve as a connecting link, and the fact that the natives endorse the conclusion proves nothing about their knowledge of fatherhood. I have developed this point in some detail, because it is a characteristic example of how difficult is emancipation from our own

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narrow modes of thinking and feeling, and our own rigid structures of social and moral prejudice. Although I myself should have been on my guard against such traps, and though at that time I was already acquainted with the Trobrianders and their ways of thinking, yet, on realizing their disapproval of children out of wedlock, I went through all this false reasoning before a fuller acquaintance with the facts forced me to correct it.

Fecundity in unmarried girls is discreditable j sterility in married women is unfortunate. The same term nakange {na, female prefix, karige^ to die) is used of a childless woman as of a barren sow. But this condition brings no shame on the person concerned, and does not detract from the social status of such a woman. The oldest wife of To'uluwa, Bokuyoba, has no children, yet she ranks first among the wives as is the due of her age. Nor is the word nakange considered to be indelicate; a sterile woman will use it when speaking of herself, and others will apply it to her in her presence. But fertility in married women is considered a good thing. Primarily it affects her maternal kinsmen, and is a matter of great importance to them (see ch. i, sec. i). '^The kinsmen rejoice, for their bodies become stronger when one of their sisters or nieces has plenty of children." The wording of this statement expresses the interesting conception of collective clan unity, of the members being not only of the same flesh, but almost forming one body (see ch. vi and ch. xiii, sec. 5).

Returning again to the main trend of our argument, it must be noted that the scorn and disapproval levelled

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at illegitimacy is highly significant sociologically. Let us realize once more this interesting and strange constel- lation of facts: physical fatherhood is unknown j yet fatherhood in a social sense is considered necessary and the "fatherless child" is regarded as something anom- alous, contrary to the normal course of events, and hence reprehensible. What does this mean? Public opinion, based on tradition and custom, declares that a woman must not become a mother before she marries, though she may enjoy as much sexual liberty as she likes within lawful bounds. This means that a mother needs a de- fender and provider of economic necessities. She has one natural master and protector in her brother, but he is not in a position to look after her in all matters where she needs a guardian. According to native ideas, a woman who is pregnant must, at a certain stage, abstain from all intercourse and "turn her mind away from men." She then needs a man who will take over all sexual rights in regard to her, abstain from exercising even his own privileges from a certain moment, guard her from any interference, and control her own behaviour. All this the brother cannot do, for, owing to the strict brother-sister taboo, he must scrupulously avoid even the thought of anything which is concerned with his sister's sex. Again, there is the need for a man to keep guard over her during childbirth, and "to receive the child into his arms," as the natives put it. Later it is the duty of this man to share in all the tender cares bestowed on the child (see ch. i, sees, i and 3 j and ch. xiii, sec. 6). Only when the child grows up does he relinquish the greater part of his

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authority and hand it over to his wife's brother, retaining some of it in the case of female children, when it comes to marriage (see above, ch. iv).

Thus the part played by the husband is strictly defined by custom and is considered socially indispensable. A woman with a child and no husband is an incomplete and anomalous group. The disapproval of an illegitimate child and of its mother is a particular instance of the gen- eral disapproval of everything which does not conform to custom, and runs counter to the accepted social pattern and traditional tribal organization. The family, consist- ing of husband, wife, and children, is the standard set down by tribal law, which also defines the functions of its component parts. It is therefore not right that one of the members of this group should be missing.

Thus, though the natives are ignorant of any physio- logical need for a male in the constitution of the family, they regard him as indispensable socially. This is very important. Paternity, unknown in the full biological meaning so familiar to us, is yet maintained by a social dogma which declares: "Every family must have a father 5 a woman must marry before she may have chil- dren ^ there must be a male to every household."

The institution of the individual family is thus firmly established on a strong feeling of its necessity, quite com- patible with an absolute ignorance of its biological foun- dations. The sociological role of the father is established and defined without any recognition of his physiological nature.


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THE SINGULAR CLAIMS OF SOCIOLOGICAL PATERNITY

The interesting duality between matrilineal and patri^ archal influences, represented by the mother's brother and the father respectively, is one of the leitmotifs of the first act of Trobriand tribal life. Here we have come to the very core of the problem: for we see within this social scheme, with its rigid brother-sister taboo and its ignorance of physical fatherhood, two natural spheres of influence to be exercised over a woman by a man (see ch. i, sees, i and 2) : the one, that of sex, from which the brother is absolutely debarred and where the hus- band's influence is paramount j the other, that in which the natural interests of blood relationship can be safe- guarded properly only by one who is of the same blood. This is the sphere of the woman's brother.

By the brother's inability to control or to approach, even as a distant spectator, the principal theme in a woman's life — ^her sex — a wide breach is left in the sys- tem of matriliny. Through this breach the husband enters into the closed circle of family and household, and once there makes himself thoroughly at home. To his children he becomes bound by the strongest ties of per- sonal attachment, over his wife he assumes exclusive sexual rights, and shares with her the greater part of do- mestic and economic concerns.

On the apparently unpropitious soil of strict matriliny, with its denial of any paternal bond through procreation

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and its declaration of the father's extraneousness to progeny, there spring up certain beliefs, ideas and cus- tomary rules, which smuggle extreme patrilineal prin- ciples into the stronghold of mother-right. One of these ideas is of the kind which figures so largely in sensa- tional amateur records of savage life, and it strikes us at first as savage indeed, so lop-sided, distorted and quaint does it appear. I refer to their idea about the similarity between parents and offspring. That this is a favourite topic of nursery gossip in civilized communities needs no special comment. In a matrilineal society, such as the Trobriands, where all maternal relatives are considered to be of the "same body," and the father to be a ^^stranger," we should have no doubt in anticipating that facial and bodily similarity would be traced in the mother's family alone. The contrary is the case, how- ever, and this is afiirmed with extremely strong social emphasis. Not only is it a household dogma, so to speak, that a child never resembles its mother, or any of its brothers and sisters, or any of its maternal kinsmen, but it is extremely bad form and a great offence to hint at any such similarity. To resemble one's father, on the other hand, is the natural, right, and proper thing for a man or woman to do.

I was introduced to this rule of savoir vivre in the usual way, by making a faux fas. One of my bodyguard in Omarakana, named Moradeda, was endowed with a peculiar cast of features which had struck me at first sight and fascinated me, for it had a strange similarity to the Australian aboriginal type — ^wavy hair, broad face,

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low forehead, extremely broad nose, with a much de- pressed bridge, wide mouth with protruding lips, and a prognathous chin. One day I was struck by the appear- ance of an exact counterpart to Moradeda, and asked his name and whereabouts. When I was told that he was my friend's elder brother, living in a distant village, I ex- claimed: "Ah, truly! I asked about you because your face is alike — alike to that of Moradeda." There came such a hush over all the assembly that I was startled by it at once. The man turned round and left usj while part of the company present, after averting their faces in a manner half-embarrassed, half -off ended, soon dispersed. I was then told by my confidential informants that I had committed a breach of custom ^ that I had perpetrated what is called tafutaki migilay a technical expression re- ferring only to this act which might be translated: "To- defile-by-comparing-to-a-kinsman-his-face" (see ch. xiii, sec. 4). What astonished me in this discussion was that, in spite of the striking resemblance between the two brothers, my informants refused to admit it. In fact, they treated the question as if no one could possibly ever resemble his brother, or, for the matter of that, any maternal kinsman. I made my informants quite angry and displeased with me by arguing the point, and even more so by quoting cases of such obvious similarity be- tween two brothers as that which obtained between Namwana Guya'u and Yobukwa'u (pi. 40).

This incident taught me never to hint at such a re- semblance in the presence of the people concerned. But I thrashed the matter out with many natives subsequently

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in the course of general conversation. I found that every- one in the Trobriands will, in the teeth of all the evi- dence, stoutly deny that similarity can exist between matrilineal kinsmen. A Trobriander is simply irritated and insulted if striking instances are pointed out to him, in exactly the same way as, in our own society, we irritate our next-door neighbour by bringing before him a glaring truth which contradicts some cherished opinion, political, religious, or moral, or which, still worse, runs counter to his personal interests.

The Trobrianders maintain that mention of such like- nesses can only be made to insult a man. It is, in fact, a technical phrase in serious bad language to say migim lumuta, "Thy face thy sister's," which, by the way, is the worst combination of kinship similarity. This expression is considered quite as bad as "have intercourse with thy sister!" But, according to a Trobriander, no sane and decent man can possibly entertain in a sober dispassionate mood such an outrageous thought as that anyone should in the slightest degree resemble his sister (see ch. xiii, sec. 4).

Still more remarkable is the counterpart to this social dogma j namely, that every child resembles its father. Such similarity is always assumed and affirmed to exist. Where it is really found, even to a small degree, constant attention is drawn to it as to a thing which is nice, good and right. It was often pointed out to me how strongly one or other of the sons of To'uluwa, the chief of Omara- kana, resembled his father, and the old man was especially proud of the more or less imaginary resemblance between

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himself and his youngest son, Dipapa (see pi. 41 ). Espe- cially were the five favourite sons of himself and Kadam- wasila each said to be exactly like his father. When I pointed out that this similarity to the father implied similarity to each other, such a heresy was indignantly repudiated. There are also definite customs which em- body this dogma of patrilineal similarity. Thus, after a man's death, his kinsmen and friends will come from time to time to visit his children in order to "see his face in theirs." They will give them presents, and sit looking at them and wailing. This is said to soothe their insides because they have seen once more the likeness of the dead. How do the natives reconcile the inconsistency of this dogma with the matrilineal system? When questioned they will say: "Yes, maternal kinsmen are the same flesh, but similar faces they have not." When you inquire again why it is that people resemble their father, who is a stranger and has nothing to do with the formation of their body, they have a stereotyped answer: "It coagulates the face of the child j for always he lies with her, they sit together." The expression kuliy to coagulate, to mould, was used over and over again in the answers which I received. This is a statement of the social doctrine concerning the influence of the father over the physique of the child, and not merely the personal opinion of my informants. One of my informants explained it to me more exactly, turning his open hands to me palm up- wards: "Put some soft mash {sesa) on it, and it will mould like the hand. In the same manner, the husband remains with the woman and the child is moulded." An-

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other man told me: "Always we give food from our hand to the child to eat, we give fruit and dainties, we give betel nut. This makes the child as it is."

I also discussed the existence of half-castes with my informants, children of white traders married to native women. I pointed out that some look much more like natives than like Europeans. This, again, they simply denied, maintaining stoutly that all these children have white men's faces, and giving this as another proof of their doctrine. There was no way of shaking their con- viction, or of diminishing their dislike of the idea that anyone can resemble his mother or her people, an idea condemned by the tradition and the good manners of the tribe.

Thus we see that an artificial physical link between father and child has been introduced, and that on one important point it has overshadowed the matrilineal bond. For physical resemblance is a very strong emotional tie between two people, and its strength is hardly reduced by its being ascribed, not to a physiological, but to a soci- ological cause — that of continued association between hus- band and wife.

I have to record one more important assertion of father-right in this matrilineal society, one of a purely social and economic nature. That there is a compromise between the two principles of matriliny and paternal influence in social and economic matt?ers, we have already seen 5 but it is worth while to restate this briefly here, and to mention its most peculiar feature.

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rigid rules of tribal law. These rules decree absolutely that a child must belong to the family, sub-clan, and clan of its mother. Less absolutely but still very strictly, they regulate the membership of a village community and the office of magician. They also assign all inheritance of land, privileges and material goods to mother-line. But here a number of customs and usages allow, if not an evasion, at least a compromise and modification of tribal law. By these usages, a father can, for his own lifetime, grant the right of citizenship in his village to his son and bestow upon him the usufruct of canoes, lands, cere- monial privileges, and magic. By cross-cousin marriage, combined with matrilocal residence, he can even secure all these things to his son for life.

All this we know already, but here we have td note one more important difference in the transmission of material goods and privileges, as from maternal uncle to a nephew on the one hand, and a father to a son on the other. A man is obliged to relinquish all his possessions and offices to his younger brother or maternal nephew at death. But usually the younger man wants to possess some of these things during his senior's lifetime 3 and it is customary for a maternal uncle to part with a portion of his gardens or some of his magic while he is still living. But in such cases he has to be paid for it, and the payment is often quite substantial. It is called by the special technical name pokala.^

When a man gives any of these things to his son, on

1 This word has more than one meaning: it denotes several types of economic transaction. Compare ArQonauts of the Western Pacific, index s.v. pokala.

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the other hand, he does it of his free will, and quite gratuitously. Thus, a maternal nephew, or younger brother, has the right to claim his share, and always re- ceives it if he gives the first instalment of the fokala. The son relies on his father's goodwill, which, as a rule, works very effectively on his behalf, and he receives all the gifts for nothing. The man who has the right to the things has to pay for them, while the man who receives them without the sanction of tribal law gets them gratis. Of course he has to return them, at least in part, after his father's death j but the use and enjoyment he has had of material benefits remain his, while the magic he cannot return.

The natives explain this anomalous state of things by the father's partiality to his children, which, in its turn, is accounted for by his relation to their mother. The natives say that his free gifts to the children are a reward for the free cohabitation which he enjoys with his wife.^

1 1 have dealt with the relation between tribal law and the usages which are formed in reaction to it in Crime and Custom, esp. pt. ii, ch. iii.


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CHAPTER VIII

PREGNANCY AND CHILDBIRTH

We had to make a digression into the domain of soci- ology, led thereto by the Trobriand beliefs concerning procreation and spiritual incarnation and the great in- fluence which these exert upon family and kinship. Let us now resume our consecutive account by considering the course of pregnancy and childbirth. In the first two sections of this chapter I shall describe one observance which is of outstanding interest to the ethnologist: the special public ceremonial performed when a woman is passing through her first pregnancy. The succeeding two sections will be devoted to the customs associated with childbirth and maternity in general.


PREPARATION FOR THE FIRST PREGNANCY RITES

Pregnancy is first diagnosed by the swelling of the breasts and the darkening of the nipples. At this time a woman may dream that the spirit of one of her kins- women brings her the child from the other world to be reincarnated. If during the next two or three moons her menstrual flow makes no appearance, then, say the natives, it is certain that she has become pregnant (isuma). Native embryology teaches that four moons after the ap-

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pearance of the haloma in the dream the abdomen begins to swell 3 and when this stage in a first pregnancy is reached, the relatives of the mother-to-be take steps to provide her with certain ceremonial garments prescribed by custom 5 a plain white fibre petticoat, and a long cloak {saykeulo) of the same material (pi. 42). These will be given to her in about the fifth moon of her pregnancy with a great deal of ceremony, and she will wear them on that occasion for a month or two and also after she has given birth to the child. This ceremony is never per- formed for an igamugwa^ a woman who has already been pregnant, but only for an igava^Uy a woman who conceives for the first time.

As with every other ceremonial occasion in the Trobri- ands, this presentation of the fibre cloak has its place in a definite sociological scheme. The duties connected with it are distributed among certain relatives who subsequently receive an appropriate payment. The task of making the robes and of offering them to the igava^u falls to the female relatives of the girPs father — the women whom she calls generically tahugu — and the lead is taken by the father's own sister. We have already seen on an earlier occasion of great importance in the life of a girl, namely when her marriage is about to be concluded, that it is the father, and not her official guardian, the mother's brother, whose consent is decisive and who has to super- vise the whole affair. Again, in this later crisis, it is the father and his matrilineal kinswomen who take the active part. The father summons his sister, his mother, and his xiiece, and says to them: "Well, come to my house and cut

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the saykeulo for your niece, my daughter." The father's sister then takes the lead, and rouses as many of her kins- women as possible to help in the work. They come to- gether, talk the matter over, and arrange when they will begin. The saykeulo is always made in front of the father's house, or, if he be a chief, on the central place of his village. The women sit down in a wide circle round a heap of banana leaves to which every worker has con- tributed several bundles, frayed ready for use. Then the pieces are bound together, amid continuous chatter and a hubbub of voices and laughter. It is an exclusively fe- male gathering, and no man with any sense of decency and etiquette would come near. Four garments have to be made: two long mantles and two skirts. One of the mantles is to be worn at the initial celebration of first pregnancy and the second when the mother first appears in public after her confinement 3 the two skirts are also for use after the birth. The four garments can be easily finished at one sitting, though a second is sometimes necessary when there are too many gossips present for the work to go quickly. When the garments are finished, usually in the afternoon, the workers pass to the magical part of the performance. For, as always in the making of a really important object, or one which has to be en- dowed with definite properties and powers, magic is an essential part of the process of production.

I had good opportunities for studying the magic of pregnancy robes. I observed and photographed the rites in progress at the village of Tukwa'ukwa, and in the same village I obtained the formula of saykeulo magic, as it

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was then recited, also I discussed the ceremonial with the actual performers, as well as with women in other lo- calities.

The rite is simple, but interesting, for it reveals the native ideas of the nature of magical force and of the way in which it operates. A mat is spread on the ground and the four pregnancy garments are placed upon it (pi. 43 ) . The women have brought with them the fleshy lower parts of certain creamy white leaves, which come from a lily plant bearing a snow-white flower. These are cut into pieces (pi. 44) and strewn over the robes. Those among the robe-makers who know the formula — and there are always several of them — kneel round the bundle, and, bending over it, thrust their faces right into the fibre stufiF (pi. 43), so that it may be well permeated with the breath which carries the magic words :

"O bwaytuva (a bird similar to the reef heron but with quite white plumage), hover over Waybeva (the creek of Tukwa'ukwa village), swoop down to Mkikiya (the waterhole of the village) ! O bwaytuva y hover over Mkikiya, swoop down to Waybeva!"

This is the exordium {u*ula)^ the opening part of the magical formula, in which, as we see, a white bird is in- vited to hover over the bathing place and the principal water supply of the village.^ Then follows the main part {ta'pwana) of the spell. In this the phrase bwaytuva ikata — "the bwaytuva bird sharpens" (i.e. makes brilliant or resplendent) — is repeated with various words, each of

1 For the structure and general characteristics of the Trobriand spells see Argonauts of the Western Pacific, ch. xviii.

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which describes a part of the pregnancy robe. In the Trobriandsj as no doubt in every other society, each detail of a lady's garment is carefully defined and has its specific name. These are enumerated and coupled one by one with the leading phrase. Thus the formula con- tains a series of such incantations as "the hwaytuva bird makes resplendent the top hem of the robe," "the hway- tuva bird makes resplendent the fringe of the robe," and so on. Then the same phrase is repeated with various words describing parts of the body: "the hwaytuva bird makes resplendent the head of my tahu (my brother's child)," "the hwaytuva makes resplendent the nose of my brother's child" j and so on to the cheeks, the chest, the belly, the groins, the buttocks, the thighs, the knees, the calves, and the feet. The formula thus enumerates every part of the body with a consistent pedantry characteristic of Trobriand magic. The end-part {dogina) runs thus: "No more is it her head, her head is like the pallor before dawnj no more is it her face, her face is like the white sprouts of a young leaf of the areca plant 5 praise her by robbing Jher house! praise her by demanding a tilewaH (flattery gift)!"

This formula expresses, in terms of magic, a wish to improve the personal appearance of the wearer of the robes, and it is especially associated with the whiteness of her skin. A bird of beautiful form and of brilliantly white plumage is invoked at the beginning, and its name acts as the most powerful charm in the principal part of the formula. Its association with the names of the creek and the waterhole in which the pregnant woman has ta

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bathe and wash, may possess the power to whiten her skin.

The conclusion anticipates the result, a form very common in the Trobriand spells: the face of the pregnant woman becomes pallid like the white sky before dawn, and like the young sprouts of areca. The last two sentences of the formula refer to the curious custom which allows anyone who gives flattery or praise after a remarkable achievement or performance and removes a piece of decoration as a pledge, to demand a special gift, tile^d*L In the case of a still more remarkable achievement, the lucky man who is to gain by it may have to see all his belongings on which the members of the community can lay hand kwaykwaya — that is, "taken away as expression of admiration." The remarkable achievement thus fore- shadowed in the first pregnancy rites is the resplendent whiteness of the pregnant woman's skin.

From another village — Omarakana — I obtained the initial fragment of the magic used there by certain women. In this formula also a bird is addressed:

"O white pigeon, come, lull our pregnancy cloak to sleep. I shall go and lull your egg to sleep."

The pigeon invoked is notable for the whiteness of its plumage and of its egg's shell. The "lulling" of the pregnancy cloak refers, it is said, to the child to be born, whose skin should also be made white. We shall have to speak at some length about this fundamental idea of whitening the skin which underlies the pregnancy cere- monial.

In their general character, the proceedings are similar to most rites in the Trobriands. The women finish the

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robe and then, in very much the same business-like manner, go on to the magic. The white lily leaves are cut by one of them immediately after the robe is finished (pi. 44), and the garment is spread on the mat by another. While the magic is being recited (pi. 43), no disturbing noises are allowed, but neither is anyone excluded 3 the onlookers adopt no special attitude, nor have they any observances to keep. After the women have impregnated the robes with the magical virtues of the spell, they beat the bundle with their palms. This increases the garments' power of imparting whiteness to the wearer. The tap- ping is conceived as the "waking up of the garment." The rite is called yuvisila saykeulo^ the breathing over of the pregnancy robe. The four robes, together with the white cut leaves strewn over them, are now covered with another mat, so that the magic may not evaporate, and the whole bundle is placed in the house of the principal tahulay the father's sister.


CEREMONIAL OF FIRST PREGNANCY

On the day following the making and charming of the robe, the actual investment of the pregnant woman takes place. With this is associated her public bathing and washing and her magical adornment. I shall describe the ceremony as I saw it in the village of Tukwa'ukwa, where, in May, 191 8, I and my friend, the late Mr. B. Hancock, were able to take photographs of it (pis. 43, 44, 45, 46, 49, and 50). My friend had also photo-

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graphed and recorded the ceremony about a year before when it had taken place in the same village (pis. 42, 47, and 48). In the course of my narrative, I shall indicate such local differences as obtain between the coastal vil- lages, of which Tukwa'ukwa is one, and the inland set- tlements, distant from the seashore.

Very early in the morning, the whole village, or at least all its female inhabitants, are astir and preparing for the spectacle. The tabula (father's sister and other paternal relatives) forgather in the father's hut, where the pregnant woman awaits them. When all is ready, the prospective mother proceeds to the seashore, walking between two of her tabula.

From the inland villages not too far distant from the sea, the procession would also go down to the beach j but those villages far enough away to consider themselves "inland people" perform the pregnancy bath at the water- hole where they usually wash. If the woman is of high rank, she will be carried all the way to the shore or to the waterhole. In the ceremony, only women take an active part.

Tukwa'ukwa lies right on a tidal inlet of the lagoon, and the woman was carried to the beach by her female tabula. Since this is a purely female ceremony, good manners indicate that no man should participate, and men would not enter the water to look at the performance. There is no specific taboo, however, nor were any objec- tions raised to my presence.

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their opposite partners crosswise, in the manner called by children "queen's chair." Over this living bridge the pregnant woman walks, holding on by the women's heads, and as she advances, the rear couple move to the front, constantly extending the bridge. Thus they go some dis- tance into the water, the pregnant woman walking dry foot on the arms of her companions (pi. 45). At a cer- tain point she is allowed to jump into the water. Then they all begin to play with one another, the prospective miother being always the centre of the game. Her com- panions splash water over her, and duck and drench her to the utmost, all in a spirit of exuberant good-natured playfulness (pi. 46). It is the duty of the tabula to see that the woman is well washed during the ceremonial bath. "We rub her skin with our hands, we rub her sur- face, we cleanse her."

The drenching and washing being thoroughly done, she is brought on to the shore and placed on a mat. Al- though on most occasions she is carried by her relatives to the beach, from this moment she has to be completely isolated from the earth, and must not touch the soil with her feet. She is placed on a coconut mat and her tabula (father's maternal relatives) proceed to make her toilet very carefully and with an elaborate magic ritual. This magic of beauty has certain affinities with the ceremonial performed by men during the kula expeditions (see Ar- gonauts of the Western Pacific y ch. xiii, sec. i), though the spells of men and women differ.^ It is, on the other

II have stated in the above-mentioned work, on p. 336, that "This branch of Kula magic has two counterparts in the other magical lore of the Trobrianders. One of them is the love magic, through which people

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hand, identical in spell and rite with the beauty magic performed by women on men at great dancing festivals j in fact, the spells which I obtained at the pregnancy rites and which are given later in this book, are used on either occasion (see ch. xi, sees. 2-4).

After her bath, the pregnant woman has first to be rubbed and dried. This is done ritually. Some coconut husk fibre, which is kept ready at hand, is charmed over with the kaykakaya spell by the tabula (father's sister) and the skin of the young woman is rubbed.^ Then some of the soft spongy leaves of the wageva plant, which usually serve the native as a natural towel, are charmed with another formula and the woman is rubbed again. After her skin has been thoroughly dried, the pregnant woman is anointed with charmed coconut oil, and the attendants put a new brightly coloured fibre skirt on her, while the wet bathing skirt is removed from underneath. This festive skirt is not one of those recently made for the pregnancy, nor is its putting on associated with any magical rite. But a purely magical action follows: the

are rendered attractive and irresistible. Their belief in these spells is such that a man would always attribute all his success in love to their efficiency. Another type closely analogous to the beauty magic of the Kula is the specific beauty magic practised before big dances and fes- tivities." This statement is slipshod, in that the real counterparts of mnuasila {kula magic) of beauty are the magic performed on dancers and described here in ch. xi, and the magic of pregnancy with which we are dealing just now. The three forms, miuasila, pregnancy rites and festive beauty magic are, in fact, akin to each other, though only pregnancy magic and the festive ritual are the same in spell and rite, while the mnvasila resembles both only in aim and doctrine. Love magic, though presenting some similarities, not only differs profoundly in rite and spell, but is based on a special native doctrine. (Cf. below, ch. xi.)

1 For the text of this and the subsequent spells here mentioned, see below, ch. xi, sec. 3 and 4. The spells of mivasila, quoted on pp. 337-342 of Argonauts, should also be consulted.

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face of the young woman is stroked with a mother-of- pearl shell while one of the tabula mutters a spell of beauty (see ch. xi, sec. 4). The three acts of the cere- monial so far described are supposed to make her skin smooth, clear, and soft, and her appearance generally beautiful. Several successive stages of personal decoration follow, each performed in a ritual manner. First, mut- tering a magical formula, a tabula decorates the prospec- tive mother's mouth and face with red paint. After that black paint is applied to the face with another spell. Then the hair is combed while yet another formula is recited. Red hibiscus flowers are fastened in her hair, and aromatic leaves with charms breathed into them thrust into her armlets. After this the young woman is considered to be fully arrayed.

All this ritual dressing and adornment is associated with beauty magic, which custom and tradition impose at this stage but which stands in no direct connection with pregnancy or the pregnancy robes. Only when this beauty magic has been performed may the proper preg- nancy rite, the investment with the long robe, be car- ried out. The tabula place one of the two saykeulo (preg- nancy robes) on the young woman's shoulders, and once more recite the formula used in the making of it, breath- ing the charm right into the robe (see pi. 47). It is also customary at this point, though not imperative, to recite over her some magic against the dangers of pregnancy and childbirth, a magic prophylactic against the special evil of sorcery, which is always dreaded at a confinement (see next section).

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Throughout this ritual the prospective mother has been, standing on a mat, for, as we have already said, her bare feet must not touch the soil after the bath. Now, dressed in full dress and covered with the long fibre mantle, she is lifted up by two of her tabula (pis. 48 and 49) and carried to her father's house, where a small platform has been erected on which she is set down (pi. 50). It is customary for a woman of chieftain's rank to go, not to her father's, but to her maternal uncle's house, and there to remain seated on a high platform.

Upon this platform the woman has to stay for the rest of the day. During that time she must remain prac- tically motionless, she must not speak except to ask for food or drink, and even this she ought if possible to do by signs. She must not touch food with her hands 5 it is put into her mouth by her tabula. Her immobility is only broken from time to time that she may wash her face, her arms and shoulders, and rub her skin. For this pur- pose water is either brought to her in a wooden basin by her husband, or she is carried by two women back to the water's edge, and there she washes standing on a mat. After sunset she is allowed to retire to her father's house to rest, but the next day she has to return to the platform and there resume her seated immobility, and observe all her taboos as on the first day. This is repeated for from three to five days, according to the rank and importance of the woman and of her husband. Nowadays, with the relaxation of all customs, one day is often considered long enough.

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woman may return for a few more months to her hus- band's house J or she may go to the house of her father or of her maternal uncle. To one of these she must in any case repair for her confinement. She dresses in the saykeulo (pregnancy mantle) until it is worn out. As a rule it lasts for about two months, so that it has to be discarded some two months before confinement.

There is more than one important feature associated with the first pregnancy ritual. As always in the Tro- briands, ceremonial services rendered by a certain class of relative must be repaid by the actual, that is maternal, kinsmen of the person served. In this case the work, the magic, and the ritual are performed by the female rela- tives of the father. In the distribution of food {sagali)^ which immediately follows the ceremony, it is the moth- er's brother, the brother, and the other maternal kinsmen of the young woman, who do the distributing. If she is a woman of small importance, this distribution takes place before her father's house. But if she, or her father or husband, be a person of high rank, it is carried out on the central place of the village. The procedure is the same as in the mortuary and other ceremonial distributions. The food is divided into heaps and every heap is allotted to a single person, his or her name being called out in a loud voice. After the first pregnancy rites, each one of the tabula who has been working at the robe and taking part in the ceremony receives a heap of food. Besides this, the givers of the sagali (distribution) usually select

1 See Argonauts of the Western Pacific, pp. 182-3, and references in Index, s.v. sagali, and below, ch. xi, sec. 2.

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some specially large and fine yams, or a bunch of bananas or areca nut, and carry the gift to the house of the pa- ternal aunt, and perhaps to those of one or two other relatives as well. Such additional payment is called "pemkwala,

A minor but very interesting ceremonial is associated with this distribution. The father of the pregnant woman — ^who has nothing to do with the sagali — chooses some specially good food and carries it, on his own account, to certain women who are known to possess a form of black magic of which pregnant women stand in great fear. "Black" this magic is, literally as well as metaphorically, for by addressing the mwanita (black millepede), the sor- ceress is able to make a pregnant woman's skin black, as black as the worm itself. The father's gift, which is brought to the house door and belongs to the class called katubwadela hwala (house-closing-gift), is intended to forestall and arrest any evil intentions which the sorceress might harbour. As one of my informants put it: "That their anger might come to an end, that they might not perform the evil magic that blackens the skin of that woman, that pregnant one."

This brings us back to the question of the idea under- lying the first pregnancy ceremony, and of its aims and purpose. If the average Trobriander is asked the reason or cause, u^uluy of a custom, the usual ready answer is one of the stereotyped phrases, tokunabogwo ayguri ("of old it has been ordained"), Laha^ lay ma ("it came from Laba'i," the mythological centre of the district), tom- wayay tomwayay ivagise ("the ancients have arranged it"). In other words, the custom has in their eyes a traditional

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sanction 3 and every respectable person among savages, as well as among ourselves, has, of course, to do a thing because it is done and because it always has been done. But I obtained a certain number of special reasons for this particular usage besides the general one. Some main- tain that the ceremony makes for a quick and easy birth j "for," as they say, "the playing about in the water loosens the child in the womb." Some say that it assures the health of the mother and of the baby 3 and yet others that it is necessary for the proper formation of the foetus. One woman gave as the reason for the ceremony, that the spirit child was said to enter the woman while she was in the ritual bath, but her statement was not confirmed by anyone else, and I consider it spurious.

But the prevalent opinion of the natives is that the ceremony is to whiten the skin of the woman. This opinion wp:6 expressed to me by my best informants among the mer., as well as by several women with whom I dis- cussed the matter. It is also in harmony with the text of the magical formula and with the ritual actions, as well as with the nature of the central symbol, the pregnancy mantle. The use of the saykeulo, as my informants pointed out, is to keep the sun off the skin. The woman has to wear it after the ceremonial bathing, and when she has had to discard it she should keep indoors as much as possible until the confinement. This idea of whiteness as a thing to be desired is also expressed in the main ceremony of first bathing, and in the subsequent ritual washings, which the pregnant woman continues until her confinement and after it.

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as such is desirable. One thing is clear, however. Al- though whiteness of the skin is usually regarded as a personal attraction, in this case the woman is not made white in order to be erotically seductive. When I asked why a pregnant woman must try to make her skin white, I received the answer: "I£ a woman does not wash and anoint, and if her skin is black, people will say this woman is very bad, she has men in her mind, she does not look after her confinement." Again they would say, explain- ing the motive for the whole ceremony: "This is done to prepare her skin for the confinement washings j and to make her desire to be white. Thus we see when her skin is white that she does not think about adultery." From another informant I received the statement: "The say- keulo covers her up completely: breasts, legs, backj only her face you see. It makes her skin white, it shows she does not have connection with men." Thus the woman is made white and beautiful by all this magic. Yet she must hide her charms, she must not attract other men, and she has to keep more stringently faithful than at any other time of her wedded life. Nay, as will be seen, she must even abstain from lawful intercourse with her hus- band.


CUSTOMS OF PREGNANCY AND CONFINEMENT

In the foregoing section the ceremony of first preg- nancy was described. Now we proceed to the customs of pregnancy and confinement in general. The ritual bath- ing, the ceremonial investment with the pregnancy man-

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tie, the magic o£ whiteness and of beauty, are only per- formed before the first child is born. But making the skin as white as possible by ordinary means, including the use of the mantle, is a feature of every pregnancy. On subsequent occasions the mantle is made by the woman herself or it may be given by a tabula and repaid by her, but as a private transaction only.

Some five months after conception, that is at the time of the ritual bathing in a first pregnancy, the prospective mother begins to observe certain food restrictions. She must abstain from what the natives call kavaylu^a (deli- cacies which consist mainly of fruit) . The banana, the mango, the malay apple, the South Sea almond, the paw- paw, the bread-fruit, and the natu fruit are forbidden to her. This taboo has reference to the future health of the child. "If she eat kavaylu^ay the child will have a big belly 5 it will be full of excrement and will soon die." The diet of a pregnant woman is henceforth reduced to the staple vegetable food {kaulo)j that is yams, taro, na- tive peas, sweet potatoes, and other produce of the gar- den. She is also allowed to eat meat and fish, but she must abstain from certain kinds of the latter. The fish which she is forbidden to eat are such species as live in the submarine holes of the coral. The natives say that just as it is difficult to haul these fish out of their hiding places, so the baby would not easily be brought forth. Fish with sharp, pointed and poisonous fins, which are on that account dangerous to the fishermen, are taboo to the pregnant woman. If she were to eat any of them the child would be ill-tempered and constantly wailing. As

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pregnancy progresses and the woman becomes big, sexual intercourse must be abandoned, for, as the natives say, "the penis would kill the child." This taboo is rigorously observed.

Otherwise the pregnant woman leads a normal life almost up to the time of her confinement. She works in the garden, fetches water and firewood, and cooks the food for the household. She has but to shield herself from the sun by wearing the saykeulo (pregnancy man- tle), wash frequently, and anoint herself with coconut oil. Only towards the close of pregnancy when the first saykeulo is worn out and discarded, must she keep out of the sun and therefore abandon some of the heavier work.

As in a first pregnancy, so in all the subsequent ones, the woman, about the fifth month, has to take up her abode in her father's house and she may remain there or she may return again to her husband's house until some time before the confinement, when she invariably goes to the house of her parents or maternal uncle. This re- moval to the father's or mother's brother's house is a rule observed in every childbirth, the woman leaving her hus- band's house in about the seventh or eighth month of her pregnancy.

This custom is associated with the strong fear of the dangers which surround a woman in childbed, and which are conceived to be due to a form of evil magic, which is called vatula bam (the chilling or paralysing of the uterus). And again, in the face of this great danger, we see once more the interesting recrystallization of kinship ties, the shifting of responsibility and solidarity. Here,

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again, only the actual maternal kinsmen and kinswomen are, in the eyes of custom and tribal law, regarded as re- liable. The woman has to go to her father's house, for that is also her mother's home, and her mother is the proper person to look after her and the baby. The mother also is concerned in warding off danger with the help of her male relatives, who forgather at the house of the birth and see to it that a proper watch {yausa) is kept over the lying-in. Such a watch, kept by men armed with spears who sit all the night long over fires and guard the house and its every approach, is considered the main defence and precaution against sorcerers who, surrounded by nocturnal birds, are supposed to prowl about, attempt- ing to cast the valuta bam magic. Primarily, it is the duty of the husband to carry out the yausa^ but in this he is never trusted alone, and the male relatives of the preg- nant woman not only assist but also control him. The in- teresting thing about this form of sorcery is that it does not only exist in the fear and superstition of the natives, but that it is actually attempted and carried out by male sor- cerers. The formula is recited, the house approached, and the evil charm cast according to the prescribed rites.^ I have even obtained the spells of this magic and the cura- tive counter spells, but as this question essentially belongs to the subject of sorcery, I shall reserve it for a future publication.

When her time approaches, the parental house is made

^ Cf. the difference between the purely imaginary witchcrart of the flying women (yoyo'va) and the sorcery really carried out by the male wizards {bivaga'u), Argonauts of the Western Pacific, ch. ii, sec. vii, and ch. X, sec. i ; and ch. ii of this book

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ready. The father and all the male inmates have to leave, while some female kinswomen come in to assist the mother. When the first pains are felt, the woman is made to squat on the raised bedstead with a small fire burning under it. This is done "to make her blood liquid," "to make the blood flow." At the critical mo- ment the woman in labour and her attendants may repair to the bush, where confinement is sometimes allowed to take place, but more usually they remain in the house.

About the actual travail, I have been able to obtain only the following information. The woman in labour is seated on a mat placed on the ground, with her legs apart and her knees raised. Leaning back, with her hands on the ground behind her, she rests her weight on her arms. At her back stands her sister or some other close maternal relative, who bears heavily on the labouring woman's shoulders, pressing down and even thumping her vigor- ously. As the natives say: "This woman presses on the parturient one so that the baby may fall out quickly." The mother of the woman in travail waits to receive the baby. Sometimes she catches hold of her daughter's knees. A mat is placed in position, and on this the newly born is received. I was told that the baby is allowed to come to birth by means of natural efforts only, and that it is never pulled out or manipulated. "The child will fall on to the mat, there it lies, then we take it. We do not take hold of it before." The parturient woman tries to help on the process by stopping her breath and so bearing down on the abdomen.

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course, to the evil magic o£ the valuta ham and they sum- mon someone who knows the vlvlsa (curative formula) to counteract this evil. This is recited over the aromatic leaves of the kwebila plant, and the body of the woman is rubbed with them. Or else the charmed leaves are placed on her head and then thumped with the fist. Only in the most difficult cases and when the vivisa has proved ineffective would the child be manipulated, and even then, from what I gathered, very timidly and incompetently. If the afterbirth does not come out in due course, a stone is tied to the mother's end of the navel string. The vivisa (curative formula) is then recited over it, and the woman made tc\ stand up. If that does not help, they are at their wit's end, and the woman is doomed, as they do not know how to extract the afterbirth by manipula- tion. The natives were very much astonished when they saw how Dr. Bellamy, who for several years had been medical officer in the Trobriands, used to remove the afterbirth.^

Some three days after the birth, one of the tabula (paternal kinswomen) of the mother of the new-born child heats her fingers at a fire and kneads off the re- maining piece of the navel string near to the baby's ab- domen. This and the afterbirth are buried in the ground within the garden enclosure. Underlying the custom is a vague idea that it will make the new-born a good gar- dener, that it will "keep his mind in the garden." After the removal of the umbilical cord, the child may, though

1 This information I received independently from Dr. Bellamy, at that time Assistant Resident Magistrate and Medical Officer of the district^ and from the natives.

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it need not, be carried out of the house. The mother has to remain for a month or so confined within the parental hut. Soon after the delivery, a string is twisted by the tabula and tied round the mother's chest. Some magic is associated with this, but unfortunately I never learnt what it was nor ascertained the meaning of the ceremony.


MOTHER AND CHILD

Mother and baby spend the greater part of their time during the first month on one of the raised bedsteads with a small fire underneath. This is a matter of hygiene, as the natives consider such baking and smoking to be very beneficial for the health, and a sort of prophylactic against black magic. No men are allowed into the house, for, since the woman baked over the fire is usually naked, no male should enter 3 but there are no supernatural sanc- tions for the custom, nor is any serious harm done if the taboo should be broken. After a month or so a miagic is performed called vageda kayfwakova; flowers of the white lily are burned with some dry wood, while the charm is spoken, and the woman is covered with the smoke of the smouldering faggot. This is done on two days in succession, and is supposed to make her skin still whiter. I did not obtain the formula of this magic. On the third day, the tabula ritually wash the young mother, and rub her skin with leaves charmed by the beauty spell used in the corresponding rite during the first pregnancy ceremony.

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The woman then goes out with the baby and makes the round of the village, receiving from friends and her father's relatives small gifts of food called va^otu. After she has finished the round, there is a mimic driving home {ibutusi) of her by the tabula (her maternal aunt and other relatives of the same ci^ss\ and here she has to re- main for another month in seclusion.

During this time husband and wife may only speak together through the door and glance at each other now and then. On no account must they eat together or even partake of the same food. Sexual intercourse between them is strictly taboo for a much longer time, at the least until the child can walk. But the stricter rule is to abstain from intercourse until it is weaned — that is, some two years after its birth — and this stricter rule is said always to be observed by men in polygamous households. The husband, even one who has several wives, must abstain from all conjugal or extraconjugal intercourse until the baby and its mother go out for the first time. A breach of any of these rules is said to bring about the death of the child. In the case of illegitimate children also, if the mother copulates too soon, the child is sure to die.

After the second seclusion, mother and child return to their own household, and the mother resumes her normal life, although much of her time is taken up with the baby. She wears a plain fibre skirt, two of which have been made for her by her tabula if this has been her first pregnancy. She also now wears the long mantle, saykeuloy the second of the two made for her by the tabula before the first pregnancy (pi. 51). If it is a second pregnancy,


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or if the baby is illegitimate, the skirt and the mantles are made by herself or privately by a relative, and are as a rule much shorter (see pi. 90). Also a young mother frequently wears a sort of maternity cap, called togebiy which is often made by twisting a small grass fibre petti- coat into a sort of turban/ Into her armlets she must insert a bundle of aromatic herbs {yana).

The most important of the cares bestowed on the child is, of course, concerned with its feeding. Besides the mother's breast which, as I was told, but very seldom fails, the child is given other food almost from the first days. Taro, well boiled, is chewed by the mother or by some of her relatives, and the mash, called mememay is given to the infant. The natives think that the child would be too weak if it were restricted to its mother's milk. Chewed yams and fish are not given till much later, when the child is almost a year old. The child's head is smeared with coconut oil mixed with charcoal "to make the head strong" as the natives say. One measure of cleanliness is observed day after day from the first hours of the baby's life: it is bathed regularly in warm water, with which the mother also washes her own skin. A specially deep wooden platter, called kaykwaywosiy is used for this purpose. The water is warmed by throwing stones heated in the ashes into the platter. Thus a hot and somewhat alkaline water is prepared, and this daily washing, followed by an anointing with coconut oil, is said to keep the skin of the mother and child white. The

1 Togebi is the general name for plaited discs or folded petticoats worn on the head as a support for baskets and other loads carried by women (cf. ch. i, sec. 3, and pi. 6).

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weaning of the child takes place long after birth, usually some two years or, as the natives put it, "when it is able to say clearly bakam ba/mom (I want to eat, I want to drink)."

During the weaning the child is separated from the mother, and sleeps with its father or with its paternal grandmother. When it cries at night a dry breast is given to it, or some coconut milk. If it is fretful and loses condition, it is taken to some distant village where it has relatives, or from inland villages to the seaside, so that it may regain its normal health and good spirits.

We have now brought the child up to the time when he will shortly join his playmates in the small children's world of the village. In a few years he will begin his own amorous life. Thus we have closed the cycle which runs through infantile love-making, youthful intrigues, settled liaison, marriage, and its results in the production and rearing of children. This cycle I have described in its main outline, giving special consideration to the socio- logical aspects as seen in prenuptial intercourse, marriage, kinship ideas, and the interplay of mother-right and pa- ternal influence. In the following chapters it will be necessary to describe certain side-issues and psychological aspects, concerned more particularly with the erotic life before marriage.


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We must now return to certain aspects of love-making, which had to be left out or barely touched upon in relat- ing the life history of the native. The facts described in chapter iii have shown us that, subject to certain restric- tions, everyone has a great deal of freedom and many opportunities for sexual experience. Not only need no one live with impulses unsatisfied, but there is also a wide range of choice and opportunity.

But wide as are the opportunities of ordinary love- making for a Trobriander, they do not exhaust all the possibilities of erotic life. In addition, seasonal changes in village life and festive gatherings stimulate sexual in- terest and provide for its satisfaction. Such occasions, as a rule, lead to intrigues beyond the limits of the village community j they loosen old ties and establish new ac- quaintanceships j they bring about short passionate affairs, which sometimes develop into more stable attachments.

Traditional usage allows, and even encourages, such extensions of ordinary erotic life. And yet we shall see that, though countenanced by custom and public opinion, they are felt to be an excess, to be something anomalous. Usually they produce a reaction, not in the community as a whole, but in the individuals offended by them.^

1 For a discussion of such licensed yet resented usages, see Crime and Custom, part ii.


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Some excesses — those, that is, which really deserve the name of orgiastic licence — are limited to one district alone, and are viewed by the other natives as quaint local anomalies j while those who practise them are proud, and at the same time ashamed of them. Even the common and outwardly decorous relaxations are considered as escapades and adventures, always to be planned in the penumbra of secrecy, and often resented, if not avenged, by the regular partners.

It has seemed best to divide the description of native sexual life into two parts, and to treat these separately. The normal maturing of the sexual impulse and its issue in matrimony had to be dealt with first. The facts which illustrate how the impulse is given a wider range, how it strays beyond the local group of everyday acquaint- ances and leads athwart home-made intrigues, will be given in this and the following chapters.

This division corresponds to the native point of view, and makes it possible to present the facts in a far truer perspective than if they were lumped together. But the two parts are closely connected, and the way in which they fit into each other will be evident in the account which follows.

I shall begin with a description of those occasions which regularly, in the course of each year, stimulate erotic in- terest, and at the same time provide wider opportunities for its satisfaction. There are certain seasonal and pe- riodical games 5 there are arrangements for picnics, excur- sions, and bathing parties j there are customary festivities associated with the economic cycle, and finally there is the annual season of festivities.

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THE EROTIC ELEMENT IN GAMES

Throughout the year, there is a periodic increase in play and pleasure -seeking at full moon. When the two elements so desirable in the tropics, soft light and bracing freshness are combined, the natives fully respond: they stay up longer to talk, or to walk to other villages, or to undertake such enterprises as can be carried out by moon- light. Celebrations connected with travel, fishing, or harvesting, as well as all games and festivals, are held at the full moon. In the ordinary course of tribal life, as the moon waxes, the children, who always play in the evening, sit up later and band together to amuse them- selves on the central place of the village. Soon the young boys and girls join them, and, as the moon grows fuller, the maturer youth, male and female, is drawn into the circle of players. Gradually the smaller children are squeezed outj and the round games and competitive sports are carried on by youths and grown-ups. On spe- cially fine and cool nights of full moon, I have seen the whole population of a large village gathered on the cen- tral place, the active members taking part in the games, with the old people as spectators.

The younger men and women, however, are the main players, and the games are associated with sex in more than one way. The close bodily contact, the influence of moonlight and shadow, the intoxication of rhythmic movement, the mirth and frivolity of play and ditty —

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all tend to relax constraint, and give opportunity for an exchange of declarations and for the arrangement of trysts. In this book we are chiefly concerned with the erotic element in games, but in order not to lose the right perspective, it must be realized that this is but one aspect of them. Children's play and adult games often contain no such element, and in none of them is it the only in- terest, or even the chief inducement to participation. Love of athletics, the need for exercise, competition, dis- play of skill and daring, aesthetic satisfaction and a sense of fun, are each quite as important as the sexual element. The games which are played on moonlit evenings on the central place of the village are perhaps the most im- portant of all. They usually begin with a round game of "ring-a-ring-a-roses" type, called Kasaysuya (pi. 52).^ Boys and girls join hands and sing, while they move first slowly and then, with the quickening rhythm of the chant, spin round faster and faster, until, tired out and giddy, they stop, rest, and begin again in the reverse direction. As the game progresses, and one ditty follows another, the excitement grows. The first ditty is one which begins with the words, ^^kasaysuya^ saysuya^^ referring to a bush after which the game is named. Each time they start on a new round, a new ditty is chanted. The rhythm in song and step is at first slow, grows rapidly quicker, and ends in a swift staccato repetition of the last syllables as the

1 This and the following illustrations (pis. 52-6) were taken whilst the children and youths were demonstrating the details of the games. The actual performances take place always after nightfall, and could not be photographed. The difference consists mainly in the presence of spec- tators, who are not to be seen in these illustrations.

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players whirl round and round. Towards the end of the game usually the rhymes become rather ribald.

These are examples of such kasaysuya ditties with sexual allusions:

I

Taytulaviya, viya, taytulaheulay heula (repeated)

furious taytu, stout taytu

Kavakayviyakuy kwisi tau^a^u

Enormous penis (of) men

Isisuse wa bwayma.

They sit in food-house.

Toyatalaga fofu

Fornicator excrement.

Free Translation

O, the rapidly growing taytu yams, O, the stout taytu yams.

Men with enormous penises sit on the food-house plat- forms

(i.e. keep away from women) — they are pederasts!

II

Imayase la kaykivi

They bring his soliciting message (of)

tokaka^u (repeated).

widower.

Ifayki nakaka^u.

He [she] declines widow.

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Ikaraboywa kwila tokaka^u.

It remains idle penis (of) widower.

Free Translation

They brought her the invitation to lie with him from

the widower — But the widow refused. So the widower's penis had to remain idle!

This ditty, I was told, would be sung if a widower were present, especially if he were too enterprising in his amorous offers, or if he misdirected them. It would also be sung if a woman wanted to stimulate his interest and encourage him.

Ill

Yokwamiga tau^a^u fniyawimi sayduwaku.

You indeed men your pubic leaves duwaku piece.

Saydukufiy kufi.

Short piece, short.

Galaga takakaya kukwpi.

No indeed we fornicate short (things).

Free Translation

O men you use dtdfuoaku strips for your pubic leaves:

They are short strips, far too short!

Nothing so short will induce us to fornicate with you!

IV

Yokwamiga vivilaga midahemi siginanabuy

You indeed women indeed your skirts (a flimsy leaf),

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SiginafatUy fatu,

(Flimsy leaf) narrow, narrow.

Galagay takakaya fatu.

No indeed we fornicate narrow (holes).

Free Translation

O women, you use the siginanabu leaves for your skirts:

They are narrow leaves.

Nothing so narrow will induce us to penetrate you.

The two chants are counterparts of one another, and show the typical kind of joke made about the dress of the other sex. My informant stated emphatically that they mean simply: ^^Gala takayta kaykukufi kwila — gala takayta kwayfatu wila,^ "We do not copulate (with one having) a short penis, we do not copulate (with one hav- ing) a narrow cunnus."

V

Yokwamiga giyovila kaynufisi nunimiga.

You indeed women of rank small your breasts indeed.

Kaykawala mitasiga gweguyaga.

Impressionable their eyes men of rank indeed.

Kamilogi habawa^

Your copulating support earthen mound,

kamiyaguma

your lime-pots

hix)ey kwey kwe, (make) kwe, kwe, kwe.

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Free Translation

O women of rank, your breasts are small indeed, But the eyes of men of rank are lecherous. You copulate on the ground, and while you do that, your lime-pots produce a rattling sound kuoey kwey kwe.

Social games always begin with this rhythmic running in a circle. Other figure games follow, in several of which only two people participate. Thus, a boy will put his feet on one of the thighs of another boy or man, who, standing up and holding him by the hands, swings in a circle (pi. 53)5 or two boys sit facing each other with the soles of their feet together, get a good grip on a stick, held between them, and try to lift each other ofiF the ground. This is a form of "cock-fighting." Most of the games, however, are played by many people j sometimes they are very conventionalized and remote imitations of serious pursuits, and sometimes they represent the be- haviour of animals. Thus in "Dog's Tail," two rows of boys face each other, and move to left and right 5 in ^^Rats" a row of boys squat and hop one after another (pi. 54); in "Cooking Pot," boys in the same position move slowly from one foot to the other 5 in "Fishing of Kuboya," boys advance in single file, the last one being caught by two who stand on either side with raised arms and let the others pass (pi. SS)* In this last we find the elements of our "Oranges and Lemons." More elabo- rate figures are enacted in "Stealing of the Bananas,"

  • ^The Parrot," and "The Fire." All these games with-

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out exception are accompanied by rhymes which are sung sometimes at the beginning, sometimes right through the game, and sometimes, as in "Bananas," at appropriate moments in the action. In none of these games ^s there any direct erotic element, but they all provide oppojfyu- nities for contact and for the handling of one another, io^- teasing and an exchange of jokes. In contest games, such as "Rats," "Dog's Tail," and "Fishing," only boys take part as a rule. In the more elaborate games, such as "Fire," "Bananas," and "Parrot," both sexes participate.


GAMES INVOLVING PHYSICAL CONTACT

This, also, is the invariable rule in the following games, which admit of even more intimate physical contact. The sina game forms part of the bathing ritual in the preg- nancy ceremony, and has been described in the previous chapter. In the village, boys and girls play it together. There is also a game in which the players stand in a long chain holding hands, and then walk, reciting a chant, round the person who stands at one end. This end re- mains immovable and the person at the other end leads the chain round in gradually narrowing circles until the whole group is pressed together into a tight knot. The fun of the game consists in squeezing the knot very tightly. It is then unrolled gradually by reversing the motion faster and faster, till at the end the others run round and round the fixed end until the chain breaks. Another game begins by two of the players sitting back

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to back 5 two more sit between the legs o£ each, serving as a support, and then two more between the legs of the second pair, and so onj and so seated they sing and begin to push backwards j the row which pushes the other one out of position wins. In both these games, close prox- imity lends itself to the preliminaries of love-making.

The favourite and most important game is a tug-of- war, bi^u (literally pulling). A long stout creeper is cut and an equal number of players, each standing behind another, take, hold of either half of the creeper 5 usually the game starts somewhere in the middle of the village place {haku). When all are in position, one side recites half the ditty, the other responds with the second half, and as the recital ends they begin to tug. Sometimes it is men against women j sometimes by accident or prefer- ence, the sides are mixed. Never is there any division according to clan, though kinship taboos between men and women are always observed, so that brother and sister, for instance, never stand near each other. Each side strives to "get the other going," and the real fun begins when one side proves itself the stronger and drags the other. A great deal of roughness is displayed in this game, also a considerable amount of disregard for any damage done to houses, young trees, or domestic objects lying about. When it is played in the form of a kayasUy a competitive arrangement of which we shall speak pres- ently, houses, yam stores, and young trees are said to be destroyed and people are sometimes injured.

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the players make use of them for erotic purposes. Not only does physical proximity allow of certain intimacies not otherwise possible, but, as we shall see later, it is in- dispensable for the exercise of some forms of love-magic.

Late at night, usually as a climax to the other games, the natives play "Hide and Seek" (supeponi). When this game is played on a large scale, the sides start from the central place, but hide outside in the weyka, the vil- lage grove (pi. sQ' As a rule the sexes divide, women and men hiding alternately. When one player finds another he has to chant a ditty in a loud voice. Those who are not found for a long time, return by themselves, each singing a special phrase, as he or she arrives at the meeting-place. As with the tug-of-war, this game is extremely popular, and the sexual motive is without doubt partly responsible for this. Couples will arrange to look for each other or to meet at some particular place, and it is easy to see how well this game is designed for trysts, though probably such are mainly of a preliminary nature. It is accordingly not considered proper for mar- ried women to join in "Hide and Seek."

On fine days the boys and girls will often arrange an excursion to some favourite spot. Usually they take food and cook it on a beach, or among the coastal rocks, or at some specially attractive waterhole. Sometimes they combine the excursion with fruit-gathering, fishing, or bird-trapping. At such times lovers will walk apart for greater intimacy. In the season of sweet flowering plants and trees they gather blossoms, adorn each other with

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garlands, and even with paint, and thus aesthetically cele- brate the occasion.

On hot days in the season of calm weather, boys and girls repair to the beach, to waterholes, and to creeks, where they engage in bathing games. Each game has its stereotyped action and its special name 5 and most of them are accompanied by a chant. The players swim and dive in groups j or stand in a row, chanting a ditty, and, as it ends, fall backwards into the water and swim away on their backs. Again, they stand in a ring, facing inwards, sing a few words, and then splash one another. There is a game which commemorates an old legend about the change of a man into a dugong. They also know the use of the surfboard and amuse themselves with it on the open sea-beach.

It is diiEcult to say exactly how far an erotic interest enters into these games. As in all the other games, so far described, the observer can see nothing in the slightest degree indecorous, but from conversations with natives and from their personal confidences, it is clear that amo- rous intrigues frequently start on such occasions. The splashing often passes into wrestling, and water games present the human body in a fresh and stimulating light.

3

SEASONS OF LOVE AND FESTIVITY

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in these months, as a strong wind blows during the mid- day hours. Water games are most popular in the hot seasons between the dry and the rainy weather, from February to May, and during October and November. These latter months — the spring of the Southern Hemi- sphere, and, in the Trobriands, the calm season following the dry months of the trade winds — are also the time of harvest celebrations.

Harvest time is one of joy and social activity, of con- stant visits between the communities, of competition, dis- play, and mutual admiration. Each village must send out its parties of boys and girls, with gifts of food. They wear a special dress, put aromatic leaves into their arm- lets and flowers into their hair, and a few lines of paint upon their faces. The girls put on a new fibre petticoat (pi. 6i), the boys a fresh pubic leaf. At times the cen- tral place is crowded with such harvest carriers (pi. 57). Such festive visits are an occasion for making new ac- quaintances and for a display of personal beauty, and thus lead to intrigues between members of different commu- nities.^ All the harvest customs favour erotic pursuits — visits to other villages and the added freedom, the gay mood and the care taken in personal adornment. After sunset, on the pretext of visiting the gardens, parties of boys and girls amuse themselves in other villages, return- ing home late at night. The fervour of these activities increases towards the full moon.

1 For the sociological and economic systems which underlie the distri- bution of the crops at harvest and the gifts between villages, see my article in The Economic Journal, March, 1921, and ch. vi of Argonauts of the Western Pacific.

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The harvest period is directly followed by the mlla- mday the annual feast associated with the return of an- cestral spirits to the village/ The inaugural ceremony is held at a certain full moon, and is followed by a month of dancing which reaches its climax at the next full moon. On the last few days before full moon, certain solemn celebrations are held, dances in full dress are performed, and offerings made to the spirits of the departed. The whole interest of the community is concentrated on these final celebrations. Men and women are intent on pro- ducing an effect of lavishness, on doing honour to their ancestral spirits and thus to themselves, and in general on achieving that renown {hutura) so dear to the heart of the Trobriander. The dances during this time are never directly associated with sex, but they serve to establish the fame of good dancers and thus to add to their personal

harm. On the night after the full moon, the spirits are

ceremonially driven away from the villages, and all danc- ing stops.

A period of quieter festivity follows the milamala^ that of the karibom. After the evening meal, the village drummers, standing in the centre of the village place {baku)j beat out a slow rhythm. Soon children, old men and women, youths and maidens, assemble in the central place and begin to walk round it. There is no special step, no complicated rhythm j only a slow, regular, monoto- nous walk. Such karibom walking takes place also in the

1 For a detailed description of beliefs and practices associated with the mtlamala see my articles, "Baloma, the Spirits of the Dead in the Tro- briand Islands," in Journal R. Anthrop. Inst., 1916, and "Lunar and Sea- sonal Calendar," ibid., 1927. Cf. also ch. xi, sec. 2, of this book.

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earlier stages of the milamala month, to be replaced to- wards its end by regular dancing.

The slow rhythmic walk of the kanhom is to a great extent a social promenade. In place of the single file of the ordinary dance, two or three people walk abreast j conversation is allowed and free choice in the matter of partners. An old man or woman will be seen leading a grandchild by the hand or carrying it. Women, some- times with babies at the breast, gossip together, and lovers walk arm-in-arm. Since the karibom usually falls on dark, moonless evenings, it lends itself to erotic ap- proaches even more than the ordinary games, and con- siderably more than the regular dancing. There are a number of modes of erotic attack which can be practised during the karibom by a boy walking immediately behind the object of his fancy. From this position he can clasp her breasts, a proceeding which, as the natives say, is use- ful in stimulating her erotic interest, and is also a condi- tion of certain forms of love-magic. Or else he may hold certain aromatic herbs under her nose, the smell of which, by its own virtue alone or by this enhanced with magic, exercises a powerful erotogenous effect. Or, if he be enterprising and his desire strong, he may, parting the fringe of her grass skirt, insert a finger in her vulva.

During the whole period of this festival, but more espe- cially during the first part, the milamala^ visits between communities take place. Sometimes these visits are offi- cial and ceremonial, as when one community is invited by another to admire a newly acquired dance, or to sell one of their own to it. A special term laga is applied to the

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sale of dances and one or two other privileges and titles/ For such an occasion, the whole community, with its head- man and best dancers, moves in a body to the other vil- lage and there ceremonially performs the dance, instruct- ing the purchasers in its intricacies (pi. 58). The visit is always returned. Large gifts (ya^otu) are associated with such visits, and have, as always, to be returned in an equivalent form. But sometimes groups of youths and maidens, boys and girls, will go from one village to an- other for their private pleasure, and join in the local karlhom (slow rhythmic walking). In this way new ac- quaintances are made and more or less temporary intrigues begun, distance and strangeness adding spice to the ad- venture.

Thus, in normal years, the festive mood of the mila- fnala spreads itself through the dull round of the karlhom. But if the food be plentiful and the festive mood exu- berant j if there are special reasons for celebration or some need to comfort the spirits of the people, as after a de- feat in war or an unsuccessful kula expedition, then the period of dancing is deliberately prolonged. Such an ex- tension is called uslgolay "together for a dance" {usl from •KJo^i = dance, gola^= to accumulate or forgather). It may last one, two, or even three months. Like the mila- malay this extension has its inaugural ceremony, its inter- mediate feasts, and its climax in an orgy of feasting and dancing which may last for several days. People from friendly villages are invited 3 they arrive with presents and return home laden with counter-gifts. All that has

1 Cf. Argonauts, p. 186.

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been previously said with reference to the sexual oppor- tunities offered by the main festival period obviously ap- plies also to the usigola.


CEREMONIAL GATHERINGS: KAYASA

The usigola (extension of dancing period) is only one type of the festivities into which the fnilmnala may be extended. The generic name for such periods of com- petitive obligatory dancing, amusement or other activity is kayasa. A kayasa is always organized upon a definite pattern, with a ceremonial according to its kindj and it has, in some aspects, the binding force of law. A kayasa need not be specially a period of amusement. There are kayasa of economic activities, such as gardening, fishing or the production of shell ornaments. But although the usigola belongs to this type of communal activity, it is never called kayasa; nor is this term applied to competi- tive ceremonial and obligatory expeditions of the kula type. Such special kula expeditions are always called uvalaku,^

In certain cases the activity round which a kayasa cen- tres is an exclusive privilege of the community or clan 5 but whatever its kind, initiative must always be taken by the headman, who acts as toUkayasa (master of the kayasa). It is he who, with the assistance of his clans-

^ For a description of the wvalaku, cf. Argonauts of the Western Pa- cific, passim. The place of the kayasa in economic life has been indicated in my article on the "Primitive Economics of the Trobriand Islanders,"' Economic Journal, March, 1921. Its legal aspect has been referred to in Crime and Custom in Savage Society, p. 61,

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men and kinsmen, has to provide the wherewithal for the big feast or, rather, the ceremonial distribution of food (sagali) which inaugurates the proceedings. Those who partake of this — and practically all the community have to do so — are under a formal obligation to exert them- selves for the whole period, so that the kayasa may be a success 5 and, at times, when their zeal in work or amuse- ment shows signs of flagging, a new feast is given to re- vive enthusiasm. There is a reason behind this fiction of a legal obligation towards the leader on account of food and gifts received: for the glory of a successful kayasa devolves principally upon the toUkayasa (the leader or owner of the kayasa). But, as we know already, there is also scope for the ambition of any participant, and the element of emulation is very strong in all kayasa. Each of them includes some form of competitive display or contest, and there is always a pronouncement of public opinion on the result. So that the most successful or energetic participants also receive an individual share of glory.

Among the kayasa of pure amusement, we may men- tion first the tug-of-war game, already described in this section. When played as a kayasa it is inaugurated cere- monially by a big distribution of food (sagali^ see ch. xi, sec. 2). After that it has to be continued night after night in full force, with utter disregard of personal inclination, comfort, or even property, which, as mentioned already, is often damaged. The community divides regularly into two parts j especially good tuggers acquire renown, and the stories of extraordinary feats, of special havoc wrought,

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or o£ long and arduous deadlocks, fill the whole district with the fame {huturd) of leader and participants. There is a sporting kayasa, specially popular in the southern part of the district, in which miniature canoes are sailed competitively. Another type of kayasa^ called kamrorUy is performed exclusively by women, and consists of com- munal singing. This is regarded as a counterpart of the ceremonial dancing, in which, with very rare exceptions, only men take part. In the kamroru kayasay women, in full dress, seat themselves on new mats spread on the central place and, swaying rhythmically, sing certain songs in unison. The men look on from the platforms of the storehouses and admire the most beautiful figures and the finest voices.

There is a more direct erotic appeal in the festivities connected with the sweet-smelling butta. The flowering season of the hutla tree coincides with the milamala period (annual feast of the returning spirits), and the flower kayasa is therefore only held in those years when owing to mourning there can be no dances in the village. Other- wise the season is always devoted to dancing. The flowers are collected in the jungle, made into wreaths and gar- lands, and exchanged with a blowing of conch-shells. As the natives put it: "We make kula (ceremonial exchange) with hutla wreaths." In fact, whoever initiates an ex- change has to say, as he offers the wreath: um^maygu^a (thy valuable present). A small return gift of food or betel-nut is then made, with the words: katn kwayfolu (thy preliminary return). Finally a counterpart of the first present is returned to the donor with the words: um

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yotile (thy return gift). Thus the exact terminology of the kula is followed in these transactions/ A festive character is given to the whole proceedings by the groups of people walking about and singing 3 by the gaily dressed boys and girls taking part in the ceremonial far into the night 5 and by the sound of the conch-shells, blown as each gift is presented.

The competitive element in the hutia festival lies in the quality and quantity of the presents received and, given, and, as in all forms of such exchange, to give or to re- ceive a magnificent gift contributes to the glory of either side. This kayasa provides opportunities for courtship and for the expression of mutual admiration 3 a would-be lover can display his appreciation of a girl in the magni- tude of his gifts, and at the same time flatter her vanity and satisfy her ambition. Thus beauty, erotic interest^ ambition, and vanity are the chief interests in this kayasa,

A more pronounced part is played by vanity in the fes- tivals of hair-dressing {wayfulu) and of ornamental shell discs {kaloma). The wayfulu is confined to the islands of Kitava and Vakuta. After a long period during which no deaths have occurred so that the people have been able to grow long hair, a display of this highly valued natural beauty is held (see ch. x, sec. 3). Only men take part in this kayasa. They adorn themselves, spread mats on the central place, and, teasing out their hair with the long- pronged Melanesian comb, they sing and display its charm. The women admire and pronounce judgment on the quality and beauty of the hair. The kayasa of shell

1 Cf. Argonauts of the Western Pacific, pp. 352-7.

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ornaments is held in the villages of Sinaketa and Vakuta. When a large number of these discs have been produced, the men adorn themselves, and day after day, evening after evening, parade the central place.

To a European observer the proceedings of a kayasor appear unspeakably monotonous and pointless. The repe- tition for weeks on end of exactly the same procedure prevents even an ethnographer from regular attendance at any. kayasa. But, for the native, apart from any feel- ing of duty, the whole affair has an intense interest and considerable attraction. In this, sex plays a considerable part. For the desire to show off, to produce a personal effect, to achieve butura (renown) in its most valued form, that of irresistible charm, contains a pronounced erotic element.


ORGIASTIC FESTIVALS

There is, or, at least, used to be till the missionaries came, one kayasa which centred round erotic dalliance satisfied in public and that very thoroughly. This kayasa was never practised in the northern and central parts of the district, but only by a few villages in the extreme south end of the island of Vakuta. It was called kamaliy a dialectic variation of the word kimaliy the erotic scratch- ing, which symbolizes the erotic approach, as does kissing with us. It is a general rule in all districts of the Tro- briands that, when a boy and girl are strongly attracted to each other, and especially before their passion is satisfied, the girl is allowed to inflict considerable bodily pain on

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her lover by scratching, beating, thrashing, or even wounding with a sharp instrument. However severely he is handled, such treatment is accepted in good part by the boy, as a sign of love and a symptom of temperament in his sweetheart. On one occasion, during the harvest festivities, I had to dress the wound of a boy who came to me with a deep cut in the muscles right across the back under his shoulder-blades. The girl who had made it hovered near in deep concern. I was told that she struck too hard without realizing it. The boy did not appear to mind, though he was evidently in pain, and (so I heard) he reaped his reward that same night. This case was typical. The kimali or kamali is a form of, feminine wooing, a compliment and an invitation, which in the kamali kayasa was systematized and carried out on a large scale. Boys in gala dress would walk round the central place singing: girls would come up to them and teasing jokes and repartee would be exchanged, very much as in other kayasa. But things were allowed to go very much further. Women, who were expected on such occasions to be much more forward than usual, would pass from teasing to scratching, and attack the boys with mussel- shells and bamboo-knives, or with a piece of obsidian or a small sharp axe. A boy was allowed to run away, and would do so if his assailant were not attractive to him. But it was a sign of manliness and a proof of success to be properly slashed about. Also, when a boy was attracted by a girl, he would, naturally, not run away, but take her attack as an invitation. The ambition of a woman was successively to slash as many men as she could 3 the am-

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bition of a man to carry away as many cuts as he could stand, and to reap the reward in each case.

I have never assisted at such a kayasa. As far as I could find out, through the interference of the white mis- sionaries and officials, not one had occurred within twenty years of my arrival. So that data collected about this kayasa are what might be called "hearsay documents." The account of scratching and cutting, how- ever, tallies so well with facts observed by myself that I have not the slightest reason to doubt its accuracy. What follows is given with due reservation, though it agrees with the reports about some other Melanesian and Poly- nesian natives. I was told by several independent in- formants, both from the districts concerned and from the north, that the relaxation of all control was complete dur- ing that kayasa. Sexual acts would be carried out in public on the central place j married people would participate in the orgy, man or wife behaving without restraint, even though within hail of each other. This licence would be carried so far that copulation would take place within sight of the luleta (sister, man speaking 3 brother, woman speaking): the person with regard to whom the strictest sexual taboos are always observed (see chs. xiii and xiv). The trustworthiness of these statements is confirmed by the fact that I was told several times, when discussing other forms of kayasa in the north, that all of them were carried out in a much more orgiastic manner in the south. Thus at a tug-of-war kayasa in the south, men and women would always be on opposite sides. The winning side would ceremonially deride the vanquished with the typical

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ululating scream {katugogovd)^ and then assail their prostrate opponents, and the sexual act would be carried out in public. On one occasion when I discussed this matter with a mixed crowd from the north and the south, both sides categorically confirmed the correctness of this statement.

In this context two occasional forms of customary inter- course may be mentioned. During the mortuary wake {yawaU\ which takes place immediately after a man's death, people from all the surrounding communities con- gregate and take part in the songs and ceremonies which last for the best part of the night. When, far into the night, the visitors return home, it is the custom for some of the girls to remain behind to sleep with certain boys of the bereaved village. Their regular lovers must not, and do not, interfere.

Another type of sexual latitude is associated with hos- pitality given to strangers j but this obligation was more strictly observed in former times when, owing to the greater fear and mistrust of strangers, the visitors were fewer and better chosen. I am told that it was then con- sidered the duty of a girl from the village to act as the stranger's partner for the night. Hospitality, curiosity, and the charm of novelty would make this duty perhaps not very arduous.

The only overseas strangers, who, in olden days, used to voyage regularly, were those who came to the Tro- briands on the kula trading expeditions. When the cere- monial stages of the visit were over and some exchange of gifts had taken place, the visitors would enter the vil-

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lage and hold friendly converse with the inhabitants. It was also the duty of the hosts to provide the guests with food 3 but this could never be given in the village, since it was against all etiquette to eat within a strange com- munity. Therefore it was taken to the beach where the canoes were moored. Thither the village beauties would carry it on platters, and wait till these were emptied. Friendly talk would ripen into intimacy, presents would be offered by the strangers to the girls, and their accept- ance was a sign that the girl was willing. It was consid- ered right, and sanctioned by custom, that the local girls should sleep with the visitors j and for this, also, accepted lovers had not the right to punish or reprimand them.

This holds good especially about the northern half of the island, visited by men from Kitava and the other Marshall Bennett Islands. In the southern villages, vis- ited by the foreign-speaking Dobuans and Amphlettans, the strangers also sometimes slept with the local girls. But this was not so usual, as the Dobuans never recipro- cated or allowed their women folk to grant any favours to visiting Trobrianders.

The customs and arrangements so far considered are partly seasonal, partly dependent on special circumstances. The games described at the beginning of this chapter, which take place by moonlight on the central place, are mostly played during the trade-wind season, from May to September. The harvest activities and festivals begin in June and last into August. The milamda begins in September and ends in October. Its date is fixed by the appearance of the falolo worm, which comes up regularly

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at a certain full moon. The name for this worm is also fmlamala^ and it is sometimes mystically connected with the arrival of the spirits. The kayasa is sometimes held during the milamala season, but usually it occurs imme- diately afterwards as an extension of the festival. Dur- ing the full rainy season which follows, January, Febru- ary, and March, the telling of fairy tales and gardening are the main social occupations. We shall have to touch upon these presently. Bathing games take place in April and May, October and November, between the dry and wet seasons.

What is the relation of these customs to the normal course of courtship described in chapter iii? They give opportunities for strangers to meet and for erotic interest to pass beyond the confines of the village. This may lead merely to romantic escapades which enrich experience and guide maturer choice within the community. But some- times such intrigues end in marriage, and then the woman always follows her husband since, as we know, marriage is patrilocal.

6

ULATILE ^YOUTH IN SEARCH OF AMOROUS

\ ADVENTURE

The periodical rise and fall of erotic life in the Tro- briands might be represented by a curve determined by tribal festivities, ceremonial customs, and economic ac- tivities. These, in turn, follow the moon and seasons in their courses. The curve rises regularly at full moon and its highest point occurs at and immediately after harvest.

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The drops in the curve are associated with absorbing economic pursuits and sports, with gardening and overseas expeditions. Certain of the festivals favour an overflow of erotic interest beyond the boundaries of a village com- munity.

A liaison between two people who live at a distance from one another, is not too easy. Many special customs of assignation, visit, and tryst, which the natives compre- hensively call ulatlley tend to assist separated lovers. Such visiting when done by men is called ulatiley which means literally "male youth," and describes the group of adolescent boys and young men who often act in a body in work or play (pi. 59). By an extension of meaning, the noun ulatile is used to describe "youthful exuberance," or even, more specifically, "sexual activity." We have met with this term already (ch. iii, sec. 2) in the com- pound td^ulaule (young man). Pronounced with a cer- tain intonation, this term conveys the meaning of "gay dog," or even "fornicator." Applied to a woman, it assumes the form naka^ulatiley and is used only with the derogatory meaning, "wanton woman," or more precisely, "a woman who desires more than she is desired." In its original etymological implication, it probably means "for- ward like a man" (see ch. xiii, sec. 4). Used as a verb, the root ulatile is applied primarily to males, and it sig- nifies "to go on a love-making expedition," "to have success with women," "to indulge in excessive sexual inter- course." It can be used by extension about women, except when it is applied to an expedition outside the village, in which case it refers only to men.

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There are two forms of ulatile expedition to which the word applies in a somewhat technical sense. The first is a matter of necessity: a lover must visit his sweetheart in her own village. If, on one of the several occasions described in the previous section, two people from dif- ferent communities have become strongly attracted by each other, they will arrange a meeting. As a rule the boy has some intim.ate friend in the girl's village, and this makes things easier, since this friend will help him. It is a matter of etiquette for the lover to adorn himself for the tryst, and this compels him to observe a certain measure of secrecy. He will not walk on the main road, but surreptitiously steal through the bush. "Like a sor- cerer he will go 5 stop and listen j go sideways and push through the jungle j no one must see him." Thus one of my informants likened such ulatile to the clandestine expeditions of sorcerers who, on their nocturnal expedi- tions, must not be seen by anybody.

As he approaches the village he has to be specially careful. In his own village such a passing intrigue, if discovered, would only arouse the jealousy of the accred- ited lover and start a minor quarrel. But an erotic poacher caught in another community might be seriously mishandled, not only by the jealous lover, but by all the other boys. He might also bring upon his sweetheart the reproaches of her regular lover. However, the main reason for secrecy is that it is enjoined by custom as a rule of the game. The two usually arrange to meet in the jungle near the girl's village. Sometimes the girl guides her lover to the chosen place by lighting a firej some-

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times they agree to imitate the call of a birdj sometimes she marks the way into the chosen spot of the jungle by tearing the leaves in a pattern or by placing leaves on the road.

If the passion stands the test of time and difficulty and ripens into affection, steps are taken to make the liaison permanent and official. The boy may join his friend in the village, and remain there under some pretext as a temporary citizen. Or else the girl will be accepted in his village and come to live there. When taking a village census, I often came across a girl who was staying in the community because she was living with some boy belong- ing to it. The two would sleep together in a hukumatula (unmarried boys' and girls' house) in the same way as an ordinary affianced couple (see ch. iii, sec. 4), and if the liaison went well, it ended naturally in marriage.

Another technical use of the word ulatile applies to an entirely different type of love-making expedition. .Sometimes a group of boys, who have brought away spe- cially pleasant memories of another community from some festive gathering, will decide to go there in a body, •on a regular ulatile expedition. Here secrecy is neces- sary, too. For though such expeditions are customary and, in a way, lawful, they constitute an encroachment on the rights of two other groups, the ordinary sweethearts of the ulatile boys, and the youths of the other village. If caught by either party the adventurers would have to face a volley of abuse, or even of blows j for girls in the Trobriands can defend their rights by force, and the boys in each community regard their women folk as their own preserve. The adventurers would, thereforej usually

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steal out at night and put on their ornaments outside their village. But once on the main road, they become bois- terous and defiant, for this is the proper behaviour on such an occasion. There are even some special bawdy songs, called Wuwdy to which they keep time as they go along.

LO'UWA SONG (l)


Bagiwawela! Necklace of Wawela!


Aramwaye! Bagigido^u! Hoho! Fine necklace!

Say am, Rafa^odi.

Sayam, Rapa'odi. Bakwatega Kadlratume,

I anchor indeed (on) Kadiratume (beach),


Isideli

He sits by her

Waydesi!

Hallo!

Agudeydesi!

Hollay!


un?unattne; young man 3 kafukafugula young woman, Kalamwaya! Hoho!


itolala,

she stands up.

Kalamwaya!

Hoho!


Free Translation "Hoho — (I come adorned with) a fine necklace, The necklace of Wawela, like Sayam with the armshell

Rapa'odi, I anchor on a beach in Gawa, a boy sits by his girl. She stands near him. Hallo! Young woman. Hurray, hoho, hurray."

Sayam is said to be a man celebrated for beauty j and famous ornaments, such as the Rapa'odi armshell, are associated with attraction, success and love magic. He

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appears here adorned with a famous armshell named Rapa'odi, which, as indicated in the free translation, means that the "I" of the song also wears a fine neck- lace. In the reduplicated form un^unatmey the ;^ is a dialectic equivalent of the / of ulatile.


Aramwaye!

Hoho! I'll sleep,

balage kuftra

I'll hear drum his (of)

Raytagine

It throbs (with dance music) karisaygwa^Uy their festival skirts,

Kala wosi

His song

Gigiremutu

Blackened

Tokivina


LO'UWA SONG (ll)

Bamasisiy bamamata;

I'll wakej


saygwa'u, festival skirts. layma^i

it fetches (attracts) okuvaUla. on their flanks.

oyamala, in hand.


owadolay lakatunenm on mouth, his small drum

kudula

his teeth

yamtu Wavivi

treads (village of) Wavivi


Tokivina

Yamtufnutu Wavivi,

He treads and treads (through the village of) Wavivi.

Free Translation

Hoho! I awake from my sleep, I hear the festive beat of the drums, as they throb with dance music — attracting women with full-dress skirts, with festive skirts on their flanks. With his song on his mouth,

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with his small drum in his hand, his teeth blackened, Tokivina rhythmically treads in the village of Wavivi, he walks in dancing rhythm through the village of Wavivi.

In this short song we have a condensed picture of a ulatile situation — the awakening at night, the sound of a distant drum announcing great festivities in a neighbour- ing village. And here, again, there is a legendary person moving in the background, partly as a good augury, partly as an ideal. The psychology of this traditional worship of personal beauty and charm will be discussed later on.

Such songs, I am told, were also sung in olden days to indicate that the party was neither on the warpath nor on a sorcery expedition, nor bent on any other real mis- chief. As they approach their goal they become quiet again, for they must not be seen by the village youths. The girls, of course, know when the expedition is draw- ing near, for everything has been previously arranged in detail. The visitor most familiar with the village creeps near and gives the agreed signal. One by one the girls sneak out of the houses and meet their lovers in the bush. Sometimes the girls are already awaiting them at some pre-arranged meeting place outside. Should this gather- ing of lovers be detected, a fight might ensue, leading, in former times, even to war between the two com- munities.

Such ulaule expeditions are definite deviations from the regular course of tribal life.^ They lead invariably to lovers' quarrels in both villages, and to serious dif-

1 For a discussion of the customary abrogations of law and conflicts be- tween various classes of custom, see Crime and Custom, part ii.

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ferences between the two communities. They were an important feature of love life in former days when armed expeditions for purposes of love-making were more usual than an individual ulatile. Nowadays, however, when it is so much easier and safer for a man or woman to walk alone even at night, the trysting of one boy with one girl is much more common.

To preserve perspective and to place the ulatile expe- ditions correctly in their context of tribal life, it must be realized that there are various occasions, apart from court- ship, on which the youth of the village would visit other communities in a body. At harvest and during the danc- ing season (see pis. 57 and 58), for common games and mortuary feasts, groups of young men, more or less dressed up, can be met on the road or seen paddling along in the large fishing canoes. As a matter of fact, the love- making expeditions from the lagoon villages of the west coast would also be made by water (see pi. 60). Thus a party of boys on the road, decorated and singing, may Le bent either on a real ulatile expedition, or else on some ordinary inter- village business or amusement j and it is difficult on surface evidence to draw any sharp distinction between erotic and other expeditions.

It is easy to see how inter-village intrigues fit into the general scheme of courtship described in chapter iii. The childish erotic experiences with which the sexual life his- tory of an individual begins always takes place within the community 5 the ulatile is one among the customs which carry erotic interest and those transitory affairs, which are the next stage in development, beyond the village..

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Such intrigues may become permanent and thus the ulatiler is one of the ways in which matrimonial choice is extended beyond a single village.


KATUYAUSI ^A CEREMONIAL ESCAPADE OF GIRLS

In matters of love the Trobriand woman does not con- sider herself man's inferior, nor does she lag behind him in initiative and self-assertion. The ulatile have their counterpart in the katuyausiy amorous expeditions of vil- lage girls to other communities.

Sometimes these expeditions are simply to avenge too- much ulatile on the part of the boys. Or, as happens in. coastal villages, the men are long absent fishing, trading,, or sailing, and the girls seek consolation in another village. At times the incentive is more directly feminine. The girls have equipped themselves with a specially brilliant supply of grass petticoats, and want to display them on a. wider stage than their own village. Some of my cynical informants affirmed that a katuyausi expedition is the girls' best means of replenishing their store of betel-nut and tobacco and of collecting an armlet or a comb, a. pleasing handbag or a new supply of beads.

I am also under the impression that on each occasion, the katuyausi party offer some pretext for their visit, such as the desire to see the crops, or to admire a new construc- tion, a chief's house or yam-house, or else they pretend, to be hawking some object for sale.

Whatever the chief incentive, and the pretext, as sooa

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as their decision is taken the girls will choose an interme- diary to arrange the date and conditions of their prospec- tive visit to the boys of the other village. The procedure of a katuyausi expedition differs greatly from that of a ulatile. The boys leave after sunset under cover of night, whereas the girls start as a rule early in the after- noon. The boys creep out of the village, but once fairly on the road, sing and behave boisterously. The girls also steal quietly away, but their behaviour is decorous throughout the journey. Near the other village the boys have to hide, but the girls enter the village grove openly, sit down there and put the finishing touches to their toilet. They paint their lips red with betel-nut, draw decorative lines on their faces, and fill their armlets with aromatic herbs (pi. 6i). It is etiquette for the local boys to allow them to remain alone on the outskirts of the village until they give the sign for the boys to approach. During this time the girls may sing, play the native (now the im- ported) Jew's harp, and chew betel-nut j when they are ready to receive, they sing the song which is the previ- ously arranged signal for the boys to come nearer. The latter have, of course, been expecting them, and now ap- proach in groups. Soon the whole village community is seated facing the girls, with the exception of their local rivals, who resent the intrusion and sulk, though custom does not allow them actively to interfere with the pro- ceedings.

It is evening by now, and the interesting stage of the visit is approaching. The katuyausi party have remained seated, nonchalant and detached (pi. 62). The youths

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and older men stand facing them, pursuing their own conversations with apparent unconcern. Then banter and jokes begin to pass from one side to the other 5 the boys come nearer the girls and the ceremony of choice begins. According to custom, the initiative in pairing off should come from the hosts, and each guest has to accept any offer made to her as a matter of etiquette. But, of course, definite preferences between the outstanding individuals of each group exist and are known. An unimportant boy would not dare interfere with the pleasure of his stronger, elder, and more influential comrade, so that in reality the choice is largely based on anterior intrigues and attach- ments. Each boy then ceremonially offers a small gift to the girl of his choice — a comb, a necklet, a nose stick, a bunch of betel-nut. If she accepts the gift she accepts the boy for that night as her lover. When the boy knows the girl well he presents the gift himself. If he does not, or if he feels too shy, he will ask help of an older man, who hands over the offering with the words, ^^kam va^otu" {va*otu — ^visiting present, present of induce- ment), "So-and-so gives it to you 5 you are his sweet- heart." Very rarely does a girl refuse or ignore such a present J if she did, she would greatly offend and mortify the man.

After the boys and girls have thus been allotted in pairs, they all, as a rule, go to some spot in the jungle, where they spend the best part of the night chewing, smoking, and singing, each couple keeping to themselves. At times a boy and a girl will leave the main group with- out any attention being paid to them. Some of the boys

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may invite their sweethearts to spend the rest of the night in a bukumatula of the village, but usually this presents difficulties. All the arrangements associated with the katuyausiy as well as with the ulatile, are distinguished by complete decorum, and by the absence of all orgiastic -elements. They are carried out, no doubt, in a less deli- cate manner in the southern villages than in the north, but even in the south they essentially differ from such •orgiastic customs as the kamaU, the bi^Uy and the custom of the yausay which will be described in the next section.

As far as I could gather, in former times no year would pass without some two, three or four katuyausi parties visiting a community. The first missionary had to ask for a special regulation in order to put down this "abom- inable abuse." At present, as a result of the white man's interference with local custom, combined with his intro- duction of much worse immorality, the regulated and decorous custom of the katuyausi has fallen into decay. But even while I was in the Trobriands, parties of girls from Okaykoda visited Omarakana, and from Kaybola went to Kwaybwaga3 also the Kwaybwaga girls avenged themselves on their lovers by going on katuyausi to Vilaylima. Early in my stay at Omarakana in 191 8, a number of such guests came, at harvest time and osten-

sibly to admire the yams, and I was even able to pho-

tograph them and to watch the earlier part of the proceedings.

The return of a katuyausi party to their own village is often a sad epilogue to a gay night. The girls try to •enter the village and regain their houses unobserved.

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But they are not always successful. If the whole party is waylaid and caught, the reckoning takes place then and there. The culprits are abused, beaten, and, as I was told by several of my informants, sometimes actually violated by their own lovers in public. Several boys would hold a girl, while the rightful owner exercised his prerogative as a punishment. If this be true it is the only exception to that rule of strict decorum in public which is observed by all Trobrianders, with the exception of the people of Vakuta, Okayaulo, and some others of the southern vil- lages.

8

YAUSA ORGIASTIC ASSAULTS BY WOMEN

We now turn to the extreme south of the main island, and the adjoining island of Vakuta. We have already mentioned these districts, not very honourably, several times. They are in general distinguished ethnologically by a certain coarseness of character and habit which is displayed in many aspects of their life. In sexual matters they are undoubtedly much more crude than the north- erners, and have practices which would offend the finer feeling for etiquette and decorum, if not for morals, of the latter. Also, in the past, these villages were on hostile terms with most of their neighbours.

The data which we have given above as to the orgiastic character of one or two forms of kayasa receive addi- tional confirmation from another custom which used to be in vogue among these natives. The exact nature of the custom, its full details and its correct perspective, must

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unfortunately remain obscure. All I know about it is from hearsay, and the custom is so unlike anything which I have seen myself, that I am unable to add those neces- sary touches of life which depend on actual observation.

All districts in the Trobriands have the economic custom of female communal labour in the weeding of gardens. Since it is a tedious, monotonous activity, which requires little skill and not much attention, and can be best enli- vened by gossip and company, the women work together at each garden in'turn, until all the village plots are weeded over. As in all other exclusively feminine occupations, it is bad form for any man to come near them while they are working, or to pay any attention to them save on a matter of business.

Now this communal weeding when practised by women of the villages of Okayaulo, Bwaga, Kumilabwaga, Louya, Bwadela, or by the villages of Vakuta, gives the weeders a curious privilege.^ If they perceive a stranger, a man from any village but their own, passing within sight, they have the customary right to attack him, a right which by all accounts they exercise with zeal and energy.

The man is the fair game of the women for all that sexual violence, obscene cruelty, filthy pollution, and rough handling can do to him. Thus first they pull off and tear up his pubic leaf, the protection of his modesty and, to a native, the symbol of his manly dignity. Then, by masturbatory practices and exhibitionism, they try to produce an erection in their victim and, when their manoeuvres have brought about the desired result, one

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of them squats over him and inserts his penis into her vagina. After the first ejaculation he may be treated in the same manner by another woman. Worse things are to follow. Some of the women will defecate and micturate all over his body, paying special attention to his face, which they pollute as thoroughly as they can. "A man will vomit, and vomit, and vomit," said a sympathetic informant. Sometimes these furies rub their genitals against his nose and mouth, and use his fingers and toes, in fact, any projecting part of his body, for lascivious purposes. The natives from the north are very much amused by this custom, which they despise or affect to despise. They love to enter into details, and to demon- strate by convincing mimicry. Local informants from the south confirmed this account in all essentials. They were by no means ashamed of their custom, regarding it rather as a sign of the general virility of the district, and passing on any possible opprobrium to the stranger-victims. Some of my local informants added that at the yausa^ as this custom is called, women would throw off their fibre skirts, and naked "like a band of tauva^u*^ (evil spirits) pounce upon the man. He also added that hair would be torn from the man's head, and that he would be lacerated and beaten till he was too weak to get up and move away.

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Such is the natives' account of the yausa. What are the facts? I never observed them at first hand 3 partly be-

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cause I was never able to go south at the time of weed- ing, partly because I was told that, even now, no stranger to the district would dream of going there at that season. Had I gone there in person, the negative result would have been ethnologically disappointing, the positive dis- tinctly unpleasant 5 so I abstained. When I tried, as always in such cases, to test the general statement by his- torical fact, to find out how many people had been thus ill-treated — who, when and on what occasion — I invari- ably drew a blank. I always received the same answer: "Oh, people are so afraid that no one would dare to come near." The only concrete argument in support of its truth was that Misipelosi and Misimoytena (the Rev. S. B. Fellowes, the first Missionary, and the Hon. M. H. Moreton, the first Resident Magistrate) had been afraid to face the yausa^ and that no gumanuma (white man) had ever dared to do so. I also was begged not to make any attempt to go south in the yausa season, and I obeyed the advice. And I thus became another proof of the reality of this custom to the natives.

So I was left with the principal question unanswered: is this custom, so exactly and minutely described, so prominent in the native interest, a fact in the sense that it has been really practised? or only in so far that it would be practised should occasion arise? Or is it merely one of those customs which only exist in belief and in legend, and have never had any basis in actual occurrence?

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have occasion to visit those inhospitable regions, which were on a hostile footing with all their neighbours and always ready to harm a stranger in one way or another. Taking the tradition at its lowest value, it is a standing myth, backed up by lively interest and a strong belief. It gives the women of the region a bellicose attitude, it surrounds them at weeding time with an absolute taboo, and gives their communal work in the garden the char- acter of a sex privilege. The only parallel for the cus- tom in folk-lore is the legend about Kaytalugi, the land of the sexually insatiable women (see ch. xii, 4) 5 and in actual fact, the orgiastic nature, in the south, of the kayasa of the tug-of-war and of the erotic scratching, and the greater sexual coarseness to be found there."^

It is characteristic that all the natives are interested in this custom and amused by it. Whenever any cognate or associated subject is discussed — gardens, communal work, the position of women, fighting or sex — the yausa

^ In this matter parallels might be found perhaps among tribes further south on the d'Entrecasteaux Archipelago, and on the mainland of New Guinea. I was told by a white trader that on the southern shore of Nor- manby Island there are several orgiastic performances and festivities. On certain occasions a small hut with a very high front gable is con- structed and passes under the name of "the entrance of the body." In this hut a girl will remain during the festivity, boys will visit her semi- publicly, and have intercourse with her one after another. Again, among the natives of the south coast, east of Orangerie Bay (the Da'ui and Su'au), several boys sometimes cohabit with one girl, each in the presence of another: a procedure which would be repugnant to the Tro- briander's finer sensibilities. On the other hand, such tribes, for instance, as the Dobuans of the d'Entrecasteaux Archipelago and the Mailu, are considerably more restrained in sexual matters than either the Trobri- anders or the other Southern Massim. Compare C. G. Seligman, op. cit., on the Southern Massim, chap, xxxviii, "Courtship, Betrothal, and Mar- riage," and chap, xliii, "Morals." Compare also my account of the Mailu in the "Natives of Mailu," Transactions of the Royal Society of South Australia, 1915.

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is dragged in, and the natives embark on detailed and graphic descriptions, until it becomes the anthropologist's bugbear. Only once did I find it really useful. In one of the surly, reticent and coarse communities on the lagoon, there was special difficulty in finding suitable informants. One afternoon I was working with a group of unwilling informants, seated under a large banyan tree on the shore of the lagoon. It was one of those slack and sterile periods so well-known to the field-worker, when he discovers only gaps and inconsistencies in his information, becomes cross and bored with his native instructors, and they with himj when the imprisonment in a profoundly alien and emotionally meaningless cul- tural atmosphere weighs heavily and everything tempts to desertion at any cost. In such moods the lagoon land- scape, so charming and so monotonous, symbolized this temptation, luring my eyes towards the dimly visible Koya, the southern mountains of the Amphlett and d'Entrecasteaux archipelagoes — ^where lay my road back to civilization. I looked at the scene on the beach (pi. 63) and envied some visitors from the south, who were due to sail home in a day or two. Conversation was flagging, and I could get nothing out of my informants, until we happened on the subject of the yausa. Immediately the natives became voluble and dramatic j their laughter and animation attracted other people, and soon I was sur- rounded by a group of men, among whom I was able to find some tolerably good informants for my future work. At the same time, I had a practical demonstration of the contrast between the way in which such a custom

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is represented by those who have it, and by those who do not. By the local men it was obviously caricatured as a shameful and savage habit 5 the men's derisive laughter and amused exaggerations were a clear indica- tion of how superior they felt to the benighted heathen who practised it. But the southern visitors, some of whom had come from Okayaulo and Bwadela, the home of the yausa, took, in a later conversation, a different view, showing no embarrassment whatever. They told me boastfully that no stranger ever dared to enter their district at that time, that they themselves were the only people free to walk about, that their women were the best garden-weeders and the most powerful people in the island. The two districts have been in contact for cen- turies, they speak the same language and have an identi- cal culture. Yet neither the custom of yausa nor the mental attitude which characterizes it have begun to diffuse. The mental attitudes are correlated and fit into each other, but each district adheres to its own prerogative of superiority, which consists in contradicting the other's point of view.


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CHAPTER X

LOVE-MAKING AND THE PSYCHOLOGY OF EROTIC LIFE

In the course of this inquiry we have been gradually approaching our main interest, and taking an increasingly detailed view of native love-making. At first we merely made a general survey of the social organization and economic activities of the natives, in so far as they affect the relative positions of man and woman in the com- munity. We studied their associations and their diver- sions, in private and in public, at work and at play, in magical and religious pursuits, as well as in everyday life.

Then coming nearer to our special subject we followed the typical progress of courtship, and found it leading to marriage and parenthood. In the last chapter wc de- scribed certain customs which enrich and diversify the normal course of courtship.

In this chapter it will be necessary to observe the dal- liance of lovers at still closer quarters. We have to learn the nature of their love interest and of the bonds which unite them.

Throughout my exposition, I have always attempted not only to state the norm, but to indicate the exceptions, to trace what might be called the amplitude of deviation, the margin within which people usually try, and some- times succeed, in circumventing the strict rule. As we

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proceed now to the study of more intimate behaviour, the elasticity of the rule becomes greater, and it grows more imperative to give a dynamic description of how a rule or an institution works, rather than how, in native theory, law and morality is supposed or desired to work.

In general, as the ethnographer moves away from the big fundamental, well-defined institutions — such as fam- ily, marriage, kinship organization, the clan, exogamy, the rules of courtship — towards the manifold details of personal life, his methods of observation must become more complex and his results less reliable. This cannot be remedied and, for our comfort, it may be remembered that, even in the most exact fields of human thought and experience, a theoretical result can only be verified within certain limits. The most exact of human observations is only approximate, and all that even the chemist or physi- cist can do is to state the limits within which his error is encompassed. When investigating integral institutions, such as marriage or the family, the ethnographer should, if he be doing competent and intensive field-work, rely on observation rather than on what the native informants tell him. But when dealing with the subtler phases of behaviour, this rule cannot, unfortunately, always be fol- lowed. In the study of sexual attraction and the growth of a passion, direct observation is always difficult, and at times impossible, and a great deal of information has to be collected from confidences and gossip.

The ethnographer must be alert to all that happens round him. He must patiently win his way into village life and make such personal friendships as encourage

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spontaneous confidences and the repetition of intimate gossip. He must check ad hoc statements by remarks dropped in more unguarded moments, explicating the im- plied and estimating the importance of reservations and reticences. For these are everywhere apt to be more illuminating than direct affirmations, and are especially so among these natives, whose keen sense of delicacy makes the roundabout and allusive way the natural approach to such subjects. It is possible to force them into speaking directly, but this always produces an artificial and false mental attitude, and exclusive reliance on such a method would lead to results which lack entirely the colour of real life.

Thus in the most delicate subjects the ethnographer is bound to a large extent to depend on hearsay. Yet if he resides for a long time among the natives, speaks their language and makes close personal acquaintances, he will be provided with sufficiently useful information. His material will be certainly better than if it had been ob- tained through the mechanical pumping of informants by the question-and-answer method at so many sticks of tobacco an hour.

Love is a passion to the Melanesian as to the Euro- pean, and torments mind and body to a greater or lesser extent 3 it leads to many an imfassey scandal, or tragedy 5 more rarely, it illuminates life and makes the heart ex- pand and overflow with joy. "Out of a full heart the mouth speaketh," and the cold ethnographer must indus- triously jot down confidences poured out under the stress of strong personal emotion. Also the gossip of those not

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directly affected by the event, yet sufficiently interested in it to talk, especially if it be untoward — fuisquHl y a quelque chose dans les malheurs de nos amis qui ne nous deflalt fas — is scarcely less valuable material for the investigator.

Spontaneous outpourings and village gossip dictated by genuine interest, records of past tragedies, and stories of erotic adventure, have yielded most of the raw material for the descriptions given in this chapter. And the direct knowledge of personal histories and interests made it possible for me to get a true perspective, to look at mat- ters from the native point of view. I was even often able to go behind the explicit statements of the natives, observing, as sometimes happened, that their actions and feelings belied their words, and following up the clue thus given me.

The reader will remember the misadventures of Bagido'u, one of my best friends and informants (see pi. 64, and ch. vi, sec. i), the animosities and quarrels between Namwana Guya'u and Mitakata (see pi. 3 and ch. i, sec. 2), the boasting Gomaya and his relations to Ilamweria (see pi. 39 and ch. vii, sec. 4). It would have been impossible for me to ascertain the rules of custom and the moral ideas of the natives without the subjective outpourings of these friends of mine.

Side by side with such live material, I naturally always endeavoured to collect objective "documents": records of historical events, samples of tradition, folk-lore and magic. Thus my general impressions, and strong but somewhat vague intuitions, were constantly checked and

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confirmed by data drawn from every sphere of tribal life. In fact, chronologically, the "documents" are usually ob- tained first, but their real comprehension can be gained only from the knowledge of real life.

The reader interested in methodology will realize that this exposition by cumulative versions — passing from in- stitutions through the general record of a life history to the detailed and intimate analysis which follows — does justice not only to the nature of the material, but also to the manner of its collection.

After this digression on the method of collecting data and of their presentation, let us return once more to a Trobriand village and approach a group of young people playing in the moonlight, in festive mood and dressy let us try to see them as they see each other j follow up their attractions and repulsions. So far we have kept at a discreet distance from the intimate behaviour, the motives and feelings of lovers. More especially we have never attempted to spy upon their passionate caresses. Now we must try to reconstruct the history of a personal intrigue, to understand the first impressions made by beauty and charm, and to follow the development of a passion to its end.


EROTIC ATTRACTION

What is it that makes the boys look with entranced attention at one among a group of girls, moving rhyth- mically in a game or carrying baskets at harvest 3 or that fascinates the girls in one of the dancers who lead the

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ring of swift runners in a kaydebu dance? (See pi. 6$.) Is it possible for us to find out why a member of either sex is almost universally rejected and why another is sought after J why one category is labelled as plain or unattractive and another as fascinating and beautiful? The European observer soon finds that his standard of personal charm does not essentially differ from that of the natives, when he has once become accustomed to the physical type and to the mannerisms of the Melanesians. Thus, for instance, the girl on plate 66 is universally regarded as a beauty, the one on plate 67 as a plain woman 3 and with this opinion the reader will not disagree. And yet the latter is a well-built woman and of a pro- nounced Melanesian type. But it would be perhaps diffi- cult and certainly useless to convey native standards of beauty by means of European phrases and comparisons. Fortunately there are a number of native expressions, descriptions and categories which furnish some sort of objective material, and together with the ethnographer's commentary, may convey a fairly adequate idea of the Trobriander's ideal of beauty.

It must be understood that the problem of erotic charm with which we are now engaged, is different from that discussed in chapter iv, which was concerned with the motives which lead a Trobriand man or woman to enter upon matrimony. In this connection, we found that personal preference, though a powerful inducement to marriage, was only one among others, some social, some economic and some domestic. And even in the matter of personal preference, the erotic motive is not exclusive.

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A man or woman of mature age will choose a domestic partner quite different from the paramour who occupied the best part of his or her youth. Marriage is often determined by the attraction of character and personality rather than by sexual adaptation or erotic seduction. This fact, which has been already mentioned, I found con- firmed in many concrete cases and in a hundred details. Only in the passing intrigues is simple bodily charm the principal attraction. Let us return then to our imaginary pair and try to find out what it is that they see in each other, as lovers.

When treating of love in fiction or anthropology, it is easier and more pleasant to imagine objects really worthy of admiration. In the Trobriands it would not be difficult to find them, even for one equipped with European taste and Nordic race prejudices j for, within a considerable variety of types, there are to be found men and women with regular delicate features, well-built lithe bodies, clear skins, and that personal charm which predisposes us towards a man, a nationality, or a race.

Verbal descriptions of a racial type are always weak and unconvincing. They may be couched in anthropo- metric terms and backed by numerical data, but these give little help to the imagination and could only stimulate a physical anthropologist. It is better for the reader to look at pictures, in this book and in other works where the Trobrianders have been described,^ and to hear what the

1 As, for instance, in C. G. Seligman, op. cit., and in Argonauts of the Western Pacific. For comparative anthropometric data concerning Mela- nesians and Papuans, cf. "A Classification of the Natives of British New Guinea," J^ourn. R. Anthrop, Inst., vol. xxxix, 1909, by C. G. Seligman.

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natives themselves have to say on the subject o£ beauty and its opposite.

The natives are never at a loss when asked what ele- ments go to the making o£ personal beauty in man or woman. The subject is not only interesting to them as to all other human beings, but it is surrounded by a rich folk- lore and therefore commands an extensive vocabulary. Many of their legends and songs have been specially com- posed to exalt some famous dancer or singer, and in such texts there are descriptions of ornament and dress, and expressive phrases referring to personal appearance. The charms used in beauty magic give instructive indications of the Trobriander's desires and ideals, as do also the laments for the dead, and descriptions of the blissful life in Tuma, the land of the departed.

But although the renown and tradition of famous beauties is handed down for generations with rich de- scriptive details, it is difficult for the ethnographer to find a living model for his inquiry. Whenever I asked any of the old, and therefore expert, connoisseurs of beauty whether any living woman could match the radiant divinities drawn from their own and their father's memories, the answer was always in the negative. The Golden Age of real beauty seems to be quite over!


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and repulsive, and therefore impossible from the erotic standpoint. Deformity and disease in mind or body, old age and albinism, all, according to native statements, put a person beyond the pale of erotic interest. The ex- pressions fnlgtla gaga (his face bad), or tomlgaga (ugly man, literally man — face — ^ugly) are frequently in use, and often with the added comment: "No one would sleep with such an one."

Malformations are rare, and I myself cannot recall a single hunchback or congenitally deformed person. Through accident men may lose a limb: kaykela ifwase (his leg has rotted away) 3 yamda ifwase (his arm has rotted away) j but the most frequent congenital defect is that of speech, which the natives describe by the same word, tonagoway as is applied to idiocy and feeble- mindedness.

The bad or repulsive characters of folk-lore are also endowed with bodily deformities or abnormalities. Dokonikan, the most prominent ogre of Kiriwinian folk- lore, has several rows of teeth and cannot speak properly. Women covered with hair and men with disgusting bodies figure in some fairy tales.

As regards disease: sores, ulcers, and skin eruptions are naturally held to be specially repulsive from the view- point of erotic contact. Also to be so afflicted is the usual punishment for breaking certain taboos. Indeed, a num- ber of such taboos are only observed by young men, and have no other raison d^etre than to prevent their skins from being covered with sores. They might be called specific beauty taboos. Thus, it is dangerous to eat fish

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which is not quite fresh, or fish which has a very strong flavour. Some kinds of fish are covered with unseemly scales or spots, and these also are forbidden to young men and women. Young people must abstain from yams or fish which have been cut with a sharp instrument. Similar taboos have to be kept by men about to sail on an overseas expedition; they will say that they must only eat "good fish" so that their faces may be beautiful.^

The unpleasant disease, tropical ring-worm, covering the skin with perpetually peeling scales, and very prev- alent among Melanesians, is said to be a definite draw- back, and persons with this disease would not be reckoned among the beauties even if their faces were fine. But it does not seem to form a positive bar to love-making, any more than to other pursuits. On the other hand, this repulsive and contagious affliction is a real inconvenience to the field-worker, who has constantly to deal with afflicted natives and takes a long time to become accus- tomed to it.

Old age is felt to be a serious handicap in affairs of .gallantry. The contrast between repulsive old age and attractive youth is brought out clearly in myth. A hero, who is unsuccessful because of his elderly appearance, becomes rejuvenated and gets everything that he wants. First the marks scored upon him by the hand of time are ruthlessly enumerated: a wrinkled skin, white hair, and toothless jaws. Then the magical change is described: his rounded face, the smooth full lines of his body, his sleek, glossy skin, the thick black hair covering his head,

1 Cf. Argonauts of the Western Pacific, p. 336.

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the beautiful black teeth shining between vermilion lips. Now he can win the favours of desirable women, and im- pose his wishes on men and Fate. Such pictures are drawn in two of the chief myths of the kula (the ceremonial exchange), which plays such a great part in tribal life, and shows so many psychological affinities to their erotic in- terests. Similar pictures are also to be found in the myth of rejuvenation, in the ideas of the natives concerning a future life, and in one or two fairy tales.^

Obesity is extremely rare, and in its more pronounced forms is classed as a disease. Baldness is not infrequent. It is considered a blemish, and a certain amount of criti- cism is contained in the word tokuluhakami (bald man, literally man-occiput empty-space). To a Kiriwinian, however, it is not so fatal as it is to his European contem- porary, for wigs are still used in that happy island (pi. 68). Either a narrow band of hair is tied just above the forehead — a sort of fuzzy wreath — or a wig covering the whole head is worn. The wig is made by sewing tufts of hair on to a skull cap made of plaited fibre or string. The hair is easily obtained, for mourning customs demand that every member of the afflicted community, with the excep- tion of the deceased's clansmen, shall shave off his beau- tiful mop of hair.

Cutting off the hair is not the only mourning custom which aims at the reduction of personal charm. The transformation in appearance imposed by mourning em- bodies, to a certain extent, the native idea of what is ugly.

1 For the hula myth cf. Argonauts, pp. 307-10 and 322-4, and Myfh in Primitive Psychology, 1926.

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The shaven head, the body blackened with a thick layer of mixed grease and charcoal, colourless and purposely soiled dress, no ornaments and no scents — these are the outward signs of bereavement. The transformation un- dergone by a woman in mourning is shown in the frontis- piece, where two girls, equally pretty under normal con- ditions, can be contrasted. In fact, the idea that the chief mourner, especially the widow, should be made ugly so that she may not attract other men, is explicitly stated by natives, and is also implied in the whole scheme of mor- tuary proceedings, apart from the alteration in appearance (see ch. vi).

The essential conditions of personal charm are now obvious 5 normal bodily build, health, absence of mental and functional disorders, strong growth of hair, sound teeth, and a smooth skin — all signs of vigour and of a good constitution.

But an important caution must here be entered. Natives speak with such horror about the various forms of ugliness, and repulsion is so clearly discernible in their behaviour that there is no temptation to doubt their word. In fact, in games and amusements, an albino, an idiot, or a man afflicted with skin disease is so completely left out of the fun that his loneliness and isolation wake pity even in the frigid heart of an ethnographer. Thus observation fully confirmed the verbal proposition in which all the natives are agreed, that all such people are absolutely debarred from sexual intercourse and that they have to resort to solitary means of satisfaction. Nevertheless, I began to doubt its validity, when, in the course

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of my field-work, this very proposition was adduced as proof, with many illustrative examples, that a woman can have children without sexual intercourse (see ch. vii, 3 and 4). Tilapo'i (to quote cases already mentioned) had one child, Kurayana as many as sixj while a few albino girls have been blessed with numerous offspring j yet: "No man would approach them, they are so repulsive" was made the major premise of the syllogism — though many of my informants must have known better!

The more thorough research which followed my reali- zation of this discrepancy revealed the astonishing fact that strong and, no doubt, genuine physical repulsion does not prevent a Melanesian from the sexual act. This prob- ably has some connection with their manner of carrying out this physiological activity. I was able to ascertain that the ugliest and most repulsive people have, not only spo- radic, but regular intercourse. Orato'u, a tonagowa — meaning in this case, not an idiot but one afflicted with defective speech and a repulsively deformed face — can always obtain favours from the village beauties of Omara- kana, the residence of the paramount chief, whose hench- man he is and whose wives he is said to know intimately enough. The albino seen on pi. 3 8 has had several noto- rious love affairs. In most of the villages where I worked I could mention a few old and thoroughly repulsive women who were able, especially if they or their hus- bands were of high rank, to obtain young and attractive boys as lovers.

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gence and one of the finest men I have known — he told me that he had long ago arrived at the same conclusion independently, and quoted from memory a number of striking instances, in some of which the women were re- pugnant, as he said, "far beyond the toleration of a drunken sailor." He also mentioned the experience of a medical officer, especially appointed in the Trobriands for the treatment of venereal disease. This official was once baffled by finding all the boys in a community afflicted with very virulent and obviously recent gonorrhea, while all the women to be considered in this connection were as yet quite healthy. Finally he obtained a confession from one of his patients that he and his companions had copu- lated among others with a woman so old, decrepit, and ugly, that the medical officer had thankfully and unhesi- tatingly omitted her in his several inspections. It was found that she was the source of infection, and that she had for a long time been active in persuading boys to copulation. The boys, on discovery, tried to belittle the fact and to present the whole matter as a joke, but they were in reality rather mortified. The attitude of my in- formants when I confronted them with such and similar facts was also "ambivalent." They had to admit that some people will copulate with repulsive women, but they treated it simply as the sign that such people are of un- sound mind.

This was one more of the several cases in which I found how strongly convention (ideals of behaviour) obsesses the mind of the natives, but only on the surface and con- trolling their statements rather than their behaviour.

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Things about which he would not like even to speak, much less admit to having done, a native simply denies with consistency and vigour, although he is perfectly aware that they do happen, perhaps even under his own roof. Tout comme chez nous!


BEAUTY OF THE HUMAN FACE AND BODY

Vigour, vitality, and strength, a well-proportioned body, a smooth and properly pigmented, but not too dark skin are the basis of physical beauty for the native. In all the phases of village life I have seen admiration drawn and held by a graceful, agile and well-balanced person. The same generalization can be inductively drawn from what we shall say here of the native canons of perfection in form and colour, bodily smell, quality of voice, and grace of movement.

Since the natives have an extended view of each other's bodies, there is no artificial barrier to their sesthetic interest in themj nor are the various elements in erotic fascination placed in the false perspective which makes our full Eu- ropean clothing the instrument of artificial modesty as well as of disguised allurement, so that an estimation of erotic values is difficult and complex, and is based on fashions in dress as well as on the appreciation of physical beauty. With this advantage over us, it is a notable fact that their main erotic interest is f ocussed on the human head and face. In the formulas of beauty magic, in the vocabulary of human attractions, as well as in the ar-

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senal of ornament and decoration, the human face — eyes, mouth, nose, teeth, and hair — ^takes precedence. It must be observed that the head plays an important part in magic as an object for admiration, and not as the seat of the erotic emotions, for these are placed in the lower part of the belly. For the rest of the body, the breasts in the woman and build and size in the man are most important, with the colour and the quality of their skins. In certain magical formulas, all the limbs and portions of the human torso are enumerated, besides the features of the face and head. In others, however, only the latter are mentioned.

The outline of the face is very important 5 it should be full and well rounded. The phrases miltyaflla (like the full moon) j ifnilibwata (like the round moon) ; kalubu- hovatu (its roundness), appear frequently in magical for- mulas. The forehead must be small and smooth. The word talisalisa (to smooth) recurs in beauty charms. Full cheeks, a chin neither protruding nor too small, a com- plete absence of hair on the face, but the scalp hair de- scending well on to the forehead, are all desiderata of beauty.

Cosmetics are used on the face more than on any other part of the body. Facial painting {soba) is done in black, red, and white (pi. 76). For the red, either a compound of betel-nut and lime is used or red ochre. Certain forms of clay, sometimes mixed with crushed coral, were for- merly used to produce white 5 but nowadays European white lead has taken the place of this, though red is still usually made with native pigments. Black can be put on, either with simple charred coco-nut fibre or some other

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form of charcoal, or else with a mixture of this and an aromatic oil, prepared by cutting aromatic wood into small pieces and boiling it in coco-nut oil. The wood preferred in this preparation is called sayakuy and it is, I think, sandal wood imported from the eastern islands (Wood- lark and Marshall Bennett). A similar though less ap- preciated wood, kadikokoy is found in the Trobriands and can be used for the same purpose. The strongly scented mixture is kept in coco-nut oil bottles and used for the tracing of fine lines on the face. The natives make a clear distinction between decorative painting {soba)j which enhances their beauty, and smothering themselves in soot {koido) in order to extinguish all their attractions in sign of mourning.

Having indicated the general character of facial beauty, let us proceed to the details. The eyes, as we know, are to the natives the gateways of erotic desire (ch. vii, i)j they are also, in themselves, a centre of erotic interest. Biting off the eyelashes, the custom of muakuku as it is called, plays an important part in love-making. The expression agu mitakuku ("my bitten-off eyelashes") is a term of endearment. The eyes are frequently referred to in the magic of beauty: mitayan (shining eyes) ^ mituh- woyili (lovely eyes) 5 mitapwa^i (bright eyes). Eyes should be shining, but they should be small. On this point the natives are quite decided. Large eyes, fuynor- fuynay are ugly. There is no special beauty treatment for the eyes, except, of course, shaving the eyebrows which, together with the biting ofF of eyelashes, leaves them singularly naked to European taste. Neither is any

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magic specifically devoted to their lustre and other charms.

Next to the eyes, the mouth is, perhaps, the most im- portant feature. It plays a conspicuous part in love-mak- ing, and its beauty is highly esteemed in native aesthetics. It should be very full, but well cut. Protruding lips {ka^uvala^u wadola) are considered as unattractive as pinched or thin ones {kaywoya wadola). Very ugly, I was told, is a hanging lower lip. There is a special magic of beauty associated with the mouth. It is the magic of taloy the red paint made of betel-nut, which is used to redden the lips.

The nose should be full and fleshy, but not too large. A nose, which the natives call kafatatdy that is long, nar- row and sharp, in short aquiline, is ugly. A beautiful nose is called kabuUtoto (standing-up nose), for too flat a one is also a serious blemish, and men or women so handicapped are called tonafa^i or nanapaH according to sex. A nose-stick used to be considered aesthetically in- dispensable, but it is now gradually going out of fashion, and there is no magic associated with this ornament or its organ.

The ears must be neither too small nor too large — a safe rule to follow for all parts of the body, whether in the Trobriands or elsewhere. Ears that stand out from the head {tiginayd) are distinctly ugly. Every ear must be pierced at the lobe and ornamented with ear-rings. The hole is made early in childhood by placing on the ear a turtle shell ring which has been cut and the ends sharpened, so that the points gradually work their way through the gristle. The resultant small hole is then

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gradually enlarged until a considerable opening sur- rounded by a pendulous ring is formed in the lobe. This is filled with ear-rings of turtle shell and other orna- ments, especially red discs made of spondylus shell. Such treatment of the ear is de rigueurj otherwise a man or woman would be said to have tegibwalodila (ears like a bush pig).

Teethj in order to be really attractive, have to be black- ened {kuduhwa^u: literally black teeth, or gigiremutu: an expression for the process). This blackening is done by placing a piece of a special mangrove root against the teeth overnight and repeating the process over a long pe- riod. The majority of the Trobrianders do not, however, blacken their teeth.

Hair in its proper place is considered a great beauty, but, as we know, it must not be allowed to grow anywhere except on the scalp. Eyebrows are shaved off, the beard is never allowed to grow except by old men "who do not wish to have anything to do with women." Hair is never pulled out J it is always shaved, in the old days with ob- sidian, at present with bottle glass. The hair on the head is admired when it is very full, and then it is allowed to grow into a thick mop of which almost every hair radi- ates from the scalp, in the manner so characteristic of Melanesia.

The natives distinguish black, light and grey hair {yahwahwa^Uy yadidaydaya and yasoso^u). The albino is called tofwaka^Uy "man with white hair," or tososo^Uy "man with grey hair." They further classify it as straight-to-wavy (yasinare^i or yasisiye^i) ; curly {yasusay-

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hulu)\ thick and moppy {yamtumwatu)\ tangled and almost matted {yakulufaki or yatutuya). The two mid- dle qualities are considered beautiful 5 but the straight-to- wavy and the matted kinds are not. As to the trimming and dressing of it, the really typical Melanesian mop, gugwafo^Uy is the favourite mode. When it is cut round the sides and back and left long on top, giving the head an elongated cylindrical form, it is called bobobu. Some- times when a man comes out of mourning, the hair is allowed to grow in the middle of the head, while the edges are kept shaved 5 this is called takwadoya. Hair which is growing after mourning is called sayva^u while it is still short. Persons of rank in mourning have the privilege of leaving some hair at the back of the head near the nape of the neck (pi. 25). This grows into long strands which are plaited sometimes and are called saysuya (literally, "ringlets").

Body hair {unu^unu — a word also given to the growth on yam tubers, on the backs of leaves and so forth) is regarded as ugly and is kept shaven. Only in myth and in fairy tale do certain people appear who are covered with unu^unu'y to the natives a grotesque and at the same time a perverse characteristic.

Hair dressing plays a great part in the personal toilet. Trimming is done by means of a sharpened mussel shell {kaniku) and the hair is cut off in tufts against a piece of wood. It is combed or teased with a long-pronged wooden comb {smata)'j and one of the most important types of beauty magic is done over the comb. We have seen that teasing out the hair {fulufuluy wayfulu or

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waynoku) is the centre of certain festivals {kayasa)j which are really organized solely for the display of this beauty. Nails are cut and trimmed with sharpened mus- sel shell.

A slim, straight, tall body is much admired in a man. Kaysakiy like a "swift long canoe," kuytubo^ like a rounded: tree, are both terms of praise, of which the latter shows- that emaciation is not an asset. Kaylohu — well adorned,, well trimmed — expresses the same idea. All three words occur in the lament of a widow for her young husbands

In women, also, a slim body without excessive ab- dominal development is considered desirable. Kaygumita (slirn), nasasaka (small-bellied), are words of praise. Napofoma (pot-bellied), nasoka (with the body like a globe-fish), on the contrary, express disapproval.

A woman's breasts are of special importance. The same word nunu is used to describe the female breast, the nipple in man or woman, the central portion of the male chest, and milk. There are a number of partly metaphorical, partly specific expressions to describe the sesthetic appearance of the female breasts. Nutaviya (like the taviya^ a small round fruit) describes a full, round, firm formation j and nufiyakwa, a word the ety- mology of which I was unable to trace, has the same connotation. Nupfisiga or nupisiga is applied to small, undeveloped, girlish breasts, which are considered less attractive than the first category. For flabby breasts the word nusawewo is used, a compound of the specific prefix nu and the word sawewby to hang limply down, as, for instance, a ripe fruit hangs. Another apt simile is con-

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tained in the word nukaybwibwiy in which long, thin, pendent breasts are compared to the aerial roots of the pandanus tree. Breasts wrinkled and flabby with age are called fwanunuy the prefix px)a meaning deterioration and nunu being the specific noun. The meaning of this word has become extended to describe wrinkled skin in general.

Firm, well-developed breasts are admirable in a woman. Adolescent girls massage (j*uwoli) their breasts, which then may also be called nu*ulawolu (literally, mas- saged breasts). When a lover prefers his girl with small breasts, he will say, yoku tage kuwoU nunum; kwunufisiga ("Do not thou massage thy breasts, remain with girlish breasts").

To return to physical beauty in general, it has already been mentioned that smoothness of skin and a full brown colour are much sought after. In magical formulas, smooth objects with a pleasant surface are often men- tioned in this connection: fish without scales, trees with smooth bark, smooth, rounded shells. As to the colour, dark brown is decidedly a disadvantage. In the magic of washing and in other beauty formulae, a desirable skin is compared with white flowers, moonlight, and the morning star. Pregnancy magic has already given us an example of this ideal of bodily perfection. But deficient pigmen- tation is not admired 5 and the insipid, pale yellowish brown which is sometimes found, is as unpleasant to the Trobriander as to the European. Albinos, with their flaxen hair and long golden body fluff, their enormous

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freckles, as if something dirty and brown had been splashed over them, produce an unpleasant impression on European and native alike (pi. 38).


THE CARE OF THE BODY

The main care of the body is directed to cleanliness. The natives have an extreme sensitiveness to smell and to bodily dirt. Kakaya (bathing, or washing all over with plenty of water) is the first act in all ceremonial orna- mentation, and is a frequent one at other times. The natives often rinse their hands and wash their faces, such minor ablutions being called wini. Washing before a grand toilet is always followed by anointing {futuma) with coco-nut oil, which gives a fine lustre to the skin and is also a strong and lasting deodorizer. If possible, some perfume is added to the oil: pandanus flower, gayawOy the aromatic butia blossom, and other scented flowers and herbs according to the season, are used for this purpose j as is the aromatic paint, sayakuy which has already been mentioned.

Dried and bleached leaves are the material for native dress, the men using the pandanus — or, to produce a garment of a finer quality, the areca palm — and the women, banana leaves (see pi. 69). Their dress is of the slightest, especially for men, who only wear a pubic leaf. This is a narrow band which covers the pubic regions, the lower part of the abdomen, and the back up to the first

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lumbar vertebrae. The band is attached, front and back, to a belt. Usually above this support the man wears another ornamental belt, made sometimes of valuable material. The pubic leaf is very carefully adjusted, so that the limited area which modesty demands should be hidden remains always precisely and carefully covered. Men very seldom take off their pubic leaf, except in the intimacy of their sleeping place. Only when fish- ing or bathing with other men is it removed. The word yavi- (pubic leaf) takes the same suffixed possessive pro- nouns as are only otherwise used with parts of the human body (yavigu, my leaf j yavim, thy leaf j yavila, his leaf j and so on). This gives a grammatical expression to the intimate union of this garment with the male body.

Women wear skirts made of narrow strips of vegetable fibre, variously prepared and coloured. A full descrip- tion of the technology of Trobriand "models" and of feminine psychology in the always important matter of dress would lead to a voluminous dissertation. To be brief: women wear an underskirt and a top skirt. At home and among intimate friends and when at work, the top skirt is taken off, and only the petticoat remains (see pis. 9, 1 8, 21 ). This is usually shabby and always scanty; but it adequately fulfils all the demands of modesty. The overskirts are full and sometimes very thick. At ordinary seasons and for ordinary purposes they are not artificially stained and show only their natural rich gold- and-silver colour of dried coco-nut or banana leaf. In times of mourning and during menstruation, slightly longer skirts are worn. For bathing or during rain, coco-

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nut fibre Is preferred to other materials. The greatest variety of colour and form is seen in the gala skirts worn during harvest and at festivities (pis. 13, 61, 69). These display radiant combinations of colour, all the range of materials available and great ingenuity in "cut." The word for the female garment is dohay also used with aifixes of nearest possession. In its compound form it changes some of its vowels, as dabegUy my skirt, daheryiy dahelay and so forth.

The more important ornaments have already been mentioned incidentally. The natives adorn themselves with wreaths of aromatic blossom j put flowers, especially the red hibiscus, in their hair, and aromatic herbs or long leaves and streamers into their armlets. Necklaces of shell and wild banana seed are worn, and armlets on the upper arm. All men and women wear ear-rings and belts.

The body, as distinguished from the face, is very sel- dom painted, and no tattoo markings are ever visible. I am told that girls at the time of their first menstruation are tattooed round the vagina. This tattooing is called k?uk?Uy and is done, according to my informants, for aesthetic purposes. Also men and women burn marks on their forearms, as an adornment.

One more personal charm must be mentioned — ^the voice. The good singer is only second in renown to the good dancer. The power of a beautiful voice is known and praised far and wide, and many instances of seduc- tion by song are quoted. Perhaps the most notorious is

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that of Mokadayu, whose success. with the fair sex cul- minated in an incestuous liaison with his own sister, one of the most beautiful girls in the village/

As a background to Trobriand ideals of beauty, it may be interesting to hear the natives' comments on other racial types. Though other natives are generally consid- ered less attractive than one's own tribe, distinctions are made and degrees of ugliness gradated. The pure Papuan type from the Papuan Gulf and from the northern coast, who are now frequently seen in the Trobriands with white men, are undoubtedly classed as the least attractive. Their ugliness is chiefly ascribed to their dark skin; it is, in fact, much darker than the Trobriander's, and has a characteristic chocolate tinge. Their pronouncedly frizzy hair and their strange manner of dressing it in plaits and fringes is also regarded as very unbecoming. Unattrac- tive, too, are their prominent thin lips and their large, aquiline, almost Jewish noses, set in a long narrow face. These criticisms were made to me on the occasion of a series of dances performed by Papuan Gulf natives who had been employed on one of the plantations. Their dancing was genuinely admired, but not their physical appearance. The Dobuans with their dark skin, their thick-set build, and their short necks, are often made fun of by the Trobrianders. The more distant natives from the Eastern Archipelagos, the Southern Massim, receive much higher marks for beauty. In spite of the fact that they are more distant strangers to the Trobrianders than

1 Compare Sex and Repression, 1927, part ii, ch. iv, and ch. xiv, 3, of this work, where the story of Mokadayu is given.

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are the Dobuans, the natives realize that they are racially akin and say: "They are like us, fine-looking."

Europeans, the natives frankly say, are not good-look- ing. The straight hair "coming round the heads of women like threads of im^^ (coarse pandanus fibre used for making strings) 5 the nose, "sharp like an axe blade" j the thin lips 5 the big eyes, "like water puddles" 3 the white skin with spots on it like those of an albino — all these the natives say (and no doubt feel) are ugly. It is only fair to observe, in justice to their good manners and personal urbanity, that they were quick to add that the ethnographer was a meritorious exception to the rule. They always told me that I looked much more like a Melanesian than like an ordinary white man. They even fortified this compliment by specific documentation: thick lips, small eyes, absence of any sharp outline in the nose, were credited to me as assets. The only points on which they were discreet and honest enough not to compliment me were my forehead and my hair. I am afraid, how- ever, that the Trobrianders are more polite than truthful, and it must be remembered that personal praise is by right of custom always repaid with a suitable gift of tobacco or betel-nut, which, rather than sesthetic conviction, may have been the motive of the compliment (see, however, pi. 68).

It is clear, then, that the Trobrianders prefer their own racial type, and that this is not mere parochial con- ceit, since they make reasoned distinctions between other types and give praise where it is due. Thus the Southern Massim they regard as their equals 5 and are even ready

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to admit that the Eastern portion of the Northern Mas- sim, the natives of Woodlark Island and the Marshall Bennett group, are their superiors in personal appearance. I may add that, in common with all strangers, I was less susceptible at first to individual differences and more im- pressed by the general type. But with greater familiarity, I also came to feel that too dark or too yellow a skin, too straight or too frizzy hair, a mouth as thin as that of a. European, and an aquiline nose were features unpleasant in a Melanesian. At the same time I became able to ap- preciate beauty within the racial type and de facto always knew more or less who would be attractive to a native, and who not. Even the artificial transformations — shiny black teeth in thick vermilion lips, graceful scrolls painted in three colours over the face, flaming hibiscus blossoms in the thick black mop of hair, golden brown skins, glossy with coco-nut oil — ceased to impress me as mere grotesque masquerade, and I saw them as becoming adjuvants to personal beauty. After all, it takes us some time to be- come accustomed to the changing fashions of our own race and to detect beauty where at first we were only able to see caricature.

I still remember the feeling of slight surprise at the formula of beauty with which the old chief To'uluwa started my first discussion of the subject:

^^Migila bubowatu; matala kuvikekita;

"Face his (hers) rounded^ eye his (hers) small 5

kabulula kaykekita; kudula sene

nose his (hers) small ^ tooth his (hers) very

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kobwabwa^U'y kulula sene kohuhowatu?^

blackened j hair his (hers) very rounded off."

This terse sentence roughly summarizes the results of our study, and gives an approximate standard of personal beauty. It presents a blend of cultural values, biological impulses and racial preferences. The point of view can be understood by a European 5 that is, if he can maintain the feeling of human or biological solidarity across racial and cultural differences, and a sufficient mental plasticity to become thoroughly familiar with the cultural and aesthetic standards of another people.


THE COURSE OF AN INTRIGUE

To understand the effect of personal charm on the na- tive, it may be helpful to present a typical Trobriand love affair against the background of Western romance.

Love is precipitated with them, as with us, by the first shock received from beauty and personality j but a world of customary and cultural differences divides the after- effects of this. The initial barriers preventing a rapid sexual intimacy between two people in love, which are so characteristic of all higher civilizations, for us endow the beloved with inestimable virtues and enclose him or her in an aura of holy and mysterious desirability. In men whose creative imagination is developed beyond their practical sense of the realities, such passionate attachments may lead simply to day-dreaming and excessive shyness

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in the romantic relation, or to such outpourings as we find in Vita Nuova or Petrarch's Sonnets. This shy, self- centred adoration, this extreme creative exaltation of the eternal-feminine — of the Beatrice or Gretchen leading man into the presence of God — is a real type of Western romance, standardized in some of the highest works of art, but existing also in many not gifted with the power of self-expression. The reaction against this same arti- ficially fostered mystery and the consequent idealization of woman, is seen with opposite results in the invective and indictment of Schopenhauer and Nietzsche.

The man in the street, who sustains the same shock, does not write sonnets, but none the less he surrounds the object of his serious affection with a more temperate exaltation and worship. At the same time his emotion finds practical expression, and he seeks every opportunity for closer acquaintance. If liking ripens into mutual love, the affair will follow the customary course of courtship, engagement, and marriage. A man and woman may be driven by natural passion to the final consummation, athwart all social or moral rules, but it is none the less true that real love leads men and women of our culture, not to the direct satisfaction of the sexual urge, but to a gradual blending of sensuous elements with the general spiritual attraction. Personal intimacy in a full common life, legally sanctioned, is the direct goal of our romantic ideology, and the rest, including sexual relations, follows as a tacit implication.

Let us turn to an average Melanesian youth attracted by a girl who is not put beyond his reach by the taboos

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of kinship, social standing, or too great a difference in personal charm. In him, also, the first impression pro- duces an aesthetic and sensuous reaction which transforms its cause into something desirable, valuable, and worthy of strenuous effort. But the feeling of mystery, the desire to worship at a distance or merely to be admitted into her presence, is not there. The Trobriand boy has had many sexual experiences with girls of the same type as his new ideal 3 and, from childhood, the attraction of beauty and direct erotic approach have been intimately associated in his experience. He has not to stumble upon the final ful- filment of erotic desire, he immediately anticipates it. All the customs, arrangements, and codes of behaviour dic- tate simple, direct approach, as we shall see in the fol- lowing description.

An interesting sidelight is thrown upon Trobriand courtship by the customs in other Melanesian communi- ties, where sexual freedom is much more restricted, and where the gradual approach and something of romantic love exist. In the nearest ethnographic region to the south, the Amphletts, and in the next one to this, which is inhabited by the Dobuan tribe, prenuptial intercourse is regarded as reprehensible, and custom does not en- courage the free mixing of children in erotic games nor open untrammelled intercourse between boys and girls, nor institutions such as the bukumatula (bachelors' and girls' house). From a limited experience in the Am- phletts, I received the impression that prenuptial inter- course hardly exists at all, and in Dobu it is certainly much more restricted than in the Trobriands. Correlated with

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this, we find a number of arrangements which allow of a prolonged courtship and which are symptomatic of a love not specifically directed towards sexual intercourse. I was told that both districts have love songs and that the boys court by playing on pan-pipes or on a Jew's-harp j also that boys and girls meet at games and in amusements for the sake of personal acquaintance and social intercourse only. During the later stages of courtship and before marriage, a boy is allowed to visit his betrothed at her parents' house, but there is no cohabitation, and only con- versation and caresses pass between them. A similar state of affairs exists with the Western Papuo-Melanesian tribes, among several of whom I conducted more or less prolonged investigations. These data, however, I submit with caution, and they are in no way comparable to my observations among the Trobrianders. They are based entirely on statements obtained from informants ad hocy and not on the spontaneous material which comes to hand with long residence in a country.^

The love-sick Trobriander, however, taught by custom to be direct in amorous pursuits, proceeds at once to the approved methods of approach.

The simplest of these is direct personal solicitation. From previous descriptions of sexual licence, we know that there are numerous opportunities for a boy to express his desire, or for a girl to induce him to do so (see ch. ix). This is perfectly easy within the same village community.



on

Australia, 1915, pp. 559-64, and the references there given

Seligman, op. cit.

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When the two belong to different villages, certain fes- tivals bring them together j they can speak to each other, and indulge in the preliminaries of love during games and dances, and in crowds j also they can arrange a future meeting. After that, by the ulatile and katuyausi cus- toms, the meetings can be repeated, or one of the lovers may move to the other's village.

Another method is that of solicitation by an interme- diary {kaykivt). This is used when the two communities are distant and, owing to the season, no personal approach is possible. A mutual friend, male or female, is begged to express the boy's admiration and to arrange for a ren- dezvous. The kaykivi is not, as a rule, lightly set in mo- tion, for its failure, if this becomes public, draws down considerable ridicule on the solicitor. But if direct ap- proach and the kaykivi are both for some reason impos- sible, the lover uses the most powerful way of wooing, that of magic, as the first step in his attack. It is suffi- cient to say in this place that almost all final success in love is attributed to magic, that both men and women be- lieve in it deeply and trust it completely, and that, be- cause of this psychological attitude, it is very efficacious. But a full account of love magic will be given in the fol- lowing chapter.

Thus there is nothing roundabout in a Trobriand woo- ing j nor do they seek full personal relations, with sexual possession only as a consequence. Simply and directly a meeting is asked for with the avowed intention of sexual gratification. If the invitation is accepted, the satisfaction of the boy's desire eliminates the romantic frame of mind,

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the craving for the unattainable and mysterious. If he is rejected, there is not much room for personal tragedy, for he is accustomed from childhood to having his sexual impulses thwarted by some girls, and he knows that an- other intrigue cures this type of ill surely and swiftly.


CASES OF PERSONAL ATTACHMENT

Though the social code does not favour romance, ro- mantic elements and imaginative personal attachments are not altogether absent in Trobriand courtship and marriage. This will become clear if we review the three phases of the love life of an individual discussed in chap- ter iii. In the easy erotic play of children, sympathies and antipathies arise, and personal preferences declare themselves. Such early sympathetic attractions some- times strike quite deep. From several of my friends I learned that their marriage had its roots in a childish af- fection. Tokulubakiki and his wife knew and liked one another as children. Toyodala, whom I saw in despair after his wife's death, had been a friend of hers in child- hood (see ch. vi, sec. 4). Similar conclusions can be drawn from observation of children and stories of their behaviour. In a small way they try to win, to impress, and to catch the imagination of their playmates. Thus even at this stage some elements of romance are mixed with the direct sexuality of their playing.

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even more pronounced. They change frequently, but their imagination and feelings are unquestionably engaged for the time being. It is not difficult to overhear boys discussing the beautiful girls by whom they are attracted. One boy will praise his fancy while another disputes her supremacy j and, in this argument, the amorous yearnings of each will find expression.

As to concrete instances, it was rather difficult for me to collect any circumstantial data about either children or adolescent boys or girls. But at the later stage, where attraction ripens into desire for marriage and matters are treated much more seriously, I had several opportunities for observation. The case of Mekala'i, a boy temporarily in my service, has already been mentioned (see ch. iv, sec. 2). He was seriously in love with Bodulela, of whom it was notorious that she slept with her stepfather. The boy was very deeply attached to her, and though there was no chance for him to possess her in the imme- diate future, and he was not even allowed to visit her, for months he nourished hopes and plans for ultimately winning her. He was also obviously concerned to appear before her as a man of importance and influence. Another boy, Monakewo, had a liaison with Dabugera, who be- longed to the highest rank. He often bewailed his low rank, which he knew would prevent his marriage with her (see ch. iv, sec. i). This disability he tried to write off by personal achievement. He boasted of his fine voice, his skill in dancing, his many abilities — some of which really existed — and how Dabugera valued these. When for a few days she was unfaithful to him, he would be

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evidently mortified j and on each of these occasions he wanted to persuade me to sail away from the island and take him with me, at the same time dwelling in imagina- tion on how greatly she would be impressed by this deci- sive step, and on the fine presents he would bring back to her.

There are also cases on record where a man wants to marry a girl, does not at first succeed, but after a long period of yearning, wins his first choice. Sayabiya, a rather good-looking girl, had a lover from her own vil- lage, Yalaka, whom she was going to marry. Tomeda, a handsome man from Kasana'i, famous for his strength, his efficiency in gardening and his skill in dancing, made an impression on her and finally persuaded her to marry him. On my first visit to the Trobriands, I used to see a great deal of both of them, and found her one of the really attractive women, and him a very good informant. When I returned, two years later, he was living alone, for she had gone back to her former lover and married him (see ch. v, sec. i). Magic, of course, was blamed, but unquestionably it was a return to the first love. My friend Tomeda was extremely depressed for a long time, and used often to speak to me about his lost lady with obvious longing. I left the district and did not see him for some six months, but a few days before sailing from the Trobriands I met him, painted and adorned on his way to another village — obviously in the role of a hopeful suitor, a to^ulaule. When I chaffed him, he confessed smiling that he had a new girl whom he was hoping to marry soon.

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Another tangled amour was that of Yobukwa'u, a son of the chief To'uluwa (see ch. iv, sec. i, and ch. v, sec. 5). His sweetheart, Ilaka'isi, was married, for reasons of state, to his father, as the youngest of some twenty-four wives. After this the young man took another girl, Ise- puna, whom he meant to marry. But he was unable to withstand the proximity of his former sweetheart, and it became notorious throughout Omarakana, the chief's resi- dence, that he slept regularly with his father's youngest wife. This deeply offended his betrothed. At the same time Yobukwa'u's younger brother, Kalogusa, returned from a year's service on an overseas plantation. He was struck by his elder brother's betrothed, Isepuna, and an attachment sprang up between them. The situation was very difficult, for it is an extremely bad thing to take away a brother's betrothed from him. But love was stronger than moral considerations. Isepuna broke with Yobukwa'u and became engaged to Kalogusa. They were married a few months after my arrival in Omarakana. It may be added that in the meantime, Yobukwa'u married a very unattractive girl, Losa, but gossip has it that he and Ilaka'isi are still lovers.

Almost identical was the story of Gilayviyaka, an elder brother of Yobukwa'u (see ch. v, sec. 5). He also had slept with Nabwoyuma before her marriage to his father. Subsequently he married Bulubwaloga, a really attrac- tive lightly pigmented brown-haired woman from Yalu- mugwa, to whom he was deeply attached. This, how- ever, did not prevent his nightly visits to Nabwoyuma. His wife did not relish these, and spied on him 3 and he

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was caught one night in flagrante delicto^ with the result that a very big public scandal quite overwhelmed him. He had to leave the village for some time, and his wife returned to her people. During my stay in the village^ a couple of years after the event, he made several attempts to get his wife back, and was obviously feeling his loss keenly. On my last return to the Trobriands, I learned that he had signed on as a plantation hand, come home after a year, and died a few months before my arrival. The hopeless attachment of Ulo Kadala has already been mentioned (ch. iv, sec. i). One case at least of suicide because of an unhappy love affair has been given to me by the natives.^

In these examples we find elements of what we our- selves mean by love: imagination and an attempt to woo the heart through the imagination rather than by a direct appeal to the senses 3 steadfast preference, and repeated attempts at possession. In many of them, there is a pro- nounced appreciation of the personality loved and of its power to enrich life or leave it empty. These elements certainly appear in unfamiliar combinations and in a per- spective strange to us. The attitude to sex is different, and therefore certain characteristic elements of the West- ern sentiment are absent. A platonic attachment would be impossible. Above all most of the personal initia- tive in wooing is replaced to a considerable extent by the practice of magic. Such generalizations can only be ap- proximate, but the facts given in this chapter and inci- dentally throughout the book, will enable the careful

1 Cf. Crime and Custom, p. 95.

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reader to gauge the differences between love and love- making in the Trobriands and in our culture.


THE COMMERCIAL ASPECT OF LOVE

There is an interesting side to Trobriand love that might either escape the attention of the superficial ob- server, or give rise to many misunderstandings. In the course of every love affair the man has constantly to give small presents to the woman. To the natives the need of one-sided payment is self-evident. This custom implies that sexual intercourse, even where there is mutual attach- ment, is a service rendered by the female to the male. As such it has to be repaid in accordance with the rule of reciprocity or give-and-take, which pervades tribal life, so that every gift, every service and every favour must be paid by something of equivalent value. The reward for sexual favours is called huwa^ and the word is used with the suffix of nearest possession {huwagUy huwaniy buwalay etc.). This is perhaps merely a grammatical archaism. If not, it expresses an extremely close relation between the gift and both the giver and the receiver: in other words, that the gift is an essential part of the trans- action, as indeed it is.

This rule is by no means logical or self-evident. Con- sidering the great freedom of women ,and their equality with men in all matters, especially that of sex, considering also that the natives fully realize that women are as in- clined to intercourse as men, one would expect the sexual

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relation to be regarded as an exchange of services in itself reciprocal. But custom, arbitrary and inconsequent here as elsewhere, decrees that it is a service from women to men, and men have to pay.

As to the size and nature of the gift, this varies with the type of sexual relationship. As we have seen, even small boys, imitating their elders in every detail, will give their sweethearts some small gift: a pinch of tobacco, a shell, or simply a blossom. Boys of riper years have to give a more substantial present: half a stick of tobacco, a betel-nut or two, and, from time to time, a turtle-shell ring, a shell disc, or even an armlet. Otherwise a girl would object: Gala huwaniy afaykiy "You have no pay- ment to give me — I refuse." And his reputation for meanness would spread, and interfere with his future conquests. In the later and more permanent intrigues, especially when they grow towards marriage, it is usual to give substantial presents from time to time rather than a small gift every morning.

When marriage is concluded, payment for sexual inter- course becomes the complicated family affair described in chapter v, in which husband and wife, their household and the wife's family, father and children, children and maternal uncle are all involved. The personal account between husband and wife consists in her offering him permanent sexual accommodation, which he repays by all he gives to the children in love, care, and goods. The children, as we know, are regarded as legally hers, and not his. The early cares he bestows on the children, their education, and even his love for them are accounted for

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by this obligation. "The payment for sleeping with the mother," "the payment for sexual services of the mother" and similar phrases are repeated when the subject is dis- cussed. Thus the commercial aspect of love also, and very definitely, obtains in marriage.^

It must, however, be clearly understood that the word "commercial" is merely used to describe the give-and-take principle in erotic relations, and that this principle is here, as in all other social relations, but one, and that not the most significant, aspect of them. Above all, it would be entirely erroneous to draw any parallel with forms of prostitution in higher cultures. The essence of prostitu- tion is that payment is the woman's motive for surrender. In the Trobriands, love-making is as spontaneous on the part of the girl as on the part of the boy. The gift is a custom, not a motive. The institution is much more akin to our custom of giving presents to a fiancee or to some- one whom we merely admire than to the institution of purely commercialized sexual services, which are the es- sence of prostitution.

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One more question intimately concerned with the prob- lem of personal attraction remains to be discussed. Love strives not only for possession but for monopoly 5 hence the strong emotional reaction of jealousy. It has been

1 Cf. Argonauts, pp. 177, 178, where I have incorrectly classed the father's gifts to his children as "free gifts." The rectification of this error will be found in Crime and Custom, pp. 40, 41.

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affirmed by several ethnographers of tribes with great sexual freedom, that jealousy does not exist among them. In support of this, nothing more is adduced than the simple fact of licence. But the connection between licence and the absence of jealousy is by no means self-evident.

In the Trobriands, in spite of considerable licence, jeal- ousy certainly exists. A man who desires a girl will not easily give way to a rival, as the frequent quarrels and fights occasioned by sexual rivalry bear witness. Nor will a man who has established some rights over a woman, whether of marriage or of engagement, or merely of a liaison, tolerate any infringement of these. There exists among them, in fact, both the jealousy of passion and that colder type based on ambition, power, and possession. As we know, relations within the hukumatula (bachelors' and unmarried girls' house) are subject to a definite code, and the infringement of individual rights is deeply re- sented and considered reprehensible. As we also know, adultery is a grave offence, punishable even by death. Among young boys and girls serious enmities and fights have been known to arise from one encroaching on the preserves of another, and even among children, fights are occasioned by jealousy.

This passion, however, is, as are all others, susceptible to social influence. When custom demands that a man should surrender his sweetheart, and this can be honour- ably done, he will submit. This happens, as we know, in the case of visiting kula strangers, and of youths who are guests in a village where a death has recently occurred. Also, there are occasions, less readily condoned, where

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girls go on a katuyausi or steal out of the village to meet an ulatile party.

I was impressed by what might be called the reverse side of j ealousy. The way in which boys would complain to me about such custom-sanctioned defection j the way in which they dwelt on the subject and described it with apparent depression, but not without some morbid curi- osity 3 and the insistence with which they would return to itj gave me the impression that there was for them some element of pleasurable excitement in the situation. Whether jealousy among the Trobrianders is an emotion with two almost directly contradictory feeling-tones which alternate, the one strongly unpleasant, and the other somewhat pleasurable and sexually stimulating, it is diffi- cult to say. But one or two facts as to the relation be- tween native women and white men throw additional light on the subject.

Thus it is a notorious fact that Sinakadi, an important but impecunious chief of Sinaketa, prostitutes his wives to white men. He is old now, and is said to have married a young girl specially for this purpose j but he began the practice long ago, according to common report, even be- fore a government station was established on the Tro- briands. One of his sons, now a young man, is doing exactly the same thing. A white trader told me that he knew a native who seemed very much attached to and extremely jealous of his comely young wife. This native used to procure girls for the trader. On one occasion when he was unable to find anyone else, he brought his wife, and waited for her on the doorstep. Such facts


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throw an interesting side-light on the working o£ jealousy in these natives.

The social, cultural, and directly emotional motives in jealousy will be more easily isolated by distinguishing its several types with their corresponding sanctions. In the first place there is jealousy which springs from infringe- ment of rights rather than from thwarted instincts or wounded feeling. The taboo on the chief's wives is an example, and in former times was extremely strict. Even in the case of a very old man, who was neither attached to his young wives nor even living with them, adultery would constitute a capital offence. The misconduct of To'uluwa's wives with his sons, a case in point already quoted, and the adultery of the wife of M'tabalu, would never have been condoned in the old days. But even the wife of a commoner, if caught in fiagrantey might have been killed with her lover. This kind of jealousy, arising from purely social considerations, is also expressed in the close watch kept over the widow by the dead man's rela- tives.

In the second place there is the jealous resentment of infidelities which interfere with a permanent relation. This emotional reaction is present, together with the social one, in the concrete instances quoted in the fore- going paragraph.

Finally there is the pure sexual jealousy from tfiwarted impulse or desire which will impel a man or a boy to violent and vindictive actions.


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BEAUTY, COLOUR, AND SCENT IN LOVE-MAKING

We know by now how a Trobriand girl and boy are first attracted to each other, how they come together, how their intrigue develops, leading to separation or marriage j but we know little as yet o£ the way in which two lovers spend their time together and enjoy each other's presence.

In this as in all other aspects of Melanesian tribal life, custom and convention dictate to a large extent even the details of behaviour. Individual deviations always exist, but they fall within a relatively narrow range j much nar- rower unquestionably than at our own culture level. A lover does not expect from his or her partner the improvi- sation of a love rhapsody, but rather a properly executed repetition of traditional routine. The places in which it is desirable to make love, the manner of making it, the very types of caress, are defined by tradition. Independ- ent informants would describe exactly the same procedure almost in the same words.

The word kwakwadu is a technical term which signifies something like "amorous transactions" or "being together for purposes of love." It would be easier perhaps to express it in German, as erotisches Belsamtnenselnj or by the American colloquialism "petting party" or "petting session." English speech habits are, unfortunately, re- fractory to stereotyped terminology, except in matters of morality. The kwakwadu has a wide meaning. It sig-


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nifies a collective excursion, or party of several couples setting out on a love picnic 3 the being together of two peo- ple who are in love with each other — a sort of erotic tete- a-tete; the caresses and approaches before the final union. It is never used euphemistically to designate the sexual act. At a collective picnic some of the games described in the previous chapter are first played in common, and afterwards the lovers seek solitude two by two. We shall attempt to reconstruct the behaviour of a pair who have left such a party, or else started off alone in order to enjoy each other's company in some favourite spot.

The scrub surrounding the village, which is periodically cut for gardens, grows in a dense underbrush and does not everywhere offer a desirable resting place. Here and there, however, a large tree, such as the butiay is left be- hind for the sake of its perfumed flowers, or there may be a group of pandanus trees. Pleasant shady places, too, can be found under an old tree in one of the groves which often mark the site of a deserted village, whose fruit trees, coco-nut palms, and big banyans make an oasis within the stunted tropical undergrowth of recent culti- vation. On the coral ridge {rayhwag) many spots invite a picnic party. Cavities and hollows in the coral, rocks of queer or attractive shape, giant trees, thickets of fern, flowering hibiscus make the rayhwag a mysterious and attractive region. Especially delightful is the part which overlooks the open sea towards the east, towards the islands of Kitava, Iwa, and Gawa. The roar of the breakers on the fringing reef, the dazzling sand and foam and the blue sea, provide the favourite surroundings for

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native love-making, and also constitute the scene in which the mythical drama of incestuous love has been laid by native imagination (see ch. xiv).

In such places the lovers enjoy the scent and colour o£ the flowers, they watch the birds and insects, and go down to the beach to bathe. In the heat of the day, or during the hot seasons, they search for shady spots on the coral ridge, for water-holes and for bathing places. As the cool of the evening approaches they warm themselves on the hot sand, or kindle a fire, or find shelter in some nook among the coral rocks. They amuse themselves by col- lecting shells and picking flowers or scented herbs, to adorn themselves. Also they smoke tobacco, chew betel- nut, and, when they are thirsty, look for a coco-nut palm, the green nut of which yields a cooling drink. They in- spect each other's hair for lice and eat them — a practice disgusting to us and ill associated with love-making, but to the natives a natural and pleasant occupation between two who are fond of each other, and a favourite pastime with children (pi. 70). On the other hand, they would never eat heavy food on such occasions and especially would never carry it with them from the village. To them the idea of European boys and girls going out for a picnic with a knapsack full of eatables is as disgusting and indecent as their kwakwadu would be to a Puritan in our society (see also ch. iii, sec. 4).

All such pleasures — the enjoyment of landscape, of colour and scent in the open air, of wide views and of intimate corners of nature — are essential features in their love-making. For hours, sometimes for days, lovers will

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go out together gathering fruits and berries for food and enjoying each other's company in beautiful surroundings. I made a point of confirming these particulars from a number of concrete instances 3 for, in connection with the question of romantic love already discussed, I was inter- ested to know whether love-making had direct satisfaction only for its object, or whether it embraced a wider sen- sory and aesthetic enjoyment. Many of the pleasures which enter into general games, amusements, and festivi- ties, also form part of personal kwakwadu.

Of course, love is not made only in the open air; there are also special occasions for bringing lovers together in the village. In chapter iii, the special institution of the bukwmatula and the more provisional arrangements of younger people have been mentioned. In the village, however, privacy is almost impossible except at night, and the activities of lovers are much more curtailed. They lie next to each other on a bunk and talk, and when they are tired of this, proceed to make love.

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It is not easy to reconstruct personal conversations which in their nature take place under very intimate con- ditions and without witnesses. A question couched in such general terms as "What do a boy and a girl talk to each other about at a kwakwadu?^^ is likely to be answered by a grin, or, if the man is familiar with the ethnographer, by the standard reply to all difficult questions: Tonagowa

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yokuy^^you fool" 5 in other words, "Don't ask silly ques- tions."

From the spontaneous confidences of some of my friends, however, I obtained some glimpses into what passes during these tete-a-tetes, A boy would often re- peat, for the sake of impressing me or just to give me some definite news, what a girl told him and what he re- plied, or vice versa. There is no doubt that the Trobriand lover boasts freely to his sweetheart and expects a sym- pathetic listener and an enthusiastic response. I have al- ready mentioned how Monakewo used to tell me of the great impression he had made on Dabugera and how greatly she admired his exploits and virtues. Mekala'i was equally certain that Bodulela was deeply impressed by any achievements which he related to her. Gomaya, a young chief of Sinaketa and an incurable braggart, would tell me how his betrothed, to whom he was plighted in infancy, would wonder at his stories of per- sonal excellence, of magical knowledge and of overseas adventure. In fact, whenever a Trobriander went into details about his love affairs, the impression made on his mistress would never be absent from his account, and would be related to me, in native fashion, as fragments of an actual conversation.

Gossip about other people's business, and especially about their love affairs, is also a common subject of con- versation between two lovers 5 and on many occasions much of it ultimately came my way, in that a boy would repeat what he had heard from his sweetheart. For the rest, they talk of what they are doing at that moment, the

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beauties of nature, and of the things they like or do not like. Sometimes, too, a boy will vaunt his exploits in those pursuits in which women do not usually participate, such as kula expeditions, fishing, bird-snaring, or hunting.

Thus a love affair may be set in a rich context of general interest, as regards both mutual activity and con- versation j but this varies with the intelligence and the personality of the partners. Ambitious, imaginative people would not be content with mere sensuous pleasure j but the obtuse and limited would proceed no doubt, directly to the cruder stages — ^the usual caresses and the sexual act.

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EROTIC APPROACHES

The place occupied by the kiss in South Sea communi- ties is of general and perennial interest. It is a widely prevalent opinion that kissing is not practised outside the Indo-European horizon. Students of anthropology, as well as frequenters of comic opera, know that even in such high civilizations as those of China and Japan the kiss as a gesture in the art of love is unknown. A Euro- pean shudders at the idea of such cultural deficiency. For his comfort, it may be said at once that things are not so black as they look.

To get at the facts and to see these in their right per- spective, the question must first be put more precisely. If we ask whether lip-activities play any part in love- making, the answer is that they certainly do. As we shall see, both in the preliminary caresses and in the later

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stages, the mouth is busy. On the other hand, if we define kissing more precisely as a prolonged pressing of mouth against mouth with slight intermittent movements ^and I think that all competent authorities would agree with such a definition and with the proposition that this is the main erotic preliminary in Europe and the United States — then the kiss is not used in Trobriand love-mak- ing. Certainly it never forms a self-contained independ- ent source of pleasure, nor is it a definite preliminary stage of love-making, as is the case with us. This caress was never spontaneously mentioned by the natives, and, to direct inquiries, I always received a negative answer. The natives know, however, that white people "will sit, will press mouth against mouth — they are pleased with it." But they regard it as a rather insipid and silly form of amusement.

Kissing in the narrow sense is also absent as a cultural symbol, whether as a greeting, an expression of affection, or a magical or ritual act. The rubbing of noses (vayauli) as an act of greeting is rare, and never done except be- tween very near relatives j it is said that parents and chil- dren or husband and wife would thus celebrate their re- union after long separation. A mother who is constantly petting her small child, will frequently touch it with her cheek or her lips j she will breathe upon it, or, putting her open mouth against its skin, caress it gently. But the exact technique of kissing is not used between mother and child, and in no form is it so conspicuous with them as with us.

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to a deeper difference in love-making. The natives, I am convinced, never indulge in erotic caresses as a self- sufficient activity j that is, as a stage in love-making which covers a long period of time before full bodily union is accomplished. This is a local and not a racial character, for I am equally convinced (see above) that among other Melanesians, in Dobu and probably among the Motu, in the Sinaugolo and Mailu tribes, engaged couples do meet, lie together, and caress each other without cohabitation.

The comparison, however, cannot be satisfactory, for my knowledge of the latter tribes is much less complete than in the case of the Trobriands, and so I can only sug- gest a subject for further research. It is extremely im- portant to know whether the nature of preliminary love is correlated with the level of culture, or with the social regulation of it — above all, with the moral restrictions condemning prenuptial intercourse.

We have spoken rather fully about kissing, to satisfy a general curiosity on this point. Let us now observe the behaviour of two lovers alone on their bunk in the huku- matulay or in a secluded spot in the rayhwag or jungle. A mat is usually spread on the boards or on the earth, and, when they are sure of not being observed, skirt and pubic leaf are removed. They may at first sit or lie side by side, caressing each other, their hands roaming over the surface of the skin. Sometimes they will lie close to- gether, their arms and legs enlaced. In such a position they may talk for a long time, confessing their love with endearing phrases, or teasing each other (katudabumd) . So near to each other, they will rub noses. But though


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there is a good deal of nose-rubbing, cheek is also rubbed against cheek, and mouth against mouth. Gradually the caress becomes more passionate, and then the mouth is predominantly active 5 the tongue is sucked, and tongue is rubbed against tongue j they suck each other's lower lips, and the lips will be bitten till blood comes j the saliva is allowed to flow from mouth to mouth. The teeth are used freely, to bite the cheek, to snap at the nose and chin. Or the lovers plunge their hands into the thick mop of each other's hair and tease it or even tear it. In the formulas of love magic, which here as elsewhere abound in over-graphic exaggeration, the expressions, "drink my blood" and "pull out my hair" are frequently used (see next chapter). This sentence, volunteered by a girl's sweetheart, describes his erotic passion:

Binunu vivila dubilibaloday bigadi;

She sucks woman lower lip (ours), she bites 3 tagiyu bimwam. we spit, she drinks.

Erotic scratches are an even more direct way of hurt- ing and of drawing blood. We have already spoken of these as the conventional invitation of a girl to a boy. We also described their place in tribal festivities (ch. ix, sec. 5). But they are also a part of intimate love-making, and a mutual expression of passion:

Tayobobuy tavayauUy takenu deli;

We embrace, we rub noses, we lie together 5

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bikimali vivila otuhwaloday ovilavada

she scratches woman on back (ours), on shoulders (ours) 5

sene bwoynciy tanukwaliy bitagwalayda

very much good, we know, she loves us

senela,

very much indeed.

On the whole, I think that in the rough usage of pas- sion the woman is the more active. I have seen far larger scratches and marks on men than on women j and only women may actually lacerate their lovers as in the case mentioned in chapter ix, section 5. The scratching is car- ried even into the passionate phases of intercourse. It is a great jest in the Trobriands to look at the back of a man or a girl for the hall-marks of success in amorous life. Nor have I ever seen a comely girl or boy without some traces of kimali in the proper places. Subject to general rules of good taste and specific taboo (see ch. xiii), the kimali marks are a favourite subject for jokes 5 but there is also much secret pride in their possession.

Another element in love-making, for which the average European would show even less understanding than for the kimaliy is the mitakukuy the biting off of eyelashes. As far as I could judge from descriptions and demonstra- tions, a lover will tenderly or passionately bend over his mistress's eyes and bite oflF the tip of her eyelashes. This, I was told, is done in orgasm as well as in the less pas- sionate preliminary stages. I was never quite able to grasp either the mechanism or the sensuous value of this caress. I have no doubt, however, as to its reality, for I

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have not seen one boy or girl in the Trobriands with the long eyelashes to which they are entitled by nature. In any case, it shows that the eye to them is an object of active bodily interest. Still less enthusiasm will probably be felt by the romantic European towards the already mentioned custom of catching each other's lice and eating them. To the natives, however, it is a pastime, which, while pleasant in itself, also establishes an exquisite sense of intimacy.

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The following is a condensed description of the whole process of love-making, with several characteristic inci- dents, given me by my friend Monakewo:

Takwakwadu: dakova^ kadiyaguma^ We make love: our fire, our lime gourd, kaditafwaki: kada galay mwasila. Bkala,

our tobacco 3 food (ours) no, shame. We go, tala kaytala ka^t kayviava; tasisu,

we go (for) one (wood) tree tree bigj we sit, takakakutu; taluki vivila:

we louse and eatj we tell to woman:

^Hakayta?^ BvuookwOy

"we copulate" (let us copulate). It is finished,

bit old ovalu; ovalu tola obukumatulay

we go to village 3 in village we go to bachelors'


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takenu tabigatona, Kidama kadumwaletay

we lie, we chatter. Supposing we are alone,

taltku yaviday biliku dabela

we undo pubic leaf ours she undoes skirt (hers)

iamasisi,

we sleep.

This may be freely rendered: "When we go on a love- making expedition we light our firej we take our lime gourd (and chew betel-nut), we take our tobacco (and smoke it). Food we do not take, we would be ashamed to do so. We walk, we arrive at a large tree, we sit down, we search each other's heads and consume the lice, we tell the woman that we want to copulate. After it is over we return to the village. In the village we go to the bach- elors' house, lie down, and chatter. When we are alone he takes off the pubic leaf, she takes off her fibre skirt: we go to sleep."

With regard to the act itself, perhaps the most note- worthy feature is the position.

The woman lies on her back, the legs spread and raised, and the knees flexed. The man kneels against her buttocks, her legs resting on his hips. The more usual position, however, is for the man to squat in front of the woman and, with his hands resting on the ground, to move towards her or, taking hold of her legs, to pull her to- wards him. When the sexual organs are close to each other the insertion takes place. Again the woman may stretch her legs and place them directly on the man's hips, with his arms outside them, but the far more usual posi-

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tion is with her legs embracing the man's arms, and rest- ing on the elbows.

An interesting text gives the description of both methods:

Kidama vivila skana ikanufwagega;

Supposing woman a little bit she lies open (-legged) ; kaykela bima ogifomada.

legs hers it comes on our hips.

Kidama ikanufwagega senelay

Supposing she lies open (-legged) very much indeed, ikanuheyayay kaykela bima o

she lies right open, leg hers it comes on

fmtutugu kaylavast. end mine elbow.

Which may be rendered:

"When the woman opens her legs only a little, her legs come (i.e. rest) on my hipsj when she lies with legs spread out very much, lies right open, her legs rest on my elbows."

Congress is sometimes effected in a reclining position. Lying side by side, with the lower limbs pressed against each other, the woman places her upper leg on top of the man, and the insertion is made. This mode, which is less popular, is used at night in the bukumatula (bachelors' house). It is less noisy, as the natives say, and requires less space J and is done in order not to wake up the other inmates of the house (see ch. iii, sec. 4).

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despise the European position and consider it unpractical and improper. The natives, of course, know it, because white men frequently cohabit with native women, some, even being married to them. But, as they say: "The man overlies heavily the woman 5 he presses her heavily down- wards, she cannot respond {ibilamafu) ^'^

Altogether the natives are certain that white men do not know how to carry out intercourse eflFectively. As a matter of fact, it is one of the special accomplishments of native cook-boys and servants who have been for some time in the emplo3^ of white traders, planters, or officials, to imitate the copulatory methods of their masters. In the Trobriands, Gomaya was perhaps the best actor in this respect. He still remembered a famous Greek buc- caneer (Nicholas Minister was the name he went by among other beachcombers), who had lived in the islands even before the establishment of the government station. Gomaya's performance consisted in the imitation of a very clumsy reclining position, and in the execution of a few sketchy and flabby movements. In this the brevity and lack of vigour of the European performance were carica- tured. Indeed, to the native idea, the white man achieves orgasm far too quickly; and there seems to be no doubt that the Melanesian takes a much longer time and em- ploys a much greater amount of mechanical energy to reach the same result. This, together with the handicap of the unfamiliar position, probably accounts for the com- plaints of white men that native girls are not responsive. Many a white informant has spoken to me about perhaps the only word in the native language which he ever


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learned, kubilahda ("move on horizontally")? repeated to him with some intensity during the sexual act. This verb defines the horizontal motion during sexual inter- course, which should be mutual. The noun hllahalay originally means a horizontally lying logj and hala as a root or prefix, conveys a general sense of the horizontal. But the Ya:hybilabalay does not convey the immobility of a log 5 on the contrary, it gives the idea of horizontal motion. The natives regard the squatting position as more advantageous, both because the man is freer to move than when kneeling, and because the woman is less ham- pered in her responsive movements — bilafnafu — a com- pound of bilay from balay horizontal, and mafUy repay or respond. Also in the squatting position the man can per- form the treading motion {mtumuta)^ which is a useful dynamic element in successful copulation. Another word, korikikilay implies at the same time rubbing and pushing, a copulatory motion.

As the act proceeds and the movements become more energetic, the man, I was told, waits until the woman is ready for orgasm. Then he presses his face to the woman's, embraces her body and raises it towards him, she putting her arms round him at the same time and, as a rule, digging her nails into his skin. The expression for orgasm is ififisi momona == the seminal fluid dis- charges. The word momona signifies both the male and the female discharge j as we know, the natives do not make any sharp distinction between male semen and the glandular secretions of a woman, at least, not as regards their respective functions. The same expression ipsi

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momona is also applied to (male or female) nocturnal pollution. The word for onanistic ejaculation is isulu- momoniy "it boils over sexual fluid." Male masturbation is called ikivayli kwila — "he manipulates penis" j female masturbation is described in concrete phrases and has no specific name.

An interesting personal account was given to me by Monakewo and illustrates some of the points just men- tioned. It was hardly discreet of him to speak of his mis- tress by namej but the ethnographer's love for the con- crete instance may excuse my not emending it.

Bamasisi deli Dabugera; hayohohuy

I sleep together Dabugera 5 I embrace,

bavakayla havayauU, Tanunu dubilihaloday

I hug all length, I rub noses. We suck lower lips ours, fela bi^ulugwalayda; mayela tanunu;

because we feel excited 5 tongue his we suckj

tagadl kabulula; tagadl kola gabula; tagadl we bite nose his 5 we bite his chin 5 we bite kimwala; takabi fosigalay

jaw (cheek) his 5 we take hold (caress) armpit his, visiyala, Bilivala minana: "O didakwani,

groin his. She says this woman: "O it itches, lubaygUy senela; kworikikila

lover mine, very much indeed j rub and push

tuvaylay bilukwali wowogu —

again, it feels pleasant body mine —

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kwofmavlyakay nanakwa hififisi

do it vigorously, quick (so that) it squirts

momona: — kwalimtufnutu tuvayla hilukwali sexual fluid; — tread again it feels pleasant

wowogu,^^ body mine."

Free Translation

"When I sleep with Dabugera I embrace her, I hug her with my whole body, I rub noses with her. We suck each other's lower lip, so that we are stirred to passion. We suck each other's tongues, we bite each other's noses, we bite each other's chins, we bite cheeks and caress the armpit and the groin. Then she will say: ^O my lover, it itches very much . . . push on again, my whole body melts with pleasure ... do it vigorously, be quick, so that the fluids may discharge . . . tread on again, my body feels so pleasant.' "

The same informant gave me the following samples of a conversation which would occur after the act, when the two rested in each other's arms:

^^Kayne tomhwayUm yayguP^

"Whether sweetheart thine I?" ^^Mtage! nabwayligu yoku — sene

"Yes! sweetheart mine thou — very much

magigu; tutay tuta, bitakayta; sene

desire mine; time, time, we copulate ; very much

migimbwayligu mlgm tabudaP^

face yours beloved by me face thine cross-cousins!"

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^^Gala maglgu bukuyousi nata vivila-

"No desire mine you get hold one woman

nava^u; yoku wala^ yaygu,^^

new woman 3 thou indeed, I."

"Am I thy sweetheart?" "Yes, thou art my sweet- heart j I love thee very much 3 always, always we shall cohabit. I love thy face very much j it is that of a cross- cousin (the right woman for me)." "I do not desire that thou shouldst take a new woman j just thou and I."

I was informed that sexual relations between married people would be on the same lines, but, from the follow- ing text, it is clear that passion ebbs with time.

Vigilava^u imasisisi kzvaytanidesi

Married newly they sleep single one

kabasi; blmugo vayvaH bikwaybogwOy

bed theirs j it matures matrimony it is old, kwayta kabalay kwayta kabada. Bisala^u

one bed her, one bed ours. It is energetic

uwasiy magisi bikaytasi, bikenusi

body theirs, desire theirs they copulate, they lie deli bikamitakukusi bivayaulasiy

together they bite eyelashes they rub noses.

bigedasi, they bite.

"Newly married people sleep together in one bed. When matrimony has matured, when it has become old, she sleeps in one bed, and we (i.e. the husband) sleep

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in another. When they feel sexually vigorous they want to cohabit 5 then they lie together, they bite their eye- lashes, they rub their noses, they bite each other."

Here my informant, Tokulubakiki, a married man, tries to convey the idea that even long-married persons can behave at times as lovers.

In conclusion,^ I should like to draw the attention of the reader to the data supplied by Dr. W. E. Roth and other informants concerning the sexual life of the ab- origines of Australia.^ The subject is of considerable importance as the mechanism is very characteristic of the whole nature of erotic approach. The manner in which the Queensland aborigines copulate closely resembles that described in this chapter. In both regions the act can be so carried out that there is the minimum of bodily contact. I think that this to a great extent accounts for the undiscriminating way in which young and handsome boys will sometimes fornicate with old and repulsive women. On the other hand, where love exists, the man can bend over the woman or the woman raise herself to meet him and contact can be as full and intimate as is desired.

^ Compare also what has been said about native ideas concerning the anatomy and physiology of procreation and the psycho-physiological mechanism of falling in love, chapter vii.

2 Dr. W. E. Roth, Ethnological Studies Among the North-West Central Queensland Aborigines, 1897, and H. Basedow, in J.R.AJ., 1927, on "Subincision and Kindred Rites of the Australian Aboriginal," pp. 151-6.


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THE MAGIC OF LOVE AND BEAUTY

Perhaps nothing is so akin to the mysterious and stir- ring condition which we call falling in love, as that mystic expectancy of miraculous intervention and of benevolent and unexpected happenings which comes to all men at certain psychological moments and forms the founda- tion of the human belief in magic. There is a desire in every one of us to escape from routine and certainty, and it can be said, without exaggeration, that to most men nothing is more cheerless and oppressive than the rigidity and determination with which the world runsj and nothing more repugnant than the cold truths of science, which express and emphasize the determination of reality. Even the most sceptical at times rebel against the inevi- table causal chain, which excludes the supernatural and, with it, all the gifts of chance and good fortune. Love, gambling and magic have a great deal in common.

In a primitive community, not yet in bond to science, magic lies at the root of innumerable beliefs and prac- tices. Megway which may be almost exactly rendered by our word "magic," is, to the Trobriander, a force re- siding in man, transmitted to him from generation to generation through the medium of tradition. This force can only become active by the performance of a ritual ^appropriate to the occasion, by the recital of proper incan-

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tationSj and by the observance of specific taboos. In all matters relating to love, it is of fundamental importance. Magic can endow with charm and engender lovej magic can alienate affection in consort or lover j and magic can produce or enhance personal beauty.


THE IMPORTANCE OF BEAUTY

The magic of which the purpose is so to increase per- sonal attractiveness that the performer may become erotically irresistible to some one member of the opposite sex, is but one among several kinds of beauty magic. Personal appearance and charm are not valued on amo- rous grounds only. A woman in her first pregnancy, as we know, is subject to an elaborate ritual, with spells to enhance her bodily beauty, which is in no way intended to make her attractive to men. She is sexually taboo to her own husband j and the idea of adultery under such circumstances is, without exaggeration, morally repul- sive to the natives. Again, a beauty magic has been described elsewhere which is performed at a certain stage in an overseas expedition.^ This has no erotic reference — indeed love-making, on such occasions, is often taboo — but its purpose is to make the personal charm of the visitors so irresistible that they will be offered many gifts of valuable ornaments. The heroes of ancestral days, who make themselves beautiful for reasons which have

1 See Argonauts of the Western Pacific, ch. xiii, sec. i, and especially PP- 335-6. Compare also footnote on p. 219, vol. i, of this work.

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nothing to do with sex, figure in the mythology of the kula (ArgonautSy ch. xii). It is important that the prac- tice of beauty magic to a directly sexual end should be placed in its proper setting in this general and intense interest in personal charm.


CEREMONIAL OCCASIONS OF BEAUTY MAGIC

In our description of the opportunities given by festive occasions for mutual admiration and contact, the im- portance of beauty and skill in dancing, and of "deport- ment" was made clear. Beauty magic is a part of the personal preparation for all big festivals 5 special charms are recited over certain parts of the body during the care and cleansing of them, and during ornamentation. This is always done on the last and culminating day of the period of festival dancing (usigola) or of competitive games {kayasa)^ during the third feast in which they terminate (ch. ix, sees. 3 and 4). The tension, interest and personal animosities characteristic of these competitive displays must be realized before we can understand the nature and importance of the beauty ceremonial j and we shall, therefore, give a short account of the proceedings as ritual observances, but without returning to the games and amusements round which they centre (see above, ch. ix, sec. 2).

The festive period, which lasts twenty-eight days, always begins, as we know, at the full moon after the return of the ancestral spirits. It is opened by a cere-

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monial distribution of food (sagali) (pis. 71 and 72). A sagali is a very important institution in the Trobriands^ it accompanies most ceremonial occasions, such as mortu- ary rites, commemoration feasts, competitive enterprises and the annual season of amusement. The mortuary sagali (distributions), which are the most important, are based upon the division into clans and sub-clans (see ch. vi, sec. 4, and ch. xiii, sec. 5), since members of only one clan always act as distributors, men of the remaining clans receiving the food. At other times the apportion- ment of the food follows some other sociological prin- ciple. In all cases, however, it is the headman of the local community who officiates as "master of the distri- bution" {toUsagali). He and his kinsmen arrange the allotment of each heap of yams, moving among them, discussing and memorizing (pi. 71). After that the same committee slowly walk from one heap to another and the master or his spokesman calls out the name or descrip- tion of the recipient. When this has been done, the men move away from the place and, after a time, the women belonging to each recipient collect the yams in baskets and carry them to their storehouses (pi. 72). In a small sagaliy such as is held within the community at the be- ginning of a dancing or playing season, the duty of pro- viding the food invariably falls on the master and his kinsmen, while the renown {butura) of the distribution goes to their credit, and those who receive food are re- sponsible to them for the success of the entertainments which follow.

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participants to go on steadily with the dance, game, or whatever special display has been chosen, for the whole period. In an usigola (dancing period) each heap of food would be allotted according to its size, and be given to a special class of performer. One of the largest would go to the leaders of the round dance {tokoUmatala) . The three men who perform the complicated figure dance, the solemn kasawaga^ receive an equally big portion. The singers {tokwayfo^u\ a body of no mean importance, also have their special place in the distribution. Smaller heaps of different sizes are given to the drummers, the mutes in the figure dance, the boys who catch the iguana for the drumskin, and to all the rest of the villagers, according to the part they play in the proceedings. In a sagali (dis- tribution), therefore, the respective importance of each group is emphasized and this causes a certain amount of tension and jealousy, and some little boasting.

On the first day, magic is performed over a conch- shell and over food. The conch-shell is blown on that day and also during the dance j the food is buried wher- ever a road enters the village. Both rites are meant magically to enhance the splendour of the performance. The charmed conch-shell announces the coming display with the thrilling ostentation of magical power. The burial of the food expresses the desire for plenty within the village, is a symbol of it, and is believed to effect it. I was unable to obtain the formula of this magic, so my information is but approximate.

After these ceremonies, the dancing period begins. At first, there is much to do in the way of learning, training,

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and preliminary contests. In the middle of the month a second sagaU (distribution of food) is held, called katumwalela kasakasa (the priming of the rank and file). There is a special dance on such a day, but no other rites are performed.

Finally, at the next full moon, there comes the kovayse (the winding up), which lasts for three days, and is the main festivity of the period. Two days before the full moon, there is a great communal eating of sago or taro pudding (see pis. 5 and 86). This day is called itavakayse kaydebu ("preparing of the dancing shield"), or itava- kayse bisila ("preparing of the pandanus streamer"), in reference to the shield and streamer which are both used in dancing. On the next day, which is called kokolukwaHy the same proceedings are repeated. On both days cere- monial dancing takes place.

The third day is called luvayam^ "the day of consum- mation," or lafulay "the rounding-off day," and is a great occasion. People from many villages are invited, and begin to arrive in the morning, soon filling the village street and surrounding spaces. Each community sits in a group, camping on mats, surrounded with baskets and children. Those on more intimate terms with their hosts assist them in the preparations. The villagers, with serious set faces, move quickly to and fro among the guests, in gala dress, some already adorned for the dance — ^the men perhaps in female grass petticoats with the whole body decked out in valuable ornaments and flowers.

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augural round dance, the mwelt (as on pis. 58, G^t 82). The mweli is followed at about noon by the ceremonial figure dance {kasawaga) (pi. 73). All is done in full dress and with great display, to the attentive observation of the onlookers. But this is only a preparation for what will follow.

After midday, the real ceremonial begins. The per- formers have now ritually to wash, dress, and ornament themselves. The visitors and the rest of the villagers are in the meantime engaged in a distribution of food and in feasting. Early in the afternoon, platters of baked yams, bananas, and coco-nut, and sometimes of fish as well, are brought to the guests and distributed to each community as mltalela valu ("eye of the village" — a metaphor which I was unable to elucidate). This is usually an occasion for much merriment and some horse- play, the givers and receivers exchanging appropriate jokes. Then each group sets to work on its portion, sit- ting round the platter with backs turned to the people from other village communities, as is required by good manners.

To complete our account of food distributions: there follows another sagali, in which the performers, now fully dressed and adorned, give presents to their tahmia (father's sisters, and their daughters). This is a repay- ment for the beauty magic which the women have per- formed upon them, to the description of which we now proceed.


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BEAUTY magic: THE RITUAL OF WASHING

The ceremonial washing and decoration of the dancers is undertaken on this occasion by women of a special class, namely those who stand to them in the relation of tabu. We shall have to discuss the tahu and their place in the social scheme more fully in the chapters which follow (ch. xiii, sec. 63 see also ch. viii, sec. 2). In this place we need only mention that they are the approved and suitable partners for passing intrigues, for more stable liaisons or for marriage (see also ch. iv, sec. 4). It is their duty now to prepare the men for the dance, to deck them out with ornaments, with flowers and with paint, and to per- form the magic incidental to each stage of the proceed- ings. In this, the ritual differs from the beauty magic in the kulay where each man makes his own magic and adorns himself. It is, on the other hand, similar in every respect to the beauty magic performed in the first preg- nancy ceremony (see above, ch. viii, sec. 2).

The ceremonial dressing must, as always, be preceded by a ritual washing and cleansing, conducted to a running accompaniment of appropriate spells. The dancers and their attendants have now assembled outside the village in the grove, usually at a place not far from the water- hole (pi. 74). While the boys wait, their tabula recite a spell over some coco-nut fibre, with which the skin is to be rubbed as with a sponge 5 and over some soft leaves (usually of the wageva shrub), with which the skin will

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be dried as with a towel. This is, in free translation, a kaykakaya (ablution) formula for the charming of the coco-nut fibre: ^

Polishing, polishing off,

Cleansing, cleansing off.

There is one piece of fibre.

My own, a keen fibre, a buoyant fibre,

One which is as the morning star,

Which is as the full moon.

I cleanse his chest, I improve his head,

I improve his chest, I cleanse his head.

They climb up a pole (to admire).

They bind a flattery-bond round his knees.

This formula needs hardly any comment. It contains, as with most magic, the affirmation of the desired effect. It begins with a simple statement of the action of cleans- ing, and then extols the value of the coco-nut, comparing it to the morning star and to the full moon. The quality thus charmed into the coco-nut fibre will, it must be re- membered, be later on transferred by friction to the skin of the bather. The idea of a light colour as an attribute of beauty is clearly expressed. The formula closes with an exaggerated statement of the effect to be produced by the magic. It is a custom to remove a piece of decoration from the body of a dancer or, in the case of people of high rank, to tie a string round his leg or arm, in order to express admiration. This is done with the words Agu tilewaHy "my flattery-bond," and has to be redeemed by the admired dancer with a suitable present, which is also called tilewaH — flattery-gift.

1 For information as to the linguistic plan adopted in the translation of this and other native texts, see ch. xviii, "The Power of Words in Magic," in my Argonauts of the Western Pacific.


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The following formula is spoken over the leaves used for drying the skin : —

I pull and pull, I pull hither and thither,

I pull my leaves of drying.

There is one kind of towel leaves, /

The leaves of my companions;

Sere, parched leaves they are,

There is another kind of leaves, my tovp^el leaves.

The leaves of me, of Ibo'umli,

They are keen buoyant flashing leaves.

Here again we find the usual affirmation, but the three middle lines are very interesting, for they show what might be called a typical case of magical relativity. The magic of the speaker, who in such cases always mentions his or her own name, is extolled at the expense of the magic of his or her companions. This type of phrasing is prevalent in magic applied in competitive activities.^ The pulling of the leaves mentioned in the first line refers to the act of breaking them from the tree, and is a typical magical expression.

After the coco-nut fibre and the leaves have been charmed, each man takes his sponge and towel from his tabula and wraps it up in leaves, so that no magic virtue shall evaporate, even during the short passage from the spot where they are assembled to the water-hole, whither the men presently repair, leaving the women behind. Arrived there, the men remove all dress and ornament, and begin to wash, scraping off any paint which still re- mains from the morning. The coco-nut fibre is first un- wrapped from its covering, and with this they rub their

1 Compare, for instance, the formula referring to the speed of the canoe, Argonauts of the Western Pacific, p. 130.


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skin. They rub carefully and earnestly and with a scru- pulous minuteness, so that no part of the skin shall remain untouched. The face and the chest are perhaps most thoroughly scrubbed. With the same meticulous atten- tion to detail, the skin is dried with the soft, spongy leaves. Then they return to their female magicians who are awaiting them.


BEAUTY magic: THE RITUAL OF ADORNMENT

In the meantime, the women have been preparing various cosmetic substances. Each boy, before the wash- ing, has taken off his most precious ornaments, such as shell-belt, armshells, and valuable necklaces, and left them with his tabula; so now the toilet can begin. First comes the anointing with charmed coco-nut oil, always the next stage after washing (I failed to obtain the magical formula of coco-nut oil). When this has been well rubbed all over the skin, by the man himself and not by the women, the latter proceed to stroke the skin with a mother-of-pearl shell {kayeki or kaydohu) (pi. 75). Slowly and gently each tabula presses the smooth shell up and down over his cheeks, his arms and his chest, and laterally across his forehead 5 reciting a formula, as she does so, in a clear audible voice. The words must always be spoken towards the boy's face which she is stroking.

Who makes the beauty magic? —

To heighten the beauty, to make it come out.

Who makes it on the slopes of Obukula? —

I, Tabalu, and my mate Kwaywaya.

We make the beauty magic.

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I smooth out, I improve, I whiten! Thy head I smooth out, I improve, I whiten! Thy cheeks I smooth out, I improve, I whiten! Thy nose I smooth out, I improve, I whiten! Thy throat I smooth out, I improve, I whiten! Thy neck I smooth out, I improve, I whiten! Thy shoulders I smooth out, I improve, I whiten! Thy breast I smooth out, I improve, I whiten! Bright skin, bright; glowing skin, glowing.

The opening sentences of the formula again present a typical pattern of Trobriand magic. They express the traditional filiation of the actual performer. By reciting them, the magician charms, not in his own name, but as a representative, so to speak, of the original source of the magic. He — or in this case she — is even projected to the spot from whence the magic came 5 in the present rites on the slopes of Obukula, where the primeval grotto lies, near the village of Laba'i.^ From this grotto, according to tradition, the earliest clan-ancestors emerged. There, also, the culture hero Tudava was raised and lived with his mother. It is the centre of traditional magic, of custom and of law. The formula identifies the speaker with two ancestors of the highest sub-clan, which takes its name from one of them, Tabalu. In the form given in this charm, the names can be either male or female. In practice, the masculine prefix Mo- or the feminine prefix Bo- is usually added to indicate whether a man or a woman is named. Thus, the old chief of Kasana'i, who was still alive on my first visit to the Trobriands, was called M 'tabalu, and one of his nephews, Kwaywaya. The feminine forms would be Botabalu and Bokwaywaya

1 For details of these legendary places and persons, see Myth in Primi' five Psychology.

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respectively. The rest o£ the formula is typical of all the longer spells and follows, step by step, the ritual applications to the object charmed. This is the longest formula and the most circumstantial act of beauty magic. After the body has been anointed and smoothed with the pearl shell, the cosmetics are ceremonially applied. The mouth is painted with crushed betel-nut, while the following words are chanted:

Red paint, red paint thither.

Red paint, red paint hither.

One red paint of my companions,

It is sere, it is parched.

One red paint, my red paint

Of me, of Ibo'umli ;

It is keen, it is buoyant, it is flashing:

My red paint.

This charm is similar in form to that of the wageva leaves.

When the mouth has been painted red, and perhaps a few lines in the same colour on the face, ornamental spirals are painted on the cheeks and forehead with sayaku (pi. 76), an aromatic black cosmetic, while the following words are recited:

O black paint, O buoyant black paint!

O black paint, O decorative black paint!

O black paint, O comely black paint!

Glowing eyes, glowing, bright eyes, bright.

For this is my sayaku.

The ornamenting, the alluring black paint Indeed.

Then the hair is teased out with a comb to the accom- paniment of this spell:

Who makes the beauty magic — To heighten the beauty, to make it come out? Who makes it on the slopes of Kituma? , I, Ibo'umli, make the beauty magic


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To heighten the beauty, to make it come out.

1 make it on the slopes of Kituma.

Keen is my comb, buoyant is my comb,

My comb is like the full moon,

My comb is like the morning star.

For this is my comb,

It will adorn me,

It will make me beloved indeed.

The name, Ibo'umli, occurring in this and one or two of the previous formulas, is that of my informant. The place, Kituma, seems to be somewhere in the eastern archi- pelago, but my informant could not locate it exactly.

The toilet is now almost complete. The dancers are adorned with red flowers, aromatic herbs {yana)^ and garlands of the butiuy which always blooms at this season (pi. 77). Appropriate incantations are said, but I shall not here cite them, for, although I obtained them, I can- not translate them satisfactorily. Finally, and with no adjuvant magic, such valuable ornaments as belts, arm- shells, necklaces, and last, but not least, the feather orna- ments for the head, are put on the dancers. This last part of the toilet is done by men (pi. 78).


THE MAGIC OF SAFETY AND RENOWN AT FESTIVITIES

The elaborate ritual preparation of the dancers gives some indication of the tense emotional atmosphere which is characteristic of these big festive assemblies. The whole complex of dangerous passions, which, at the same time, spring from and generate the spirit of emulation, is wrought upon by such a culminating occasion for personal display.

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While charms are being said over the dancers in the grove to give them added beauty, strength, and skill, two other kinds of magic are being prepared in the village, one of which is a measure of protection. There is a deep belief and a strong apprehension among the natives that black magic is being used against the dancers by the ene- mies of the village* Excellence in dancing is, indeed, one of those dangerous accomplishments which arouse great envy, and against which many an evil magician directs his powers. In fact, among the symptoms by which the wizard murderer is identified on the corpse of his victim, an important place is occupied by marks which signify: "This man was killed for his excellence in dancing." ^

There is a special evil magic called kaygiauri, which is practised against the dancers, and indeed against all the bystanders except the sorcerer himself and his friends. I was not able to find out any details about this magic, how it is performed, or how it is supposed to act. But I have myself seen men preparing an antidote and making the counter-magic over the dancers. When the ritual toilet had been completed, small parcels were produced, containing magically treated wild ginger-root hermetically wrapped up in leaves. These were chewed by the magi- cian, who then spat over the skin of the dancer. Next he took some aromatic leaves {kwehila) j over these he mut- tered a short formula, and then he put them into the arm- lets of the dancers.

The operation of these evil passions is not, in fact,

^ Cf. Crime and Custom, part ii, ch. ii, p. 89.

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wholly confined to the realm of idea and belief. The danger of a fight during the culminating day of a kayasa is even now not quite excluded. I was never present when feeling ran high enough to develop into a brawl, but, even so, I was strongly aware of a violence and ruthless- ness in the behaviour of the performers and of the crowd, of a certain nervous mistrust and clinging together of each group, which confirmed the direct statements of the na- tives and my general information as to the conduct of such affairs in former times. Then the natives would come fully armed, with spears, wooden sword clubs, throwing sticks, and shields 3 each community would stand in a group with every man on his guard, suspicious of all strangers and on the look-out for possible trouble. When interest in the performance was at its height, people would push forward, the closer physical contact would cause suspicion of sorcery, and anything might be the signal for a fight. The presence of women in the various groups was another important source of danger, because of sexual rivalry.

To the envy and jealousy and mutual mistrust must be added an ardent desire for renown {hutura). This finds full and independent expression in a further type of magic, which, with that of beauty and the specific against hostile sorcery, is launched into the exalted atmosphere of the village. This is the magic of uributUy "spreading of renown" {uriy from ^^woriy^ to strike, to flick, to spray j butUy root of "renown"). While the dancers are being made ready under the trees of the village grove 3 while a distribution of food is in progress on the central place,

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the magician of glory, the to^uributUy proceeds in his own house to manufacture fame for his community. He is the same man who, on the first day of the festivities, a month ago, has performed the important magic of the conch- shells and the buried food. In the morning he has also prepared the scene of the dances by ritual sweeping of the haku (central place) with a charmed broom. Now comes his most important performance. On a large mat, folded over so that it encloses them, he places a drum, a conch- shell, and a few pieces of reed {dadam). Into the open mouth of this improvised magic bag he then chants his spells. The formula unfortunately I was not able to obtain.

His task is completed as the dancers are ready, fully dressed and waiting to start (pi. 79) the lafula or final dance. He gives one of the drummers the magic drum^ and another man takes the charmed conch-shell.

The dancers, the singers, and the drummers now put themselves into position, ready for the signal. This is given by the magician of glory and one or two assistants. They run from the village street into the central place with the magic reed in their hands. Each of them must have both his hands upon the reed, which is pointing towards the ground. They strike the ground at intervals with the reed, while they utter a high-pitched scream (igovasi) . « Arrived at the opposite end of the place, they turn about and throw the reed into the air. The man who catches the reed scores a point in this contest for renown, and will be spoken of all over the district when the feast is gossiped about and its heroes mentioned.

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Then the men of the reed utter another very loud cry and this gives the signal for the drummers to beat, for the conch-shells to blow, and for the dancers to begin their final performance.


THE MAGIC OF LOVE

We now pass to the most important system of magic connected with erotic life in the Trobriands, the magic of love. While the magic of beauty is always associated with ceremonial events, such as the kula (ceremonial ex- change), first pregnancy celebrations, a kayasa (period of competitive activity), or an usigolay the magic of love is performed whenever occasion arises. While the magic of beauty, again, is always done openly and in public, that, of love is a private matter and carried out on the indi- vidual's own initiative. This, of course, does not mean that there is anything illicit or clandestine about the magic of love. People who possess it boast about it, and talk about having put it in operation. Nor, from the nature of the rites, would it be possible to conceal it completely from its object. The magic of love becomes illicit only in so far as the love itself is illicit 5 as, for instance, when it is directed towards a chief's wife, or towards some other tabooed person.

It has been mentioned that this magic belongs to a systefn. A system of magic in the Trobriands is a series of spells, which accompany some chain of linked activities and are performed in a fixed order following the develop-

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ment of the chain. In economic pursuits such as garden- ing, fishing, the construction of a canoe, or a kula expe- dition, or, again, in the magic of beauty just described, the rites accompany each successive stage of the enterprise, which naturally proceeds in a definite order.

But there are other spheres of magic where the system possesses a slightly different character. For instance, sorcery is believed to be the real cause of disease. In- deed, black magic must be effective and finally fatal, frovided that it is properly carried out with due observ- ance of all conditions, and frovided that it is not met by a stronger counter-magic. The sorcerer opens the attack, the victim defends himself by securing counter-magic, and by making use of every factor which could counteract the full efficiency of black magic. Even if the sorcerer is successful, or partially so, the resultant illness does not develop along fixed lines as does the growth of a garden. Hence this system cannot follow a fixed sequence of events. Instead, a system of black magic consists of a succession of spells and rites which gradually increase in strength. When the sorcerer is successful, the increasing strength of his spells produces the more rapid decline of his victim until death supervenes. If the sorcerer is being thwarted, he launches increasingly strong formulas in order to get at his victim through the barrier of precau- tions, adverse conditions, and counter-magic with which the latter has protected himself.

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tives. It may happen, by a mere coincidence, that the victim falls more or less seriously ill within a few weeks of the initial operations. As black magic is often adver- tised and always suspected, the illness is put down to its influence. If it be known that a powerful sorcerer, in the pay of a chief, is at work, suggestion may have a serious effect on the victim. It does not follow that he gives in utterly and dies, but I suspect that this occasionally^ hap- pens/ As a rule, however, if pressed hard, the victim will mobilize all the forces of defence. He will put counter-magic in operation 3 set armed watches at night around him 3 move away to another place, change his diet, and observe all the taboos and other conditions of recov- ery. Thus we have the interplay of two forces in the imagination of the patient, corresponding to the inter- play of the two real forces in his organism: resistance and disease. The progress of the system of magic, ac- companied by the progress of the system of counter-magic, proceed side by side with the struggle between the or- ganism and the invading forces of bacteria or malignant changes. Once the sorcerer has determined on black magic, or has received payment for it, he has to go through the whole repertory from the initial formula to

1 1 have no well-attested instance in my notes, but several cases of rapid wasting disease have appeared to me to belong to this category. Exam- ples of people dying from sheer conviction that a broken taboo has a lethal influence, or that black magic, too powerful to be counteracted, has been set in motion against them, are numerous in ethnographic literature. The argument in the text does not rest on the assumption, however, that what might be called psychological death from sorcery is inevitable. It rests rather on the principle which we can regard as established by mod- ern psycho-therapy that a conviction of good and bad influences working upon the patient's health is a most powerful element in the treatment, Cf. P. Janet, Les Medications Psycholoffigues, 1920.

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the final pointing o£ the bone — even i£ he has to admit failure in the end. An unwittingly broken taboo is per- haps an important sorcerer's best excuse for unsuccess j but bad luck in the final application of charmed substances and powerful counter-magic also serve to account for the impotence of his magic. After such failure, the sorcerer bides his time and awaits a suitable opportunity — such, for instance, as his victim actually falling ill. Then he sets to work again. For though the natives believe that real illness (silami) can be produced only by magic, they are perfectly well aware that an indisposition (kaioulo) which may be natural forms an excellent soil for the operations of sorcery.

It was necessary to enlarge on the general character of magical systems, and on the distinction between the system which follows the naturally determined progress of activity or enterprise, on the one hand, and the system which follows a course determined by the chance play of unknown factors on the other, in order to lay bare the essential character of love hiagic. This type also deals with a configuration of chances and elements which do not follow a definite natural course. Here also the belief is very strong that love magic, properly executed and not counteracted, is infallible. The nanola (mind and emo- tional centre) of man or woman cannot resist the com- plete consecutive series of rites and spells j even if it were no more than strongly affected by the initial steps, it must succumb to the cumulative ritual — that is if the magic be not magically counteracted. For here also there are causes which account for failure 3 the performer may not


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have the words accurately or he may have broken a con- ditional taboo 5 or a counter-magic may frustrate his almost successful attempts. As in all supernatural control of chance, magical infallibility is absolute only under abso- lutely perfect conditions 5 that is to say, it is never at- tained in practice, though it may be claimed in theory.


THE RITE AND THE SPELL IN LOVE MAGIC

In following the practice of love magic through its successive stages, we must have in mind the setting of a Trobriand love story, in ordinary village life and among the customary forms of communication between the sexes. Although girls are said to practise this magic, it is more usual for the man to take the initiative. The story begins in the ordinary way: a boy is fascinated by a girl. If there be no response and he does not win her favours im- mediately, he resorts to the most potent way of courting her, that is by magic.

As in ordinary beauty magic, he must first wash or bathe in the sea. Thus he makes himself handsome and attractive 3 in the same rite he also charms a responsive affection into the loved one's heart. Let us suppose our hero to live near the sea. On his way to the shore, he gathers in the bush some of the soft spongy leaves of the wagevay silaslla^ or fonatile shrubs, and also some leaves from a tree with a specially smooth and clean bark — preferably from the reyava and gatumwalila. He puts the whole bundle into some large leaf and chants the

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special washing formula over it. This corresponds to analogous spells in the kula beauty magic and in the beauty magic described in the previous sections.

One of the kaykakaya spells of love magic, which I obtained, may be freely rendered thus:

The Kaykakaya Spell

Leaves of dirt and leaves of cleansing,

Leaves of dirt and leaves of cleansing,

Smooth as the bark of the reyava tree

As the tail of the opossum.

My face shines in beauty;

I cleanse it with leaves;

My face, I cleanse it with leaves,

My eyebrows, I cleanse them with leaves.

And SO on.

The boy then has to name various parts of the head and of the body, adding after each the word ayoUse^ which has been translated here: "I cleanse with leaves." These were the parts named by the informant who gave me the charm: head, face, eyebrows, nose, cheek, chin, jaws, throat, shoulders, larynx, breasts, flanks, armpits, but- tocks, thighs, knees, calves, and feet. The formula then proceeds:

Beautiful will my face remain.

Flashing will my face remain,

Buoyant will my face remain!

No more it is my face,

My face is as the full moon.

No more it is my face,

My face is as the round moon.

I pierce through,

As the creamy shoot of the areca leaf,

I come out,

As a bud of the white lily.

Then the charmed leaves are carefully wrapped up, lest the magic virtue should evaporate {kayawa)^ and the

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boy washes himself in water. When he is thoroughly cleansed, the wrapping is opened, and the skin rubbed all over and dried with the charmed leaves. At this point the rite takes on its specific character as part of a system of love magic j for the leaves that have been thus used are thrown into the sea, with the words: ^^Kirisana akay- kakayay kula kworisaki matana . . ." (here the girl's per- sonal name is mentioned). The word kirisanay also known in the form kirisala or km-isaluy signifies the influ- ence which a dream induced by magic may exercise over the seat of the emotions — ^the heart, as we would say- — the belly, as the natives put it.^ The word might be rendered: "The spell or the influence of a magical act in inducing a dream." The verbal form is korisaki with the active suflix -ki. The translation of the sentence would, therefore, run as follows: "Dream-spell of my kaykakaya charm, go and effectively influence the eye of So-and-so."

Thus the rite has a twofold effect: it makes a man beautiful, as does all washing magic, and it carries sweet dreams about him into the mind of the girl. As the natives put it, referring to the ritual casting of the herbs into the sea: "As the leaves will be tossed by the waves, and as they move with the sea up and down, so the inside of the girl will heave."

What follows depends, as in sorcery, upon the effect of what has already been accomplished. If the loved one surrenders easily, perhaps one more formula will be re- cited, to attach her affections the more securely. But if

1 Cf. below, ch. xii, sec. i.

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the washing magic fails completely, another attack is made on the beleaguered heart by means of a stronger magic called the kasina. This has to be administered through the mouth. A piece of food or betel-nut — or, to-day, some tobacco — is charmed and given to the girl. The washing magic has already made her more interested in her suitor and, though she is not yet prepared to yield, she will probably ask for some such small gift. In any case, she will not refuse such an offering, even though she suspects that it is given with an ulterior motive.

The Kasina Spell

My flashing decoration, my white skin!

I shall take the faces of my companions and rivals;

I shall make them be cast off.

I shall take my face, the face of me (personal name),

And I shall get a flattery-bond for it

For my beautiful full-moon face.

The simile in the last line would not perhaps send a thrill to the heart of a white girl, but the full moon, for the Trobriander, is a symbol of colour and of roundness in a more emotionally appealing sense than it is with us. The "flattery-bond" {tilewa^i) has already been explained above (sec. 3).

When the girl has eaten this little douceur, the magic enters into her inside and moves her mind. There is a fair chance already that her affections are favourably inclined, but a still more potent magic remains. The first attack, as we saw, was through the ethereal medium of dreams 5 the second, by the very material way of eating 5 there remain the two senses of touch and smell. These are considered the most susceptible in love magic.

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The next rite, therefore, centres round an aromatic herb called kwoyawaga^ which grows only in the eastern islands and has to be traded mainly from Kitava. This herb is put into a receptacle with coco-nut oil, and the following spell is chanted over it:

The Kwoyawaga Spell

Spread out, fold up,

Spread out, fold up,

I cut oif, I cut, I cut.

A bait for a bird, for a small fish-hawk,

Vviy wvegu-guyo, o!

My kayro'hiva love charm remains,

My kayro'iiva love charm weeps,

My kayro'izua love charm pulls,

My kayro'i'wa love charm spills over.

Press down, press upon thy bed ;

Smooth out, smooth your pillow-mat;

Enter my house and tread upon my floor.

Tease out and tear out my hair;

Drink my blood and take hold of my penis;

Apicem penis suge, for my guts are moved.

This formula is much more obscure than the previous ones. The first sentence, "spread out, fold up," may refer, as my informants told me, to the mat on which a boy and girl recline in amorous embrace. The cutting, by analogy with similar formulas, is of the plants to be used in the magic. In the next phrase, the magic is likened to a bait for a bird and the girl to a fish-hawk which hovers over the trap. One sentence I was unable to translate even approximately, and it is therefore given in native. What follows is less cryptic. Kayro^iwa is the name of one of the systems of love magic, with which we shall become more intimately acquainted in connection with the native myth of incest (ch. xiv). The last part is typical of the more passionate forms of love magic.

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I have obtained several formulas with similar endings.

I may add that, for every formula which I was able to write down, to check after a few weeks' interval, to get a commentary upon, and to translate into anything like sense, I had to reject several as spurious, fragmentary or not understood by the natives. I was always able to distinguish the genuine archaic formulas from the cor- rupt, by the method of checking and re-checking them with my original informant, after having allowed an interval of time to elapse after each repetition.

To return to the magic of the kwoyawaga herbs, this charmed and prepared aromatic substance can only be used at close quarters. An even more intimate approach to the desired girl has to be effected than is possible with the piece of betel-nut or tobacco of the previous ritual. For some of the aromatic oil must be smeared upon her body, or poured on to her face, or, best of all, applied to her breasts. Thus close physical contact is needed, and for this, opportunities are given in games, in dances, in tribal festivities, and in the rhythmic round called the karibom. Only when a boy is very clumsy or shy, or ha$ no opportunity for intimate approach, will he put the oil on a piece of cigarette paper (or, in olden days, on a flower), so that the smoke or scent may enter her nostrils.

There remains still one rite — ^that of the all-powerful 6ulwmwoyay the mint plant, which is the symbol of charm and seduction, the main instrument of attraction in the kula (ceremonial exchange), the herb which plays the central part in the myth of the origins of love, and which figures also in the culminating act of love magic. This

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ritual would still be performed, even if the magic had been successful at an earlier stage. For sulumwoya gives a full and undivided sway over the loved one's heart. Boge htfaykt kutnaydonay maglla yaklda^ "Already she will refuse all others j her desire is only for us." This is the formula of the sulumwoya magic in the kayroHwa system.

Sulumwoya Spell

O, her sensual excitement!

O, her erotic swoon!

O, desire, O feminine swoon !

My clasping, thy clasping, kindle our erotic swooning!

My embraces, thy embraces, kindle our erotic swooning!

My copulation, thy copulation, kindle our erotic swooning!

The same complicated phrasing is repeated with a number of words inserted instead of clasping, embracing and so forth. The words are: horizontal motion {bila- bala)y horizontal repose {bilamafu)^ erotic scratching {kimaU\ erotic biting {kayalu)^ nose rubbing {yayaulo\ and eyelash biting {mitakuku)y lousing {kofokutu\ rub- bing each other's lips (kawidova). Then come the fol- lowing sentences:

My going first, thy following, kindle our erotic swooning, My waiting, thy waiting, kindle our erotic swooning.

and finally:

Thou goest my way, crying for me,

Thou enterest my house, smiling at me.

The house is shaken with joy, as thou treadest my floor.

Tease and tear out my hair,

Drink my blood.

So that my feelings are glad.

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always repeated over and over again, and not necessarily in the same order. It is chanted over a mint plant boiled in coco-nut oil. If the magic is practised on someone whose love has already been captured, there is no difficulty in spilling the scented and charmed oil over her, or anointing her with it. If she is not yet subdued, the problem remains of entering her hut at night, and spill- ing some of it below her nostrils, so that she may dream of the magic maker. But if this is achieved the spell is irresistible.

Less certain methods are to smear the oil over her hands, or bring some of it near to her facej or to take a sweet-smelling sprig of herbs, dip it in the oil and flick it under her nose. These three methods obviously make her cognizant that love magic is being employed j and this produces the desired effect — ^psychologically at least, if not magically!

As an additional charm, the same formula may be re- cited over the long spine of a fish called ufnlaybasiy a prick from which inflicts a lasting and smarting pain. Holding it in the hollow of his hand, the boy brings his lips close to his hand and chants the spell into it, after which the spine may be put into the stopper of the coco-nut bottle in which the oil is being kept. Or else, holding it in the hollow of his hand, the boy may stab the girl with his finger in the ribs or thereabout j or, during the kariboniy he may make one of those even more intimate insertions already mentioned (ch. ix, sec. 3).


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THE REALITIES OF LOVE MAGIC

A direct and consecutive statement of a complex and somewhat chaotic subject such as that of love magic inevitably suggests more precision and system than ac- tually exists, especially when the component parts hang together, at least in theory. And it is well to realize that actual proceedings are never as complete and well de- fined as might appear from native statements.

A certain amount of complication is introduced by the fact that there are a number of different systems. The most famous one is that of KayroHwa. But the systems of Kwoygafani and LibofnatUy from the islands of Vakuta and Kayleula respectively, are also prominent. These systems, being perhaps the most widely known and practised, have now become mixed up and few natives have a complete set of formulas belonging to the same system. As a matter of fact, only a few of my informants, even among those who boasted of having a powerful set of formulae, could go through a full set satisfactorily. Each knew two or three or only one spell. I may add that perhaps no native in the Trobriands would be able to judge magical texts as well as myself. For no human memory is a match for a written comparative collection. Towards the end of my field-work, I found little diffi- culty in deciding whether a spell recited to me was genuine or corrupt j and, in the latter case, whether it was delib- erate deception, self-deception, or deception on the part

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of my informant's predecessor, or just lack of memory*

What matters to us is that few natives are in posses- sion of a full system in an unadulterated form. A youth who knows his spell or two — sometimes only a frag- ment — ^will as a rule genuinely believe that there is a great deal of virtue in itj very often experience strengthens his belief. He will recite his fragment or his full charm over the kaykakaya leaves, and if unsuccess- ful he will try his formula over the other herbs.

Each rite has a certain positive effect on him and usually also on his sweetheart. The washing magic gives him the conviction of increased strength and power to attract, an attitude very favourable to his enterprise. The same magic makes him hope that the girl has dreamed of him,, and that she is ready to receive his advances. He ap- proaches her with confidence, and jokes with her without embarrassment.

The other rites afford a still more material help in love-making. All of them imply a direct contact j a gift, an erotic touch, the wafting of some scent. Thus not only does he believe in his magical powers, but she also is made aware that he is working on her heart. And she also is susceptible to the influence of belief and tradition. If he is hopelessly repulsive to her, this need not shatter her belief in love magic. She concludes that his rites are spurious and his formulae badly recited. But if he has the least attraction for her, it is easy to see how magic will do its work.

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working of love magic in cases analysed to me by my friends as they were proceeding.

The deep conviction of the natives in the virtue of love magic and their belief that it is the only means of wooing, have already been mentioned. All a man's hopes of suc- cess, his boasting and his anticipations are based on con- fidence in his magical equipment, exactly as all failure is attributed to lack or impotence in this respect. I have already several times alluded to Gomaya: vain, arrogant, and wilful, yet with remarkable personality. He always used to vaunt his success with women, and invariably in terms of magic. He would say: "I am ugly, my face is not good-looking. But I have magic, and therefore all women like me." He would then boast of his intrigues with Ilamweria, of the attachment that his cross-cousins had for him, and of other amorous successes, some of which have already been mentioned in this volume. My other informants were one and all agreed in their convic- tion of the potency of love magic. To a direct question I would always receive the same answer: "If one man is good-looking, a good dancer, and a good singer, and he has no magic j while the other man is ugly, lame, and dark-skinned, but has good magic 3 the first will be re- jected, the second will be loved by women."

This, of course, is exaggeration for the sake of em- phasis, typical of a Melanesian's way of presenting mat- ters. All natives know the magic, yet not all by any means have the same success. Met by such an argument, the natives will say that the man who has success has it because his magic is "keen and strong." And here the

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fiction of native belief comes nearer to reality. A man of intelligence, of strong will, personality, and tempera- ment, will have greater success with women than a beauti- ful but soulless dullard — in Melanesia as in Europe. A man who is convinced that he is going the right way to workj a man who has the energy to find out who has the best magic and the industry to acquire and learn it, such a man will be good at love-making as well as at magic. The native belief thus expresses some truth, though it is psychological rather than physical or occult, and refers to results rather than to mechanism.

Gomaya was a case in point. The five sons of To'uluwa and Kadamwasila were all pleasant and clever, attractive and enterprising, and were all renowned for their love magic. As a matter of fact, the first and last of the formulas here given I received from Yobukwa'u who, knowing only two out of the four charms, yet achieved an incestuous love-affair with his father's youngest wife, several adulteries, and two engagements one after the other. All these affairs were attributed to love magic j as was the case with Kalogusa, his younger brother, who subdued Yobukwa'u's fiancee, Isepuna. Another of the five brothers, Gilayviyaka, with whose intrigues too we are already acquainted, was also reputed to be an expert at love magic. Many more examples could be adduced, but it is better to keep to the more notorious cases.

Bagido'u, the nephew and heir-apparent of the prin- cipal chief, an extremely intelligent and pleasant infor- mant, was ill of some internal wasting sickness, probably tuberculosis. We have already heard of his domestic

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mishaps, the defection of his handsome wife, who left him in order to join her late sister's husband, Manimuwa, a young, healthy and handsome man of Wakayse (see ch. vi, sec. i). She often visited her sister, and during the latter's last illness she stayed for a long time with her brother-in-law. The issue was obvious: Manimuwa and Dakiya formed an attachment and entered upon an illicit intrigue, which ended in her joining him. Magic was blamed for all the trouble. Even Bagido'u himself, the deserted husband, would say that she was a good woman, but that this bad man had first performed evil magic to estrange her from her husband, and afterwards love magic to seduce her. Dakiya, in fact, was quoted as the classical instance of the power of magic. "Magic made the mind of Dakiya 5 Manimuwa only remains in her mind." The comic side of this otherwise sad story was that Bagido'u had the reputation of being the greatest expert in the magic of love. Of course, my informants were ready with explanations of the theoretical conundrums involved. Finally to return once more to a story which is a case in point: the tragedy of Namwana Guya'u's expulsion from the village by the kinsmen of Mitakata (see ch. i, sec. 2). On my return after more than a year's absence from the Trobriands, I met Namwana Guya'u in one of the southern villages. His hatred of Mitakata was as implacable as ever. When I asked him what had hap- pened to his enemy, he told me that the wife of Mitakata, Orayayse, had rejected him (see pi. 25). She was, as a matter of fact, the first cousin of her husband's enemy, and I knew that her husband had sent her away for

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political reasons. But Namwana Guya'u hinted that he had estranged her feelings from her husband by magic. Then he enlarged on the bad habits of his enemy. "He tries to get hold of girls and they refuse him"j yet he had to inform me that Mitakata had married Ge'umwala, a young and pretty girl. ^^Boge^ ivakome minana; magila imasisi deli; rn^tage bivaHy ifayki — matauna ib?a?^ "Al- ready he gave magic to her to eat; her desire to sleep together 5 but to marry she refused — he took her by force." Here then the value of the success was actually minimized by its attribution to love magic; and the con- sent to marriage, which cannot be won by any such im- personal means, was denied to his enemy by Namwana Guya'u!

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THE MAGIC OF OBLIVION

In the Trobriands all positive magic has a negative counterpart, in belief and theory at least, if not always in reality. The magic of health and disease is the clearest example, for, against every rite and spell which produces disease, there is a counter-magic which cures it. The posi- tive magic of success, which accompanies each economic enterprise, always implies the existence of a negative pre- ventive rite, which accounts for the possibility of failure in positive magic.

So it is not surprising to find that love-charms have to contend with a magic which acts in the opposite direction. This is the magic of estrangement and oblivion, a depart- ment of black magic, generically called hulubwalatay

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though in its narrower meaning this term designates just this magic. The root bulu on which the word is built is also the formative element "pig" {hulukwd). Whether this means that the prototype of all this magic con- sists of the rites which aim at the dispersion of pigs by malicious magic, I was unable to decide. The fact is, however, that this magic is used for sending away pigs into the bush as well as for estranging wives and sweethearts.

Whenever a man has reasons for hating a girl or, even more often, her paramour or her husband, he will practise this magic. It acts upon her mind, and turns away her affections from her husband or lover. She leaves his house, leaves her village, and wanders away. The in- formant who gave me the following spells told me that when the magic is administered in a mild form, the girl will leave her husband or lover, but return to her own village and her own people 3 but if it is given in a large quantity, and properly, with minute observation of ac- curacy in spell and rite and in the taboos, she will run away to the bush, lose her road, and maybe disappear for ever. In this, as in other types of magic, the man might recite the initial spell only in order to produce a partial effect, that is to alienate the girl's feelings from her sweet- heart or husband.

The following formula has to be said over a piece of food, or some tobacco, or some betel-nut, which is then given to the victim. It is called kahmlova (literally "causing to reject"), and may be freely translated as follows:

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His name be extinguished, his name be rejected;

Extinguished at sunset, rejected at sunrise;

Rejected at sunset, extinguished at sunrise.

A bird is on the baku,

A bird which is dainty about its food.

I make it rejected!

His mint-magic, I make it rejected.

His kayro'iiua magic, I make it rejected.

His libomatu magic " "

His copulation magic " "

His horizontal magic " "

His horizontal movement "

His answering movement "

His love dalliance " "

His erotic scratching " "

His caresses of love " "

His love embraces " "

His bodily embracing " "

My kabisilo'va spell,

It worms its way within you,

The way of the earth heap in the bush gapes open,

The way of the refuse heap in the village is closed.

In the opening lines there is a play upon two words^ both of which contain the root of the verbs "to extinguish'^ and "to reject." The spell begins, therefore, with an anticipation of its primary effect. It goes on to invoke oblivion openly and in detail: all caresses are to be for- gotten. Two lines follow to give power to the spell, that it may insinuate itself into the mind of the girl, and worm its way into all her thoughts. Finally the jungle is opened to the girl and the way to the village closed.

The following spell, obtained from the same infor- mant, was said to be a stronger instalment of this magic. It is administered in the same way, or else it is said over some leaves and coco-nut husk, which are then burnt above a fire, so that the evil-smelling smoke may enter the nostrils of the girl to be bewitched. Freely translated it runs:

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Woman, woman repelled,

Man, man repelled.

Woman, woman refusing,

Man, man refusing.

She is repelled, she refuses.

Thy man, thy sweetheart, startles and frightens you,

Swear at him, by his sister;

Tell him, Eat thy filth."

Thy road is behind the houses

His face disappears.

The way of the earth heap in the bush gapes open,

The way of the refuse heap in the village is closed.

His face disappears;

His face vanishes;

His face gets out of the way;

His face becomes like that of a wood-spirit;

His face becomes as that of the ogre Dokonikan. .

There falls, forsooth, a veil over thy eyes

The evil magic comes,

It covers completely the pupils of the eyes.

His mint-magic is as nought.

His love-magic is as nought,

His erotic scratchings are as nought.

His love caresses are as nought,

His copulations are as nought,

His horizontal movement is as nought,

His movement in response is as nought,

His bodily relaxing is as nought.

The first period of the spell is then repeated up to the words "she is repelled, she refuses," and it then con- cludes:

Thy sun Is westering, thy sun goes down. Thy sun is westering, thy sun shines aslant. She is cut off, she goes far away, She goes far away, she is cut off.

The only point in this formula which may need ex- planation is the sentence inviting the girl to swear by his sister at her husband. Such abuse is one of the deadliest offences, and especially so between husband and wife. We shall speak about it in chapter xiii.

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undone by love formulas. But if a man, in passing anger,, should have done great injury to a home by practising this evil magic, there is, within its own system, a possible remedy in the "fetching back" formula, the katuyumaya- fmla {katuyufnall — an archaic form of kd*ifnaUy the ordi- nary form for "return, give back"). This formula has to be spoken in the open, owadola wala ("just in the mouth"), as the natives say. But the magician has ta recite it towards the various points of the compass suc- cessively, so that the magical virtue may reach the woman wherever she may be wandering in the bush. This formula also begins by a play on words containing the formative roots of the verbs "to make up" and "to at- tract." Then follows: —

May my buluhivalata be blunt!

May my fetching magic be keen!

I am fetching back!

From the north-eastern quarter, I am fetching back;

From the south-eastern quarter, I am fetching back;

From the jungle of Ulawola, I am fetching back;

From the jungle of Tepila, I am fetching back;

The one who is like a woodsprite, I am fetching back;

From the stone heaps, I am fetching back;

From the boundary stone walls, I am fetching back;

From the fern thickets, I am fetching back;

With the smell of mint magic, I am fetching back;

I am fetching back thy mind, O woman!

Come back to us-thy-mother.

Come back to us-thy-father.

Tear open the house.

Tease and tear off my hair,

Tread on my floor,

And lie on my bed,

Come and pass over the threshold,

Come and remain at thy dung-heap,

Let us continue to dwell together,

Within our house.

Here the intention of the opening sentences is clear, the evil magic is to be impotent, the good magic effective.

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The truant is called back from the several points of the compass and from the two parts of the jungle (Ulawola and Tepila), one in the North and the other in the South, which, surrounded by marshes {dumia)^ are per- haps the most inaccessible spots in the main island of the Trobriands, and are regarded as the home of the bush pig. The last part, as the reader has probably noticed, is built on the same pattern as the formula of the love magic. The compound words "us-thy-mother," "us-thy-father" are constructed with the inclusive dual possessive ma. Thus by the magical virtue of this charm the man and woman should not only be as husband and wife should be to one another in the conjugal house, but as the father and mother in the parental home also.

This formula is said to be very powerful, and to have restored married happiness to scores of broken households.

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So far we have studied the psychology of sex as it is embodied in stereotyped behaviour 5 that is, in customs, institutions, and in magic. In short, in order to gauge his attitude towards sex, we have studied how a Tro- briander acts. Now we must turn to such manifestations of sexual ideas and feelings as are to be found in dreams, day-dreams, and folk-tales j that is, in his free and set fantasies about the past, about the future, about distant countries, and above all about his life in the next world. This chapter will be simply a record of collected data, but even such records are inevitably made with certain problems in view and are influenced by the mental atti- tude of the recorder. Some academic pedants are apt to contemn any signs of a wider knowledge or of intelligence on the part of an observer of fact. Theory should be eliminated from field-work, so they say 5 but to my mind this is mere intellectual hypocrisy, under the cloak of purism. The observations which I have made were not recorded by some mechanical device or apparatus, but were made with my own eyes and ears, and controlled by my own brain. The trick of relevant observation con- sists, in fact, in this very control. It is quite inevitable that my field-work should have been affected by my ideas,

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interests, and even prejudices. The honest way is to state them so that they may be more easily detected and, if it appears necessary, discounted and eliminated. The other way is to conceal them as skilfully as possible.

The observations to be recorded in this chapter were mostly done before my psycho-analytic interest was stimulated. In my earlier work, I looked upon folk-lore as a direct expression of social and cultural conditions. When I found a certain motive, such as that of incest or breach of exogamy, in folk-lore, I felt that it was puz- zling, but I did not see that it was significant. I treated it as an exception which confirms the rule, rather than as a clue to further inquiry into typical social taboos and repressions. I paid little attention to the investigation of dreams, of day-dreams, and of free fantasies. It did not take me long to see that dreams did not play the part among the Trobrianders ascribed to them by Tylor and others, and after that I did not trouble much more about them.

Later only, stimulated by some literature sent to me by Dr. C. G. Seligman and by his advice, did I begin to test Freud's theory of dreams as the expression of "repressed" wishes and of the "unconscious," as the negative of acknowledged and ofiicial principle and morality. In doing this, I came upon important correlations between folk-lore and fancy on the one hand, and social organiza- tion on the other j and was able to discover certain under- currents of desire and inclination running counter to the established order of ideas and sentiments, which appear, on the surface, insignificant and capricious, but which are


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in reality of great sociological importance/ That in the course of my inquiry I had to reject far more of psycho- analytic doctrine than I could accept does not in any way diminish my obligation 5 and my results showed beyond all doubt how even a theory which has, in the light of investigation, to be partly rejected can stimulate and inspire.

The source of illicit feelings and inclinations is to be found in the social taboos of a community. And the failure, indeed the explicit disinclination, of psycho- analysts to take social organization seriously, stultifies almost completely their own application of their doctrine to anthropology.*

Though no reference will be made to these points in what follows, it was fairer to indicate them at the start, as they have played some part in the discovery and a con- siderable part in the presentation of the material given in this and in the following chapters.


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Spontaneous dreams are not of any great importance in the life of the Trobrianders. On the whole the natives appear to dream but seldom, have little interest in their dreams, and do not often tell their experiences on waking or refer to dreams in order to explain a belief or justify

1 Part of my results I have published in the two books on Crime and Custom and Sex and Repression.

2 The reader will find this argument substantiated in my Sex and Re- pression.


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a line of conduct. No prophetic meaning is ascribed to ordinary dreams, nor is there any system or code for their symbolic interpretation.

Our interest is mainly in sexual and erotic dreams 3 but, in order to understand these, it is necessary to form some idea of the native's attitude to dreams in general. And at the outset it must be understood that by "ordinary" or "free" dreams, I mean spontaneous visions arising in sleep, in response to physiological stimuli, to moods and emotional experiences, to memories of the day and of the past. Such is the material of the dreams which come to every human being, and they play, as I have said, a small part in Trobriand culture, and are apparently rare and easily forgotten.

Quite another class of dreams are those which are prescribed and defined by custom. These are expected of certain people by virtue of their position or of some task that they have undertaken, as a consequence of magic which they have performed, or which has been performed upon them, or of the influence of spiritual beings. Such stereotyped or standardized dreams are expected, hoped for, and awaited j and this might easily account for the frequency of their occurrence and for the ease with which they are remembered.

It should be noted that the distinction between free and standardized dreams is not made in native termi- nology nor even formulated in native doctrine. But as will presently be seen, it is embodied in behaviour and in the general attitude towards dreams.

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nsions of departed spirits. They appear to people in sleep under appropriate circumstances and at certain seasons. This is in fact one of the chief ways in which they manifest their existence to the living. But not all dreams about the departed are regarded as true. The appearance may be either a sasofa (lie, illusion) or a real haloma (spirit). Real spirits always come with a pur- pose and under conditions in which they can properly be expected. Thus if a recently dead person appears in sleep to a surviving relative, giving him some important message or announcing his death at a distance — ^such a dream is true. Or when a well-known seer or spiritistic medium is visited in his sleep and next day announces the message he has received, no one doubts the reality of his vision. Or when people go to the island of Tuma and there dream of dead relatives, no doubt exists in the na- tive mind that these really have appeared to them. Or again, in the moon of milamalay when the spirits of the dead return to the villages, they will appear to the head- man, or to some other notable person, in his sleep and convey to him their wishes. Several such nocturnal visits occurred during my residence in the Trobriands.^ At times a substitution will take place, as when an old woman appeared to her son and told him that she was dead, while, in reality, it was the mother of another boy working on the same plantation who had died in the distant Trobri- ands. But there are also visions of dead friends and rela- tives who tell untrue things, announce events which never

1 Cf. my article in the Journ. of the R. Anthrop. Inst., 1916, sec. 3, pp. 36a sq.

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happened, or behave in an unseemly manner. Such dreams are not caused by spirits, who, say the natives, have nothing to do with themj and they are not true.

Another important type of dream in which spirits play a part are those which are Initiated by some condition in the dreamer. Whereas In visitations at the mllamala^ or from the spirit island of Tuma, or directly after the death of some person, it Is the recently deceased who are seen, in this other class of dreams ancestral spirits of old stand- ing are active. Thus when a child Is to be born (see ch. viii), the spirit of an ancestress appears and announces the coming Incarnation. More Important are the visits of ancestral spirits associated with the art of magic, in which spirits play a considerable part. Many spells begin with a list of persons who have at one time wielded this magic. Such lists of ancestral names are perhaps the most uni- versal feature of Trobriand spells. In certain magical rites., spirits receive offerings of food with a short invo- cation j In return they show some concern for the aims of the rite and communicate with the magician, thus afFect- Ing not only the ritual but also the practical activity which goes with it. For a magician has In most cases not merely to utter the spell and perform the ritual, but also com- prehensively to control the practical activity with which his magic is connected.

To put it more concretely: the ex ojficio leader of a kula expedition, the traditional organizer of fishing and hunting, the hereditary master-In-charge of the gardens. Invariably wields the magic proper to these pursuits. In virtue of both offices, he Is credited with deeper knowl-

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edge and greater foresight than his associates. For one thing, he is liable, under the control of ancestral spirits, to dream about his enterprise. Thus the master of the gardens, in dreams inspired by his predecessors in office, will learn of impending drought or rain, and he will give advice and orders accordingly. The fishing magician hears from his ancestral spirit of shoals coming through this or that passage in the reef, or swimming along a cer- tain channel on the lagoon, and he will order his team to set out in the morning and to cast their nets at the appro- priate spot and hour.^

A cynical ethnographer might be tempted to suspect that such prophetic dreams are double-edged: when they come true, this is not only practically useful, but proves the goodwill of ancestors and the validity of magic 5 when they do not come true, it is a sign that the spirits are angry and that they are punishing the community for some rea- son, and still the truth of magical tradition is upheld. The dream in any case serves its purpose to the magician. And indeed, in these latter days of disbelief and decay of custom, the spirits have frequent occasion to become angry, and the magician needs all the means at his dis- posal to vindicate his personal authority and to maintain belief in his powers. But in the old days, as even now in districts with an unimpaired tradition, there was no ques-

1 Compare the more detailed descriptions of these facts given in other places: for the part played by ancestral spirits in magic, article on "Baloma: The Spirits of the Dead in the Trobriand Islands," Journal of the Royal Anthropological Institute, 1916, pp. 384-482; for prophetic dreams, p. 366; for milamala dreams, p. 379; for pregnancy dreams, chap, vii of this book and "Baloma," pp. 406-18; for the psychology of magical filiation and the relation between magic and myth, Myth in Primitive Psychology, and chap, xii of Argonauts of the Western Pacific.


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tion of made-up dreams. In any case they were not born of anxiety for his own position, but of care for the success of the enterprise he was controlling. The garden magi- cian, the head fisherman, the leader of an expedition, identifies himself to a great extent in ambition, in hope, and in eflFort, with the communal interest. He is ex- tremely keen that all should go well, that his village should surpass all others, that his ambition and pride should be justified and win the day.

There are also dream revelations connected with the black magic by which disease and death are produced. Here it is the victim who has the vision, and, in fact, this is one of the ways of detecting which sorcerer, by evil spells and rites, has caused his illness. Since the sick man always suspects one or other among his enemies of prac- tising or of purchasing sorcery, it is no wonder that such dreams reveal a culprit. However, they are naturally not regarded as "subjective," but as a by-product of the evil magic.

Yet another class of dreams, to which allusion has already been made (ch. xi, sec. 7), is the dream induced by magic not indirectly and secondarily, but as its main effect. The natives have a definite theory of magic acting through dreams upon the human mind. In connection with the half-commercial, half -ceremonial exchange of the kulay the magic of compulsion to generosity (the mwasila) will be performed, and this acts upon the mind of the other party to the transaction. Although distant hundreds of miles and separated by stormy seas and reefs, the latter will be visited by the "dream response"

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(kirisala) of this magic. He will dream agreeably and benevolently of the magic maker, his mind (nanola) will soften towards him, and he will be generous in his prepa- ration of gifts/

Some forms of love magic described in the previous chapter are based on the same assumption. Erotic dreams (kirisala) are the response to certain charms. Dreams of a sexual or erotic nature are in fact always attributed to magic. A boy or girl dreams of a person of the opposite sexj this means that this person has performed love magic. A boy dreams that a certain girl enters his house, speaks to him, approaches him, lies beside him on the mat, though before she had been unwilling to talk to him or even to look at him. Her shyness has been only pretence. All the time she was preparing or even performing magic. In the dream, she is loving and submissive j she permits all caresses and the most intimate approach. The boy wakes up: "It is all an illusion (sasopa, literally, a lie)," he thinks. "But no, there is seminal fluid spilt over the mat." The girl, in her dream-form, has been there. He knows that she makes magic for him and already is half- inclined to pursue her. This is an account, noted down partly in native as it was given to me, from the man's point of viewj but an analogous dream would come to a girl. It is characteristic that the dream takes place, not in the mind of the performer, but in that of his victim.

A married man would try to conceal such visitations

1 1 am afraid I have not made this point quite clear in Argonauts of the Western Pacific (cf., however, pp. 102, 202, 203, 360, and 361). Most spells of the kula magic act at a distance upon the partner's mind, even as they are recited at home.

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from his wife, for she would be angry because he had had congress in dreams with another woman. Also she would know that the other woman had made magic and would be specially watchful, so that the man would find it diffi- cult to follow up the dream intrigue.

One very important class of erotic dreams are those of an incestuous nature. There are, however, serious diffi- culties in the way of any inquiry about them. Free and easy as these natives are, by custom and convention, in most sexual matters, they become extremely sensitive and prudish whenever their specific sexual taboos are touched upon. This is especially true of incest taboos, and above all of that one concerning the brother-sister relation. It would have been quite impossible for me to inquire di- rectly into the incestuous dream experiences of any of my informants 5 but even the general question, whether inces- tuous dreams occurred, would be met with indignation or vehement denial. Only by dint of very gradual and guarded inquiry among my most trustworthy informants, was I able to find out that such dreams do occur and that, in fact, they are a well-known nuisance. "A man is some- times sad, ashamed and ill-tempered. Why? Because he has dreamed that he had connection with his sister," and "This made me feel ashamed," such a man would say. The fact that the incestuous dream, especially as between brother and sister, occurs frequently and disturbs the minds of the natives considerably, accounts in part for !he strong emotional reaction to any inquiry into the sub- ject. The lure of "forbidden fruit," which everywhere haunts men in dreams and day-dreams, suggests inces-

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tuous motives in Trobriand folk-tales and has for ever associated love and the magic of love with the myth of incest (ch. xiv).

It is important to note that, as we shall see presently, even incestuous erotic dreams are excused on the ground that some magic has been misapplied, accidentally mis- directed, or wrongly performed with regard to the dreamer.

We are now in a position to formulate more precisely the native attitude towards dreams. All true dreams are in response to magic or to spiritual influence, and are not spontaneous. The distinction between free or spontaneous dreams on the one hand and stereotyped dreams on the other, corresponds roughly to the native distinction be- tween dreams which are sasofa (a lie or illusion), and those which are induced by magic or spirits — that is, are true, relevant and prophetic 5 or again to the difference between dreams which come without, and those which come with an u*ula (cause or reason). While the natives do not attach much importance to spontaneous dreams, they regard the others as of the same substance as magical influence and as possessing a reality comparable to that of the spirit world. The inconsistencies and lacunse in their beliefs about dreams are similar to those found in their ideas of an after-life in a disembodied state. Most con- spicuous in their belief, perhaps, is the view that magic first realizes its effect in dreams which, by influencing the mind, can thus bring about objective changes and events. Thus all "true" dreams may be actually prophetic.

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tical doctrine of the Trobriander is the recurrence o£ clairvoyant visions in myths and folk-tales — a subject only to be touched on here. Thus we shall see in the myth of the origins of love, that the man from Iwa is led to discover the tragic double suicide and the magical spray of mint by a dream of what has occurred in the grotto. In a myth about the origins of sorcery, a brother sees in a dream that his sister has been killed by the primeval crab-wizard. In a folk-tale to be related presently, about the snake and the two women, a man from Wawela dreams of the distressed maiden and comes to her rescue. In other folk-tales, events happening in a different place are visualized, or a rhyme sung at a distance acts as a spell and produces day-dreams.

It is clear that dream, day-dream, magical incantation, realization by ritual and mythological precedent are welded into an interlocking system of self -confirmatory realities. Dreaming is conceived as one of the real mani- festations of magic, and, as it is a definite personal expe- rience, it brings home the efficacy of the specific magic employed. It is thus an important empirical link in the doctrine of magical efficiency and of mythological reality, one which should not be overlooked if we want to under- stand the psychology of belief among the Trobrianders.

The subject of dreams in general, and erotic dreams in particular, throws valuable light on the natives' flow of imagination and desire. The psychology of their dreams is closely parallel to that of romantic love and of "falling in love." In native tradition and official doctrine we find a distrust of spontaneous and free elements, of untram-

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melled and unprescribed impulses in conduct. Similarly we find that the legitimate and true in dreams is always due to some definite motive, once for all laid down by tradition j and among the motives by far the most impor- tant is magic.

That this official view does not cover the facts, that it is not completely true to them, is obvious. In dreams as in romantic love and love impulse, human nature breaks through and flatly contradicts dogma, doctrine, and tradition. Incestuous dreams are the best example of this. Established doctrine in the Trobriands as elsewhere makes use of man's susceptibility to authoritative suggestion, and of his tendency to be impressed by positive instances and to forget negative ones. It first makes the distinction between true and false dreams 3 then minimizes, explains away, or forgets contradictory instances, while using all confirmatory ones as further proof of its validity. Thus incest, whether in myth, reality, or dream, is always ex- plained by an accidental misuse of magic. This motive is as clear and prominent in the Trobriand story of incest as in our own myth of Tristan and Isolde.


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In passing to the expression of sex in folk-lore, we must bear in mind that Trobriand manners do not ban sex as a subject for conversation, save in the presence of certain tabooed relatives, and Trobriand morals do not condemn extra-marital intercourse, except in the forms of adultery

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and incest. The attraction of the subject and its piquancy is not due, therefore, to the feeling that it is socially and artificially forbidden. And yet there is no doubt that the natives regard bawdiness as "improper" j that there is a certain strain about it, barriers to be broken and a shyness to overcome and a corresponding enjoyment in getting rid of the strain, breaking the barriers and overcoming the shyness.

It follows from this emotional attitude that sex is sel- dom treated crudely and brutally j that there is a con- siderable difference in the manner and tone adopted to- wards it by, for instance, a coarse fellow of low rank who has no social dignity to maintain, and the descendant of chieftains who touches sexual subjects, but touches them lightly, with refinement, subtlety, or wit. In short, man- ners exist in this matter and are socially valued and graded according to rank. Sex, like excretory functions and nudity, is not felt or regarded as "natural," but rather as naturally to be avoided in public and open conversation, and always to be concealed from others in behaviour 3 hence, to repeat, the "improper" interest in occasional infringements.

Folk-lore, the systematized forms of oral and intel- lectual tradition, includes significant games and sports, carving and decorative art, folk-tales, typical sayings, jokes, and swearing. In the Trobriands, representations of sexual matters are completely absent from decorative art and from dancing. The only exceptions to this rule are to be found in certain artistically inferior modern productions, invented under the decomposing influence of

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European culture, though not in any way influenced by European patterns. Dancing and decorative art, there- fore, do not fall within our scope. For the rest, sexual elements in games and sports have already been discussed, sex in joking and swearing will be dealt with in the next chapter, and there remain, for our present consideration, sexual folk-tales and the bawdy figures and sayings con- nected with "cat's-cradles."

String figures or cat's-cradles {ninikula) are played by children and adults in the day time during the rainy months from November to January, that is, in the sea- son when the evenings are passed in reciting folk-tales. On a wet day, a group of people will sit under the over- hanging roof of a yam house or on a covered platform and one will display his skill to an admiring audience. Each set of figures has a name, a story, and an interpre- tation. Some also have a ditty (vimivina)^ which is chanted while the artist evolves and manipulates the figure. Many sets are completely devoid of sex interest. Among the dozen or so which I have recorded the fol- lowing ones show pornographic details.^

In kala kasesa Ba^u (the clitoris of Ba'u) the per- former, after preliminary manipulations, produces a de- sign (Diagr. A, in Fig. Ill) in which two large loops are formed in the main plane of the figure, while at the bot- tom of each, a smaller loop sticks out at right angles to the main plane. The large loops each represent a vulva and the smaller ones a clitoris. There is obviously a little

1 1 did not make any attempt to record the technique of cat's-cradles. In each set I merely recorded the significant figure or figures, the mean- ing and the psychology.

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anatomical inaccuracy in this arrangement, since in nature there is only one organ and in this the clitoris is placed at the top and not at the bottom of the vulva. But, no doubt, Ba'u was an anomaly.

The figure complete, the artist skilfully wriggles his fingers, producing a movement first in one and then in the other of the clitoris loops. While thus engaged, he recites rhythmically, but not without jocular inflections, the following words:

Kala kasesa Ba^u (repeated) Her clitoris of Ba'u (repeated) Kam kasesam, kam kasesamy etc. Thy clitoris, thine, etc.

which might be freely rendered: "Look, that is the cli- toris of Ba'u, that is her clitoris. O Ba'u, thy clitoris, O thy clitoris!" The movements and song are repeated a number of times, to the great amusement of both onlook- ers and artist 5 then the figure is undone, to a repetition of the words:

Syagara dyaytu dyaytUy Syagara dyaytu dyaytUy etc. These words are merely onomatopoetic, imitating the rhythmic beat of the drums in dance music. Ba'u is ob- viously a female personality, but nothing is known of her besides what we learn from this performance. The cli- toris is a favourite subject for jokes, stories, and allusions. It is often used in fars fro toto figures of speech and is regarded as a specially attractive and funny detail in the female organism.

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A short set, entitled with some directness and sim- plicity "copulation" {kayta)^ represents this function in a naturally somewhat conventionalized manner. The strings (Diagr. B, in Fig. Ill) are made to form a dou- ble cross, in which the horizontal arm represents the woman and the vertical the man. The strings are then pulled so that the centre loop, which represents the geni- tals, moves rapidly, up and down, and right and left, and this, to the imagination of the amused onlookers, stands for the characteristic motion in sexual congress. There is no ditty to this set.

Tokay last y the adulterer (C, in Fig. Ill), is a more complicated set and requires both hands, the two big toes and the heels for its composition. The accompanying commentary is just spoken in ordinary prose. The first figure (G, i) is formed, in its significant section, of two isosceles triangles, one above the other and touching by the apex. These triangles represent the adulterer and the wife engaged in the act of copulation. To indicate this, strings are manipulated so that the point of contact moves up and down, while each triangle in turn increases and decreases in size. At the same time the artist declares in unambiguous language: "This is the adulterer j this is the wife; they copulate." The figure will not be devoid of significance to those acquainted with the native method of copulation described above (ch. x, sec. 12).

The figure is then dissolved to the artist's comment: tokaylasi bila wa hagula, "the adulterer goes to the gar- den." He then adds: layla la mwala, "the husband comes" — ^and by that time the strings form a figure con-

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sisting of two loops placed at an angle (C, 2). As these loops begin to move in their turn, each shrinking and expanding (C, 3 and 4), he says placidly: Ikayta la kwavciy "he has intercourse with his wife." Thus adul- tery in the Trobriands is represented by two triangles instead of one.

One more cat's-cradle of a purely anatomical character has still to be mentioned. It is named after the hero Sikwemtuya, though this personality has no other claim to fame than his cat's-cradle. Four loops symmetrically disposed around the central point (D, in Fig. Ill) repre- sent the head, the legs and the two testicles of Sikwem- tuya. Then this duologue is sung:

^^Sikwemtuyay Sikwemtuya avaka kuvagi?^^ "Sikwemtuya, Sikwemtuya what art thou doing?" ^^Bayamata la kayhaha guya^u,^^

"I guard the decorated food of the chief." ^^Bagise fuwamP^ ^^May I see your testicles?"

With the last words, one of the testicles begins to en- large and to move slowly, while Sikv/emtuya, through the mouth of the artist, utters a self-satisfied grunting noise, somewhat like ka ka ka ka , » . He is then requested to show the other one,

"Tagise pliyuwela" "Let's see the other one,"

and answers with the same words, ka ka ka ka . . , and a similar exhibition of his second testicle.

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I should like to add that the comical effect o£ the grunting noises, kay ka^ ka^ ka, is irresistible, and would be as much envied by a modern (and somewhat risque) cabaret artist, as Melanesian or West African carvings and modellings are admired by modern sculptors. But it is very difficult to render linguistic effects and a sense of fun and ribaldry embodied in speech through the me- dium of another tongue, whereas decorative art, sculp- ture, and music speak their own universal language.


SEX IN folk-lore: FACETIJE

In the matter of stories, we will begin with the amus- ing folk-tales (kukwanebu) told during the evenings of the rainy season for the entertainment of young and old. They contain accounts of avowedly fantastic and unbe- lievable events 3 they are meant to stir the imagination, to pass the time pleasantly, and, above all, to raise a laugh — at times a very ribald laugh.^ A few of them are en- tirely devoid of sexual or scatological motives, and can only be touched on here. There is the tale about fire and water, in which fire threatens to burn water, but water touches it and quenches it. There is one in which a greedy crab wants to catch the fruit collected by a grass- hopper, but the fruit falls on him and he is killed. A pretty story is told of a beautiful girl who is wooed by the birds. She finds fault with one after another, and

1 For a more detailed account of the sociological and cultural character of these stories and their relation to other types of folk-lore cf. Myth in Primitive Psychology,

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finally accepts the smallest and most modest among them. A tale is told of the legendary ogre Dokonikanj his gar- dens are robbed by a girl who is imprisoned by him and then set free by the youngest of her five brothers, and another describes a contest between the same ogre and a hero. The latter tale is told, in certain districts, not as a myth but as a funny story. A purely gustatory account of two brothers, who, after a time of starvation, over-ate to bursting point, provokes much laughter by its entirely innocent jokes.

Only in one story does the fun turn on defecation: a man sticks to a tree after he has relieved himself, and dies as his relatives try to pull him free. In the tale of the louse and the butterfly, the joke consists in the louse emitting a resounding noise from the rectum, by which explosion he is thrown off the butterfly's back and drowned in the sea.

I will now relate the stories with a sexual motive, giv- ing them in order of increasing ribaldry.

The Snake and the Two Women. — Two sisters go in search of eggs. The younger, in spite of a warning, takes away the eggs of the snake. The mother snake chases the thief through all the villages, and finds her at last roasting the eggs in her own village of Kwabulo. To punish her, the snake enters her body through the vulva, coiling up inside it with only the tail and the nose stick- ing out. After which, as the natives put it:

ivagi klrlsala^ ikarisaki matala

it makes dream response it induces dream eye his Gumwawela man of Wawela.

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In other words, this happening brought about a dream response, it induced a vision before the eyes of a man of Wawela. This man comes to the rescue and, by magic, induces the snake to creep out, when he kills it.

The Two Brothers and. the Chiefs Wife. — ^A younger brother goes to a distant chief's garden, meets the chief's wife there and they fornicate under a mango tree. He is caught by the outraged husband, who brings him to the village and places him on a high platform, to await his death. However, his brother rescues him by magic, and makes all the men of that village disappear by the same means J after which the two marry the women and settle down.

The Reef Heron and Ilakavetega, — Ilakavetega is an old woman who lives with her granddaughters. These go to the seashore, where they meet a reef heron who inquires who they are. "We are the granddaughters of Ilakavetega." "Tell her then," answers the bird, and intones :

Kayfwada^u wila^

Full of sores cunnus hers,

kayfilipli wila,

full of small sores cunnus hers,

kayfwada^uyala wilay

sore covered cunnus hers,

kaykumikumi wila:

eaten away by sores cunnus hers:

i^usi kalu momonay

It flows down her discharge,

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akanuwast yaegu boH,

I lap it up myself reef heron.

This somewhat gratuitous insult is repeated in full and with the same sing-song intonation to the grandmother, who accompanies her granddaughters to the seashore next day, meets the reef heron and hears what he has to say for herself 3 so that his song is chanted three times in the course of the narrative. The heron unfortunately gets entangled among the coral on the reef, and is caught, killed, and eaten, but the interests of poetic justice are served, for a sorcerer kills Ilakavetega and her grand- daughters to avenge the death of this amiable and witty bird. Also the sorcerer copulates with each of his victims before killing them.

The Stingaree. — In this story the ribald and dramatic interest are nicely balanced. In the village of Okayboma there lives a woman, mother of five sons, who is endowed with the anatomical anomaly of five clitorises.^ In the tidal creek of that village dwells a giant stingaree. One day when the boys are out in the taro-garden, the sting- aree flops up the mangrove swamp, gets into the village, and enters the house, intoning a ribald and cruel ditty:

vavarty vavari, O vavari, vavari, Vari toHy to^L

Afasisiy afanehay

1 cut it sore, I scarify it,

1 The arithmetical expert will, no doubt, discover that the old lady had six clitorises. I reproduce the native story as it was given me.

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magusisiy magusike^iy

I want to cut it, I want to cut at it,

oritala wila inumwaya^iy

one cunnus hers slackens,

bayadi kola kasesUy

I saw her clitoris,

ba^ilituUy bitotinay biwokwo,

I cut off, it snaps, it is over.

This may be rendered, the onomatopoetic words being repeated as they occur: ^^O vavariy vavari, vari to^iy toH — I cut it and make a scar of it, I cut it with a will, I like to cut at it, one part of her vulva has got slack, I shall saw off one of her clitorises, I saw it off till it snaps and is gone."

The stingaree then proceeds to business, copulates with the old woman and cuts off one of her multiple append- ages. My native informants, in their commentary, af- firmed that the vaH had a penis j but it seems more likely that those who originally contributed to the making of the story were inspired by the long, saw-edged dart in the middle of the stingaree's tail, which, were it used as a sexual instrument, would certainly have the baleful re- sults described in the story.

The sons come back and the mother complains 5 so the eldest one offers to protect her next day. But when the stingaree flops along into the village, and when he intones his sadistic ditty, and when this chant, like a magical spell, produces a portent {kariyala) in the form of lightning and thunder, the son runs away and the mother is de-

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prived of another kasesa (clitoris). Nor do the second, third, and fourth brothers behave any better. Four times does the stingaree repeat every word of his ditty and every detail of his behaviour, until the mother is left with but one clitoris, and only the youngest son to defend it and to save her life. For the story assures us that she could not survive the loss of all the five kasesa.

The youngest son prepares a number of spears made of strong hardwood, places them all along the road \vhich the cruel fish has to traverse from the creek-head to the house, and then waits in ambush.

When the stingaree appears, he sings his ditty for the last time. Now, however, he sings: "One only, a solitary one clitoris remains. I have come, I shall finish it off j it will be over with her clitorises, she will die." I shall quote the end of the narrative in free translation.

"The stingaree imagines that he will enter the house. The son sits high up, on the raised platform in front of the house. He grasps the spear, he pierces the stingaree. This runs awayj the man, however, comes down. He takes the spear made of se*ulawola wood, which he had stuck in the areca palm. He throws it, and the impact causes the stingaree to stand up. The next spear has pierced it also. The man runs to the nam fruit tree, takes the spear made of tawaga wood and throws it. He runs to the mango tree and takes the spear of hard palm wood, he pierces the stingaree's eye. He takes a strong cudgel and hammers the stingaree till it dies." The story ends with the return of the elder brothers who disbelieve the young man's story, until they are convinced by the sight

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of the stingaree's corpse. Then the fish is cut up and distributed among those lagoon villages in which it is not, as is usual in the Trobriands, considered an abomination.

The Story of Digamina. — ^The heroine's name etymo- logically defines her anatomical peculiarities and her char- acter. The root diga means "to fill out," "to pack into"j wina is the dialectic and archaic form of wila, cunnus. Digawina is endowed with very large and comprehensive genitals. It is her custom to attend the big distributions of food (sagali) made after a man has died, and to steal more than her share j packing coco-nuts, yams, taro, areca nuts, betel pods, large chunks of sugar cane, and whole bunches of bananas into her vagina. Thus things mys- teriously disappear, to the great annoyance of all others present, and particularly of those who arrange the feast. Her practices are discovered at last. The master of the next distribution conceals a large black mangrove crab {kaymagu) among the food, who cuts through her kasesa (clitoris) and thus kills her." With this tragic event the story ends.

The White Cockatoo and the Clitoris. — ^A woman named Karawata gave birth to a white cockatoo, who flew away into the bush. One day Karawata went to the gar- den, telling her kasesa (clitoris) to look after the kiim- kumurl (earth baking oven). The kasesa replies confi- dently: Kekekeke. But the white cockatoo has seen everything from the bush 5 he swoops down and strikes the clitoris, who cries out plaintively: Klkiklkl, and top- ples over, while the cockatoo eats the contents of the oven. (It is necessary to imagine the big, flat mound-like earth

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oven, the tiny clitoris standing on guard, and the cruel white cockatoo watching sardonically for its chance. The absurdity of the situation appeals to the natives' sense of the ludicrous.)

Next day, Karawata says again to her kasesa: "Let us catch pig, get some yams, and bake it all in the earth." Again she takes off her kasesa, and leaves it to look after the oven, and the kasesa says confidently as before: Kekekeke, Again the white cockatoo descends from the branch, strikes the kasesa, who, with a plaintive kikikikiy topples over 5 and again the cockatoo eats the contents of the oven. Next day the woman says: "I shall go to gar- den and you look properly after the food." Kekekeke, answers the kasesa, but all that happened on the two pre- vious days is repeated, and Karawata and her kasesa die of hunger.

Mwoydakema. — This hero sees two women who are going to fetch salt water from the beach. He hails them:

Wo! tayyu vivila! Wo! mitakuku,

Wo! two women! Wo! nibbled eyelashes,

kada mitakuku yoku.

our (dual) nibbled eyelashes thou.

This, in free translation, means:

"Hullo! two women are coming. Hullo! Sweethearts, those with whom I would like to exchange nibbling of eyelashes."

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Which amounts more or less to our colloquial "Nothing doing."

Mwoydakema then exclaims:

01 kifnali kadi kimaU yokuy

which means: "O thou, erotic scratching"; in other words: "You with whom I would like to exchange erotic scratches."

The women, however, walk on and leave him to the polishing of his stone axe. But he runs ahead of them to the beach and, by means of a magic ditty, moves the sea, which covers him and leaves him buried in the sand with only the penis sticking out.

The women come upon this solitary object on the beach, and begin to quarrel about to whom it belongs. Finally, one after the other, they bestride it, pulling each other off, and each wanting to enjoy it as long as possible. This to the natives is the most hilarious part of the nar- rative. After they have gone, Mwoydakema shakes off the sand, runs back to his axe, and hails the women again (almost in the same words) as they walk back from the beach. Next day the same events are repeated, and the women have three turns each at the ^'stick" (as they call it) on the beach. On the third day the same thing hap- pens again, but after the women have enj oyed the "stick," they conceive the idea of digging it up and taking it home. They gradually discover the various parts of Mwoyda- kema, till he jumps up and runs away. And when they go back to the village they have to pass him once more, and he teases them with their performances.

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Momovda. — Momovala goes with his daughter to the garden and sends her up a tree. He looks up and sees her genitals, and emits the long-drawn katugogova. This is produced by giving voice on a high-pitched note, while the sound is interrupted by the rapid beating of the mouth with the hand. It is used to express intense emotional excitement of a pleasant kind. She asks him why he screamed. "I saw a green lory," he answers. The same sequence is repeated, and he mentions another bird, and so on several times over. When she comes down from the tree, the father has already discarded his pubic leaf and is in a state of erection. She is very confused, and weeps. He, however, seizes her, and copulates and copu- lates. After all is over, she sings a ditty which may be rendered: ^^O Momovalay Momovala! Gut of my gut, father my father. Father by name, he seized me, he brought me, he wronged me." The mother hears her and guesses what has happened. "Already he has got hold of the girl and copulated. I shall go and see."

The mother meets them, the girl complains and the father denies. The girl goes to the seashore with all her belongings, and sings to a shark to come and eat up, first her wooden board for the making of grass skirts, then her basket, then one arm, then the other arm, and so on, interminably singing the same ditty for each object. Finally she sings: "Eat me up altogether," and the shark does so.

At home Momovala asks the mother where the girl has gone, and learns of her tragic death. His answer is to ask the mother to take ofiF her grass skirt and to copu-

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late with him. The story describes his horizontal motions, which are so strong that his wife complains: Yakay, yakajy an expression of pain. But he only pushes deeper and deeper. She complains again to no purpose. She dies after the act.

Next day people ask him in the garden what has happened. He says that his wife has been speared. "Where?" "In her vagina." Momovala then cuts off his penis and dies.

This is perhaps the cruellest story of my collection.


SEX IN folk-lore: legend and myth

Passing from the purely narrative and entertaining fairy tales to more serious forms of folk-lore, we find, in Kwabulo, one of the lagoon villages, a local legend of a pronouncedly sexual character. The story is told in a manner half-way between the serious and the jocular. It is, indeed, a significant legend to the inhabitants, for it is embodied in a famous song, it is associated with the his- tory of their village and it is believed to be true, since certain natural features in the locality witness to its au- thenticity. Also it contains elements of the tragic, espe- cially in the self-castration of the hero and in his lyric yearning for his distant home. The central theme is ribald, however 5 and when telling it or referring to it, as they often do, the natives are by no means solemn, but delight to exaggerate and multiply unseemly similes about the crux of the tale, which is the long penis of the

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hero, the legendary headman of Kwabulo. I shall quote this story, keeping as closely as possible to the native style of narrative.

The Legend of Inuvayla^u

In the village of Kwabulo there lived Inuvayla'u the head of his clan, the Lukuba clan; the head of his vil- lage. He copulated with the wives of his younger brothers, of his maternal nephews.

When the men went out fishing, he would stand out- side a house, and make a hole in the thatch 3 he then thrust his penis through the thatch and fornicated. His penis was very long; his penis was like a long snake. He would go into the garden when the women made koumwala (clearing the ground from debris prepara- tory to planting); or when they fwakova (weeded the ground). He would stand right away behind the fence, he stood in the uncut bush and his penis wriggled on the ground like a snake. The penis crept along all the way. The penis would approach a woman from behind as she was bending down to her task. It would strike her hard till she fell, and on all fours she would be fornicated with as the penis entered the vulva.

Or when women went to bathe in the lagoon the penis would go under the water like an eel and enter the vulva. Or when they went to collect shells, as women do on the western shore (pi. 80), wading and feeling for them with the toes in the mud of the lagoon, Inuvayla'u would for- nicate with tfiem. When the women went to the water- hole, he would smash their coco-nut shell bottles and

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fornicate with them. The men were then very angry for they had no water to drink. They would abuse the women. The women would be too ashamed to speak, for their bottles had been broken. One day the men ordered, telling their wives:

"Cook fishj cook taytUy make pudding of taro, so that our revered old man eats his fill." "No," answered the women, "we shall not do it 5 this man does wrong by usj. when you go to fish, and we remain in the village, when we work in the garden, by the water-hole, in the lagoon, he does violence to us."

Then the men watched him. They said they were going to fish. They hid in the weyka (the thick scrub surrounding the village), they saw: Inuvayla'u stood out- side a hut, he made a hole in the thatch j his penis sneaked on the ground, it crept through the hole, it came in: he wronged the wife of his younger brother. The men went to the garden . . . (here the various conditions under which the hero plays his foul pranks on the women are again, enumerated, in almost exactly the same words as before).

When his younger brothers, his maternal nephews, saw this, they grew very angry. Next morning they ducked him 5 they ducked him in the head pool of the tidal creek, which comes up to the village of Kwabulo (pi. 81).

He came out of the water. He returned to his house, his mind was full of shame and of sorrow. He spoke to his mother Lidoya: "Bake some taytu and fish. Bake it in the ground. Pack all our belongings and the food in

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your big basket j lift it and put it on your head 5 we shall go, we shall leave this place."

When all was ready, he came out of his house, which stood on the haku (central place of the village). He wailed aloud, facing the haku. He took his kema (axe), he cut at his penis. First he wailed and wailed over it, holding it in his hands. Then he cut off the point of his penis 3 it came off on the haku in front of his house j it was turned into stone. The stone is still there, on the haku of Kwabulo in front of the headman's house. He cried and wailed and went on. He stood outside the outer ring of houses, he looked back, he took his penis and wept over it. He struck again with his axe. The second bit fell off and was turned into stone. It can be seen still outside the village in Kwabulo. He cried and wailed and went on. Half-way between the village and the tidal pool of the creek he stopped. He looked back towards the houses. He took his penis into the palms of his hands, he wept over it and cut off another bit. It turned into stone, and can be seen there not far from Kwabulo. He came to the canoes j he looked back towards the village, he wept over his genitals. He took the axe and cut off the remaining stump of his penis. It was turned into stone, and it lies now near where the Kwabulo men moor their canoes. He entered his canoe and punted along. Half-way down the creek he wept once more. He gripped his axe and cut off his testicles. Large white coral boul- ders {yatu) lie in the creek. They are the token: they show where Inuvayla'u cut off his testicles.

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(to the north of Kwabulo, a village, from which over- seas expeditions are made south). He stole a large waga (canoe), a mwasawa (sea-going canoe). But the owner caught him and chased them away. They went to Ba'u (a village further north). He took a sea-going canoe; he told his mother Lidoya: "Put in your basket, we shall sail." They sailed, they came to I'uwaygili (a village on Kayleula). He told his mother . . . (here the same words as above are repeated; then they sail again, arrive at another village and again he asks her to put in her basket; and so on, through a monotonous enumeration of the villages along the lagoon and through the Amphlett Islands down to the koya^ the high mountains on the D'Entrecasteaux Archipelago). Inuvayla'u arrived in the koya. There he settled, there he lived, and with him his mother, who helped him to make gardens and cooked his food for him. He went out to fish with a flying kite, and with the deep sea net which has to be sunk far under the water. His mother made gardens on the mountain slope and she made cooking pots for him.

One day he went high up the mountain slope. The day was clear. Far away among the budibudi (the small clouds that gather round the horizon in the monsoon sea- son), he saw the large flat island of Kiriwina, he saw the wide lagoon. On its water he saw a canoe, a canoe of Kwabulo, his native village.^ His inside grew soft

1 For the strange and impressive contrast between the green waters and ■white chalk of the Trobriands and the brown volcanic rock, high moun- tains and deep blue sea of the koya, compare Argonauts of the JVestern Pacific, passim. The reader will also find there accounts of the emo- tional attitude of the natives towards the landscape and further expres- sions of it in folk-lore.

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(inokapisi lofo^ula). He wanted to see his village, he wanted to punt among the mangroves of Kwabulo.

They sailed. On the sea they met a boat from Kitava. He tells his mother: "Beg them for sayaku (aromatic black paint) j beg them for muUpwafwa (ornaments of shell)." The mother offered herself to the Kitava men. They copulated with her on their canoe 5 they gave her ^om^ sayaku and a few shell ornaments. He had some red paint and some red shell ornament.

On the landing-place at the head of the creek he adorned himself. He went to the village. In his fes- tival adornment he stood on the haku (central place), he sang the song which he had composed in the koya (south- ern mountains). He taught the song to the villagers, to his younger brothers, and maternal nephews. He gave them the song and the dance. For all time this has re- mained the dance and song of the people of Kwabulo. It is danced with the kaydehu (dancing shield) (pi. 82). The men of Bwaytalu and of Suviyagila have purchased it and they dance it also. Inuvayla'u lived in his village till he died. This is the end of the story.

I obtained a few variants of this myth by hearing it told in several villages, and also some comments which may be added. The act of expiatory self-castration ia sometimes made to take place on Inuvayla'u's return home. This, however, does not tally with the sequence of natural relics. All the stones described in the myth still exist, though the similarity to their anatomical pro- totypes has worn away with time, while their size must have enormously increased. I have seen the relics several

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times, but unfortunately I was always prevented by weather or the time of day or high tide from taking a photograph of the stones. Making the necessary allow- ances for imagination and latitude in exegesis, there can be no doubt that the testicles are in the creek — large, round boulders just awash at low tide 3 while the glans femSy a pointed helmet-shaped piece of white coral, is in the central place of the village. This disposition confirms the version given in the text.

The etymology of the hero's name indicates his fail- ing j the inu is unquestionably the feminine particle tna^ woman, while the verb vayla^u means actually to rob or steal; so that his name can be translated "the thief of woman." To those who believe in the existence of an old-time gerontocracy in Melanesia this myth will be of special interest j for in it we have the old (male) "matri- arch" trespassing on the rights of the younger men of his clan and, by means of his enormous organ (the symbol of his greater generative power, a psycho-analyst would say), claiming all the women of the community. Some parts of the story show indisputable signs of greater an- tiquity, whereas others have obviously been modernized. The simple crudity of the first part and its association with natural features has all the interesting sociological signifi- cance of the genuine myth, gradually degenerated into mere legend. The second part, on the contrary, with the song which will be quoted presently, is set in modern and realistic conditions, and its lyrical narrative character stamps it as a tale of more recent origin.

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legend, the women are described as especially open to attack during their specific privileged occupations, when normally a taboo protects them and not only should a man never make love to them but he should not even ap- proach them (see chapter ii, male and female provinces in tribal life). It must be remembered that, while engaged in communal weeding, women are entitled in certain districts to attack any man who approaches them (ch. ix, sec. 8). This is certainly an interesting cor- relation and might, to an anthropologist endowed with some imagination and a faculty for hypothetical con- struction, serve as a proof of the antiquity of the myth and furnish a theory as to the custom of yausa. By outraging the women when engaged in such occupations as weeding and filling the water-bottles, Inuvayla'u adds insult to injury, and in the legend we see the women more ashamed for the manifest insult to female preroga- tives in the broken water-bottles than for their abused chastity. Superficially this breaking of the bottles might appear merely an unpleasant sadistic trait in the otherwise amiable character of Inuvayla'u. In reality, however, all such details are sociologically very significant.

Another slight variant of the legend declares that Inuvayla'u was not allowed to return to his village, but was chased away immediately on his appearance. I prefer to discard this tragic version, partly because Anglo-Saxons do not like sad endings in fiction, partly because it does not harmonize well with the amiable and little vindictive character of the Trobrianders.

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Kwabulo is but loosely connected with the story of the myth. The first stanza alludes to his trespasses and their consequences, and the expiatory resolution to go away. The coral outcrop or coral ridge mentioned in the first stanza and the marshy ground through which the hero is made to wander, are poetical images of that part of the legend in which the wanderings of the hero and his mother are described.

The second and third stanza still follow the myth. The part of the mother, the sorrow of the son, and the first stages of the journey are common to both song and legend. But the song, neglecting completely the coarser and perhaps more archaic elements of the myth, does not mention castration. There is only the sorrow for the vil- lage left behind and the house abandoned.

To indulge in tentative speculation for another mo- ment: may not the first and second parts of the myth be different stories altogether — ^the first part, a primitive myth with several interesting sociological hints and impli- cations 5 the second part and the song, a tale of a real or imaginary man, who, too amorous to be tolerated in the community, was banished from it, and, later, offered in expiation his song and his repentance? In the course of time the two were amalgamated in the legend, but not in the song.

From the fourth stanza on, the song turns on the mo- tives of decoration, of dancing, of personal renown, and of self-glorification 5 of women admiring the singer's ornaments, of his wandering through the villages and his tecurring nostalgia. In all this the song is typical of its

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kind in the Trobriands. I am giving only the first six stanzas because I was unable to translate the remaining ones as fully as these.

The Song of Inuvayla'u


One day they ducked Inuvayla'u.

The news of the fornication spread:

He was dipped, he went under, he came out of the water.

He turned and went to the sea —

Through the raybiuag ^ and dumia he went to the sea.

II

"Our mother Lidoya, get together the food, I turn my eyes to Dugubakiki.^

My tears flow at the thought of the b'waulo ^ of my village. My tears flow at the thought of Kwabulo, of the sweet air of Kwabulo.

Ill

"O mother Lidoya, put your basket on your head." She goes carefully, she stumbles along the creek. She has left Kwabulo — the house is closed up. Inuvayla'u will not fornicate any more. Thy house is locked up — there is no more Inuvayla'u's house.

IV

"It Is put up — the mast at the mouth of the creek. I seek for my song — I am taking the road — I — Inuvayla'u. My road is Gulagola which leads to Tuma, And afterwards the Digidagala road which leads through Teyyava.*


"Women of Kulumata, dance your dance! Prepare for a round dance with the tubuyavi^ on your faces! A tileica'i ^ for you — go then to my village, Go to Oysayase — to Oburaku!" '^

'"■ Raybnvag — coral outcrop, coral ridge ; dumia — swamp marshes. 2 The landing-place of Kwabulo on the lagoon. ^B'waulo — cloud of smoke, surrounding a village.

  • Both roads lead to the north-west district,

s Pattern of facial decoration.

6 Flattery-bond (cf. ch. xi, sec. 3).

7 Both southern villages.

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VI

"It is the time for the journey, the journey to Kiriwila.i The children tried to retain me. I shall go my road and come to Yalumugwa.2 My dala ^ — the men ; my love — the women. They admire my paya.^

When I come to Okaykoda, my friends will greet me. My mind is sad.

I am a Luba man, my fish is kaysipu. I have fallen on evil days."


The Story of Kaytalugi

Besides legends of events in a distant epoch, the natives tell tales of far-away places. At almost every point of the compass, if we were to believe the natives, some re- markable country is to be found if we travel far enough. One such place is of interest to us here because of the peculiarities of its inhabitants.

"Far away, beyond the open sea — waluniy as the natives say — if you were to sail between Sim-sim and Muyuwa (i.e. in a northerly direction) you would come to a large island. It is called Kaytalugi. Its size is that of Boyowa (the name of the largest island in the Trobriand group). There are many villages. Only women live in them. They are all beautiful. They go about naked. They don't shave their pubic hair. It grows so long that it makes something like a doha (grass petticoat) in front of them.

"These women are very bad, very fierce. This is be-

1 North-western district.

2 Village due north of Kwabulo.

3 Sub-clan.

^ Turtle-shell ear-rings.

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cause of their insatiable desire. When sailors are stranded on the beach, the women see the canoes from afar. They stand on the beach awaiting them. The beach is dark with their bodies, they stand so thick. The men arrive, the women run towards them. They throw themselves upon them at once. The pubic leaf is torn offj the women do violence to the men. It is like the yausa of the people in Okayaulo. The yausa has its season during the fwakova. When it is over, it is over. In Kaytalugi the women do it all the time. They never leave the men alone. There are many women there. When one has finished, another comes along. When they cannot have intercourse, they use the man's nose, his ears, his fingers, his toes — ^the man dies.

"Boys are born on the island. A boy never grows up. A small one is misused till he dies. The women abuse him. They use his penis, his fingers, his toes, his hands. He is very tired, he becomes sick and dies."

Such is the account given by the natives of the island with the significant name. Kayta means "to copulate" j lugi is a sufiix denoting complete satiation. Thus Kay- talugi means "the fill of copulation." The natives be- lieve absolutely in the reality of this island and in the truth of every detail of their account. They tell circum- stantial stories of how sailors, driven towards the island by a strong wind, will land on desert reefs rather than risk making Kaytalugi. The distance to the island is about a night and a day's journey If you set sail in the morning and go ohomatu (due north), you will arrive next morning at the island.

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• There are also stories, believed to be true, about men who went there and succeeded in escaping. Thus, long ago, some men of Kaulagu were stranded on the island, driven off their course, according to some versions, dur- ing a >^/^/^ expedition. But another story has it that they went there on purpose. It is a custom in the Trobriands, when work comes to a dead-lock, for one of the men to utter a challenge. Some extraordinary exploit, some di- version or festivity is proposed by him, which he always has to lead, usually to organize, and sometimes to finance. Those who are challenged have to follow him. On one occasion the men of Kaulagu were engaged in planting yams,. The work was very hard, the yam supports re- fused to penetrate the stony soil. The headman cried out: Uri yakala Kaytalugi! "My challenge Kaytalugi! Let us go and: see the women." The others agreed. ":The,y filled their canoe with food, firewood, water bot- tles, and green coco-nuts. They sailed. One night they slept- on :the seaj the second night they slept on the sea, the third; morning they made Kaytalugi. (This does not agree with the version of other informants, but perhaps the wind was not propitious! ) The women assembled on the beach: ^Wa! men are coming to our country!' They pulled the canoe to pieces, made a heap of the debris on the beach and. sat on it. They copulated, copulated, copu- lated j one month, month after month. The men were distributed, each man was married to one woman. They settled.

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women answered: ^Very plentiful.' ^Let us repair our canoe/ said the men. 'We shall get some fish, we shall eat it all of us.' They repaired the canoe, they put leaves and food in it, they put in water-bottles and they went away. They sailed three days and came back to Kaulagu, their native village. Their wives, who had mourned them and then remarried, were glad to see them, and came back to them again. They brought home, among other things, a new kind of banana called uslkela. You can see usikela growing in any village now, and eat them. They are very good" (pi. 83). And this is another proof that the story is true, and that Kaytalugi really exists.

When I asked my informants why it was that the mefi of Kaulagu not only survived but escaped, I was told that they were very strong and that no man allowed sexual access to more than one woman. And just as the women were beginning to get too much for them, they made their escape. It is an interesting example of how every dogmatic version relaxes when elaborated into actual ex- amples, even though these are imaginary.

Another story is told about a man of Kaybola, a vil- lage on the northern shore. Fishing for shark, he sailed far away. He came to Kaytalugi and was married by one woman. Feeling tired of her too persistent embraces, he made holes in all the local canoes, overhauled his own, and then suggested to his wife that the fish were very good that morning. He put to sea and set sail. The women of Kaytalugi pushed their canoes into the water to pursue him. But the canoes were swamped and the man returned safely to Kaybola.

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When I expressed my doubt as to the reality of this island, my informants suggested that it was all very well to be sceptical, but at the same time I must not try to go there on pain of never getting away again. They added that all gumanuma (white men) would like to go to Kay- talugi, but were afraid to do so. "Look, not one guma- numa has been to Kaytalugi!" — another irrefutable proof of its existence.

So far we have been discussing the less sacred classes of folk-lore, and in these we have found the sexual mo- tive predominant. The less the religious or moral sig- nificance of a story — the less "real" it is to the native — the more frivolous it becomes j and the more frivolous it becomes, the more frequently, as in the fairy tales {kuk- wanebu)^ does it hinge on sex. But among legends, there is only one story which has sex as its principal motive, that of Inuvayla'u, and only one geographical account, that of Kaytalugi. The real myths (Jili^u) hardly ever have a sex motive j the myths of the origins of humanity and of the social order, for instance, are completely free of it. Again, in the cycle of stories about the hero Tudava, the only sexual reference occurs in the incident of the virgin birth, the mechanism of which is discreetly and chastely described: the hero's mother sleeps in a grotto, and the dripping water (Jitukzva) from the roof pierces her hymen, penetrates the vagina and thus "opens her" (ikaripwala) y making it possible for her to conceive (see ch. vii).

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the origin of fishing, of canoes, and of diving for the spondylus shell. Nor are any to be found in the myth of old age, death, and the annual visit of the spirits.

Fire, according to legend, was brought forth by the same woman who produced the sun and the moon. The sun and moon wander away into the sky, but the mother keeps the fire, concealing it in her vagina. Whenever she needs it for cooking, she takes it out of its hiding place. But one day her younger brother discovers where she keeps it, steals it, and gives it to other people. This is the only genuine myth with a distinctly sexual element.

Sex does not play a very important part in beliefs about supernatural beings. The only exception to this rule is the idea that some witches {yoyova) have intercourse with tauva^u (malignant, anthropomorphic beings who come from the southern islands and cause epidemics). Thus Ipwaygana, a woman of the Malasi clan who was mar- ried, against all the rules of exogamy, to Modulabu, the Malasi headman of Obweria, has a familiar tauva^Uy who visits her sexually and teaches her the arts of evil magic (she is to be seen on plates 77 and 78). Bomwaytani of Kaybola, the headman's wife and a notorious yoyova^ is also known to have a liaison with such a malignant, super- human instructor.

But in the Trobriands such cases are sporadic. The belief in a witches' Sabbath which seems to obtain among the Southern Massim, is not found in the northern dis- trict. Informants from Normanby Island and from the islands of the east end told me that witches forgather at night and meet Ta'ukuripokapoka, a mythological per-

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sonality and apparently an expert in evil craft. Dances and orgies take place, in which the witches copulate with male beings and even with Ta'ukuripokapoka himself.


THE EROTIC PARADISE OF THE TROBRIANDER

In the Trobriands, as in almost every culture, one of the most important dogmatic systems or mythologies is that referring to a future life.

The Trobrianders place the spirit world on a small island called Tuma lying to the north-west. There, un- seen by mortal eyes, undisturbed by the troubles of the world, the spirits lead an existence very much like that of ordinary Trobriand life, only much more pleasant.^ Let me quote a good description by one of my best informants, Tomwaya Lakwabulo (pi. 37), a famous seer, a spiritistic medium of no mean talent and imagination (also of no small cunning) and a frequent guest of the spirit world:

"In Tuma we are all like chiefs 5 we are beautiful j we have rich gardens and no work to do — the women do it all 5 we have heaps of ornaments and we have many wives, all of them lovely." This summarizes the ideas and aspirations of the natives with regard to the spirit world — at least, as long as it remains a matter of remote speculation, for their attitude towards death and the de- sirability of an immediate move to Tuma remains unaf- fected by what they think of and hope for in the next

iCf. "Baloma: The Spirits of the Dead in the Trobriand Islands," in Journ. of the R. Anthrop. Institute, 1916, for a preliminary account, based on ray first year's investigations in the Archipelago.

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world. On this point they are exactly like ourselves. Many a good Christian will grow enthusiastic about the joys and consolations of Heaven without showing, how- ever, any alacrity to repair thither.

But in distant perspective and as a picture for dogmatic fantasy, the home of the spirits in Tuma remains a para- dise, and above all an erotic paradise. When a native talks about it, when he grows eloquent and relates the traditional stories, filled out with scraps of information gathered from recent spiritistic mediums, and elaborates his personal hopes and anticipations — all other aspects soon fade into the background and sex comes to the forej sex primarily, but set about with its appropriate trappings of personal vanity, display, luxury, good food, and beau- tiful surroundings.

In their anticipations, Tuma is thronged with beautiful women, all ready to work hard by day and dance by night. The spirits enj oy a perpetual scented bacchanal of dancing and chanting on spacious village-places or on beaches of soft sand, amid a profusion of betel and of green coco- nut drinks, of aromatic leaves and magically potent deco- rations, of wealth and the insignia of honour. In Tuma each one becomes endowed with such beauty, dignity, and skill that he is the unique, the admired, the pampered protagonist of a never-ending feast. By some extraor- dinary sociological mechanism, all commoners become chiefs, while no chief believes that his relative rank is to be diminished or dimmed by the spirits of his inferiors.

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After certain preliminary formalities, the spirit comes face to face with Topileta, the guardian of the road to Tuma. This person, who belongs to the Lukuba clan, looks very much like a man and is essentially human in his appetites, tastes, and vanities. But he is of the con- sistency of a spirit, and his appearance is distinguished by very large ears which flop like the wings of a flying fox. He lives with a daughter or several daughters.

The spirit is well advised to address Topileta in a friendly fashion and to ask the road, at the same time presenting the valuables which were given to him for the journey to Tuma by his surviving relatives. These valu- ables, be it noted, are not buried with the body nor de- stroyed, only pressed and rubbed against it before death and afterwards placed on the corpse for a time (see ch. vi, sec. 3). Their spiritual counterparts are supposed to be taken by the spirit of the deceased on his journey to the next world, and then, according to one version, offered to Topileta, or, according to another, used to decorate the spirit's own person on his entrance into Tuma. No doubt an intelligent spirit finds a way to do justice to both re- quirements.

Topileta, however, is not satisfied with mere gifts. His lust is equal to his greed, so that if the spirit is a female he copulates with her, if a male he hands him over to his daughter for the same purpose. This accomplished, Topileta puts the stranger on his way, and the spirit pro- ceeds.

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deeply affects his mind. The spirit arrives filled with sor- row. He yearns for those left behind, for his widow, his sweetheart, his children. He longs to be surrounded with his family, and to return to the bosom of his wife or of his earthly love. But in Tuma there is an aromatic herb called bubwayayta. This is made into a vana (bun- dle) and magic is spoken over it by a fair spirit-woman, immediately before a male spirit appears upon the island. As he approaches the group who stand awaiting him, the most passionate, and, no doubt, the loveliest of the spirit women runs towards him and waves the scented herb be- fore his face. The scent enters his nostrils, carrying with it the magic of bubwayayta. As with the first sip of the water of Lethe, so this scent makes him forget all that he has left on earth, and from that moment he thinks no more of his wife, yearns no more for his children, desires no more the embraces of earthly loves. His only wish now is to remain in Tuma and to embrace the beautiful though unsubstantial forms of spirit women.

His passions will not remain long unsatisfied. Spirit women, unfleshly though they appear to us mortals, have fire and passion to a degree unknown on earth. They crowd round the man, they caress him, they pull him by force, they use violence on him. Erotically inspired by the bubwayayta spell, he yields and a scene is enacted, unseemly to those unused to the ways of a spirit, but ap- parently quite the thing in Paradise. The man submits to these advances and copulates with the hostess-spirit in the open, while the others look on, or, stimulated by the sight, do likewise. Such promiscuous sexual orgies, in

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which male and female mix indiscriminately, congregate, change partners and reunite again, are frequent among the spirits. So at least I was told by several eyewitnesses, not from the world of spirits, but from that of mediums.

For I luckily had the privilege of discussing these mat- ters with a number of seers who had actually been in Tuma, dwelled among the spirits, and returned to tell the tale. Most prominent among my informants was Tom- waya Lakwabulo, whose name had been mentioned to me and his exploits recorded with a mixture of respect and cynicism, before I actually met and worked with him.^ I also had opportunities of speaking with Bwaylagesi, a woman medium, with Moniga'u, and with one or two other lesser mediums. The details of life in Tuma given so far are common property and form part of general folk-lore j and my eyewitnesses only confirmed these, though they were able to add colour and concrete vivid- ness to them. I shall now; proceed to more esoteric in- formation.

Tomwaya Lakwabulo was married on earth to a woman called Beyawa, who died about a year before I came to Oburaku. He has seen her since in Tuma, and, remark- ably enough, she has remained faithful to him, regards herself as his wife over there, and will have nothing to do with anyone else. This is Tomwaya Lakwabulo's own

1 Cf. "Baloma: The Spirits of the Dead" {Journ. R. Anthr. Inst., 1916), published before my third expedition. During this expedition I lived for several months in Oburaku, saw Tomwaya Lakwabulo in trances and in his sober moods, and used him as a medium. I found that in spite of the unmasking of Tomwaya Lakwabulo, described in the article noted, he enjoyed an undiminished prestige in his own community and in the Tro- briands universally. In this respect also, the Trobrianders do not greatly differ from ourselves.

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version. He agrees, however, that in this respect the late Beyawa, or rather her spirit, is an unprecedented excep- tion to all other spirit women. For they all, married and unmarried alike, are sexually accessible to anybody — to him, Tomwaya Lakwabulo, in any case. They all, with the exception of Beyawa, make katuyausl and receive ulatile visits.

It was long ago, when Beyawa was young and attrac- tive, that Tomwaya Lakwabulo paid his first visit to Tuma. He then made the acquaintance of one of the most beautiful spirit girls, Namyobe'i, a daughter of Guyona Vabusi, headman of Vabusi, a large village on the shore of Tuma. She fell in love with him 5 and, as she was so very beautiful and moreover performed bub- wayayta magic upon him, he succumbed to her charms and married her. Thus he became, so to speak, a biga- mist, or at least a spiritual bigamist, having his wife on earth in Oburaku and his spiritual wife in Vabusi. Since that time, he has regularly frequented the land of spirits during trances, when he neither eats nor drinks nor moves for weeks. (At least, in theory: I visited Tomwaya Lak- wabulo in one of these trances, and succeeded in insinu- ating a tin of bully beef and some lemon squash into him, and moved him to accept two sticks of tobacco.) These professional visits to Tuma, besides being agreeable on account of Namyobe'i, are profitable, for he carries rich presents to the spirits, entrusted to him by their surviving relatives. There is no reason to doubt that the spiritual part of the presents reaches the ghosts in Tuma.

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of the late Beyawa that she knew and approved of his spiritual partnership, and even allowed her own daughter to be called Namyobe'i after the spirit wife. Now both wives have met in Tuma, but they inhabit different vil- lages. This is in accordance with a general rule, for each earthly community has its spirit colony to which the de- ceased move after death. There are also a few villages sui generis, not recruited from this world and showing^ strange characteristics. One of them is inhabited by women who live in houses on piles as tall as coco-nut palms. No man is ever allowed to enter the village and no man has ever had intercourse with the women. They bring forth children, but exclusively of the female sex.. Such female puritans are, however, happily the exception in Tuma, where love, enjoyment, and lazy pleasure en- fold the happy spirits.

To enjoy life and love it is necessary to be young. Even in Tuma, old age — ^that is, wrinkles, grey hair, and feebleness — creeps upon the spirits. But in Tuma there exists a remedy, once accessible to all mankind, but now lost to this world.

For old age to the Trobrianders is not a natural state — it is an accident, a misadventure. Long ago, shortly after mankind had come upon earth from underground, human beings could rejuvenate at will by casting off the old with- ered skinj just as crabs, snakes, and lizards, and those creatures that creep and burrow underground, will every now and then throw off the old covering and start life with a new and perfect one. Humanity unfortunately lost this art — ^through the folly of an ancestress, according

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to legend — ^but in Tuma the happy spirits have retained it.^ When they find themselves old, they slough off the loose, wrinkled skin, and emerge with a smooth body, dark locks, sound teeth, and full of vigour. Thus life with them is an eternal recapitulation of youth with its accompaniment of love and pleasure.

So their time passes in dancing, singing, and all that goes with these — festive dressing, decoration, scents of aromatic oils and herbs. Every evening, in the cool sea- son, when the persistent trade wind abates, or when the fresh sea breezes quicken the air during the sultry time of the monsoon, the spirits put on festive attire and re- pair to the baku of their village to dance, just as is done in the Trobriands. At times, departing from earthly usage, they will go to the beach and dance on firm cool sand beaten by breakers.

Many songs are composed by the spirits and some of these reach the earth, brought thither by mediums. In common with most such productions, these songs are a glorification of the composer. "The glory of their hutia (flower wreath) they singj of their dancing 5 of their ■nabwoda^u (ornamented basket) j of their facial paintings and decoration." It was quite clear that skill in garden- ing or carving, outstanding achievements in war or in the Mulay were no longer objects of ambition to the spirits. Instead we find dancing and personal beauty celebrated, and these mainly as a setting and a preliminary to sex enjoyment.

^ For a fuller account see "Myths of Death and the Recurrent Cycle of Life," on pp. 80-106 of Myth in Primitive Psychalogy.

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I will quote one example of such a song, entitled Usiyawenuj it was composed by a ghost in Tuma, and brought to earth by Mitakayyo of Oburaku, a medium who was already permanently settled in Tuma when I came to the Trobriands.


I shall sing the song of idle enjoyment —

My mind boils over upon my lips —

They range themselves round a circle on the baku,

I shall join them on the baku —

The conch-shell is blown — listen!

Look! The flaming butia "wreath,

The butia of my sweetheart.


II

My father weeps, they start the mortuary dance for me. Come! Let us chew betel-nut, let us throw the bubiuayayta. Let us break the pod of the betel-pepper, The betel-nut — my mind becomes numb!


Ill

My friend, standing on the beach — he is full of passion.

He boils over, my friend on the northern shore of Tuma.

The red-haired man dreams of me,

He has an ornamental basket.

His face shines like the moon in its fullness.


IV

The white clouds gather low over the skyline, I cry silently.


On a hill in Tuma, I rock my baby to sleep,

I shall go and look after my sister,

I shall put a bagido'u round my head,

I shall paint my mouth with crushed betel-nut,

I shall adorn myself with armshells on the western shore,

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A Trobriand song is always full of omissions and of allusions to events well known to the listeners, and can never be quite intelligible to a stranger. Even my native informants, however, were not able fully to interpret this song.

After two introductory lines, the first stanza describes the preparations for a dance in Tuma. In the second stanza we have the sudden abandonment of earthly in- terests, brought about by bubwayayta. In the third, a woman sings of a man beloved by her. She is obviously still on earth, and her husband or sweetheart — ^the com- poser of the song apparently — has passed into Tuma. She looks to the north-west where monsoon clouds gather, and weeps for him (stanza iv). In the last of the translated stanzas she herself has entered Tuma and describes her attire which, as with all spirits, seems to have become her main concern. It is to her credit that she has not forgotten her baby, though how such a sentimental reminiscence fits into the frivolous atmosphere of Tuma none of my in- terpreters could explain.


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CHAPTER XIII MORALS AND MANNERS

The sexual freedom which we find among the Trobriand Islanders must not be mis-called "immorality," and placed in a non-existent category. "Immorality," in the sense of an absence of all restraints, rules, and values, cannot exist in any culture, however debased or perverted it may be. "Immorality," on the other hand, in the sense of morals different from those which we pretend to practise, must be anticipated in every society other than our own or those which are under the influence of Christian and Western culture.

As a matter of fact, the Trobrianders have as many rules of decency and decorum as they have liberties and indulgences. Among all the customs of sexual liberty so far described, there is not one warrant of licence which does not imply definite limits j not one concession to the sexual impulse but imposes new restrictions j not one re- laxation of the usual taboos but exacts compensation in one way or another.

All Trobriand institutions have their negative as well as their positive side: they bestow privileges but they also imply renunciations. Thus, marriage presents many legal, economic, and personal advantages, but it also means the exclusion of extra-matrimonial intercourse, especially for the wife, and a number of restrictions in manners and conduct. The institution of the hukumatula

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(bachelors' house) has its taboos as well as its privileges. Even such customs as yausa, katuyausiy and ulatiley all of which are especially constituted for licence, are hedged round with conditions and limitations.

The reader who, after the perusal of the previous chap- ters, still retains a sense of moral superiority over the Trobrianders, will have to be told in the following pages directly and explicitly that the Trobriander has just as clear-cut a feeling for modesty in dress and in behaviour as we have, and that he would be as shocked by us on certain occasions, as we are shocked by him on others. In the matter of excretory functions, for instance, he shows far more delicacy than most Europeans of the lower classes, and certain "sanitary" arrangements current in the south of France and other Mediterranean countries would horrify and disgust him. His tolerance is certainly great as regards the natural forms of sexual intercourse, but to compensate for this, he is free from many aberrations of the sexual impulse. "Unnatural vice," on which we need to impose heavy penalties, has no place in his life, except as a subject for contemptuous amusement. He is shocked when he sees or hears about Europeans dancing pressed against each other 5 or when he finds a white man jesting and unconstrained in his sister's company, or showing tenderness to his wife in public. In fact, his attitude to his moral rules is very much like our own, whether we call ourselves Christians or Agnostics: he believes in them firmly, regards their infringement with disapproval, and even keeps to them, not perfectly and not without effort, but with a reasonable amount of earnestness and goodwill.

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Many things which we regard as natural, proper, and moral are anathema to the Trobriander. And the onus frobandi would rest on anyone who maintained that the Trobriander's morality is wrong and ours is right, that his limitations and barriers are inadequate and artificial while ours are sufficient and real. In some respects his moral regulations are biologically sounder than our own, in some more refined and subtle, in some a more efficient safeguard for marriage and the family. In other matters again we might reasonably claim to be his moral superiors. The best way to approach sexual morality in an entirely different culture is to remember that the sexual impulse is never entirely free, neither can it ever be completely enslaved by social imperatives. The limits of freedom vary J but there is always a sphere within which it is deter- mined by biological and psychological motives only and also a sphere in which the control of custom and conven- tion is paramount.

It was necessary to clear the ground before proceeding to the subject of this chapter, for there is no greater source of error in sociology than a false perspective in sexual morality 5 and it is an error especially hard to con- found, as it is based on ignorance which does not want to be enlightened and on intolerance which fears the wider charity of understanding.

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mentSj but also a sense of right and wrong and canons of correct behaviour not devoid of delicacy and refinement.

The forms and customs which are associated with the conduct of such elementary physiological functions as eat- ing and drinking, defecation and micturition are a good illustration of this, and are also illuminating and relevant to our immediate subject, sexual manners.

Eating is not regarded as indispensable to life, nor is the value of food as a utility recognized and formulated by the natives. In fact, they have no idea that there is such a thing as physiological need for alimentation, or that the body is built up on food. According to them, one eats because one has appetite, because one is hungry or greedy. The act of eating is very pleasant, and it is a suitable expression of a joyful mood. Large accumula- tions of food (pi. 84), their formal distribution (sagali) and, at times, their immediate, though not public, con- sumption form the core of all native festivities and cere- monies. "We shall be glad, we shall eat till we vomit," say the natives, in anticipation of some tribal ceremony or festival. To give food is a, virtuous act. The provider of food, the organizer of many big sagali (distributions) is a great man and a good man. Food is displayed in all forms and on all occasions, and they show great interest in new crops, in a rich yield of garden produce, and in a large catch of fish (see pi. 85).

Yet meals are never taken in public, and eating is alto- gether regarded as a rather dangerous and delicate act. Not only will people never eat in a strange village, but even within the same community the custom of eating in common is limited. After a big distribution, the people

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retire to their own fireplaces with their portion, each group turning its back on the rest. There is no actual con- viviality on a large scale. Even when the big communal cooldng of taro takes place, small groups of related people assemble round the pot which has been allotted to them, and which they have carried away to a secluded spot. There they eat rapidly, no one else witnessing the performance (pi. 86).

In fact, eating is rather a means of social division and discrimination than a way of bringing people together. To begin with, distinctions of rank are marked by food taboos. People of the highest rank are practically con- strained to eat within their own circle, and those of a lower status have to forgo part of their normal diet if they eat in the presence of their superiors, in order not to shock them. Table manners are thus a household affair and are not very polished. Food is eaten with the fingers j and smacking of lips, noisy expressions of enjoyment and belching are not considered incorrect. To be intently con- centrated on one's food and to eat voraciously is, however, thought to be ugly.

Plenty in the matter of food is good and honourable, scarcity is shameful and bad. But opulence in food is a matter of privilege, to be enjoyed in safety only by chiefs and people of higher rank. It is distinctly dangerous for a commoner to be too good a gardener, to have too big, too richly decorated and too well-filled yam houses. The chief distributes food in the form of gifts, he receives it in the form of tribute. He alone should have decorated yam houses j he must surpass everybody in the display

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of food during the milamala (the return of the spirits), at ceremonial distributions and during the harvest.

Psychologically interesting is the magic called vila- fi^alia. It is directed against the elementary impulse to €at and takes away appetite, so that the food remains in the yam houses until it rots. Malta (plenty) and molu (scarcity or hunger) are very important categories in native life.^ Molu is bad and shameful. It is a terrible insult to tell a man he is hungry 3 to say to him: gala kam ("no food thine" — "thou hast no food") or togalagala yoku ("thou art a man of no substance"). The use of scarcity and hunger as means of insult is an illustration of the ways in which shortcomings can be brought home to the natives. A man will endure real hunger rather than expose himself to the sarcastic question: "Is there no food in thy village?"

To sum up : the act of eating is regarded by the natives as an expression of a powerful impulse, of a strong pas- sion. As such it is an important part of the ordinary routine of lifej the evening meal is as indispensable a domestic event as rest after work and conversation with the neighbours. It also occupies an important place in every festival and within the realms of the sacred. Food is a means of emphasizing social distinctions, whether of rank or in tribal grouping, and thus indirectly provides a tond of social union. What happens in the alimentary duct after the food has been swallowed is not a matter of concern to the natives 5 nor does metabolism influence

1 Cf. my article, "The Lunar and Seasonal Calendar in the Frobri- ands," Journal of the Royal Anthropological Institute, 1927.

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cultural life again until the alimentary process is com- plete, when waste matters claim the native's attention and demand customs and cultural arrangements for the dis- guise of excretory processes. For, as we pointed out when describing the care of the body (see ch. x, sec. 4), the natives have a strong sesthetic feeling against uncleanli- ness, whether in their own persons or in their surround- ings. Unpleasant smells and unclean matters disgust them, especially if they are of an excretory nature.

For this reason the greatest hardship of mourning lies, not in the covering of the body with soot or charcoal, but in the taboo on ablutions. Excretion within the house is quoted as a very heavy burden on those confined by mourning or disease and on their relatives who have to perform the necessary services. The duty of receiving the excreta of small children in receptacles, with the lia- bility of becoming soiled and the necessity of carrying the dirty matter into the bush, is often mentioned as one of the hardships which give to parents, and especially to the father, a permanent claim on the gratitude of the child. It is also quoted as a reason why the child should look after the parents later on, and incidentally repay these particular services in kind should they fall ill.

The handling of the corpse and the operations upon it incidental to certain mortuary practices j the ritual swal- lowing of putrid matter which is a duty of some of the survivors, are obligations which involve heroic devotion on the part of the performers.

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from being deposited near the settlement. Villages are always carefully swept, and all refuse placed on the out- skirts in large heaps called wawa. Especially offensive matters, such as decomposing fish, are usually covered with earth.

The sanitary arrangements consist of two reserves in the bush at some distance from the village, the one fre- quented by men and the other by women. These reserves are scrupulously adhered to, and the surroundings of a village in the Trobriands, as well as the roads, would compare favourably with those in most European coun- tries, especially the Latin ones.

Natives will never go to these reserves together, nor will they ever defecate near one another. At sea, a man will enter the water and ease himself below the surface, supported by others in the canoe 5 for defecation both sexes squat 5 for micturition the women squat and men remain standing.

Certain villages, squeezed in between mangrove swamp and lagoon, have little dry land outside the settlement, and find it hard to satisfy the demands of sanitation (pi. 87). In such a village each sex repairs to one side of the beach and tries to choose a spot which will be cov- ered by the tide. But even so they have an evil reputa- tion, and often, in passing through one, I have seen my native companions close their nostrils and spit freely, and have heard their outspoken comments upon its dirt. And yet, in these fishing villages, even the refuse of fish is carefully disposed of, and after preparing fish for eating

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the people always wash their hands carefully and anoint themselves with coco-nut oil.

After excretion the parts are carefully cleansed with soft leaves, called in this context foyewesi (po, root of "excretion" 5 yewesiy leaves). Children are taught to observe strict cleanliness in this respect, and a careless child is not infrequently shamed by its parents or elders: —

Mayna foful gala kuvaysi

Odour of excrement! Not thou wipest

kosiyam mayna kasukwanise!

thy remnant of excrement, odour we (excl.) smell!

Social distinctions influence considerably the way in which natives are allowed to speak about the subject. The ordinary name for excrement (popu)^ or the verb to defecate (popu or fwaya) are never used in the presence of a guya^u (chief, man of high rank). A special polite word, solu or sola (lit.: "descend"), is substituted, or else such euphemisms as to "go down" {busi)j "go and re- turn" {bala haka^ita), A man would never excuse him- self from a chief's presence by saying, "I have to go and defecate" {bala bafofu)^ he would say instead: bala basoluy or bala babusiy "I shall go down"j or bala baka^itay "I shall go and return."

The word "excrement" is also used in the typical form of bad language, "eat thy dirt" {kumkwam fofu or kukome kam fofu). This expression, if used good- humouredly, might be taken as a joke and condoned, but it lies on the border-line between chaflF and insult, and

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must never be said angrily. Above all, it must never be said in the presence of a chief, and to use it to him as an insult is an unpardonable offence.

The following incident, which took place during the last war between To'uluwa, high chief of Omarakana, and his traditional foe, the headman of Kabwaku, is a good illustration of the native attitude towards this insult when directed against a chief. During a lull in the fight- ing, when the two forces were facing each other, a Kabwaku man, Si'ulobubu, climbed a tree and addressed To'uluwa in a loud voice: ^^Kukome kam fofUy To^u^ luwa?^ Here was the insult delivered with every aggra- vating circumstance. It was addressed to a chief, it was said aloud and in public, and the personal name was added, the form in which the insult is deadliest. After the war, when peace was concluded and all other enmities forgotten, Si'ulobubu was openly speared in broad day- light by a few men sent by To'uluwa for that purpose. The victim's family and clansmen did not even raise a protest, still less did they ask for "blood money," or start a lugwa (vendetta). Everybody knew that the man had deserved this punishment and that his death was a just and adequate mapda (payment, retribution) for his crime. It is even an insult to make this remark to a chief's pig in his hearing, though it is permitted so to address his dog.^

The dissociation between sex and excretion, or the excretory processes, is very pronounced in native sentiment

1 Cf. the myth of the pig and the dog below in sec 5, and in Myth in Primitive Psychology, 1926, where its historical importance is discussed.

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and idea. As we know, scrupulous cleanliness is an essential in the ideal of personal attraction. Sodomy is repugnant to natives, and their attitude to it is summed up in the phrase: matauna ikaye fofu ("this man copu- lates excrement"). Fseces have no place in magic, custom, or ritual 5 nor do they even play any part in sorcery.

In my own experience I have always found the natives very clean and never received any unpleasant olfactory impression in my various social contacts with them. Nor, by the consensus of opinion among white residents, is their bodily odour unpleasant to the European.

Intestinal gases are never released in the presence of other people. Such an act is considered very shameful, and would dishonour and mortify anyone guilty of it. Even in a crowd where it can be committed anonymously, such a breach of etiquette never happens in Melanesia, so that a native crowd is considerably more pleasant in this respect than a gathering of European peasants.^ If such a mishap befalls a man by accident, he feels the disgrace deeply and his reputation suffers. Also it will be re- membered how quickly an explosive escape of intestinal gas was visited upon the unfortunate louse in one of the fireside stories told in the last chapter.

Scents are as much appreciated and sought after as bad smells are abhorred and avoided. We have seen what an important part is played in native toilet by the variously and exquisitely scented flowers of the Islands: the long white petals of the pandanus, the hutia and a

1 For some interesting sociology on this subject as among European peasants, cf. Zola's La Terre.

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long list of aromatic herbs, in which the mint {sulufn- woyd) takes the leadj and we have also seen the use made of oil perfumed with sandal wood. Pleasant smells are closely associated with magical influence 5 and as we know already many charms in the magic of kula^ of love, of beauty, and of success are made over mint, over the hutia flower, and over several aromatic herbs used as vana (tuft placed in the armlet). Personal cleanliness is an essen- tial in all these forms of magic, and charming the kaykakaya (washing leaves) is an important part of the ritual.^

Indeed, the sense of smell is the most important factor in the laying of spells on people j magic, in order to achieve its greatest potency, must enter through the nose. Love charms are borne into the victim on the scent of some spellbound aromatic substance. In the second and very dangerous stage of sorcery, the object or compound over which black magic has been done is burned, and the smoke enters through the nostrils into the body against which it is directed and causes disease {silamt). For this reason, houses are never built on piles in the Trobriands, as it would greatly facilitate this stage in the sorcerer's work. Thus the idea of magical infection through the nose exercises a considerable influence on the culture of the natives.

The malignant witches {mulukwausi) are believed to emit a smell reminiscent of excrement. This smell is much feared, especially by people who are sailing, for

1 Cf. chs. viii and xi of this book, and chs. xiii and xvii of Argonauts of the Western Pacific.

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witches are very dangerous on water. In general the smell of ordure and decomposing matter is thought to be noxious tcr human health. The natives believe that a special substance emanates from the corpse of a dead person. This, though invisible to the ordinary eye, can be seen by sorcerers, to whom it appears somewhat like the cloud of smoke {hwaulo) which hangs over a village. This emanation, which is also called hwauloy is especially dangerous to the maternal kinsmen of the deceased, and because of it they must not approach the corpse, nor per- form any of the mortuary duties (see ch. vi, sec. 2).

A few words will suffice to recapitulate here what we already know (see ch. x, sec. 4) about the conventions, manners, and morals of dress. The various functions of attire in enhancing personal beauty, in marking social dis- tinctions, in expressing the character of the occasion on which they are worn do not concern us here, but a word must be added about dress in its relation to modesty. Modesty in the Trobriands requires only that the genitals and a small part of the adjacent areas should be covered, but the native has absolutely the same moral and psy- chological attitude towards any infringement of these demands as we have. It is bad, and shameful, and ludi- crous in a degrading sense not to conceal, carefully and properly, those parts of the human body which should be covered by dress. Moreover there is a certain co- quettish emphasis in the care and elegance with which women manipulate their fibre skirts whenever they fear that dress may fail in its duty, through wind or rapid movement.

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The broad bleached leaf of the pandanus or areca palm which covers the male genitals is always put in place so precisely and securely that no instance of disarrangement has occurred within my knowledge. No person must ever touch it when it is in position. The word for it, yavigUy used with the pronoun of nearest possession as if it were a part of the body, is also an improper word which must not be uttered save in intimacy. It is interesting, how- ever, that when it is necessary for practical reasons for men to take off the pubic leaf, as during the fishing or diving activities, this is done without either false shame or the slightest symptom of improper interest. The natives convey clearly by behaviour and comment that nakedness is not shameful when it is necessary, but becomes so when due to carelessness or lewdness (see ch. iii, sec. i, and sees. 3 and 4 of this chap.). Though the taboos sur- rounding female dress and its name are less stringent, it is just as carefully used as an instrument of modesty.

I have assembled these facts from certain aspects of intimate life, from the physiology of eating and excre- tion and from the treatment of anatomical aspects of the body, to illustrate native manners j and to demonstrate that, in spite of certain things which shock us profoundly, the natives show a delicacy and restraint in others which not only is elaborate and well defined, but is expressive of real moral attitudes: a substantial consideration for the feelings of others and certain sound biological principles. We may be shocked at a savage who tears his meat with his fingers, smacks his lips, grunts and belches in the enjoyment of his foodj while the custom of eating each

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other's lice is to us decidedly unappetizing. But the native is equally disgusted when the European gorges himself on stinking cheese, or consumes undefined abomi- nations from tins j or when he unashamedly eats stingaree, wild pig or any other matters permitted only to people of the lowest rank. He is also shocked at the white man's habit of making himself temporarily imbecile or violent with gin and whisky. If, to an uneducated white man, Melanesian dress may appear inadequate, the strange custom prevalent among white women of reducing instead of adding to their dress for festive occasions is upsetting and indecorous to the native who meets it on his travels to European settlements.

Even now, when a more liberal and instructed policy directs the relations between native and European, it is well to remember these things 5 and to keep in mind that wisdom and good manners alike demand that we respect those feelings in other people which are dictated by their own cultural standards.


THE MORALS OF SEX

Before proceeding to a detailed consideration of the subject of this section, we will assemble and briefly re- state the relevant facts already in our possession, so that they may be presented to the reader in their proper per- spective. For the inter-relation of facts and the pro- portions they assume in native life are as important as, if not more so than, the isolated facts themselves, if we

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are to arrive at right conclusions and have a true picture of Trobriand communal life.

And to see the facts from the native point of view, that is, in their true relation to tribal life, we must again remind ourselves that sex as such is not tabooed. That is to say, the sexual act, provided that it is carried out in private and within certain sociological limits, is not re- garded as reprehensible, even when it is not sanctioned by the bond of marriage. The barriers within which sexual freedom obtains, the methods by which these barriers are upheld and the penalties which fall upon the transgressor, can be classified broadly into two groups: the general taboos, which brand certain forms of sexual activity as objectionable, indecent, or contemptible 5 and the socio- logical restrictions which debar certain individuals and groups from sexual access.

A. GENERAL TABOOS

I. Byways and aberrations of the sexual Imfulse. — Homosexual intercourse, bestiality, exhibitionism, oral and anal eroticism — to use psycho-analytic terminology — are, as we already know, regarded by the natives as inade- quate and contemptible substitutes for the proper exer- cise of the sexual impulse. The natives achieve an almost complete freedom from perversion by means of what might be called psychological rather than social sanctions. Sexual aberrations are ridiculed, they are a subject for invective and comic anecdote, and thus treated, they are not only branded as improper but are effectively made undesirable.

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2. Publicity and lack of decorum in sexual matters, — Public display of the sexual act or of erotic approaches is almost completely absent from tribal life. Lack of care in avoiding publicity, curiosity and any attempt to spy on other people's love-making are regarded as unseemly and contemptible. There are few occasions in tribal life when the sexual act could be carried on in public, nor does the voyeur figure even in their pornographic folk- lore. The only exception from this rule are the erotic competitive festivals {kayasa)^ described in chapter ix, section 5. From the taboo of publicity only the souls of the blessed in Tuma are permanently released, while in the legendary accounts of female assaults on men (in the custom of yausay and on the Island of Kaytalugi), the openness with which copulation takes place is regarded as an additional outrage on the passive victims. Thus sexual intercourse, to be in accordance with tribal sanctions, must be carried on within the strictest limits of privacy and decorum.

3. Sexual excess, — ^The exhibition of sexual greed, or an unabashed forwardness in courting the favour of the other sex, is regarded as bad and despicable in either man or woman, but more especially in woman. This moral attitude should be strictly distinguished from the censure incurred by those people who are too successful in love, and who therefore arouse anger and jealousy.

4. hack of taste. — ^We have learned (ch. x, sec. 2) the forms of ugliness and repulsiveness which are re- garded as deterrent to erotic interest and that the natives will even go so far as to affirm that no one could or

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would have intercourse with a person so afflicted. Behind this mere statement of fact there is a definite censure of a mixed moral and aesthetic character which is based on a real and lively sentiment, even though this fails occa- sionally in practice. It is bad, unbecoming, and worthy of contempt to have anything to do with a human being whose body arouses repugnance. This class of taboo has already been dealt with (in chap, x, sec. 2), and it will not be necessary to return to it.

5. Miscellaneous and minor taboos, — ^There are a number of pursuits which, while in progress, entail absti- nence from sexual intercourse and all contact with women j such, for example, are war, oversea sailing expeditions, gardening and one or two magical rites. Again, in certain physiological crises, above all pregnancy and lactation, a woman must not be approached by a man. The general principle which such taboos express is that sex is incom- patible with certain conditions of the human body and with the nature and purpose of certain occupations j and it must not be allowed to interfere with these.

B. SOCIOLOGICAL TABOOS

6. Exogamy, — Sexual intercourse and marriage are not allowed within the same totemic clan. They are more emphatically forbidden within a sub-division of the clan, common membership in which means real kinship. And the taboo is stricter yet between two people who can trace a common descent genealogically. Yet the natives have only one word, suvasova^ to designate all these degrees of exogamous taboo. Also, in legal and formal fiction,

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the natives would maintain that all exogamous taboos, whether of clan, sub-clan or proven kinship, were equally binding. Thus, while an ethnographer would get one impression through conversation, he would get an entirely different one by observing the behaviour of the natives. In the more detailed examination of the subject which follows, we shall set practice and legal fiction side by side, and show how these work in together.

7. Taboos within the family and household, — ^The father is not a kinsman of his children, and therefore is not included in exogamous prohibitions. Nevertheless, intercourse between father and daughter is definitely and strongly forbidden. There is no doubt that the taboo which separates members of the same household is, in the reality of tribal life though not in legal theory, a distinct force which is superadded to the exogamous taboo. Not only do we find its influence in the separation of father and daughter, but also in the fact that incest with the own mother and with the own sister arouses incomparably greater moral indignation than incest with a cousin j not to speak of incest with a "classificatory" mother or a "classificatory" sister, which is easily condoned.

8. The taboo of adultery. — ^This safeguard to the institution of marriage need only be mentioned here, as it has been fully dealt with in chapter v.

9. The taboos of relationship in law. — Although there is no formal avoidance, sexual intercourse between a man and his mother-in-law is definitely wrong. Neither must a man have erotic relations with the sisters of his wife or with the wife of his brother. Marriage with a

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deceased wife's sister, though not forbidden, is regarded with disfavour.

10. Rules safeguarding the frivileges of the chief. — This type of restriction and those which follow are not of the same stringency as the foregoing taboos. They are rather vague rules of conduct, enforced by a general feeling for what is expedient and by somewhat diffuse social sanctions. It is unsafe to interfere with any woman in whom a man of high rank is interested. The ordinary prohibition of adultery becomes much more stringent when the woman concerned is married to a chief. The chief's wife, giyovilay is the subject of a special reverence and of a general taboo, which, however, is honoured as much in the breach as in the observance. For she is more desirable and generally no less willing to be desired 5 and there is a touch of irony and mock respect in certain sayings and turns of speech in which the word giyovila figures.

11. Barriers of rank. — The distinction between high and low birth, which divides one sub-clan from another, applies to women as well as to men. It is a general prin- ciple that people of high rank {guya^u) shall not mate with commoners {tokay). In marriage, this rule is strictly kept only with regard to the pariah communities of Bwaytalu and Ba'u, which have had perforce to become endogamous, since no man or woman from another village likes to enter into permanent union with any of the in- habitants. The members of the highest sub-clan, the Tabalu of Omarakana (of the Malasi clan), find their

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most fitting consorts among two or three other dala (sub- clans) in the north-western district.

In prenuptial intercourse, also, there would be some show of discrimination. A girl of high rank would be ashamed of owning to an intrigue with a low-class com- moner. But the distinctions in rank are many and their interpretation not too rigid j and the rule is certainly not followed strictly where intrigues are concerned. Girls of high-rank villages, such as Omarakana, Liluta, Osapola, or Kwaybwaga, do not visit the "impure" villages, Ba'u and Bwoytalu, on katuyausi expeditions.

12. Restrictions as to number in intrigues. — As we have already said, too open and too insistent an interest in sex, especially when exhibited by a woman, and too obvious and too general a success in love are both cen- sured j but the kind of censure is entirely different in the two cases. In the latter, it is the male who incurs the disapproval of his less fortunate rivals. The great dancer, the famous love magician or charmer of his own beauty, is exposed to intense distrust and hatred, and to the dangers of sorcery. His conduct is considered "bad," not as "shameful," but rather as enviable and, at the same time, injurious to the interests of others.

This concludes the list of restrictions placed upon free- dom in sexual intercourse. It is clear that moral indigna- tion varies in kind and degree with the categories trans- gressed — ^whether these be perversion or incest, breach of exogamy or the infringement of matrimonial and other prerogatives. The last four categories — adultery, tres-

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pass on the chief's preserves, intercourse with social in- feriors, and numerical excess of intrigues — embrace of- fences which arouse neither contempt nor moral indigna- tion j they are enforced according to the power of the aggrieved party, backed by the passive support of com- munal opinion. An adulterer caught in -flagrante may be killed, and this will be recognized as legal retribution, and not be followed up by a vendetta, especially if the adultery be with a chief's wife (see ch. v, sec. 2). The pre-eminently successful man— especially if of low rank and distinguished only by personal qualities — ^would be exposed to the danger of sorcery rather than to that of direct violence. And sorcery also would be used against a man suspected of adultery but not caught in the act. An interesting ethnological document, which throws some light on the retributive use of sorcery, is provided by the specific signs found on a corpse at exhumation indi- cating the habit, the quality, or the misdeeds for which the man was killed by sorcery. The natives — in common with most primitive races — do not understand "death from natural causes." When not the result of an obvious physical lesion, death is caused by black magic, practised by a sorcerer on his own account, or on behalf of some notable who pays him to bring about his enemy's death. On the body of the victim, when it is ritually taken out of the grave, are found signs {kala wabu) which show why he was killed and thus indicate on whose behalf it was done. Such signs may point to sexual jealousy, per- sonal antagonism, political or economic envy as the motive 5 and of frequent occurrence is the sign indicating

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that the victim's too pronounced erotic propensities were his undoing.

Thus marks are sometimes found on a corpse which resemble the erotic scratches {kimali) so characteristic of native love-making. Or the body when exhumed is found doubled up with the legs apart, an attitude taken during copulation by man as well as by woman. Or the mouth is pursed, as if to produce the loud smacking of the lips by which one sex invites the other into the darkness beyond the light of village fires. Or again the body swarms with lice, and, as we know, lousing each other and eating the catch is a tender occupation of lovers. All these signs indicate that the man was done to death by sorcery because he was too much addicted to sexual pleasures, or could boast of too many conquests and such as gave special offence to some powerful rival. There are also a number of standardized patterns which may be found on a corpse suggestive of dancing decoration. These indicate that jealousy of his personal appearance, of his renown as a dancer and as a seducer by the dance was the cause of his death.^

Such signs have to be noted by the deceased's own relatives, they are discussed freely — ^generally, however, without any mention of the suspected sorcerer's name or of his employer's — and no special shame attaches to them. This is noteworthy in connection with the native's attitude to the last few taboos, that is those which safeguard the rights of the husband, of the lover, and of the com-

1 Compare the writer's Crime and Custom, pp. 87-94, for a full list of sorcery signs and their significance in tribal law.

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munity. Success in love, personal beauty, and surpassing accomplishments are reprehensible because they appeal especially to women and always encroach upon the rights of someone who, if he can, will avenge the wrong by means of sorcery. But, unlike other sexual offences, adultery and success with women are not felt to be shame- ful or morally wrong. On the contrary, they are envi- able, and surround the sinner with a halo of almost tragic glory.^

Perhaps the most important linguistic distinction which throws light upon the native psychology as regards taboos is furnished by the use of the word bomala (taboo). This noun takes the pronominal suffixes of nearest possession — homa-gu (my taboo), homa-m (thy taboo), homa-la (his taboo) — which signifies that a man's taboo, the things which he must not eat or touch or do, is linguistically classed with those objects most intimately bound up with his person: parts of his body, his kindred, and such per- sonal qualities as his mind {nanola)^ his will {magild)^ and his inside (lofoula). Thus bomala, those things from which a man must keep away, is an integral part of his personality, something which enters into his moral make-up.

Not all the restrictions and prohibitions on our list can be called by this name. And when it is correctly used,

1 It was necessary to classify taboos in some way, in order to present the material in a form in which it could be easily surveyed. Obviously my fundamentum di'visionis — the type of action forbidden — is not the only possible basis for such a classification. The taboos could, for instance, be regrouped according to sanction, intensity of moral feeling, or the vary- ing degree of general interest taken in the prohibition. These differen- tiating qualities, already indicated, will emerge even more clearly in the course of the descriptions which follow.

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its meaning is subject to many subtle variations, indicated by tone and context, according to its application. In its full and correct meaning, the word bomala applies to all the acts which are specifically called by the natives suvasova — that is, to incest within the family and breach of exogamy. In this context, the word bomala denotes an act which must not be committed because it is contrary to the traditional constitution of clan and family 5 and to all the inviolable laws which have been laid down in old times {tokunabogwo ayguriy "of old it was or- dained"). Besides this general sanction, which is felt to be rooted in the primeval nature of things, the breach of the suvasova taboo entails a supernatural penalty: an ill- ness which covers the skin with sores and produces pains and discomfort throughout the body. (This supernatural penalty can, however, be evaded by the performance of a specific magic which removes the bad effects of en- dogamous intercourse.) In the case of incest between brother and sister, a very strong emotional tone enters into the attitude of the natives, that is, into the significance of the word bomala^ endowing it with an unmistakable phonetic colouring of horror and moral repugnance. Thus even in their narrowest and most exclusive sense, the words bomala and suvasova have various shades of meaning and imply a complex system of traditional law and of social mechanism.^

The word bomala is also used in its legitimate sense of "taboo" for the several minor prohibitions, such as are

^ Compare the detailed account of the various contraventions and eva- sions of traditional law given in Crime and Custom*

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inherent in a man's office, situation or activity, and in this application it still carries something of the idea of a peremptory traditional rule, maintained by supernatural sanctions. But though the only correct description for such taboos is the word homalay it implies in this context a different emotional attitude, milder sanctions and a different type of rule.

In a less rigid sense homala is used to denote the taboos of adultery, the inexpediency of meddling with what is sexually claimed by a chief, and the undesirability of mating outside one's own rank. In these contexts, how- ever, the word covers only the idea and feeling of a definite rule. It entails neither supernatural sanctions nor the emotion of pronounced moral disapproval, nor even the feeling of a strong obligation. This application of the word is, in fact, not quite correct: the word huhunelay "custom, the things which are done," used with a negative, would be more accurate here.

Bomala could not be correctly used of actions felt to be shameful and unnatural, actions of which no sane and self-respecting person would be guilty. Neither does it apply to "lack of dignity and decorum," nor to actions of hazardous enjoyment, nor to pre-eminent sexual suc- cess.

Thus, by the rules of usage, this word yields a native classification of taboos into three groups: the genuine taboos with supernatural sanction, the clear prohibitions without supernatural sanction, and prohibitions of acts which must not be done because they are shameful, dis- gusting, or else dangerous.

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The widest linguistic instrument serving to express the distinction between lawful and forbidden, and applicable to all the restrictions of our twelve classes, is given by the pair of words bwoyna and gaga (good and bad). Such general terms are naturally of loose application, cover a wide range of meanings, and gain some precision only from the context in which they are used. Thus, acts as repugnant and unspeakable as brother-sister incest, and as desirably dangerous as adultery with a chief's wife, would be called gaga indiscriminately. Gaga means, in one context, "morally unpardonable and only to be atoned by suicide" j in another, "against the law, against cus- tom" 5 in others, "indecorous," "unpleasant," "ugly," "disgusting," ^^shameful," "dangerous," "dangerously daring," "dangerous and thus admirable."

Analogously, the word bwoyna means everything from "palatable," "pleasant," "seductive," "attractive because naughty" to "morally commendable because of the in- herent hardships." An action which is strongly flavoured with the tempting taste of forbidden fruit might, there- fore, be plausibly labelled either bwoyna or gagay accord- ing to the mood, context, situation, and emotional twist of the sentence. So that these words — taken as isolated fragments of vocabulary — afford only a vague index to the moral statements, and do not give us even as much help in defining native views and values as the word bofnala.

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edge of the native language, which alone enables him to control the meaning of his terms through their ex- tensive usage in various contexts. To note down isolated terms with their translations into pidgin, and to parade such crude translations as "native categories of thought" is directly misleading. There has been no greater source of error in Anthropology than the use of misunderstood and misinterpreted fragments of a native vocabulary by observers not thoroughly conversant with native tongues and ignorant of the sociological nature of language. The misleading effects of this are most harmful in the faulty collection, in the field, of so-called systems of classi- ficatory kinship terms, and in the reckless speculative use of such fragmentary linguistic material.^

To one who uses native speech freely, a clear indica- tion of the shades of meaning implicit in the words bwoyna and gaga is given by their phonetic feeling-tone in actual utterance. This, together with the emotional inflexion of the whole sentence, the facial expression, the accompanying gestures and significant behaviour, gives a number of clearly marked distinctions in meaning. Thus, to repeat, gaga can express genuine moral indignation amounting to real horror, or serious considerations of a purely utilitarian nature, or, spoken with a smirk, a pleasant veniality. Such observations, however, though of the greatest value to the ethnographer for his own guidance, could be made into an unambiguous record only by means of a phonograph and cinematograph, which,

1 This thesis will be developed in my forthcoming work on Psychology of Kinship, announced in the International Library of Psychology (Kegan Paul).


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again, by the nature of the subject, it would be difficult if not impossible to use.

Fortunately, once put on his guard and instructed by direct observation of expressive tone and gesture, the ethnographer can substantiate his results from other material more easily framed into convincing documents. There exist a number of circumlocutions and more ex- plicit phrases, which the natives volunteer in elaborating the meaning of bwoyna and gaga. Such elaborations recur independently in the statements of different men from different villages and districts. They constitute a body of linguistic evidence coinciding with emotional distinctions, and expressing these in a more communicable manner.

When speaking of the most serious offences — ^the brother-sister incest, forbidden fornication within the household, or open indecency between husband and wife ' — the natives say the word gaga very seriously, at times with real horror in their inflexion. Then an informant would be more explicit: bayse sene gaga ("this is very bad"); or gaga^ g^g^y a repetition which intensifies the sense of the word; or gaga mokita ("truly bad"), and add: sene mwa^u bayse, gala tavagi ("this is very heavy, we do not do it"). Or, again, when pressed to say what a man would feel or do if he committed such a crime, the native would usually answer: gala! — gala tavagi — taytala ta^u ivagi — nanola bigaga, binagowa, imamata, ilo^u: "No, we don't do it. If a man did it, his mind having turned wrong and silly, he would wake up (i.e. become sober and realize his crime) and commit suicide." Or he might say more negatively: gala tavagi — tanum^

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way lava, or gala tavagi — tafnwasawa^ higagahile: "We don't do it and then forget," or "We don't do it and then play round and remain light-hearted." Sometimes an ordinary informant might refuse to discuss such matters at all: bayse gaga^ gala talivala^ biga gaga: "This is bad, we don't speak about it, it is bad talk." All these stock phrases spoken seriously, or with disgust and anger, ex- press the strongest disapproval. Experience and tact teach the observer that such subjects must never be ap- proached with direct reference to the informant, to his sister or to his wife. Even the friendliest native, if acci- dentally hurt by a tactless remark of this kind, immedi- ately departs and remains away for days. All such sen- tences and types of behaviour define the first meaning of the word gaga.

Gaga in some contexts can, therefore, mean repugnant, horrible, unspeakable 5 in others it refers to the naturally unpalatable and to contemptible actions which shock the natives' normal sexual impulse. Here the feeling-tone ranges from simple disgust to half -amused malice. The circumlocutions run as follows: gala tavagi; iminayna nanogu; balagoba: "We don't do itj my mind turns sick (if I did it)j I would vomit." Tonagowa bayse si vavagi: "These are the acts of a mentally deficient per- son." Gala tavagi y kada mwasila: "We don't do it, be- cause we are ashamed." Senegaga — makawala mayna fofu: "Very bad — smells like excrement." Makawala ka^ukwa — tomwota gala: "In the fashion of a dog — ^not of a man." That is, actions worthy of a dirty animal and not of a human being.

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They can give definite reasons why sexual aberrations are bad: in sodomy, the disgusting nature of excrement 5 in exhibitionism, a contemptible lack of shame and dig- nity j in oral perversions, the unpleasant taste and smell. All these sayings express the second meaning of the word gagay "unnatural, disgusting, not worthy of a sound human being." So used, it implies an sesthetic attitude as well as a. moral one, and there is less feeling that a traditional commandment has been broken than that a natural law has been flouted.

Another class of sayings defines the word gaga as meaning "dangerous." Gaga — Iglhuru^a matauna: tako- kola bwaga^Uy kidama igisayda, sene mma^u — boge bika- tumate: "Bad — because that man (the aggrieved man) is angry 5 we are afraid of the sorcerer, if they see us (doing it), the punishment would be heavy — already we would be killed." Or again, gala tavagiy fela guya^Uy or fela la mwala: "We don't do it because of the chief," or "because of the husband." Here bad means "dangerous, exposing to revenge, that which provokes the anger of the injured."

Finally, speaking of minor taboos we would be told: Gaga fela bomala bagula: "Bad because of the taboo of the garden." Gaga fela kabilia: tavagi — boge iyousi kayala: "Bad, because of war: if we do it — already the spear hits us." Here the word gaga qualifies a number of actions as undesirable and to be avoided, because of their specific consequences.

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roughly corresponds to that derived from the word bofnala.

We will now give such details concerning the taboos on our list as have not been mentioned in this and the foregoing chapters, taking them in the following order: in the next two sections, the first group of our classifi- cation, general sexual prohibitions j in sections five and six, sociological restrictions on sexual freedom.


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The widest class of sexual activity excluded from native life is that comprising aberrations of the sexual impulse (No. I of the list in sec. 2). The natives regard such practices as bestiality, homosexual love and intercourse, fetishism, exhibitionism, and masturbation as but poor substitutes for the natural act, and therefore as bad and only worthy of fools. Such practices are a subject for derision, tolerant or scathing according to mood, for ribald jokes and for funny stories. Transgressions are rather whipped by public contempt than controlled by definite legal sanctions. No penalties are attached to them, nor are they believed to have any ill results on health. Nor would a native ever use the word taboo {bomala) when speaking of them, for it would be an insult thus to assume that any sane person would like to commit them. To ask a man seriously whether he had indulged in such practices would deeply wound his vanity and self-regard, as well as shock his natural inclination.

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Vanity would be especially wounded, by the implication that he must be unable to procure the full natural enjoy- ment of his impulse if he has to resort to such substitutes. The Trobriander's contempt for any perversion is similar to his contempt for the man who eats inferior or impure things in place of good, clean food, or for one who suflFers hunger because there is nothing in his yamhouse.

The following are typical remarks on the subject of perversions: "No man or woman in our village does it.'^ "No one likes to penetrate excrement." "No one likes a dog better than a woman." "Only a tonagowa (idiot) could do it." "Only a tonagowa masturbates. It is a great shame j we know then that no woman wants to copu- late with him J a man who does it, we know, cannot get hold of a woman." In all native statements the unsatis- factory nature of a substitute or makeshift is emphasized, and the implication is of poverty as well as of mental and sexual deficiency. The natives would also quote in- stances such as that of Orato'u, the village clown of Omarakana, deformed and defective in speech j the sev- eral albinos and a few specially ugly women j and say that such people, but not an ordinary man or woman, might practise one perversion or another.

Of course, we know that such statements of a general and absolute rule express a figment, an ideal, which, in reality, is only imperfectly satisfied. Most of these aber- rations are practised, though to a very limited extent, just as the deficient and ugly are not entirely excluded from the normal exercise of their sexual functions (see also ch. X, sec. 2).

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Let us now consider different types of perversion.

Homosexuality. — ^This orientation of the sexual im- pulse, if it exists at all among the Trobrianders, can be found only in its more spiritual manifestation, that is, in emotional and Platonic friendships. It is allowed by custom, and is, indeed, usual, for boy friends to embrace one another, to sleep together on the same couch, to walk enlaced or arm-in-arm. In the personal friendships which to the natives naturally express themselves by such bodily contacts, strong preferences are displayed. Boys are often seen in couples: Monakewo and Toviyamata, Mekala'i and Tobutusawa, Dipapa and Burayama, most of whom are now familiar to my readers, were constantly to be seen together. Sometimes such a friendship is just a passing whim, but it may survive and mature into a permanent relationship of mutual affection and assistance, as did that between Bagido'u and Yobukwa'u, and, I was told, between Mitakata and Namwana Guya'u before these two became implacable enemies. The word lubaygUy "my friend," is used for such close alliances between man and man, and it is remarkable that this word also designates the love relation between man and woman. But it would be as erroneous to consider this identity in language as implying an identity in emotional content as it would be to assume that every time a Frenchman uses the word amiy a homosexual relation is implied, simply because of its connotation when used by one sex of an- other. In France, as in the Trobriands, context and situ- ation distinguish the two uses of the word ami iluhaygu) and makes them into two semantically different words.


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Difficult as it is exactly to draw the line between pure ^'friendship" and "homosexual relation" in any society — both because of laxity in definition and because of the diffi- culty of ascertaining the facts — it becomes almost impos- sible in a community such as the Trobriands. Personally, I find it misleading to use the term "homosexuality" in the vague and almost intentionally all-embracing sense that is now fashionable under the influence of psycho-analysis and the apostles of ^^Urning*^ love. If inversion be de- fined as a relationship in which detumescence is regularly achieved by contact with a body of the same sex, then the male friendships in the Trobriands are not homosexual, nor is inversion extensively practised in the islands. For, as we know, the practice is really felt to be bad and unclean because it is associated with excreta, for which the natives feel a genuine disgust. And while the ordi- nary caresses of affection are approved as between mem- bers of the same sex, any erotic caresses, scratching, nib- bling at eyelashes, or labial contact would be regarded as revolting.

As we have said, there is always some discrepancy be- tween theory and practice 5 but in estimating the impor- tance of exceptions, we must allow for unnatural condi- tions of life and the influence of other civilizations. Many natives are, under the present rule of whites, cooped up in gaol, on mission stations, and in plantation barracks. Sexes are separated and normal intercourse made impossible 5 yet an impulse trained to function regu- larly cannot be thwarted. The white man's influence and his morality, stupidly misapplied where there is no

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place for it, creates a setting favourable to homosexuality. The natives are perfectly well aware that venereal disease and homosexuality are among the benefits bestowed on them by Western culture.

Although it is impossible for me to quote any well- authenticated instance of this perversion from the old times, I have no doubt that sporadic cases have always occurred. Indeed, the existence of such expressions as ikaye fofu: "he copulates excrement," ikaye fwala: "he penetrates rectum," and the well-defined moral attitude towards it, are sufficient evidence of this. Some inform- ants would go so far as to admit that homosexuality had been practised formerly, but they would always insist that it was only by mentally deficient people. On the whole, therefore, it is clear that this prohibition is not imposed upon an unwilling moral acceptance, but is well en- trenched in the feeling and natural impulse of the natives. How far this attitude is correlated with the wide and varied opportunities for normal intercourse j how far it is true that homosexuality is more efficiently eradicated by derision than by heavy penalties, are questions which can only be submitted as a subject for further observations in the field.^

Bestiality. — This is derided as an unclean and unsatis- factory makeshift, even more incongruous and comical than inversion. It is remarkable that among a totemic people — who claim affinity with animals, and treat the pig as a member of the household — animal sodomy should

^ Cf. the writer's Sex and Repression in Savage Societies, 1927, where the problem has been discussed at length in part ii.

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still be regarded as a dirty and unnatural practice. The natives see no continuity or relation between totemic mar- riage and intercourse, on the one hand, as these took place in mythological times, and, on the other, what might be called totemic fornication at the present day.

A well-documented case of bestiality is on record, how- ever, concerning a man who copulated with a dog. It is noteworthy that the case is famous throughout the dis- trict, that the name of the man, all the circumstances, and even the name of the dog "Jack" are household words in every village. It is also interesting that, while it is always described or alluded to with considerable amusement, there are clear indications that the matter would not be in the least amusing if it concerned oneself or a kinsman or friend. "If I did it, or any one of my maternal kins- men or friends, I would commit suicide." Yet the culprit, Moniyala, has lived down his shame. He leads a happy existence in Sinaketa, where I had the pleasure of meeting him, and having a long conversation with him. The sub- ject of his past lapse, however, must never be mentioned in his presence, for, the natives say, if he heard anyone speaking about it he would commit lo^u (suicide by jump- ing from a tree).

The circumstances of this case were as follows: Moni- yala was serving with a trader who owned a male dog called Jack. The two became friendly and, one day, a girl saw Moniyala sodomizing the dog on the beach. A scandal broke out, the native missionary preacher brought the matter before the white resident magistrate who placed Moniyala in gaol for six months. After his

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release Moniyala signed on for plantation work abroad and stayed on the mainland of New Guinea for several' years. When he came back he was able to brazen it out; but everybody seems to think that, in old days, he would have committed suicide. The natives agree that a dog is worse than a pig, the former being the uncleaner animal.

Sadism and masochism. — Whether these complemen- tary perversions play a large part in the sexual life of the natives I am unable to say. The cruel forms of caress — scratching, biting, spitting — to which a man has to submit to a greater extent even than the woman, show that, as elements in eroticism, they are not absent from native love- making. On the other hand, flagellation as an erotic practice is entirely unknown; and the idea that cruelty, actively given or passively accepted, could lead, of itself alone, to pleasant detumescence is incomprehensible, nay ludicrous, to the natives. I should say, therefore, that these perversions do not exist in a crystallized form.

Fellatio. — ^This is probably practised in the intimacy of love-making (see above, ch. x, sec. 12). Receiving my information exclusively from men, I was told that no male would touch the female genitals in this manner, but, at the same time, I was assured thzt fenilinctus was ex- tensively practised. I do not feel convinced, however, of the truth of this masculine version. The expression, ikanumwasi kalu momonay "lapping up the sexual dis- charges," designates both forms of fellatio.

Masturbation {ikivayni kwila: "he manipulates penis," isulumomoni: "he makes semen boil over") is a recog- nized practice often referred to in jokes. The natives

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maintain, however, that it would be done only by an idiot {tonagowa) or one of the unfortunate albinos, or one defective in speech 5 in other words, only by those who cannot obtain favours from women. The practice is therefore regarded as undignified and unworthy of a man, but in a rather amused and entirely indulgent manner. Exactly the same attitude is adopted towards female masturbation (ikivayni wila: "she manipulates cunnus"j il?asi wila o yamala: "she pierces vagina with her hand").

Nocturnal follutions and dreams have already been mentioned (see ch. xii, sec. i). They are regarded, as we know, as the result of magic and a proof of its effec- tiveness.

Exhibitionism is regarded by the natives with genuine contempt and disgust: this has already been made clear in the above description of the manner of dressing and the careful adjustment of the male pubic leaf and femi- nine grass skirt.

In the treatment of these deviations of the sexual im- pulse, it is impossible to draw a rigid line between the use of certain practices — such as fellatio, passionate and exuberant caresses, interest in the genitals — when they are used as preliminary and preparatory sexual approaches on the one hand, and as definite perversions on the other. The best criterion is whether they function as a part of courting, leading up to normal copulation, or whether they are sufficient by themselves for the production of detumescence. It is well to remember in this context that the nervous excitability of the natives is much less than ours, and their sexual imagination is relatively very

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sluggish j that excitation and tumescence are usually achieved only by the direct visual, olfactory, or tactual stimulus of the sexual organs 3 and that orgasm, in man or woman, requires more bodily contact, erotic preliminaries, and, above all, direct friction of the mucous membranes for its production. It is, therefore, plausible to assume that preparatory erotic approaches with the natives would have less tendency to pass into autonomous acts, that is to develop into perversions, than is the case among ner- vously more excitable races.


MODESTY IN SPEECH AND BEHAVIOUR

On the subject of general decorum (No. 2 of the list in sec. 2) in sexual matters, there is little to add to the information given in previous chapters j and a brief sum- mary will suffice to bring the facts to mind. Decency in speech and behaviour varies according to the relation in which the members of any company stand to each other. The presence of a sister and brother imposes a rigid pro- priety in social tone and conversation j and, to a lesser extent, so does that of maternal cousins and members of the same clan. Again, when a woman is accompanied by her husband, a strict etiquette must be observed. The wife's sister is also an embarrassing companion 5 and in a lesser degree so is the wife's mother or any of her near maternal relatives. In the presence of a chief, commoners may not joke or use obscene expressions. The degree of verbal freedom permitted is determined by the degree

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of intimacy and length of acquaintance. Many a time have I seen my most ribald friends sit demure, polite, and dignified, discussing such subjects as weather, health, the amenities of travel, the welfare of mutual friends and other universal subjects of small talk, because of the presence of strangers from overseas or from some distant inland district. When these had gone away the conver- sation was apt to assume a specially hilarious tone to com- pensate for this polite reticence.

But though licence in speech is allowed and enjoyed in the right company, great restraint is always observed in public as regards action. In vain would one look in the Trobriands for traces and survivals of the untrammelled licence and lust alleged to have existed in primeval times. With the one possible exception of the Southern kayasa (ch. ix, sec. 5) there are no public orgies in which men and women would copulate in the sight of all present, orgies which have been reported from other parts of Melanesia. The myths and legendary customs which we have described are, of course, irrelevant, and even these are not really concerned with public orgies for the sat- isfaction of lust. To the natives sexual publicity is definitely objectionable. They will say that they are "ashamed to do or even to speak about such things," that "such things are like those of a dog." In the bachelors' house (see ch. iii, sec. 4) considerable attention is devoted to the maintenance of an exclusive privacy. All this is in harmony with the natives' strict attention to modesty in dress.

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of frequent occurrence in any public park in Europe, after dark or even before, would never be seen in a Trobriand village. Holding hands, leaning against each other, em- bracing — ^gestures which, as we know, are not considered objectionable as between boys and are frequently seen between girls — are not permitted to lovers in public. I observed once or twice that Yobukwa'u and his betrothed used to lie together on a mat in broad daylight, deco- rously, but unmistakably leaning against each other and holding hands, in a manner which we would find perfectly natural in a pair of lovers soon to be married. But when I mentioned this in discussing the whole subject with some natives, I was told at once that it was a new fashion and not correct according to old custom. Tokolibeba, once a famous Don Juan, now a peppery old conservative and stickler for proprieties, insisted that this was mmnan si bubunela, "missionary fashion," one of those novel im- moralities introduced by Christianity. He spoke with as much feeling and righteous indignation as the late Rev. G. M. Hyde of Honolulu might have used against heathen pruriency.

We can now understand * better the value of erotic games to the native. The bodily contacts afforded by them are appreciated just because, under ordinary cir- cumstances, they cannot be indulged. All preliminary erotic approaches must be carried out under cover of dark- ness. And since much of the love magic, with which they are so often fortified, requires close bodily contact (see chs. X and xi) the games are there to provide it. Nipples are touched with a magic-covered palm, a charmed finger

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is inserted into the vagina, or an enchanted perfume held below the nostrils, discreetly in the dark, as the game gives opportunity. It is always suspected but never seen 5 even when quarrels and litigations arise because some such attempt to wile away affection is alleged, it is difficult to find a witness of the act.

This by-way of native practice gives incidentally a good illustration of the dangers which beset the eth- nologist. In the early days of my field-work, my cook, Ubi'ubi, whom I had imported from the South Coast of New Guinea, was accused of digital insertion by the local natives. At this time I did most of my work in pidgin English, and I find in my notes that my interpreter in- formed me that his action had a special native name: "Boy he call him kaynobasi wila,^ that is to say: "The custom is named by the native the piercing through the vulva." I could not understand why among these easy- going people this action should arouse such strong moral feeling, and I made an entry in my notes: "The custom of inserting a finger into the vagina is morally very rep- rehensible to the natives." Thus, ignorance of the lan- guage and a superficial acquaintance with the natives led

me completely astray. To put the whole incident in its

proper perspective, it was necessary to understand the native attitude towards decorum in general and, in par- ticular, their beliefs about erotic enchantment by magic. It was not so much that my cook-boy allowed himself a somewhat unseemly gesture, but rather that he was sus- pected of exercising a powerful form of magic to alienate the girl's affections from her usual lover.

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Thus behaviour between the sexes conforms to a defi- nite standard of decorum, which, needless to say, is not the same as morality. Speech, on the other hand, is given a much more generous margin of freedom. Relative latitudes in speech and behaviour would make an interest- ing investigation for comparative ethnology, for they do* not seem to develop along parallel lines. Indeed, greater freedom of speech, acting as a safety valve, may be asso- ciated with greater restraint in behaviour, and vice versa.^

In an appropriate social setting, sex is quite a favourite topic of conversation. Ribald jokes, indecent gossip and anecdotes are a recognized form of entertainment, as we saw in connection with sexual folk-lore. In this, as ia everything else, I found considerable individual differ- ences. Some natives were sober in speech and not much- interested in sexual ribaldry ^ others specialized, so tO' speak, in obscene speech and doubtful jokes. The sense of humour, also, varied greatly from man to man, from the morose and unsmiling churl or the naive good- natured simpleton, to the man with real wit and humour^ always ready for a joke, able to tell a good story, and sel- dom taking offence unless it was meant. With Paluwa and his son Monakewo, with Tokulubakiki and Kayla'i, I could indulge in a considerable amount of mutual "rag- ging" j they would never misunderstand an allusion or a joke, and often they made me laugh with an apt obser- vation, turned against myself and not always devoid of malice. Again there are the chartered village clowns, some of whom like Orato'u, the idiot of Omarakana,

1 Cf. Sex and Repression, part ii.

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turn their speech impediment to advantage, while others, whose humour is of the crude and impudent kind, play- practical jokes, shout out their witticisms, take liberties even with men of high rank, or imitate, sometimes quite cleverly, peculiarities of well-known persons.

But in all grades of humour, sexual jokes and allusions play an important part. When no people of the forbid- den degrees are present, sexual matters are discussed without circumlocution j anatomical and physiological ex- pressions, phrases denoting perversions and peculiarities are freely used.

I shall quote only a few typical sayings to indicate how this type of remark enters into daily conversation. In the excitement of games or of communal work, the native will express intense general enjoyment by exclaiming: agudeydeSy akay kwim! "hullo, fornicate thy penis!" or, if addressing a female, wim, kasesam! "thy cunnus, thy clitoris!" A humorous expression is: yakay, fuwagu! "oo, my testicles!" Exclamatory phrases referring to private parts with embellishments are often jocularly ex- changed between friends, much as we might say: "damn your eyes!"

We have already met several such typical jesting allu- sions in the fairy tales, especially in the song of the reef heron to the old woman, Ilakavetega (see ch. xii, sec. 3). The interest taken in malformations of the private parts is to be found also in the story about the man with the long penis, the woman who stows away food in her vagina, and the old mother endowed with five clitorises. In actual life a native will say jocularly: kwaypwase wim,

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"decomposed thy cunnus"^ or wim ipwase, "thy cunnus is decomposed" 3 or kwaybulabola wifyiy "enormously en- larged is thy cunnus" j or, for a change, kwayfatu wifyiy "contracted is thy cunnus." And to a man: kaykukufi kwiniy "very small is thy penis" 5 kaygatu kwiniy "dirty is thy penis" j kalu nau^u kwimy "covered with stale dis- charge is thy penis" j kayfakt kwimy "sore-covered is thy penis." Apart from jokes, the natives take a great in- terest in supposed malformations or advantageous incre- ments and developments of the sexual organs. Thus, to a man of high rank and of great reputation will be at- tributed an extraordinarily long and stout organ. The late paramount chief, Numakala, was credited with a penis which u^ed to grow in length during copulation and be- come swollen and round like a ball at the end. This was counted to his credit and treated seriously as an enviable erotic asset.

Incongruity in sexual matters is a frequent subject for jokes. Thus possible or imputed copulation with women famed for their repulsiveness, such as Tilapo'i or Kura- yana, is, as we know, a frequent form of jocular address. Kwoy TilafoH! "copulate with Tilapo'i!" is a very mild form of abuse J or a friend coming from the direction of her village might be hailed, Boge kukaye TilafoH? "Hast thou already copulated with Tilapo'i?" The slightest inaccuracy or imagined inaccuracy in the set of the pubic leaf is immediately seized upon: Yavim boge ifwase — taglse fuwatriy "thy pubic leaf is out of order — let us see thy testicles." Similar jokes are made about insufficiently shaven pubic hair and about alleged fornication with some

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old woman or a chief's wife. Taunts implying intensity or illicitness of copulation are frequent: tokakayta yokuy tokaylasi yokuy tosuvasova yokuy "Thou fornicator, thou .adulterer, thou incest-committer.'^

All these remarks, however, are primarily used in friendly banter from which serious and offensive forms •of abuse must be distinguished. Swearing is used in the Trobriands, as with us, as a substitute reaction to minor annoyances, and is so used against things or people with- out giving serious offence. The strongest forms of abu- sive language would not, however, be used on such trivial occasions. Swearing in anger may lead to serious conse- quences when the temper of those concerned is not under control. It may lead to a more or less prolonged breach of personal relations, to a fight, or even to a communal feud. Or, again, abuse can be used deliberately to shame or to startle people by putting their misdeeds before them in strong language. This is done when a grievance is real and serious enough to be brought up against the of- fender to check him, but not so grave and shameful as to entail such tragic consequences as a broken relationship or suicide. Thus a wife might shame a husband suspected of misconduct by using against him in public the various circumlocutions and direct expressions for adultery. She would do so only in a narrow circle of friends, breaking, for this moral purpose, the usual restraint which a woman has to observe with regard to her husband. Or, again, a matrilineal uncle might use this method to reprimand his nephew for minor cases of exogamous breach 5 or a father might reprove his daughter for too indiscriminate or too

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aggressive fornication. Such reprimands would not be administered in the presence of many people, but, in their appropriate setting of friends or relatives, they play an important part in the regulation of tribal life. Kakayuwa^ "to shame," "to startle," "to shake up," and yakala, "to have it out with someone," are the words used to describe such proceedings.^

In such admonitory accusations certain abusive terms are used, such as adulterer {tokaylasi)^ breaker of incest {tosuvasova) \ or, to a woman, wanton {nakakayta) or drab {nakaytahwd). The same terms can be used, not in well-meant and deliberate reprimand, but as abuse meant to hurt and to hurt only; and if, thus used, they happen really to apply, the insult is doubly serious. For the truth, in the Trobriands as elsewhere, is the crudest and most fatal instrument of malice.

Bad language is also used in certain expressions of spe- cific abuse meant only to offend and not, as a rule, bearing any relation to fact, as they often refer to acts almost im- practicable. Most such expressions begin with the char- acteristic imperative so widespread throughout swearing humanity: in this case, "Copulate with . . . ," followed by various unsuitable persons as putative objects for erotic approach — sometimes a repulsive person, sometimes a dog, sometimes an unattractive part of the body. This is the most innocuous form of this kind of abuse, and is only offensive if offence is intended. It becomes really

1 Compare Crime and Custom, ch. xii, for further data referring to yakala and the part played by verbal accusation in the regulation of tribal life, and Sex and Repression, part ii, ch. iv, on the subject of bad language.

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serious when a sociologically forbidden person is inserted as object. The two incestuous imperatives kwoy inamy "copulate with thy mother," and kwoy lumuta^ "copulate with thy sister," with kwoy um kwava^ "copulate with thy wife," form the fundamental trio of this category. The first invitation can be merely a joke and is often used in good-natured abuse or at times sharply and with annoy- ance, but never implies serious offence. It is also a common impersonal expletive, such as our "bloody" or "damn."

Used with reference to the sister, it is an unpardonable offence when addressed to a person, and is felt to be so pregnant with dangerous consequences that it is never used impersonally as a mere expletive. And when the real name of the sister or brother is inserted — ^for the word lumuta means thy sister when a man speaks and thy brother when a woman speaks — it is the second worst of- fence imaginable to a Trobriander. Remarkably enough, even stronger is the expression: "Copulate with thy wife." This is so unmentionable to the natives that, in spite of my scientific interest in bad language, I was very long without knowing that it existed and, even in telling me this expression, my informants were serious, subdued, and unwilling to dwell on the subject. Their attitude to this phrase is correlated with the rule that the erotic life of husband and wife should always remain completely con- cealed, and it has a special indecency in that it refers to an action which does as a matter of fact take place.

Another form of typical abuse is "Eat your excre- ment," with several variants which we have already men-

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tioned in this chapter. A third category, also familiar to- ns (see ch. vii, sec. 6), is the assertion of physical simi- larity to any maternal relative, and worst of all, of course, to the sister. Migim lumutUy "Thy face thy sister's," is- one of the worst insults possible.

Blasphemy, strictly speaking, does not exist, although' the natives say that they would not use indecent expres- sions with regard to ancestral spirits and that, both in this world and after they have left it, they would use very guarded language about Topileta (see ch. xir, sec. 5).: "

The native words for swearing or abuse are kamtoki and kayluki used with reflective personal plurals. Thus ikaylukwaygu or ikamtokaygu means "he is abusing me." Another expression ikavitagi yagagu means literally, "He has fouled my name," or, when similarity with a maternal relative has been referred to, ikavitagi fntgigUy "he has befouled my face." In all swearing the addition of the name of the person abused, and, when it is a sociological- insult, of the sister, wife or mother, adds considerably to the strength of the insult.

In this and in other contexts we find that whenever the natives touch on something that has really happened, greater restraint is necessary and allusions and abuse be- come much more poignant. A man will talk freely about himself and his own erotic affairs^ — in fact the confidences of my various friends have furnished the best material for the present book — ^but even in this there were limitsj and of the incestuous or adulterous or tabooed intrigues of many of my acquaintances I had to learn, not from them, but from their best friends. Here again, though such

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gossip would be retailed freely behind the man's back, it would never be spoken of, to his face. The incestuous affairs of the chief's sons in Omarakana, the hopeless matrimonial prospects of Monakewo or Mekala'i were never spoken about in their presence. Delicacy in touch- ing upon the intimate concerns of those present is as great among the Trobrianders as among well-bred people in Europe.

We now pass to No. 3 in our classification of taboos, disapproval of sexual greed and lechery (see list in sec. 2). Inability to master desire, leading to insistent and aggres- sive sexuality, is regarded with contempt both in man and in woman, though it is felt to be really repugnant only in women. Thus Yakalusa, a daughter of a chief of Kasana'i, was accused of spontaneously approaching men, talking to them, and inviting them to have intercourse with her. A similar reputation attached to several girls in Omarakana. Again there are clear cases on record of nymphomaniacs, who could not be satisfied with moderate sexual intercourse and required a number of men every night. There was a girl of Kitava who actually made the round of the main island in search of erotic diversion. While I was staying in Sinaketa she also was a visitor there and gossip was very active though not specially antagonistic. It was said that she would go out into the jungle with a group of boys and withdraw with one after another, spending days and nights in this occupation.

It must be made clear, exactly what it is that the na- tives find reprehensible about sexual greed in a woman. It is certainly not her interest in fornication, nor is it the

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fact that she initiates the intrigue 3 they object to direct invitation in place of the more seemly method of seduc- tion by magic, and to the unsuccess and small sense of personal worth that such urgent solicitation implies.

The native term for such women is nakaytahwd (drab), which was thus elaborated to me: sene bidubadu tomwota ikakayta; gala ilukwali kalu bulabola — sene nakaytabwa. This might be rendered: "Very many men she copulates with 5 not satisfied is ever her large orifice — such a one we call a drab." Here we get a direct mention of sexual insatiability j in other words, an expression of the idea of ^nymphomania.

Two alternative expressions for nakaytabwa are naka- kayta (literally, "female copulator"), and the expression nakd*ulatile ("wanton") which was explained to me as follows:

Kidatna tayta vivila gala imaymaysi tau^a^Uy Supposing one woman no they come men, ilolo wala titolela ifnwayki ta^u — she goes indeed herself she comes to man — yagala naka^ulatile, her name wanton.

Or freely: "When a woman has no men who come to her^ and takes the initiative and goes herself to a man, we call her a wanton." It is clear that the moral censure incurred by such women is founded on the shame that attaches to erotic unsuccess.

Censure of lechery in a man has the same foundation. Tokokolosi is the word used to denote a man who pursues

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women and inflicts his attentions on them. An interest- ing instance occurred in my own experience. After about eighteen months' absence, I returned to Omarakana and resumed my old acquaintance with Namwana Guya'u. He, as we know, had been worsted by Mitakata and hated him impotently, therefore he sought to blacken him in my eyes, and brought the most venomous possible charge against him:

Tokokolosi matauna ibia vivila: hoge

A rutter this man he pulls women: already ifakayse kumaydona. Minana ifaykiy

they refuse all. This woman refuses,

matauna iyousiy ibia. this man catches, pulls.

To make the picture really sinister Namwana Guya'u added a touch of exhibitionism to it:

Iliku yavila, bitotona kwila;

He undoes pubic leaf his, it stands up penis hisj iluki vivila: ^^Kuma kwabukwani

he tells (to a) woman: "Come get hold (of) huoigu,^^ Boge ifakayse vivila y

penis mine." Already they refuse women, 'pela tokokolosi vivila,

because satyr (towards) women.

In free translation: "He undoes his pubic leaf, and allows his penis to become erect. He then tells a woman:

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^Come and caress my penis.' Women already are dis- gusted with him because he is such a satyr."

In this one text we find an expression of the native contempt for exhibitionism, insistent pursuit of women, and unsuccess in lovej and women's dislike of too eager attentions. We have, also, the interesting association be- tween the removal of the pubic leaf and erection.

The whole attitude of the Trobriander towards sexual excess displays an appreciation of restraint and dignity j and an admiration for success j not only for what it gives to a man, but because it means that he is above any need for active aggression. The moral command not to vio- late, solicit, or touch is founded on a strong conviction that it is shameful j and shameful because real worth lies in being coveted, in conquering by charm, by beauty and by magic. Thus all the threads of our account weave into one complex pattern; manners, morals, and aesthetic judg- ment fit into the psychology of love-making and of con- quest by magic.

If I were allowed to go beyond the scope of the present study, I should like to demonstrate that the same pattern is also found in the psychology of economic and cere- monial give-and-take, and in the native views concerning reciprocity in legal obligation. Everywhere we find dis- approval of direct solicitation, of covetousness and cupid- ity, and, above all, the dishonour attaching to real need and dearth. Plenty, on the other hand, and wealth, com- bined with a careless generosity in giving, are glorious.^

1 Cf. the analysis of economic psychology in Argonauts of the Western Pacific, ch. vi, and passim, and of the principle of reciprocity in Crime and Custom.

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The only category of taboos in our general list which now remains is No. 5 of our list in section 2, that com- prising miscellaneous prohibitions arising out of special occasions in tribal life. When engaged in warfare, men must abstain from sexual intercourse whether with wife or paramour. The taboo becomes operative from the day when, with a special ceremony called valuta bulamiy the forces are mustered and war magic is set in motion. Not only must a man abstain from any sexual intercourse, but he is not allowed to sleep on the same mat or on the same bedstead with a woman. Certain houses are re- served for men, while the women and children congregate in others. Any amorous dalliance at such a time would be regarded as dangerous to the community's chances of winning the war, and therefore as shameful and unseemly. Further, there are definite penalties which would fall on the individual transgressor. Should he indulge in inter- course, a hostile spear would pierce his penis or his tes- ticles. Should he sleep nose to nose with his sweetheart, he would be hit on the nose or thereabouts. Were he to sit even on the same mat with a girl, his buttocks would not be safe from attack. I had the impression from the way in which my informants spoke about the matter, that the war taboos were fully and rigorously observed. No doubt the men were far too engrossed in the excitement -of the fighting to turn any attention to the more usual and therefore, perhaps, less absorbing sport of love.

The gardens should not be in any way associated with amorous advances. Neither within the enclosure proper

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nor anywhere near it, should a man and a woman be found love-making. In the phrase for describing illicit love-making the belt of bush adjoining the garden {tokeda) is specified (see pi. 88). To have intercourse in or near the gardens is called by the natives isikayse tokeduy "they sit down upon the belt of bush adjoining the garden." Particularly objectionable are any advances on the part of men during the garden work which is espe- cially done by women: the fwakova ("weeding") and the koumwali ("clearing of the ground before planting"). It will be remembered that the legendary fornicator, Inuvayla'u, was wont to approach the women when en- gaged on this and other specifically feminine occupations and that this was one of the worst traits in his character. It is improper for a man even to be present during any of these occupations: communal weeding or clearing, col- lecting shells, fetching water, gathering firewood from the bush, the ceremonial making of fibre petticoats. In- tercourse in the gardens is punished by a special visitation: the bush pigs are attracted by the smell of seminal fluid, they break through the fences and destroy the gardens. A special taboo enjoins chastity on women who remain at home while their husbands and lovers are away on a kula expedition. Any infidelity affects the speed of their husbands' canoes and causes them to move very slowly (see also above, ch. v, sec. 2). The taboos imposed dur- ing pregnancy and ?J?ter childbirth have already been described in detail (see ch. viii), as well as the aversion (not fortified by supernatural penalties) from intercourse

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during menstruation. This concludes our survey of the general taboos, and we now proceed to special prohibitions associated with kinship and relationship by marriage.


EXOGAMY AND THE PROHIBITION OF INCEST

The sociological regulations which divide persons of the opposite sex into lawful and unlawful in relation to one another 3 which restrain intercourse in virtue of the legal act of marriage and which discriminate between cer- tain unions in respect of their desirability, have to be dis- tinguished from the taboos of a general nature already described. In these we found expressions of disapproval, ranging from horror to distaste, of certain sexual acts and approaches, defined physiologically or by the occasion on which they occur. The rules to which we now proceed can be stated only with reference to social organization, and above all to the institution of family and the division into totemic clans.^

The totemic organization of the natives is simple and symmetrical in its general outline. Humanity is divided into four clans {kurmla), Totemic nature is conceived to be as deeply ingrained in the substance of the indi- vidual as sex, colour, and stature. It can never be changed, and it transcends individual life, for it is car- ried over into the next world, and brought back unchanged

1 The institution of marriage is inseparable from the family and will, therefore, be mentioned incidentally in what follows. It has already been treated in some detail with the taboos and regulations which it entails (cf. chs. iv, V, and vi, and the penultimate section of this chapter).

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into this one when the spirit returns by reincarnation. This fourfold totemic division is thought to be universal, embracing every section of mankind. When a European arrives in the Trobriands, the natives simply and sincerely ask to which of the four classes he belongs, and it is not easy to explain to the most intelligent among them that the totemic fourfold division is not universal and rooted in the nature of man. The natives of neighbouring areas, where there are more than four clans, are invariably and readily made to conform to the fourfold scheme by allo- cating several of the alien clans to each one of the four Trobriand divisions. For such subordination of minor groups to the larger divisions there is a pattern in Tro- briand culture, since each of their big totemic clans com- prises smaller groups called dalay or, as we shall call them, "sub-clans."

The sub-clans are at least as important as the clans, for the members of the same sub-clan regard themselves as real kindred, claim the same rank, and form the local unit in Trobriand society. Each local community is composed of people belonging to one sub-clan, and to one sub-clan only, who have joint rights to the village site, to the sur- rounding garden-lands, and to a number of local privi- leges. Large villages are compounded of several minor local units, but each unit has its own compact site within the village and owns a large contiguous area of garden- land. There are even different terms to denote member- ship within the sub-clan and membership in the clan. People of the same sub-clan are real kinsmen, and call one another veyogUy my kinsman. But a man will only

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apply this term loosely and metaphorically to one who, though a member of the same clan, belongs to a diflFerent sub-clan, and will, if questioned directly, inform you that the other man is only pseudo-kindred, using the depre- catory term kakaveyogu (my spurious kinsman).

Each of the four clans has its own name: Malasi, Lukuba, Lukwasisiga, Lukulabuta. Such a clan name is used by a man or a woman as a definition of his or of her social identity: "My name is so-and-so, and I am a Malasi." There are special combinations of the clan names with formative roots, to describe men and women and the mixed plurality belonging to the same clan: Tomalasi — a Malasi man 5 Immalasi — a Malasi woman j Memalasi — the Malasi people 5 Tolukuba — a Lukuba man 3 Imkuba — a Lukuba woman 3 Milukuba — the Lu- kuba people, and so on. When a man says Tomalasi yaygUy he gives a sociological definition of his place within the universal fourfold division of mankind, and he also thereby settles his associations in any community to which he has recently arrived. To a native this statement indi- cates a number of personal characteristics as well, or at least potentialities: such as magical knowledge, citizenship (when the sub-clan is also mentioned), moral and intel- lectual propensities, historical antecedents, relation to cer- tain animals and plants and also an indication of rank. Thus the Malasi claim primacy among other totemic di- visions, though this is only very grudgingly granted by members of other clans.

The Malasi have, however, a good piece of heraldic evidence in their favour. Near the village of Laba'i, on

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the northern shore of the main island, there is a spot called Obukula, which is marked by a coral outcrop. Obukula isj in fact, a "hole" {dubwadebula) ^ or "house" (bwald) 3 that is to say, one of the points from which the first ancestors of a lineage emerged. For before they appeared on this earth, human beings led a subterranean existence similar in all respects to life in surface Tro- briand villages and organized on the same social pattern. They dwelt in identical local communities, were divided into clans and sub-clans, were grouped into districts, and lived as good a family life as do present-day natives. They also owned property — that is gugu^a^ the workaday implements and chattels, and vaygu^a, "valuables," and houses, canoes, and land. They practised arts and crafts and possessed specific magic.

Now, when they decided to come up to the surface of the earth, they collected all their belongings and emerged in the locality of which they wanted to take possession. The spot of their emergence is usually marked by a grotto, a large boulder, a pool, the head of a tidal creek, or merely a large stone in the village centre or street (see pi. 89). In this way they established the traditional claim to ownership of the "hole" and its surroundings 5 that is, of the village site, which often lies immediately round the hole, of the adjoining lands, and of the eco- nomic privileges and pursuits associated with the locality. It is the rule in Trobriand mythology that, originally, only one couple emerged from each such "hole," a brother and a sister j she to start the lineage, he to protect her and look after her affairs. Thus the rule is: one clan, one

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village, one portion of garden-land, one system of gar- dening and fishing magic, one pair of brother and sister ancestors, one rank and one pedigree. This latter can never be really traced, but it is firmly believed to go back to the original woman who came out of the hole.

To this "one-hole-one-line-one-sub-clan" rule there is only one exception, the hole of Obukula already men- tioned. In this case we have one hole for the four main clans j we have ancestors who are defined not by sub-clan but by their clan identity j and we have an act of emer- gence which established not a special form of citizenship and ownership, not privileges for one sub-clan, but the respective position of the four clans in the scale of rank.

The myth of the hole of Obukula runs thus. First the representative of the Lukulabuta, its totemic animal the Kaylavasi (iguana or giant lizard), came to the surface, scratching away the earth as these animals will do. He ran up a tree and from this point of vantage waited for what should follow. Nor did he have to wait long. Through the hole he had made scrambled the dog, the animal of the Lukuba clan, who, the second on the scene, obtained the highest rank for the time being. His glory was short-lived, however, for soon afterwards came the pig: that noble animal, very close to man himself in rank, and representative of the Malasi. The last to appear was the animal of the Lukwasisiga clan, variously described as the snake, the opossum, or the crocodile. The myths dis- agree as to its identity and indeed this ambiguous animal plays the least important part in the story and in Tro- briand totemism.

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The pig and the dog played together j and the dog, running through the bush, saw the fruit of a plant called noku. This is considered by the natives a very inferior form of nourishment, and although it is not specifically forbidden to any clan or person, it is eaten only in times of greatest dearth and famine. The dog smelt it, licked it, and ate it. The pig seized his opportunity, and then and there laid down the charter of his rank, saying: "Thou eatest nokuy thou eatest excrement j thou art a low-bred commoner. Henceforth I shall be the guya^Uy the chief." From this incident dates the Malasi claim to rank higher than the other clans, and one of their sub-clans, the Tabalu, have, indeed, the highest position 5 they are the real chiefs, acknowledged to be of supreme rank, not by the Trobriands only, but by the adjoining areas as well.

Thus do the natives account for the difference in rank. The partaking of unclean food — the most important cri- terion of social inferiority — caused the downfall of the Lukuba, and the rise of the Malasi. But it must be re- membered that this latter clan includes besides the highest sub-clan (the Tabalu), that one which is most despised, associated with the village of Bwaytalu. No respectable Lukuba man would marry a Malasi woman from that vil- lage j no Tabalu would claim kinship with any one of its inhabitants, and he takes it very badly when it is pointed out that they are his kakaveyola (pseudo-kindred). The natives of the several local communities in the compound village of Bwaytalu, Ba'u, and Suviyagila form, as we have already mentioned, a practically endogamous dis- trict in which the members of the various clans have to

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observe exogamy within their circle of villages, since they cannot mate outside it. We have thus an endogamous district within which totemic exogamy is observed.

Thus in respect of rank, it is the sub-clan rather than the clan that matters, and this holds good with regard to local rights and privileges. In a village community which belongs to the Lukwasisiga of the Kwaynama sub-clan,, only members of the latter are citizens. Others of the Lukwasisiga clan, who do not belong to that sub-clan are no more at home there than the Malasi or the Lukuba would be. The clan, therefore, is primarily a social cate- gory rather than a group, a category in which a number of animals, plants, and other natural objects are placed. But the totemic nature of a clan is not of great impor- tance, and its religious significance is very much over- shadowed by its social functions. The clan as a whole is to be seen at work only in certain big ceremonies, when all the sub-clans of the Malasi or Lukuba or Lukwasisiga or Lukulabuta act together and support one another.

It was necessary to give a somewhat detailed and con- crete account of clan and sub-clan, of their organization, mythology, and social functions, in order to present them as living and effective units rather than as a mere numeri- cal scheme ornamented by native names. The aspect of clan organization, however, which interests us here pri- marily, is exogamy, that is the prohibition of sexual inter- course within the clan. All members of the same large group designate themselves, as we know, by the same name, and this, especially in the simpler cultures, is not merely a label but an indication of nature. A common

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name means, to a certain extent, an identity of personal substance, and kinship implies a bodily sameness.

The real importance of the clan in native imagination and society is illustrated by an interesting linguistic dis- tinction. The native word for "friend" is lubaygUy sig- nifying "the man with whom I associate from choice, because I like him." A European who is learning the language invariably makes mistakes in using this word. Wherever he sees two men closely associated, getting on well together, and obviously on friendly terms, he de- scribes their relationship by the word lubayla (his friend), without first finding out whether they are kindred. But this word may only be applied to a man's friend from another clan, and it is not only incorrect, but even im- proper, to use it of a kinsman. Whenever I used the ex- pression lubaym (thy friend) to denote a man's close companion from the same clan, I was rather sharply cor- rected. Gala! Veyogu mataunay veyoda — kumila tay- tanidesi! ("No! this man is my kinsman 5 we're kinsmen — ^the clan is the same!") Thus a twofold scheme in the relations between men is clearly defined linguistically by the two words for friend, one meaning "friend within the barrier," the other "friend across the barrier." This dis- tinction shows how strong is the idea of clanship j it also corresponds to the classificatory use of kinship terms, and to the whole scheme of native relationship.

Needless to say, the same distinction is made when speaking or thinking of the relation between a man and a woman. The word lubaygUy meaning here "sweetheart or lover," can never be applied to a woman of the same

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clan. In this context it is even more incompatible with the concept of veyola (kinship, that is the sameness of substance) than in the relation between two men. Women of the same clan can only be described as sisters (ludaytasi, our sisters 5 luguta, my sister ^ lumuta^ thy sister 5 luletay his sister). Women of other clans are described by the generic term tabu- (with affixed pronouns: tuhudayasly our cousins 3 tahugUy my cousin 5 tabumy thy cousin, etc.). The primary meaning of this word is "father's sister." It also embraces "father's sister's daughter" or "paternal cross-cousin," or, by extension, "all the women of the father's clan" 5 and, in its widest sense, "all the women not of the same clan."

In this, its most extensive application, the word stands for "lawful woman," "woman with whom intercourse is possible." For such a woman the term lubaygu ("my sweetheart") may be correctly usedj but this term is ab- solutely incompatible with the kinship designation, lugutay my sister. This linguistic use embodies, therefore, the rule of exogamy, and to a large extent it expresses the ideas underlying this. Two people of the opposite sex and standing in the relation of brother and sister in the widest sense, that is belonging to the same clan, must neither marry nor cohabit, nor even show any sexual in- terest in one another. The native word for clan incest or breach of exogamy is, as we know already, suvasova.

As we know, the expressions tosuvasova yoku (thou incest committer), kay suvasova kwim (thou incestuous penis), kway suvasova wvm (thou incestuous cunnus) fall into the category of insults or accusations. They can,

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nowever, be used either lightly and without offence, or seriously as statements of fact with even tragic conse- quences. This double use of the expression corresponds to a deep-lying moral distinction between degrees of exogamous breach: a distinction which is not easily grasped save after prolonged field-work, as it is overlaid by an official and indoctrinated theory which the natives invariably retail to the unwary ethnographer. Let me first state this native theory of suvasova (as obtained by the question-and-answer method) which gives only the first approach to the true ittitude of the natives.

If you inquire from intelligent and bona fide inform- ants into the various aspects of exogamy and clan or- ganization point by point, and make a composite picture from their various statements, you will necessarily arrive at the conclusion that marriage and sex intercourse within the clan are neither allowed nor ever practised and that they do not even constitute a serious temptation to the natives. Marriage, anyone will tell you, is quite impos- sible between men and women of the same clanj nor does it ever happen. As to intercourse, this would be most improper and would be censured by an indignant public opinion. A couple guilty of such an act would, if discov- ered, incur the anger of the whole community; they would be deeply mortified and terribly ashamed. And to the question "What would they do on discovery?" the invariable answer is that they would commit suicide by jumping from a coco-nut palm. This well-known method of escaping from an unpleasant situation is called lo^u.

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To this the usual answer is that a breach of exogamy en- tails by itself an unpleasant though not necessarily fatal disease. A swelling of the belly heralds the oncoming of this retributive ailment. Soon the skin becomes white, and then breaks out into small sores which grow gradually bigger, while the man fades away in a wasting sickness. A little insect, somewhat like a small spider or a fly, is to be found in such a diseased organism. This insect is spontaneously generated by the actual breach of exogamy. As the natives put it: "We find maggots in a corpse. How do they come? I vagi wala — it just makes them. In the same way the insect is made in the body of the tosuvasova (exogamy breaker). This insect wriggles round like a small snake; it goes round and round j it makes the eyes swollen, the face swollen, the belly swollen, as in fofoma (dropsy, or any other pronounced bodily swelling), or in kavatokulo (wasting disease)." And examples are readily given of people who have had or are going through a similar disease.

Thus the native statements supply us with a consistent theory of incest and exogamy, which could be summarized so far by a conscientious ethnographer somewhat as fol- lows: "Exogamy is an absolute taboo for the natives, both as regards marriage and as regards sexual intercourse; there is a strong moral disapproval of it which would provoke the anger of the community against delinquents and drive them, on discovery, to suicide. There is also a supernatural sanction against it, a dreadful disease cul- minating in death. Hence exogamy is strictly kept and breaches never occur."

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To substantiate this statement an ethnographer would adduce linguistic testimony: there is only one word for the breach of exogamy, suvasova^ whether this be incest with the nearest relative or merely intercourse with a woman of the same clan. The linguistic usage is, more- over, the typical expression of clan solidarity, of the so-called spontaneous obedience to law and custom. Clan solidarity is also expressed in the unity of names, in the unity of totemic animals, and in the many other forms of totemic identification. And, as an additional proof of its reality, there is the classificatory use of kinship terms.

And yet we have already had indications that neither the solidarity of clanship, nor the classificatory nature of kinship, nor the completeness of the exogamous taboo are absolutely maintained in real life. Not only does there exist a long scale of penalties and blame inflicted for the various degrees of exogamous breach, but marriages within the same clan are not unknown and even the most flagrant transgressions of the taboo allow of customary evasions and adjustments.

What I wish to make clear, by confronting the gist of native statements with the results of direct observation, is that there is a serious discrepancy between the two. The statements contain the ideal of tribal morality j observa- tion shows us how far real behaviour conforms to it. The statements show us the polished surface of custom which is invariably presented to the inquisitive stranger 3 direct knowledge of native life reveals the underlying strata of human conduct, moulded, it is true, by the rigid surface of custom, but still more deeply influenced by the smoul-

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dering fires of human nature. The smoothness and uni- formity, which the mere verbal statements suggest as the only shape of human conduct, disappears with a better knowledge of cultural reality.

Since in this divergence between the hearsay method of collecting evidence and first-hand experience of sav- age life, we have a very important source of ethno- graphic error, it must be made clear that blame cannot be laid on native informants, but rather on the ethnog- rapher's whole-hearted reliance on the question-and- answer method. In laying down the moral rule, in dis- playing its stringency and perfection, the native is not trying really to deceive the stranger. He simply does what any self-respecting and conventional member of a well-ordered society would do: he ignores the seamy and ugly sides of human life, he overlooks his own shortcom- ings and even those of his neighbours, he shuts his eyes to that which he does not want to see. No gentleman wants to acknowledge the existence of what is "not done," what is universally considered bad, and what is improper. The conventional mind ignores such things, above all when speaking to a stranger — since dirty linen should not be washed in public.

The Melanesian is as sensitive to indelicacy and as con- ventional in matters of decorum and propriety as any mid- Victorian middle-aged gentleman or spinster. Im- agine an ethnographer from Mars inquiring of our re- spectable gentleman (or spinster) about matrimonial morals in England. He would be told that monogamy is the one and only form of marriage, that chastity is re-

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quired of both parties before marriage and that adultery- is strictly forbidden by law, morals, manners, and our code of honour. All this is, in a way, quite true: it em- bodies the authorized ideal of religion and morality. And if the Martian went on to inquire whether adultery occurs in practice, our gentleman (or spinster) would re- sent the question as an implied insult and would grow cold or hot over it. (For you must remember that he is no more accustomed to being used as an informant than is the Melanesian gentleman to whom you give a stick of tobacco for information received.)

If the Martian, versed in the modern method of field- work, as recommended by some schools of Anthropology, should proceed to the "concrete manner of questioning," he might really get into trouble. To the concrete inquiry: "How many times have you slept with your friend's wife, and how often has your wife slept with another man?" — the answer would not be verbal but behaviouristic. And the Martian, if in a position to do so, would enter in his note-book: "The natives of the terrestrial planet never commit adultery 5 there is a powerful group sentiment, if not group instinct, preventing them from this crime 5 even the hypothetical mention of a possible transgression of this sacred law puts them into a singular mental state, accompanied by emotional discharges, explosive expres- sions, and those violent actions which make the term ^savage' so appropriate to the rude natives of the Earth."

This statement would be obviously one-sided, and yet the terrestrial informant was in no way trying to deceive the inquirer. In the case of our own society we know the

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answer to the riddle. The informant, though aware of possible breaches of marital fidelity, not only does not want to parade them before a stranger but is always ready to forget them himself under the influence of strong emo- tional attachment to an ideal. Now to a Melanesian the subject of possible incest with a near matrilineal relative is shocking in the highest degree j while breach of exog- amy is one of those subjects which are to be discussed only in confidence and among friends. A gentleman in the Trobriand Islands is as ready as we are to deceive himself, when he feels that tribal honour requires it. He is offered a few sticks of tobacco, and told to speak about intimate and delicate matters. The anthropologist with his rapid and at times penetrating questions, with his in- sistence on fact and on concrete detail, arouses the same reactions as would the hypothetical inquirer from Mars among us. The native may feel hurt and refuse to dis- cuss the matter, as happens time after time to a field-? worker in the earlier stages of his ethnographic explora- tion. Or else he states such ideal conditions as are de- manded by his sense of propriety, as do credit to himself and to his fellow-tribesmen, and as do not compromise anybody or any aspect of his communal life.

For besides the feeling of dignity and conventional subservience to tribal honour, there is another grave rea- son why the native does not want to introduce any hap- hazard European talker to the seamy side of his com- munal life. He is accustomed to find white men nosing about his sexual affairs, some in order to interfere with his women, others, and worse, to moralize and to improve

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him 5 and, most dangerous o£ all, others to issue laws and regulations which introduce difficulties, at times insur- mountable, into his tribal organization. Elementary cau- tion, then, tells him not to go beyond the most obvious generalities and to state merely the bald outline of his moral rules and regulations, such as seem unassailable even by the most interfering missionary or government official.

The upshot of all this is that the hasty field-worker, who relies completely upon the question-and-answer method, obtains at best that lifeless body of laws, regu- lations, morals, and conventionalities which ought to be obeyed, but in reality are often only evaded. For in ac- tual life rules are never entirely conformed to, and it re- mains, as the most difficult but indispensable part of the ethnographer's work, to ascertain the extent and mech- anism of the deviations.

In order, however, to penetrate to the exception, to the deviation, to the breach of custom, it is necessary to be- come acquainted directly with the behaviour of the native 5 and this can be done only through a knowledge of the language and through a prolonged residence among the people. But most modern scientific field-work has been accomplished by the rapid and precise, sometimes over- precise, methods built upon the technique of question-and- answer, and it suffers from over-simplifying and over- standardizing the legal constitution of native culture.^ Such material again has led unfortunately to the anthro- pological doctrine of the impeccability of native races, of

^This point has been elaborated as the main thesis in Crime and Cus- tom in Savage Society, which should be read in connection with the above argument.

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their immanent legality, and inherent and automatic sub- servience to custom.

Returning now to our special problem of incest and exogamy and applying to it the methodological principles just discussed, we can ask what more there is to learn about these taboos and in what way it is possible to learn it. The same informant who at first supplied the rounded- ofF official version of them, who even indignantly repudi- ated any indiscreet suggestions, begins to know you better or finds that you have become acquainted with the real facts in some concrete incident. Then you can confront him with the contradiction, and he himself will very often put you on the scent of the truth and give you a correct account of the exceptions and contraventions which recur with regard to the rule.

. A very capable and useful informant of mine, Gomaya, who has appeared several times in these pages, was at first very touchy on the subject of incest and resented any sug- gestions as to its possibility. He was a valuable informant because of certain shortcomings in his character. Proud and sensitive on points of tribal honour, he was also very vain and inclined to boast. Moreover, he soon found that he could not conceal his own affairs from me as they were notorious through the district. His intrigue with Ilam- weria, a girl of the same clan, was a subject for general gossip. So, combining necessity with the satisfaction of his amour frofrey Gomaya explained to me that a breach of clan exogamy — he and his sweetheart belonged to dif-. ferent ^b-clans of the Malasi — is rather a desirable and interesting form of erotic experience.

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He told me also that he would have married the girl, such marriages being possible though viewed with dis- favour, had she not become pregnant, and he succumbed to the disease which follows upon breach of exogamous taboo. He then went off to his native village of Sinaketa where he grew worse and worse, until he was helped by an old man, a friend of his father's, who knew a very powerful magic against such disease. The old man chanted spells over some herbs and some water, and after the application of this remedy, Gomaya got gradually better. The old man then taught him how to perform the magic j and ever after, Gomaya proudly added, he preferred to sleep with girls of the same clan, always using the prophylactic magic.

All his statements made it clear to me that breach of exogamy is rather an enviable achievement, because a man thus proves the strength of his love magic in that he is able to overcome, not merely the natural resistance of women but also their tribal morality. Thus even from one personal history it was possible to gather the main lines of practice and to understand certain complications and apparent contradictions of exogamous prohibitions. In further discussions with other natives, and above all by the collection of concrete material, I was able to sup- plement these earlier statements and to correct them. For Gomaya naturally exaggerated certain points in order to satisfy his vanity, and he thus put facts into a wrong perspective. He represented himself, for instance, as the one glorious exception to the rule 3 gave me to understand that few people only knew the magic of incest, and that

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breach of exogamy was a singularly daring achievement. All of which was not true.

The fact is that the breach of exogamy within the clan, intrigue with what the natives call kakaveyola (kindred- in-clan or pseudo-kindred), though officially forbidden, ruled to be improper, and surrounded by supernatural sanctions, is yet everywhere committed. To use a some- what loose comparison, it figures in the tribal life of the Trobrianders much in the same way as that in which adul- tery figures in French novels. There is no moral indig- nation or horror about it, but the transgression encroaches upon an important institution, and cannot be officially re- garded as permissible.

Marriages — as distinct from intrigues — within the clan are definitely regarded as a serious breach of the rule. The one or two cases on record (see e.g. above, ch. xii, sec. 4) show that natives will not actively interfere with them, once they are contracted. But I found that it was not proper to mention the incestuousness of a marriage to any of the people concerned nor yet speak about it in the presence of their near relatives. Even general allusions to incest and exogamy have to be carefully avoided in the presence of such transgressors. As to the supernatural sanctions, the prophylactic magic already mentioned, per- formed over wild ginger root wrapped up in leaves, over water warmed by heated stones, and over dry banana leaf, is well-nigh universally known and is used very freely.

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certain latitudes by public opinion and permits of evasions of the supernatural sanctions. All this had to be stated in detail to give a clear idea of the mechanism of exogamy.

There is also an interesting difference in stringency according to the clans in which it happens. Of the four totemic divisions, the Malasi have the reputation of being the most persistent exogamy breakers and committers of incest. All the incestuous marriages on record have hap- pened within this clan 3 and I was told that this was not an accident but that only the Malasi and no other clan will tolerate such marriages. The myth of incest, which will be described in the next chapter, is associated with the Malasi, and so also is the magic of love and the magic to frustrate incest disease.

Far more stringently are the rules of exogamy obeyed when the two people concerned belong, not only to the same clan, but to the same sub-clan {dala). Such people are called real kinsmen {veyola moklta^ or simply veyola) in contradistinction to kakaveyola. Between such people a much greater secrecy is observed when incest is com- mitted j there is no jauntiness or covert boasting, and mar- riage is impossible.

A still higher degree of stringency obtains when we come to kinship traceable in actual genealogy. Incest with a mother's sister's daughter is a real crime, and it may lead to consequences as serious as suicide. A case of suicide described elsewhere illustrates the manner in which a man guilty of such incest might have to inflict punish- ment upon himself.^ Incest with the own sister is, as we

1 Cf. Crime and Custom^ pp. 77 and 78, and below, ch. xiv, sec. 3.

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know already, a dreadful crime to the natives. Yet even here it would not be correct to assume an absolutely smooth and secure working of tribal law, because cases of breach of the rule occur in reality as well as in folk-lore. But of this we shall have to speak presently.

Thus the uniformity of the rules and the simplicity of the sanctions by which they are enforced is shown to be a surface phenomenon, below which run the complex cur- rents and undercurrents which form the true course of tribal life. On the surface we have one word, suvasova, one clan kinship, one punishment, one sense of right and wrong. In reality we have the distinction between mar- riage and mere intercourse, between clan and sub-clan (kakaveyola and veyola\ between genealogical kinship and mere community of sub-clan, between the own sister and the classificatory sisters. We have also to distinguish between direct enforcement by public opinion and by su- pernatural sanctions, neither of which works in a simple or infallible manner. Any attempt to understand this complex state of affairs leads us to the fundamental factor in social organization, that is, kinship, and this again can- not be properly understood without a knowledge of fam- ily life, and the constitution of the family.

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formation of the earliest bonds between parent and child, by following the gradual growth and development of these, and their ever-widening extension into bonds of local grouping and clanship, can we grasp the kinship sys- tem of the natives.

The fundamental principles of mother-right had to be stated at the beginning of this book, since without a knowledge of it and of the relationship between father and child no description can be given of any native cus- tom. We know therefore that, according to tribal law, kinship, the identity of blood and body, runs only in mother line. We also know that father and child are re- lated, in the eyes of the native, merely by a system of obligations and reciprocal duties, but that this does not exclude a strong bond of an emotional nature between them. It will be necessary for us at this juncture to be- come acquainted with an outline of native kinship termi- nology, though full statement on the subject will have to be deferred to a future publication.^

Table of Relationship Terms A. Kinship Terms

1. Tabu(gu). — Grandparent, grandchild; father's sister, father's sister's

daughter.

2. Ina(gu). — Mother, mother's sister; mother's clanswoman.

'i. Tama(gu). — Father, father's brother; father's clansman; father's sister's son.

4. Kada(gu). — Mother's brother and, reciprocally, sister's son and sis-

ter's daughter.

5. Lu(gu)ta. — Sister (man speaking), brother (woman speaking) ;

woman of same clan and generation (man speaking), man of same clan and generation (woman speaking).

'^Psychology of Kinship announced to appear in the International Li- brary of Psychology.

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<6. Tuwa(gu). — Elder brother (man speaking), elder sister (woman speaking) ; clansman of same generation but older (man speak- ing), clanswoman of same generation but older (woman speaking).

7. Bwada(gu). — Younger brother (man speaking), younger sister

(woman speaking) ; clansman of same generation but younger (man speaking), clanswoman of same generation but younger (woman speaking).

8. Latu(gu). — Child, male or female.

B. Marriage Relationships

9. (Ulo)mwala. — Husband.

10. (Ulo)kwava. — Wife.

C. Relationships-in-laiv

11. Yawa(gu). — Father-in-law, mother-in-law.

12. Lubou(gu). — Wife's brother, sister's husband.

13. Iva(gu)ta. — Husband's sister, brother's wife.

14. Tuwa(gu). — Wife's elder sister, husband's elder brother.

15. Bwada(gu). — Wife's younger sister, husband's younger brother.

In the annexed genealogical diagram we find, printed in capital letters, the few words which furnish the key to the whole terminology of kinship and form the founda- tion both of the sociological system within the native cul- ture and of its linguistic expression. These are the words used to designate the inmates of the household, the words which convey the dominant interests and emotions of childhood. They denote those relationships which are the starting point of all the social bonds of later life.

Take, to begin with, the word inagUy my mother, which is the first to be uttered by a child in the Trobriands as everywhere else.^ The term correlated to it is latugUy by

1 In the genealogical Diagram the terms are given, without possessive pronouns; in the Table with the affixed particle of the first person {gu). This particle is usually suffixed to the end of the root {inagu, "my mother," tamagu, "my father," etc.), but it is infixed in two terms lu- gu-ta and fva-gu-ta. The second person is designated by the particle m or mu; tamam, "thy father," lumuta, "thy sister"; the third pers. sing, by the particle la, and so on. In actual speech the root is never used alone. The abstract meaning is conveyed by using the word with the

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which the mother designates her own child. These are the two terms of the mother-to-child relationship on which the whole system of native kinship organization rests. (In our diagram, Ego is addressed by his mother, latugUy and, later, he in turn uses this word to his own offspring as indicated there.) Apart from the intense emotional interest taken by the mother in her child, and the response of the infant to the maternal organism — both these elements being physiological and universal in all human societies — the relation in the Trobriands is sociologically defined by a number of ritual observances, beginning with pregnancy and leading the woman into those various duties and taboos of early maternity which isolate mother and child into a small group of two, inti- mately bound up in each other (see ch. viii). The father, tamay not regarded as of the same bodily substance, stands, nevertheless, in a close emotional, legal, and eco- nomic relation to the child (see ch. vii). On the pis. 90 and 91 we see typical illustrations of maternal and pa- ternal attitudes expressing tenderness and pride.

When the child grows up, it gains a gradual independ- ence. But in certain respects this progress is slower and lasts longer in Melanesia than among ourselves. Wean- ing takes place at a later stage, and the child is surrounded by the tender cares of the mother and father, constantly carried and watched over, until it passes to freedom and independence almost at a single stride. We know already (see ch. iii) that children suffer very little interference

third person singular suffix. Inula means "mother" as well as "his mother." All male terms are in roman types; the female in italic. Terras for the nearest family relationship are printed in capitals.

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from their parents in the matter of sexual freedom, and that in this respect the interests of the child are naturally directed away from home and find an easy outlet among his playmates of the same age.

The removal of a child out of his family is due to yet another factor, which becomes increasingly prominent and which will colour the future sexual life of the individual. This is the supreme taboo of the Trobrianderj the pro- hibition of any erotic or even of any tender dealings be- tween brother and sister. This taboo is the prototype of all that is ethically wrong and horrible to the native. It is the first moral rule seriously impressed in the indi- vidual's life, and the only one which is enforced to the full by all the machinery of social and moral sanctions. It is so deeply engrained in the structure of native tradi- tion that every individual is kept permanently alive to it.

The relation between brother and sister is denoted by the term luguta (No. 5 of our table). This term means "sister" when uttered by a male, and "brother" when spoken by a female. In its wider meaning it designates a person of the opposite sex and of the forbidden class, that is, of the same sub-clan or clan as Ego. In its widest and metaphorical sense it is used for any tabooed person or thing. As a metaphor the word "sister" {luguta) is frequently used in magical formulas when such things as a blight or a disease are to be exorcized.

The term luguta is used only with regard to the tabooed relationship, since children of the same parents and of the same sex use different kinship designations {tuwagu, bwadagu) to describe each other j tuwagu meaning "my

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elder brother" (man speaking) and "my elder sister" (woman speaking) j and bwadagu "my younger brother" (man speaking) and "my younger sister" (woman speak- ing).

Round the word luguta a new order of ideas and moral rules begins to grow up at an early stage of the indi- vidual's life history. The child, accustomed to little or no interference with most of its whims or wishes, receives a real shock when suddenly it is roughly handled, seri- ously reprimanded and punished whenever it makes any friendly, affectionate, or even playful advances to the other small being constantly about in the same household. Above all, the child experiences an emotional shock when it becomes aware of the expression of horror and anguish on the faces of its elders when they correct it. This emo- tional contagion, this perception of moral reactions in the social environment is perhaps the most powerful factor in a native community by which norms and values are im- posed on an individual's character.

The circumstantial arrangements and set customs which preclude any possibility of intimate contact between brother and sister are also, of course, very important. Brother and sister are definitely forbidden to take part at the same time in any childish sexual games, or even in any form of play. And this is not only a rule laid down by elders, but it is also a convention rigorously observed by the children themselves.

We know already (see ch. iii) that when a boy grows up and when there is a sister of his living in the parental house, he has to sleep in the bachelors' hut {bukumatuld) .

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In her love afiFairs, the girl must most rigorously avoid any possibility of being seen by the brother. When, on certain occasions, brother and sister have to appear in the same company — when they travel in the same canoe, for instance, or participate in a domestic meeting — a rigidity of behaviour and a sobriety in conversation falls upon all those present. No cheerful company, no festive enter- tainment, therefore, is allowed to include brother and sister, since their simultaneous presence would throw a blight on pleasure and would chill gaiety.

Although, in a matrilineal society, the brother is the guardian of his sister, although she has to bend down when he approaches, to obey his commands and to regard him as the head of the family, he never has any concern in his sister's love affairs, nor in her prospective marriage. After she is married, however, he becomes the head of her family in more than a metaphorical sense. He is called by his sister's children kadagu (my maternal uncle), and as such exercises great influence, especially over the boys.^

The careful avoidance by a man of any knowledge about his sister's amorous prospects is, I am certain, not only an ideal but also a fact. I was over and over again assured that no man has the slightest inkling as to whom his sister is going to marry, although this is the common knowledge of everyone else. And I know that nothing remotely touching upon the subject would be uttered

1 Compare the analysis of this relation in Sex and Repression, pt. ii, chs. vi and ix; Crime and Custom, pt. ii, ch. iii; and in this book, ch. i, sec. I.

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within earshot of him. I. was told that if a man came by- chance upon his sister and her sweetheart while they were making love, all three would have to commit lo^u (sui- cide by jumping from a coco-nut palm). This is obvi- ously an exaggeration which expresses the ideal and not the reality: if such a mishap occurred the brother would most likely pretend to himself, and to them, that he had seen nothing, and would discreetly disappear. But I know that considerable care is taken to preclude any such possibility, and no one would dream of mentioning the subject in the presence of the brother.

Brother and sister thus grow up in. a strange sort of domestic proximity: in close contact, and yet without any personal or intimate communication j near to each other in space, near by rules of kinship and common interest 5 and yet, as regards personality, always hidden and mysterious. They must not even look at each other, they must never exchange any light remarks, never share their feelings and ideas. And as age advances and the other sex be- comes more and more associated with love-making, the brother and sister taboo becomes increasingly stringent. Thus, to repeat, the sister remains for her brother the centre of all that is sexually forbidden — its very symbol 5 the prototype of all unlawful sexual tendencies within the same generation and the foundation of prohibited degrees of kinship and -relationship, though the taboo loses force as its application is extended.

The nearest female of the previous generation, the mother, is also surrounded by a taboo, which is coloured, however, by a somewhat different emotional reaction.

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Incest with her is regarded with real horror, but both the mechanism by which this taboo is brought home and the way in which it is regarded are essentially distinct from the brother-sister taboo. The mother stands in a close bodily relation to her child in its earliest years, and from this position she recedes, though only gradually, as he grows up. As we know, weaning takes place late, and children, both male and female, are allowed to cuddle in their mother's arms and to embrace her whenever they like.

When a small boy begins his playful sexual approaches to small girls, this does not in any way disturb his rela- tionship to the mother, nor has he to keep any special secrecy on the subject. He does not, by preference, dis- cuss these matters with his parents, but there is no taboo against his doing so. When he is older and carries on more serious intrigues, he might, in certain circumstances, even be allowed to sleep with his sweetheart in his par- ents' house. Thus the relation to the mother and the sexual relation are kept distinct and allowed to run side by side. The ideas and feelings centering round sex on the one hand, and maternal tenderness on the other, are differentiated naturally and easily, without being sepa- rated by a rigid taboo.

Again, since normal erotic impulses find an easy outlet, tenderness towards the mother and bodily attachment to her are naturally drained of their stronger sensuous ele- ments. Incestuous inclinations towards the mother are regarded as highly reprehensible, as unnatural and im- moral, but there is not the same feeling of horror and fear


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as towards brother-and-sister incest. When speaking with the natives of maternal incest, the inquirer finds neither the rigid suspense nor the emotional reactions which are always evoked by any allusion to brother and sister rela- tions. They would discuss the possibility without being shocked, but it was clear that they regarded incest with the mother as almost impossible. I would not affirm that such incest has never occurred, but certainly I have obtained no concrete data, and the very fact that no case survives in memory or in tradition shows that the natives take rela- tively little interest in it.^

The maternal grandmother and her grandson are also sexually forbidden to each other, but there is no horror about this relationship, such incest appearing as a merely ridiculous possibility. As we know, sexual intercourse with an old womza is regarded as something indecorous, ludicrous, and unsestheticj and this is the light in which any suggestion of grandson-grandmother incest is looked upon. But such a lapse from good morals and manners does not loom largely in fantasies, folk-lore or tribal morals. These two call each other by the reciprocal term tahugUy which also has the wider meaning of "grand- parent," "grandchild," and wider yet, "ancestor," "de- scendant."

So far we have discussed individual kinship in the fe- male line and within the household: between mother and child, brother and sister, and, going beyond the house-

1 For a comparison of the two attitudes towards incest with the mother and the sister, respectively, and for the correlation of this phenomenon with the matrilineal system of kinship and with the natives' treatment of infantile sexuality, see the writer's Sex and Repression.

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hold, the relation with the grandmother. I have inten- tionally and carefully distinguished this from so-called classificatory kinship ties 5 for the mixing up of the indi- vidual and the "classificatory" relation, kept apart by the natives in law, custom, and idea, has been a most mis- leading and dangerous cause of error in anthropology, vitiating both observation and theory on social organiza- tion and kinship. Looking back to our diagram, and carrying the genealogy beyond the family circle, we can see that certain terms from within the circle are repeated outside it. In the life history of the individual most peo- ple who come into contact with the growing child are, in one way or another, partially assimilated or compared to the child's primary relatives within the household, and the terms used for parents, brothers, and sisters are gradually extended. The first person from the larger world to enter into the circle of kinsmen is the mother's sister, who, although she is called by the same term as the own mother, inagu, is very definitely distinguished from her. The word inagu extended to the mother's sister is, from the outset, given an entirely different meaning — some- thing like "second mother" or "subsidiary mother." When the mother's sister is a member of the same vil- lage community, she is a very frequent visitor within the household j she replaces the mother in certain functions or at certain times, she tends the child, and shows it a con- siderable amount of devotion. The child is taught by its elders to extend the term inagu to her, and this extension is made natural and plausible to the child by the consid-

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erable similarity between its relations to mother and mother's sister.

But there can be no doubt that the new use of the word remains always what it is, an extension and a metaphor. In its second sense Inagu is used with a different feeling- tone j and there are circumlocutions, grammatical usages, and lexicographical indices which differentiate the sec- ondary from the primary meaning. Only to a linguis- tically untrained European observer, especially if he is not conversant with the native language, can the word Inagu (2) (mother's sister) appear identical with Inagu (i) (own mother). On this point any intelligent native, if properly questioned, could correct the ethnographer's error.

The same gradual extension, and corresponding change in emotional content, takes place with regard to other terms, and the word luguta^ used to the mother's sister's daughter, conveys to the boy only an attenuated and di- luted idea of sisterhood. The own sister remains a pro- totype of the new relation, and the taboo observed towards the own sister has also to be kept with regard to the sec- ondary sister 5 but the distinction between the two taboos and the two relations is well marked. The real sister lives in the same house 3 for her the boy, as her future guardian, feels a direct responsibility 5 she remains the object on which the first and only serious prohibition has been brought home to him. The secondary sister lives in another house or even village 5 there are no duties or re- sponsibilities towards her and the prohibition with regard to her is a weakened extension of the primary taboo. Thus

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the own sister and the first maternal cousin appear in an entirely different light, not only as regards the degree, but as regards the fundamental quality of the relation. Incest with the first maternal cousin is regarded as wrong, but not horrible j as daring and dangerous, but not abomi- nable. The early feeling for this distinction becomes, later on, crystallized in the doctrine of tribal law. The man knows and recognizes that luguta ( i ) is a person to whom he owes a great many duties, whom he has partly to support after her marriage, and with regard to whom he has to observe the supreme taboo. Luguta (2) has no specific claims on him, he is not her real guardian nor head of her household after marriage, and the sexual taboo does not operate with anything like the same stringency.

When we pass from the "secondary" relations, denoted by the terms inagu (2) and luguta (2) to more distant relatives, the intimacy of the bond and the stringency of the taboo falls off rapidly. To take the relation of luguta as an example : if a boy and girl can be traced to a common great-grandmother in the mother line, they are luguta. But the taboo would be much weaker. Beyond this it would be difficult even to index the term, as the relation- ship ceases to be traceable by pedigree. It would be just that of real kinship within the same sub-clan: lugutay veyogu moklta — dalemasl taytanidesi ("sister mine, kins- woman mine truly — sub-clan our identical)."

When we go beyond the sub-clan to the clan {kumila)y the relation becomes less intimate once more and the taboo less stringent: luguta walay kakaveyogu — kama kumila taytanidesi ("just my sister, my pseudo-kinswoman —

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mine and her clan identical)." This defines the word luguta in its fully extended, that is truly classificatory sense. It means, as we know already, one of those women with whom sex intercourse is legally forbidden, but with whom it may be indulged. The widest meaning of the word luguta is thus profoundly different from luguta (i), the carrier of the supreme taboo.

Thus, starting from the individual relationships within the household and following the kinship extensions in the life history of the individual, we have arrived at the same results as in our discussion of clanship and the general prohibitions of exogamy and incest. The word luguta is one term of a dichotomy separating women into "for- bidden" and "lawful."

The other term tahugu ("lawful woman") also origi- nates within the family and is extended thence. To fol- low this process we must turn to the other side of the pedigree and examine the paternal relations.

The most important person on the father's side is ob- viously the father himself. Here we meet the second fundamental fact in household morality: though the father is not a kinsman of his children, sexual intercourse between father and daughter, though it occurs, is not only illegal and improper, but is viewed with definite moral repugnance. Marriage between father and daughter is not allowed nor even imaginable to the native.

Perhaps the most important case on record of the vio- lation of this taboo is that of Kumatala, of the sub-clan next in rank to the Tabalu (the Mwauri of the Lubuka

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clan), who is headman of the village of Liluta. He is known to live with his beautiful eldest daughter Bodo- gupo'u. Another recorded case is that of the famous sor- cerer Piribomatu, also of very high rank, who "comes to" or "approaches," as the natives put it, his daughter Bokaylola. It is consistent with native theory that, morally, the natives do not distinguish between a man's real daughter and his stepdaughter, and have no special term for the latter relationship. For since his relation to the child is determined through the mother and since incest is prohibited because of her, it is equally wrong to have intercourse with any of her offspring, whether of the present or of a previous marriage.

Thus Budiya, headman of Kabululo, married a widow who had a daughter named Bodulela:

Matauna imwoyki Bodulelay sene gciga haysey This man comes to Bodulela, very bad this, hoge latula minana, Isuvi wahwalay

already child his this female. He enters in house, mmana hoge iliku dahela

this (female) already undoes skirt herj

ikanufwagegay igise matauna

she reclines with legs apart, he sees this (male) wtla — ikaya, cunnus — he copulates.

This means: The man happened to enter the hut when his stepdaughter had taken off her fibre petticoat for the night and was lying, perhaps already half asleep, in a

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tempting position. Stirred by this, Budiya succumbed and committed the reprehensible act.

In this version, the cause of incest is ascribed to an un- toward accident, but other accounts maintain that Budiya had long desired his stepdaughter, that she refused him, and that he seduced her by love magic. Love magic also is said to have been used by Gumabudi, headman of Yalumugwa, who used to cohabit regularly with his real daughter. The latter, Bulubwaloga, we have already met, for she was the wife of Gilayviyaka, one of the sons of the paramount chief, and she left her husband after he had committed adultery with one of his father's wives.

As we have said, the reasons given for the moral rep- rehensibility of intercourse between father and daughter are all connected with his marriage to the mother and his position in the household. Sene gaga fela hoge iva^i inala, hoge iyousi vilakuria — "very bad, because already he mar- ried her mother. Already he caught hold of the first marriage present" (see ch. iv, sec. 3). Again, a man should not sleep with his daughter, since it was his duty to be tender to her when she was a child, to take her in his arms. Gala tamasisi deli latuda, fela tamala iyohwayliy ikopo'i — "We do not sleep with children ours (daugh- ters), because her father (the father) fondles, takes into his arms." Or the natives point out that, as the father has control of his daughter's marriage and love affairs, he must not sleep with her.

The cases of father-and-daughter incest just mentioned were universally known, but they were spoken of with great discretion and never before the people concerned.

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Should a man guilty of such a crime be publicly told about it, he would have to commit suicide by jumping from a tree, say the natives.

It must be clearly understood that, although father-to- daughter incest is regarded as bad, it is not described by the word suvasova (clan exogamy or incest), nor does any disease follow upon it 3 and, as we know, the whole ideology underlying this taboo is different from that of suvasova.

The anomalous extension of the word for father {tama) to the father's sister's son is important, for it demonstrates the influence which language has upon customs and ideas. Marriage and intercourse with the male paternal first cousin is not strictly forbidden, but it is regarded some- what askance. It is perhaps least censured among the Malasi of Kiriwinaj and natives from other districts, who lose no opportunity of slandering their neighbours when a difference in custom allows of it, speak derisively of the people of Kiriwina "who marry their fathers and sleep with them." An ethnographer, ignorant of language and superficially acquainted with native customs and ideas, might speak about the natives' "horror of marriage and intercourse with a father in the classificatory sense" j and thus imply that they do not distinguish between father as "mother's husband" and father as "father's sister's son." Such a statement would be quite incorrect.

A man is not allowed to have intercourse with his daughter because she is his wife's nearest kinswoman j therefore we might expect to find that the wife's other near female kindred are also tabooed. This is actually

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the case. A strong taboo is placed on a wife's sisters, whom, strangely enough, the man calls by the same two names (according to age) which he applies to his elder and younger brothers and which a woman uses to her elder and younger sisters: tuwagu and bwadagu. Thus here a man uses towards persons of the opposite sex names which indicate identity of sex. Analogously a woman addresses these same two terms to her husband's elder and younger brothers, with whom sexual inter- course is forbidden. There are a few recorded cases of this rule's transgression, the most notorious being that of Manimuwa and Dakiya already quoted (ch. vi, sec. i). Here, again, although the word suvasova is not applied to the taboo, the natives feel strongly against intercourse with a wife's sister, who, after marriage, becomes to him somewhat like his own sister. A man must also abstain from intercourse with his wife's mother, but otherwise no taboo of avoidance exists.

By careful inquiry of several informants and by direct observation, I have compiled the following table of sex taboos in order of stringency. It is meant rather to facili- tate a survey of the whole subject than to establish any rigid gradations.

1. By far the most stringent is the prohibition on brother-sister incest 5 it is the core of the suvasova taboo, and is of very rare occurrence either in reality or legend.

2. Incest with the mother is regarded as unnatural and unthinkable 5 there are no cases on record; it is an impor- tant form of suvasova; it is not spoken of with the same abhorrence as brother-sister incest.

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3. Sexual intercourse with the own daughter is not called suvasova; it is not sanctioned by supernatural pen- alties 5 it is felt to be extremely bad 3 there are several cases on record.

4. Intercourse with the mother's sister's daughter is a form of suvasova; it is of rare occurrence j it is regarded as very bad and always kept secret 5 on discovery it is severely penalized.

5. Intercourse with the wife's sister is not a form of suvasova, but it is considered badj marriage, whether in the form of polygamy or with a deceased wife's sister, is strongly disapproved of, but it does occur, while intrigues are not infrequent.

6. Intercourse with the mother-in-law or with the brother's wife is not proper, though it is not suvasova, and it probably occurs but infrequently.

7. Intercourse with the "classificatory" luguta (my sister) is suvasova: it is prohibited by legal doctrine and sanctioned by supernatural penalties 5 it is, however, fre- quently practised, and is, so to speak, at a premium.

An interesting commentary upon such gradations is contained in the following statement: latugu tatougu — sene agu mwasila; tuwagu, bwadagu — ulo kwava tuwala, bwadala — agu mwasila. Tabuda, kadada, latuda o fayo- mlU gala tamwasila; which may be freely translated: "My child truly mine — ^very much my shame j ^elder brother,' Vounger brother' (as I call them) — ^that is my wife's elder sister, her younger sister — my shame. Grand- children, maternal nieces, children — all these in the classi- iicatory sense, we are not ashamed of." Here we have

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certain gradations recognized and expressed by the na- tives, and it is characteristic that, in such a volunteered statement, my informant would not mention the classi- ficatory sister. That would not have been quite proper. Another commentary is contained in the fact that, whereas a man would swear at his mother, kwoy inam "have inter- course with thy mother" (j/V), or might invite her to have intercourse with her father {kwoy tamam)^ he would never swear at his sister, and he would never swear at his daughter. Yet, as I have no doubt that incest between mother and son is far rarer than that between father and daughter, I have put it in the second and not in the third place.

One important relationship still remains, that called tahugUy father's sister, or father's sister's daughter, which has already been mentioned as the opposite category cor- related with that of lugutUy sister (man speaking). The father's sister is the prototype of the lawful, and even sexually recommended woman j that is, in the theory of native tradition, for, in reality, it is her daughter that really plays this part.

To the father's sister exactly the opposite attitude with regard to sexual behaviour is sanctioned and approved, to that which must be adopted towards the sister. Sexual intercourse with the father's own sister is emphatically right and proper. "It is very well when the boy copu- lates with his father's sister." The natives are never tired of repeating this moral maxim, and they use, in this con- text, the coarse term kayta^ instead of the polite circum- locution masisi deli (sleep together), or mwoyki (come to,

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visit). Her presence always carries with it the suggestion of licence, of indecent jokes and improper stories. In bawdy ditties, the refrain: dell sidayasSy deli tahumayase (with our companions, with our paternal aunts) is of fre- quent occurrence. The paternal aunt and the sister must never be in the same company, since the first relaxes the bonds of propriety and the second constrains them.

Sexual intercourse, however, between a man and his paternal aunt, is important theoretically, symbolically and verbally rather than in actual life. She represents to him the class of lawful women and sexual freedom in general. She might be used to advise or even to procure for himj with herself, however, sexual intercourse is not frequently practised. She belongs to a previous generation, and, as a rule, what remains of her sexual endowment is not at- tractive. But whenever she and her nephews desire it, they are allowed to sleep together, preserving only a cer- tain decorum when she is married. Marriage with the paternal aunt, though permissible and even desirable, seems never to occur: it was impossible for me to find a single instance of it among living people or in historical tradition.

The real practical substitute for his paternal aunt, the boy finds in her daughter. The two are regarded by tra- dition as specially suited for intercourse and for marriage. They are often engaged to each other by infant betrothal (see ch. iv, sec. 4). The natives will say that the paternal cross-cousin should be the first person, if age allows, with whom a boy should copulate.

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girls belonging to the same sub-clan and clan. Finally by an extension which goes beyond the usual limits of classificatory terminology, it becomes synonymous with "all women not of the same clan as the sister." It should be realized that the ordinary extensions of classificatory terminology go only to the limits of the clan. The widest sense in which the word for mother is used embraces all the women of the mother's clan. But the word tahugUy in its meaning of "lawful woman," extends over three clans, and embraces roughly three-quarters of female hu- manity, in contrast to the one-quarter which is forbidden. But this subject — the intricacies of the kinship system and of the kinship nomenclature — leads us beyond the limits of the present inquiry, and will have to be deferred to the future publication already mentioned.

The keynote to sexual morality and sexual freedom lies, as we have found, in the opposition between the two classes designated by luguta and tabugu ("sister" and "paternal cross-cousin") respectively. The taboo against incest between brother and sister is the most important and most dramatic feature of the Trobriand social organi- zation \ the more so because of a singular rift in traditional doctrine, a dogmatic inconsistency, which makes love and the magic of love derive from brother and sister incest. To the account of this important myth we shall now pro- ceed in the last chapter.


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A SAVAGE MYTH OF INCEST

The so-called savage has always been a plaything to civilized man — in practice a convenient instrument of ex- ploitation, in theory a provider of sensational thrills. Savagery has been, for the reading public of the last three centuries, a reservoir of unexpected possibilities in human nature 3 and the savage has had to adorn this or that a friori hypothesis by becoming cruel or noble, licen- tious or chaste, cannibalistic or humane according to what suited the observer or the theory.

As a matter of fact, the savage with whom we became acquainted in Melanesia does not conform to any picture in black and white, in deep shadow or vivid light. His life is socially hedged round on all sides, his morality more or less on a level with that of the average European — that is if the customs of the latter were as frankly de- scribed as those of the Trobriander. The institutions which allow of some prenuptial intercourse and even favour it, show little to suggest any previous conditions of unbridled promiscuity or of an institution such as "group-marriage," so difficult to conceive in terms of any known social facts.

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functions so adequately that there remains nothing serious or incomprehensible to explain away by reference to some hypothetical earlier stage. They exist to-day because they work well side by side with marriage and family j nay, for the benefit of marriage and family j and there is no need to assume any other causes for their past than those which maintain them at present. They existed probably always for the same reason — in a slightly dif- ferent form, no doubt, but built on the same funda- mental pattern. This, at least, is my theoretical attitude towards these facts.

It is as important to bear in mind, however, that the limitations, taboos, and moral rules are by no means abso- lutely rigid, slavishly obeyed or automatic in their action. As we have seen again and again the rules of sex are fol- lowed only in an approximate manner, leaving a generous margin for infringements 3 and the forces which make for law and order show a great deal of elasticity. Thus the savage, measured by standards of sesthetics, morality, and manners, displays the same human frailties, imperfections, and strivings as a member of any civilized community. He does not lend himself either to the straightforward descriptive shocker, or to use as a clue for a detective story on the sexual past of the promiscuous pithecanthropus. In fact, as I see him, he will in no way lend himself to quench our thirst for reconstructive sexual sensationalism.

Nevertheless, the story of Trobriand sexual life does not lack altogether certain dramatic elements 5 certain con- trasts and contradictions which might almost excite hopes of finding something really "inexplicable," something

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which might justify plunging into frank hypotheses, into phantastic visions of past evolution or cultural history. Perhaps the most dramatic element in the tradition of the natives is the myth about brother-and-sister incest, asso- ciated with the power of the magic of love.

As we know, among all rules and taboos there is one which has a really strong hold over native imagination and moral sense j and yet this unmentionable crime is the subject of one of their sacred stories and the basis of love magic, and thus is directed, so to speak, into the full cur- rent of tribal life. Here, at first sight, is an almost in- credible inconsistency in belief and in moral tradition, one which might allow us to brand the natives as deprived of moral sense, or prove them to be in the "prelogical stage of mental development" 5 or else might be used to dem- onstrate the survival of marriage between brother and sister, or the co-existence of two cultural strata, one in which brother-and-sister unions are approved and the other in which they are tabooed. Unfortunately, the bet- ter we learn to understand the facts about the myth of incest and its cultural context, the less sensational, in- credible, and immoral appear this and similar contradic- tions in custom and tradition j the less do they clamour for explanation in hypotheses about the "savage soul," pithe- canthropi or "Kulturkreise" j and we find ourselves able instead to account for them in terms of contemporary and observable fact. But I have indulged long enough in reflections of a theoretical, not to say philosophic and moral nature 5 and now I must return to my humbler and soberer task of faithful and dispassionate chronicler.

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THE SOURCES OF LOVE MAGIC

Love, the power of attraction, the mysterious charm that comes forth from a woman to a man or from a man to a woman and produces the obsession of a single desire, is, as we know, attributed by the natives to one main source: the magic of love. ^

In the Trobriands, most important systems of magic are founded on myth. The origin of man's power over rain and windj of his ability to control the fertility of the soil and the movements of fishj of the sorcerer's destruc- tive or healing powers — all these are traced back to cer- tain primeval occurrences which, to the natives, account for man's capacity to wield magic. Myth does not fur- nish an explanation in terms of logical or empirical cau- sality. It moves in a special order of reality peculiar to dogmatic thought, and it contains rather a warrant of magical efficiency, a charter of its secret and traditional nature than an intellectual answer to the scientific why. The facts narrated in myth and the ideas which underlie it, colour and influence native belief and behaviour. The events of a remote past are re-lived in actual experience.^ This is especially important in the myth we are discussing, since its basic idea is that magic is so powerful that it can even break down the barrier of the strongest moral taboo. This influence of the past over the present is so strong

1 A fuller analysis of this functional view of myth will be found in the writer's Myth in Primitive Psychology, in Argonauts of the Western Pacific, ch. xii ; and in Sex and Repression, pt. ii.

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that the myth generates its own replicas and is often used to excuse and explain certain otherwise inexcusable breaches of tribal law.

We have already spoken about the several systems of love magicj and pointed out that the two most important ones are associated with two local centres, Iwa and Kumi- labwaga, which are united by a myth of the origin of their magic.

This is the story of the myth as I obtained it from in- formants of Kumilabwaga, the locality where the tragic events took place/

I shall first give the narrative in a free but faithful translation, and then give the commentary as received from my informant. The numbers will allow the reader to compare this rendering with the native text, and with the word for word translation, which together form the substance of the next section.

The Myth

(i) The source (of love and magic) is Kumilabwaga. (2) A woman there brought forth two children, a girl and a boy. (3) The mother came (and settled down) to cut her fibre skirt j the boy cooked magical herbs (for the magic of love). (4) He cooked aromatic leaves in coco- nut oil. (5) He hung the vessel with the fluid (on a batten of the roof near the door) and went away to bathe. (6) The sister arrived from her firewood breaking expe-

1 In another place, Sex and Repression, I have published a condensed and somewhat simplified version of the myth which, as I find, suri:ered slightly in the process. The version here given, with its full native text and two English translations, must be regarded as the full and correct statement.

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dition, she put down the firewood j she asked the mother: "Fetch me some water, which my brother has put. in the house." (7) The mother answered: "You go and fetch it yourself 2 my Jegs are burdened with the board on which I cut the skirt."

( 8 ) The girl entered the hut, she saw the water-bottles lying there 3 with her head she brushed against the vessel with the magic fluid j the coco-nut oil dripped j it trickled into her hairj she passed her hands over it, wiped it off, and smelt it. (9) Then the power of magic struck her, it entered her inside, it turned her mind. (lo) She went and fetched the water, she brought it back and put it down. (11) She asked her mother: "And what about my brother? (Where has the man gone?)" — The mother gave voice: "O my children, they have become mad! He has gone to the open seashore."

(12) The girl ran out, she sped towards the eastern shore, to the open sea. (13) She came to where the road abuts on the sea beach. There she untied her fibre skirt and flung it down. (14) She ran along the beach nakedj she ran to the Bokaraywata beach (the place where the Kumilabwaga people usually bathe, and where they beach their canoes). (15) She came upon her brother there — he bathed in the Kadi'usawasa passage in the fringing reef. (16) She saw him bathing, she entered the water and went towards him, she gave him chase. (17) She chased him towards the rock of Kadilawolu. There he turned and ran back. (18) She chased him back and he went to the Olakawo rock. There he turned round and came back running. (19) He came back and went again to the Kadi'usawasa passage (i.e. where he was bathing first). There she caught him, there they lay down in the shallow water.

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ashore and they copulated again. They climbed the slope, they went to the grotto of Bokaraywata, there they lay down again and copulated. (21) They remained there together and slept. (22) They did not eat, they did not drink — this is the reason why they died (because of shame, because of remorse).

(23) That night a man of Iwa had a dream. He dreamt the dream of their sulumwoya (the mint plant which they used in their love magic). (24) "O my dream! Two people, brother and sister are together j I see in my mind 3 they lie by each other in the grotto of Bokaraywata." (25) He paddled over the sea arm of Galeyaj he paddled to Kitava, and moored his canoe — he searched all over — but nothing was to be found. (26) He paddled over the sea arm of Da'uya, he came to Kumilabwaga, he paddled towards the shore, he landed. He saw a bird, a frigate-bird with its companions — they soared.

(27) He went and climbed the slope 5 he went and saw them dead. (28) And lo! a mint flower had sprouted through their breasts. He sat by their prostrate bodies, then he went along the shore. (29) He looked for the road, he searched and found it, he went to the village.

(30) He entered the village — there was the mother sit- ting and cutting her fibre skirt. He spoke: "Do you know what has happened by the sea?" "My children went there and copulated and shame overcame them."

(31) He spoke and said: "Come, recite the magic, so that I may hear it." (32) She recited, she went on reciting, he listened, he heard till he had learnt it completely. He learnt it right through to the end. (33) He came again, and asked: "What is the magical song of the coco-nut oil?" (34) He inquired, that man from Iwa. "Come now, tell me the song of the coco-nut oil."

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(35) She recited it to the end. Then he said: "Remain here, I shall go. Part of the magic, the opening part, let it remain here. The eye of the magic, the finishing part, I shall take, and let it be called Kayro'iwa." (36) He went off, he came to the grotto, to the sulumwoya plant which sprouted and grew out of their breasts. (37) He broke off a sprig of the herb, he put it into his canoe, he sailed, he brought it to Kitava. (38) He went ashore in Kitava and rested there. He then sailed and landed in Iwa.

(39) These are his words (which he spoke in Iwa): "I have brought here the point of the magic, its eye (the sharpest, that is, the most efficient part of the magic). Let us call it the Kayro'iwa. The foundation, or the lower part (the less important part) the Kaylakawa remains in Kumilabwaga." (Henceforth the words of the speaker refer not to Iwa, but to Kumilabwaga. This is obviously an inconsistency, because in the myth he is speaking m Iwa. This probably was due to the faulty recital of the myth.) (40) The water of this magic is Bokaraywataj its sea passage Kadi'usawasa. There (on the beach) stands its silasila bush, there stands its givagavela bush. (41) If people from the lagoon villages would come to bathe (in the waterhole or in the sea passage), then the bushes would bleed. (42) This water is taboo to them — the youth of our village only should come and bathe in it. (43) But a fish caught in these waters is taboo to them (the young people of our village). When such a fish is caught in the nets, they should cut off its tail, then the old people might eat it. (44) Of a bunch of coco-nuts washed on the beach, they (the young people) must not eat a single one — it is a taboc. Only old men and old women may eat them.

(45) When they come and bathe in the Bokaraywata and then return to the beach, they make a hole in the sand

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and say some magic. (46) Later on in their sleep they dream of the fish. They dream that the fish spring (out; of the sea) and come into that pooL (47) Nose to nose the fish swim. If there is only one fish they would throw it out into the sea. (48) When there are two, one female,, one male, the youth would wash in this water. Going to* the village, he would get hold of a woman and sleep with, her. (49) He would go on sleeping with her and make arrangements with her family so that they might marry. This is the happy end, they would live together and make their gardens.

(50) If an outsider would come here for the sake of the magic, he would bring a magical payment in the form of a valuable. (51) He would bring it and give it to you, you might give him the charm: (52) the spells of the isika^i leaves, of the betel pod, of the washing charm^ of the smoking charm, of the stroking charm 5 you might give him also the charm of the obsidian blade, of the coco- nut, of the silasiluy of the buresi leaves, of the coco-nut husk fibre, of the gimgwam leaves, of the yototu leaves, of the comb — and for all this, they ought to pay the sub- stantial payment of laga.

{S?>) For this is the erotic payment of your magic. Then let them return home, and eat pigs, yams, ripe betel-nut, yellow betel-nut, red bananas, sugar cane. (54) For they have brought you valuables, food, betel- nut as a present, {ss) I^or yo^ are the masters of this magic, and you may distribute it. You remain here, they may carry it away 5 and you, the owners, remain here, for you are the foundation of this magic.


This myth really accounts, not for the origin of love magic, but for its transfer from Kitava to Iwa. Its most important cultural function, however, is that, being be-

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lieved, it establishes a valid precedent for the efficiency of love magic 5 it proves that the spells and rites of Iwa and of Kumilabwaga are so powerful that they can even break down the terrible barriers which separate brother and sister and persuade them to commit incest.

Let us now retrace the narrative and insert a few com- ments upon certain obscure points. The additions to the text obtained from the narrator are indicated by numbers referring to the subsequent native text.

With reference to the relative age of the two children, my informant said: (s^) "The man was the eldest child, and the woman followed." The family belonged to the Malasi clan, which, as we know already, is reputed to have a special propensity for breaking exogamous and incestuous prohibitions. To quote my native commen- tator: (57) "See, the Malasi marry their kinsfolk. There was one man in Wawela, a man by the name of Bigayuwo, who married Nab way era (a kinswoman of his) j one man in Vakuta^ one man in Kitava, by name of Pwaygasi, who married Bosilasila." These names, which I have heard only from this informant, might be added to the other case previously recorded (ch. xii, sec. 4), in which a Malasi man married a Malasi woman.

To return to the myth, it is clear that the natives take it for granted that the Malasi of Kumilabwaga knew the magic already. As a matter of fact, most magic is im- agined to have existed from the beginning of time, and to have been brought by each sub-clan from underground. The story of the accidental smelling of the charmed oil

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Shallow


\] Wahcr


fiock ^^


i ^

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open Sea


Passage in reef called Madi 'usawasa


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receives dramatic piquancy from the part played by the mother. Had she gone into the house herself and brought water to her daughter, the tragedy would never have oc- curred. She, the very source of the matrilineal kinship bond, she from whose womb the two children sprang, she is also the involuntary cause of the tragedy. It is inter- esting to note that here, as in most mythological and leg- endary incidents, the man remains passive and the woman is the aggressor. We find analogies to this in the stories about Kaytalugi, in the behaviour of the women during the Yausa, and in the reception given by female spirits to newcomers in the next world. Eve also gives the apple to Adam, and Isolde holds out the drink to Tristan.

The description of the actual fall is given in clear but somewhat sober terms. To the natives, however, who know well the beautiful setting of open sea, steep white coral cliffs festooned with tropical foliage, and the dark, mysterious grotto hidden among old overhanging trees, ,this part of the narrative means more than is contained in the mere words. The myth speaks to them in terms of a familiar landscape and of many love experiences which have taken place in just such surroundings.

The narrative lacks, as usual, any explicit allusion to the psychology of the actors. I was able to obtain the following commentary: (58) "The man saw her: she had no skirt on 5 he was frightened, he ran: the woman chased him. (59) But then the desire was born ii^iside him J it upset his mind, and they copulated." And again: (61) "Already his passion was kindled inside 5 he desired her with his whole bodyj (62) they copulatedj they ca-

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ressedj they erotically scratched each other." Thus when the man found himself pursued, he succumbed to passion and then he felt the pangs of love as strongly as did his sister.

The description of the pursuit and fall will be more easily understood with the help of the sketch (Fig. IV), in which the main topographical features of the beach are shown. The brother bathes in the narrow canoe passage facing the centre of the beach. On seeing his sister ap- proach naked, he makes for the shore and then runs along the water-line from one of the enclosing rocks to the other. After the fall, they move to the grotto, and there remain until their sad and romantic death. On this map are also indicated the two wells of which we shall hear presently.

After the two have copulated, they remain, consumed by passion, and yet bowed down with shame, until death ends their love and brings them freedom. (63) "They did not eat anything, they did not drink at all, since they had no desire. Shame has come over them, because they have committed incest, brother with sister." The motive of love and death is juxtaposed here, crudely and clumsily, and yet as dramatically as native language and imagina- tion permit. The picture of the two enlaced in death with the symbol of love, the aromatic mint, springing from their bodies is full of primitive beauty.

With the death of the lovers the real drama comes to an end, and what follows has only a dogmatic and didactic connection with the first act. But the somewhat pedantic account of the adventures and doings of the man from Iwa — above all, of how he learnt the magic and how he

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laid down the rules for its practice, is of great sociological interest, because the pragmatic value of myth and its normative importance for native belief and behaviour are largely contained therein.

Who the man of Iwa was, whether of the same clan as the brother and sister, whether their friend or a magi- cian, none of my informants could say: and unfortunately I was not able to discuss the matter with anyone from the island of Iwa itself.

Why the frigate-birds enter into the myth also remains somewhat mysterious, for they are not associated with the Malasi clan or with love-making. I was told: (64) "They go where they smell human beings." With regard to the somewhat cryptic insistence (verse 33) of the Iwa man to obtain the spell or charm (called in the text wosi, "song," and not by the usual word yopa, "spell"), I was told by my informant that there is a magic of coco-nut oil somewhat different from the one performed while the oil is being boiled out of the coco-nut. This spell is not in- dispensable to the system of love magic, and it must not be confused with that chanted over the aromatic herbs boiled in the already made coco-nut oil. This spell will be found in the next section, in verses 6$ and 66. I have already indicated in the narrative that the last verses of the myth (from 40 on) should be taken as addressed to the community of Kumilabwaga and not to that of Iwa 5 and that this inconsistency was probably due to my nar- rator's clumsy way of telling the tale. He was perfectly well aware, when questioned, that the details as to what people in Kumilabwaga should do were of no great im-

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portance on the distant island o£ Iwa. But he was not prepared to change his narrative in any way.

It may be noted that, in these days, Iwa is far more famous for love magic than the parent community, and that the myth still tries to claim certain ancient rites of the magic for Kumilabwaga, to which it belongs. In the last paragraph we have incidentally a description of certain elements essential in this magic 5 we learn that it is asso- ciated in a mystic and mythological manner with the pas- sage in the fringing reef, with the sea-water of the beach and with the wells upon it. In fact, bathing in the surf on that shore improves the personal appearance. (69) "In the reef passage of Kadi'usawasa, we, the male and female youth of Kumilabwaga, bathe and our counte- nances clear up and become beautiful." A similar effect is produced by bathing in the two wells of brackish water which lie at the foot of the cliffs, under the grotto of Bokaraywata. But here there is a division of sexes. (70) "Bokaraywata is the man's water j the woman's water is called Momkitava. (71) Should we (boys) drink of that (that is, the woman's water) our hair would become grey." In fact, if either sex bathe in the other's pool or drink the water, their looks will be impaired.

The story of the two small fish (verses 46-48) is not quite clear, and the comment which I received from my informant was practically a repetition of his original state- ment, and does not make it any more intelligible (see below, verses 72 and 73 in the native text).

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An interesting point in the last few verses of the myth is the insistence on the economic side of the transaction in love magic. It is a further example of the natives' in- terest in repayment and reciprocity. It must be noted, however, that it has more than a merely economic impor- tance 5 it symbolizes also the prestige of the community as masters in magic, and is rather a tribute to their im- portance, than a mere reward for services rendered. A careful comparison of the free rendering with the word- for-word translation given below the native text will show that certain commentaries have been implicitly introduced into the former. I cannot enter into a justification of every one of such implicit comments, for this would lead to too elaborate linguistic discussion.


THE ORIGINAL TEXT OF THE MYTH


(i) U'ula Base

Le^une

She quicken with


wala just latuluy child,


man.


(3)


mother their j

Isulubuyala

He cook coco-nut oil


Imway

She come, isulusulu he cook


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Kumilabwaga, (2)

Kumilabwaga. tayta vwila, tayta

one woman, one

itata^i doha

she cut fibre skirt

ka^l mataund. (4)

leaves this man.

kwoywaga. kwoywaga leaveSo


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(5) Isouyay

He hang, Imaga She come however


itayay

she dumps, "Kuwoki

"Thou bring there (7) Ikayhiga: She speak:


ila matauna ikakaya. (6)

he go this man he bathe.

luletay iwota ka^iy

sister his, she break wood,

ilukwo:


inast

mother their kola soft his water

^^Kuwokiy

"Thou bring there,


she tell:

luguta,^^ brother mine." wala hoge just already


ikanaki kaydawaga kaykegu.^^

it lie at trimming board leg mine." (8) Isuvi rmnana vivilay

She come out this woman^

soft; iwori kululay ibusi

water j it flick hair her, it drop


ibwika

it drop on

isukwani.

she smell.

olofoulay

in inside her,

ikasofiy

she get water,

Ikatufwo^i

She ask

Kawalaga:

Speech her:


kululay hair her,

(9) Boge Already

ivagi it do


tvagt she do


yamalay

arm her, iwoyey boge

it strike, already

nanola. (lo)

mind her. mayey iseyeli.

she bring, she put down. inala: ^^Mtage lugutaP^

mother her: "Indeed brother mine?"

"O latugwa boge

"O children mine already

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ikanamwo it lie here bulamty coco-nut oil, twaysay she wipe, layla it went Ila She go

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inagowasil Boge layla waluma,^^

they are mad! Already he went in open sea." (12) Ivabusiy ilokeya waluma, (13)

She come out, she go to in open sea. Ivabusi okadu^u*ulay ilikwo dahela^

She come out end of road, she untie fibre skirt her^ iseyemwo, (14) Ivayayri namwaduy

she put down it. She follow the shore naked,

ila B okaraywata. (15) Hoki luletdy

she go to Bokaraywata. She go to brother her,

ikakaya Kadi^usawasa, (16) Ikikakaya,

he bathe Kadi'usawasa. He bathe,

ivabusi y layla y ibokavili. (i?) Ibokaviliy

she come out, he went, she chase. She chase,

ila^o o Kadilawolu papafa; itoyewOy

she make go to Kadilawolu rockj he reverse,

ila. (18) Ibokaviliy ila OlakawOy

he go. She chase, he go to Olakawo,

itoyewOy ikaymala. (19) Ikaymalay

he reverse, he bring back. He bring back,

ila o KadPusawasay iyousiy ikanarise

he go in Kadi'usawasa, she take hold, they lie down wala obwarita. (20) Ikanukwenusiy ikammaynagwasiy just in sea. They lie, they go to shore,

ivind*asi imwoynasiy ilousi Bokaraywata

they finish they climb, they go to Bokaraywata o dubwadebula ikenusi, (21) Ikanukwenusiy

in grotto they lie. They remain lying,

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imasisisL (22) Gala they sleep. No

u^ula ikarigasL reason they die. (23) Aybogi

Night time gumaUwa; inhabitant of Iwaj sulumwoya, (24) ^^0/

mint plant. "O!

tomwotay kasitayyu humans, they two together odubwadebula Bokaraywata

in grotto Bokaraywata

Iwola GaleyUy i^ulawola;

He paddle Galeya, he paddle j waga, ine^iy inenei

canoe, he search, (26) Iwola

He paddle Kumilabwagay Kumilabwaga, iginaga

he see however sala comrades his


ikamkwamsiy gala they eat, no


kirisalaga magical effect

imimi kirisala

he dream


imomomsiy they drink,


iloki

it approach kasi their


nanogu mind mine


magical effect gumimiy tayyu

my dream, two people luletay sister his,

ikenusir?'* (25)

they lie." Kitavay ikota

on Kitava, he anchor — gala. he go on searching — no. Da^uyUy Da'uya,


i^ulawolay he paddle on, maunay daiUa bird, frigate-bird

ikokwoylubayse, they soar.


tma

he come here italaguway he disembark, deli together with


(27) Imway

He come here.


tmwoynay he climb.


Hay he go.


tgtse, he see,


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ikatuviliy igise, boge ikarigeyavisi, (28)

he overturn, he see, already they die. U! laysusmaga sulumwoya ovatikosi;

Lo! he sprouted however mint-plant in chest theirs j isisUy ikanukwenusiy ivayariga. (29)

he sit, they lie, he skirt shore however.

Inene^i keda^ ine^i ihaniy ikammaynagwa

He search road, he search he find, he go to o valu. (30) Ikasobusiy mmana isisu

in village. He drop out, this woman she sit

itataH dob a; ikaybiga: "Avaka okwadewoP^^

she cut fibre skirt; he speak: "What in sea-shore?" ^^Latugwa aylosiy ikaytasiy ivagi

"Children mine they went, they copulate, he do kasi fnwasila.'^ (31) lUvalay ikaybiga:

their shame." He say, he speak:

^^Kumay kukwa^u megway alaga?^

"Thou come here, thou recite magic, I hear."

(32) IkawOy ikikawOy ilagay isisawOy

She recites, she re-recites, he hear, he learn, ivina^Uy isawo; isisawOy ivinakuy

he finish, he learn; he learn thoroughly, he finish, imwOy imuriy kaysisula. {2>?>) ^'f^ifJ^'Mriy

he come here, he shift, seat his. He shift then,

igigse iwokwOy ikaybiga: ^^Kuneta

he see it finish, he speak: "Coco-nut cream

kakariwosila?^^ (34) Ikatufowiy ilivalay

magical song his?" He ask, he say,

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matauna

this man

kuma

thou come here


gumaUwa:

inhabitant of Iwa: kuUvalaP^ thou say!"


Wosila "Song his


Ilivala boge

She say already ^^BukusisUy balaga;


ivinakwOy she finish,


ikaybiga: he speak:


kayu^ula


"Thou might sit, I might go however j magic herb base


Kayla-kawa

magic herb of Kawa

fnatala bala^o

eye his I might carry

{'^6) Ivabusiy iwoki

He drop out, he approach there


sulumwoya,

mint-plant,

ovitakosiy

in chest their,

Ikituniy

He break off, he load at

Kitava, (38) Pulawolay

Kitava. He paddle on,

iwaywosi; iulawolay

he rest 5 he paddle.


laysuslnUy he sprout.


boge

already

ku^igunigu.

mint plant (special variety). iwolay he paddle.


bukuseyemwOy thou might put here, Kayro^iwaJ*^ magic herb of Iwa." makayna this itoto he stand

(37)


wagUy canoe.


he disembark


narLaguwa he disembark


ila^o he carry Kitava, Kitava. Iwa, Iwa.


(39) Kawala: Speech his: lamayey I brought here,


^^Matala "Eye his u*ula base

ss6


KayroHwa

magical herb of Iwa Kayla-kawa magic herb of Kawa


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ikanawo Kumilabwaga. (40) Sopila

he lie there Kumilabwaga. Water his

Bokaraywata, kartkedala K adieus aw as a; silasila Bokaraywata, passage his Kadi'usawasa, silasila plant itomwOy givagavela komwo,

it stand here, givagavela plant it stand here.

(41) Kidama taytala bhnayse odumdom,

Supposing one man they might come in lagoon, ikakayasiy boge bibuyavu (42) Botnala

they bathe, already he might bleed. Taboo his

sisofi — bimaysey gudi^ova^Uy

their water — they might come, new boys,

bikikakayasu (43) Kidama bikola

they might bathe. Supposing he might entangle

bikamsl; ikolay ikatunisi

they might eat 3 he entangle, they nick


no


yenay

fish,

yeyunay bikamsl nufnwayay

tail, they might eat old woman,

(44) Luya ikatwpisawo

Coco-nut he wash up by sea

kwaytanidesi bom^alay one only taboo his,


tom^waya, old man. uwatalay one pair,

gala

no


bikam^si

they might eat

bikam^si; num^wayay tom^aya bikam^si.

they might eat 3 old women, old men they might eat


(45) Sopla

Water his bim^ayse they might come here


Bokaraywata kidama

Bokaraywata supposing

ikakayasiy bilousi

they bathe, they might go

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orokaywoyne; iyenisiy imegwasi, (46)

up above J they scoop out, they charm.

Igauga bimimisi yenai

Later on however they might dream fish^

imimimisiy ipelasi; bilousiy

they dream indeed, they jump 5 they might go^,

ikanawoyse makwoyna soft. (47) Kabulula

they lie there this water. Nose

natanay kabulula nayweluy bikakayasi. one, nose second, they might bathe,

Kidatnaga natanidesi bilisasaysey

Supposing however one only they might fling out, bila obwarka. (48) Kidama nayyUy

he might go in sea. Supposing two,

tayta vivilay tayta ta^Uy bikakaysiy

one woman, one man, they might bathe,

aywayse ovaluy vivila biy ousts ey

they go in village, woman they might grasp, bimasisisi. (49) Ifnasisisiy ibubulisey

they might sleep. They sleep, they stir up,

vayva^i; iva^isiy boge aywokwo

relations-in-lawj they marry, already it was over bisimwoysey ibagulasi,

they might remain, they garden.

(50) Imago- taytala gudiva^u.

He come here however one new boy,

kalubuwatniy vaygu^a. (51)

magical payment your, objects of high value.

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Imayaysey

They bring here,

bukuyofwd^mga.

you might charm however.


iseyemwasi

they lay down here


vaygu^a vaygu'a


(52) hika^


kasinay kasina leaves,

kaywori kaywori leaves hukwmegwasiy you might charm, silasila

silasila leaves hukumegwasiy you might charm, hukumegwasly


kaykakayay kaykakaya leaves, hukumegwasiy you might charm, luya coco-nut bukumegwasiy you might charm,


gtmgwam


Isika'i leaves, rifurifUy ripuripu leaves, memetu obsidian blade hukumegwasiy you might charm, burest

buresi leaves kwoysanu coco-nut husk fibre


bukumegwasiy

you might charm, gimgwam leaves you might charm, yototu bukumegwasiy slnata bukumegwasiy

yototu leaves you might charm, comb you might charm, hilagwayse, they should pay.

^SZ) y^y^^ m^imegwa

For your magic

bilousi ikam^si kasi

they eat their


they might go

kasi lalavay

their ripe betel-nuts,

kayWusiy kasi

ripe bananas, their


sebuwala;

payment for magic j bulukway kasiy pig, their food,


kasi sam^akuy kasi

their yellow betel-nuts, their

toutetilay kasi

ripe sugar cane, their


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woderi — hikamsu (54) Bogwaga

yam (variety) — they eat. Already however

ay may as e

they brought

lukukwamsi,

you eat.

mtage

indeed

hilawoysaga — hukuslmwoysagay

they might carry however — you might sit here however^

toUmegwa yokwatni — u^ula.

masters of rrjiagic yourselves — base.


vaygu'a, kauloy


bu^a —


vaygu'a, yam food,


areca-nut —


{SS) ToUmegwa


yokwamiy


Masters of magic


you,


hukusakaysOy


kusifnwoysey


you might give,


you sit here.


THE informant's COMMENTARY

I obtained the following elaborations of the narrative^ The number of the sentence referred to is given at the beginning of each commentary.

See 2. Commenting on the relative ages of the two children :

{S^) ^'^^uta ta^Uy isekeli vivila.

Eldest child man, she follow woman.


Their names are not known. They belonged to the Malasi clan.


(57) KugiSy Malasi


ivayva^si


Thou see, Malasi


they marry


vesiya: taytala


Wawelay


maternal kinswomen theirs: one man


Wawela,


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Bigayuwo — Nabwayera;

Eigayuwo (name of man) — Nabwayera (name of his

wife) j

tayta Vakuta; tayta Kltava^

one man Vakuta j one man Kitava,

Pwaygasi — Bosilasila,

Pwaygasi (name of man) — Bosilasila (name of his wife).

See 1 6. — The behaviour of brother and sister immedi- ately preceding the consummation of incest is thus ex- plained:

(58) Ta'u igisi: gala dabela, ikokolay

Man he see: no fibre skirt hers, he fear, isakauli; minana vivila ibokavilL (59) Iga^Uy he runj this woman she chase. Later on,

boge itubwo lofoula fnatauna^ ikaytasL

already it upset inside his this man, they copulate.

See 14-21. — The diagram (Fig. 4, p. 547) showing the topography will make the account of the pursuit clearer.

See 19.

(60) Ikanarise wala obwarka. They lie down just in sea.

Questioned about the meaning of this expression, the informant affirmed that they first committed the act of incest in the water. In going over the story he described the passion in more detail.

(61) Boge kala laHya ivagi olopoula, Already his passion it do in inside his,

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fnagila kumaydona wowola. (62) Boge

desire his all body his. Already

ikaytasiy ikimmse^

they copulate, they scratch lightly,

iktmalise,

they erotically scratch.

See 11. — Explaining why the two lovers remained without food and drink and so died, my informant says:

(63) Gala sitana ikarnkwamsi, imofnomsiy fela No one bit they eat, they drink, for

gala fnagisiy boge ivagl simwasilay fela-

no desire theirs, already it do their shame, for luleta ikaytasi.

brother her sister his they copulate.

See 26. — Explaining the behaviour of the frigate- birds:

(64) Ikokwoylubayse — ilousi, isukonisi mayna They soar — they go, they smell odour

tomwota. humans.

^^^ 33- — This, the spell or chant, designated wosi (song) and not megwa or yofa (spell) is sung whilst they boil coco-nut oil for love magic. It runs:

{(iS) Mekaru karuwagu; ' mevira.

Gall bladder, gall bladder mine 5 woman,

viregu; mebormiy bomatu.

woman mine 5 North-west wind. North-west wind.

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(66) Ifela karuwagu meviray

He change place gall bladder mine woman,

viregu; mebomay homatUy

woman mine 5 North-west wind, North-west wind, fnedaray dara, languor, languor.

The rite is not performed in a strong wind-


(67) Kidama Supposing

yagiluy gala

wind, no

biyuvisa^u.


sene bifeulo

very much it might be strong

tavagi megwa — tage we magic — so that not

(68) Iga^u niwayluway


he might blow away.


hatavagi

we might do

kwoywaga

kwoywaga plant

boge tasayki

already we give


ola^odilay in bush,

ka^ukwa^u, morning. vivila. woman.


Later on calm weather,

tamiga^i

we might charm Kwayaviy bibogi Evening, at night


See 40. — The water in the Kadi'usawasa reef-passage has some magical properties, as bathing in it improves the looks.

(69) Okarikeda Kadi^usawasa gwadi yakida

In passage of Kadi'usawasa child ourselves takakaya buarlse migida.

we bathe he might beautify face ours.


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About the brackish wells we are told:

(70) Tabula lasofi Bokaraywata; vivila

Man his water of Bokaraywata j woman Momkitava, (71) Kidama tamomsl hayse softy Momkitava. Supposing we drink this water,

boge takasouso^u, already we become grey-headed.

In general, if persons of either six bathed in the other's well, their looks would become impaired.

The silsila and givagavela plants, mentioned in the text (verse 40), grow near the wells.

In olden days people from other villages, even from the neighbouring villages on the lagoon (Sinaketa and others) were not allowed to bathe in these waters.

See 46. — Questioned about the fish, my informant

says:

(72) Ifniga^sey itnifnise yena nayiyu

They charm, they dream fish two

naketoki s'lkmn nayyu

small animals sikum (name of fish) two kahulula kahulula. (73) Natanidesiy taUsala nose to nose. Only one, we fling away

bila obwaritay gala takakaya.

he might go in the sea, no we bathe.

See 49. — ^This verse means that such magic would lead not only to love but to matrimony:

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CASES OF ACTUAL INCEST

(74) Bilivala veyola

He might speak maternal kinsman his vivila: kawala: "Kuwokeya kuvaHsiy

woman: speech his: "Thou bring there you marry ummwala hoge.^^

thy husband already."


CASES OF ACTUAL INCEST

Let us now pass from legend to reality, and see how events of the present day tally with their prototypes in the dim past. It has already transpired that, in spite of the seemingly absolute taboo, in spite of a real and over- whelming abhorrence felt by the natives, cases of brother- and-sister incest do yet actually occur. Nor are they an innovation due to European contact — an influence for which the natives blame so many changes in custom. Far back, before white men appeared in the island, such lapses from tribal morality happened, and they are re- membered and quoted to-day, with names and details.

One of the previous paramount chiefs, Purayasi, was known to have lived with his sister 5 and another one, Numakala, is also strongly suspected by history of this felony. They, of course, belonged to the Malasi clan 5 and there can be no doubt that with them, as with so many other dynasties and famous rulers, the feeling of power, of being above the law, served as a shield from the usual penalties. And, as historical figures, they and their


A SAVAGE MYTH OF INCEST

doings would not so easily lapse into oblivion as in the case of commoners. I was told by my informants that,, in olden times, discovery of incest would invariably have meant death for both culprits, self-inflicted in the usual form of suicide. This would at least have been the case when commoners were concerned. But, say the natives,, with the influx of missionaries and government officials all custom has deteriorated, and even the worst crime can be brazened out.

That a man may still pay the supreme penalty for breach of the incest taboo, has been proved to me by the following instance which came directly under my observa- tion. I had not been in Omarakana more than a couple of weeks when one morning, in July, 19 15, I was casually told by my interpreter and only informant (at that time I still worked in pidgin English) that, in the neighbour- ing village of Wakayluwa, a boy named Kima'i had fallen off a tree and killed himself — ^by accident. I was also informed that somehow, again by accident, another boy had received a severe wound. The coincidence seemed to me strange at the time, but unable to speak the lan- guage and thus gain the full confidence of the natives, I was still groping in the dark 5 and being much occupied With the customs of mourning and burial, then new to me, I gave up all attempt at getting to the bottom of the tragedy.

Later on, I strongly suspected that the falling off the tree was a case of suicide by lo^u, but the natives remained reticent on the subject. For there is nothing more diffi- cult for an ethnographer than to find out the ins and outs

see


CASES OF ACTUAL INCEST

of really important and tragic events of recent date, which, if they came under the notice of the local resident magistrate, might lead to court proceedings, imprison- ments and other serious disturbances of tribal life. And in this case, as I learned afterwards, there was some po- litical element involved, since Kima'i was a relative of Moliasi, the traditional enemy of the paramount chief, and the incident had revived the historical tension between the ruler of Kiriwina and that of Tilataula.^

It was only during my last visit to the Trobriands, when almost three years had elapsed since the tragedy, that I found out the bare outline of the case. Kima'i had an intrigue with his mother's sister's daughter. This was no secret, but, though the villagers generally disapproved, it was only by the initiative of the girl's betrothed that mat- ters were brought to a head. After several attempts to separate them, his rival insulted Kima'i in public, telling aloud, or rather shouting across the village, the plain fact that he was a breaker of the incest taboo, and mentioning the name of the girl with whom the incest was committed. This, as we know, is the most aggravated form of the insult, and it produced the desired effect. Kima'i com- mitted suicide. The youth who brought about this was, in fact, wounded by the kinsmen of Kima'i j hence the strange coincidence of the two casualties occurring at the same time. The girl is now married and lives happily with her husband. She can be seen on the frontispiece made from a photograph taken during mortuary proceed-

1 For an account of the political conditions among the Trobriand na- tives, cf. Seligman's Melanesians and the present writer's Argonauts of the IVestern Pacific, ch. ii, sec. v, and Myth, ch. ii.

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A SAVAGE MYTH OF INCEST

ings, at which she wears no mourning (black paint and shaven hair) since she was a real kinswoman of the de- ceased (see above, ch. vi, sec. 2). The whole occurrence gave me some insight into the legal ideas of the natives, but with this subject I have dealt elsewhere.^ Here it is mainly the sexual aspect which interests us and to this we will return.

For not all the cases of incest — even in its more repre- hensible form — lead to the same tragic issue. There is no doubt that, at present, several couples are under strong suspicion of being guilty of the most heinous form of suvasovay that is, of incestuous intercourse between brother and sister. One case given to me in detail is that of a pretty girl, Bokaylola, who is said to allow her albino brother to "visit" her. I had a feeling from the way in which my informant spoke about it that the concurrence of two immoralities somehow mitigated both. It is felt that, since an albino has no chance whatever of a woman and since he is not really a man, incest with him is not so offensive.

By far the most instructive and clear case of brother- and-sister incest, is the notorious liaison between two Malasi people of the village of Okopukopu.

Mokadayu was still very much alive when I visited the Archipelago, and he gave me the impression of a man of unusual ability and intelligence. Endowed with a beau- tiful voice and famous as a singer, he also for a time exercised the lucrative profession of a spiritistic medium. In this he arrived independently at some of the great

1 Crime and Custom, pp. 77 sq.

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CASES OF ACTUAL INCEST

achievements in which our modern spiritism excels j such as the production of ectoplasm and phenomena of mate- rialization (usually of worthless objects) 5 but his spe- cialty was rather dematerialization (invariably of valu- able objects). He would conjure up an arm and a hand — ^belonging presumably to his "control" — and this was always ready to foreclose on valuables, food, betel-nut, or tobacco, which, no doubt, were transported to the spirit world. Obeying the universal law of occult phenomena, Mokadayu's "controls" and other spirit friends would operate only in the dark. The famous hand from the other world could only be dimly seen, clutching at every piece of worldly goods within its reach.

There are arrogant and inconsiderate sceptics, however, even in the Trobriands and, one day, a young chief from the north caught hold of the hand and dragged out Mokadayu himself from the shelf where he lay con- cealed behind a mat. After this, unbelievers tried to be- little and even to denounce spiritism, but the faithful still brought gifts and payments to Mokadayu.

On the whole, however, he found it better to devote himself to love and music, for in the Trobriands, as with us, a tenor or baritone is sure of success with women. As the natives put it: "The throat is a long passage like the wila (cunnus) and the two attract each other. A man who has a beautiful voice will like women very much and they will like him." Mokadayu, indeed, used to sleep with the chief's wives, for he preferred married women, who are at a premium in the Trobriands. Finally, after having tasted, no doubt, the minor degrees of suvasova

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(clan incest), he came to what was to be the most dramatic exploit of his life.

His sister, Inuvediri, was one of the most beautiful girls in the village. Naturally she had many lovers 5 but a strange change came over her, and she seemed disin- clined^ to sleep with her lemans. The young men of the village were dropped one after another. They put their heads together and decided to find out what had hap- pened to their mistress, suspecting that she must have acquired a new and paramount lover, who was satisfying all her desires. One night they noticed that brother and sister had withdrawn to the parental house. Their sus- picions were confirmed: they saw a terrible thing: brother and sister making love to each other. A serious scandal followed 5 for the news spread all over the village and brother and sister were made aware that everybody knew of their mutual crime. The story goes that the two lived in incest for some months after this discovery, so passion- ately were they enamoured of one another, but Mokadayu had finally to leave the community. The girl married a man from another village. I was told that, in olden days, "both would unquestionably have committed suicide.

Such is the story of Mokadayu and his sister. Together with other facts previously described, it shows dramati- cally how inadequate is the postulate of "slavish sub- servience to custom." It also shows that the opposite view — ^that native principles are a sham and a fake — would equally be misleading. The fact is that the na- tives, while professing tribal taboos and moral principles.

570


CASES OF ACTUAL INCEST

have also to obey their natural passions and inclinations, and that their practice is the compromise between rule and impulse, a compromise common to all humanity.

The myth of incest, at first sight mysterious and incom- prehensible, loses a great deal of its strangeness when we have found that it reflects certain tendencies which can be -seen manifested in real life. The temptation to incest evidently does exist in the mind of the natives, though by a powerful taboo it is prevented from finding ready expression.

It is interesting to note how the myth is used to jus- tify the cases of real incest which happen nowadays. For instance, a clansman of Mokadayu tried to explain and to extenuate the latter's crime against tribal morality as fol- lows. He told how Mokadayu had prepared coco-nut oil impregnated with love magic, in order to induce an amo- rous response in another girl 5 how Invediri, entering the house, inadvertently spilt some of the fluid and became intoxicated by the magic 5 how she discarded her fibre skirt and lay naked on the bedstead, longingly awaiting the brother. How, on entering the hut, and seeing her naked- ness — ^perhaps also feeling the influence of magic on him- self — he became inflamed with passion. This paraphrase, or rather copy, of the myth was definitely put to me as a defence of the criminal 5 it was intended to show that it was fatality rather than fault which had brought about the abominable act. The myth was thus used as a para- digm by which actuality was explained, in order to make the deed more comprehensible and acceptable to the na-

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A SAVAGE MYTH OF INCEST

tives. The psychology manifested in this use of the myth makes the function of the myth itself clearer to the sociologist.

Far from being incompatible with the powerful inci- dence of the taboo, the temptation to incest is probably strengthened by it through the irresistible fascination which forbidden fruit always had, has, and will have for the human being. How far psycho-analysis can help us to solve this problem and where it merely confuses the issues, I have tried to discuss in a previous work.^ Here I would like only to repeat that, by correlating the Myth of Incest with the realities of life, by placing it side by side with typical dreams of the natives, with their obscene language, and with their attitude towards taboo in gen- eral, we find a satisfactory explanation of its apparent strangeness in terms of fact and not of hypothesis.

"^Sex and Repression,


5T2.


INDEX


INDEX


Abortion, 197-98

Adolescents, amorous life of, 61 ff. {And see Bachelors and Girls)

Adultery:

Cases of, 115-17, 144-5; among Chief's wives, 137-40, 324, 488, 530 Cat's-cradle representing, 398-

400 Child-bearing without husband's intercourse not attributed to, 193 General attitude to, 1 14-15, 458, 460; in case of pregnant woman, 345 Native word for, 68, 73 ; so- called, io6 Punishment for, 143 ; formerly death, 143, 322, 324, 459; semi- public shaming, 484 Taboo on, 456

AflEection: physiological seat of, 169; usually lasting in Tro- briand marriages, 112-13, 162

Age: disparity in infant betrothals, limit of, 104; table showing designations for, 60

Albinos, 176; native name for, 299; their appearance, 302-3; horror of, 185; ostracism of, 80, 289, 292-3 ; case of incest with, 568

Ambition and personal pride as incentive, 64-5, 123, 127-8

Amorous expeditions, see Katu- yausi and Ulatile

Amphlett Is., 193, 278, 416; gar- den magic in, 44 w. ; sexual and social intercourse in, 260, 311-12

Anatomy, human, parts of, dis- tinguished and named, 165


Ancestral spirits, see under Spirits Animals, ignorance as to propa- gation of, 190-3 {and see Dogs and Pigs) Anointing {putuma) , 303; ritual,

354

Areca palm leaves for dress, 303

Argonauts of the Western Pacific cited, 3 n., 9 n., 24 n., 35 n., 42 n., 44 n., 90 n., 116 n., 118 n., 127 n., 133 n., 153 n., 178 n., 214 n., 219 and n., 220 n., 223 n., 248 n., 251 n., 252 «., 255 n., 287 n., 290 n., 291 n., 321 n., 345 n., 346, 352 «., 353 n., 390 n., 392 n., 416 n., 449 n., 491 n., 540 n., 567 n.

Armlets: making of, 26; of conus shell, 90; aromatic leaves worn in {vana), 221, 234, 248, 270, 305, 449

Arms (limbs), affection associated with, x66, 169

Aromatic herbs: worn in armlets, 221, 234, 248, 270, 305, 449; used in confinement magic, 231; in safety magic, 358; in love magic, 369-70, 542; bub- ivayayta, 431

Assassins hired by chiefs, 132

Aunt, maternal, 525-6

Aunt, paternal, 350-51, 534-5

Axe-blades, polished, 90, 104

Babies, see Infants

Bachelors, privileges denied to, 80

{and see Bachelors' house and

Boys) Bachelors' house {hukumatula) : Adolescents' occupancy of, 62»

70, 520


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INDEX


Bachelors' house (Cont.)

Characteristics of, summarized,

75 ^ .

Decorum observed in, 73, 322,

478-9 Freedom of relationships m, 69,

7+

Girls betrothed in infancy not frequenters of, 105, 106

Girls from another village occu- pying, 264

"Group concubinage" non-exist- ent in, 73

Importance of, 51, 70

Interiors of, 72

Meals never taken in, 75

Number of, in Omarakana, 71-2

Ownership of, 72

Sexual intercourse in, quiet mode

of, 73, 337 Temporary quarters contrasted with, 65-6

Bad language — swearing, 381, 446, 482-6, 533-4; children's, 54

Bagido'u, 99 ; his expulsion of Namwana Guya'u, 13-14; his wife's desertion, 144-5, 37^; his friendship with Jubukwa'u, 471 ; cited, 103

Baku, see Village — Central place

Baldness, 291

Baloma, see Spirits

"Baloma: The Spirits of the Dead in the Trobriand Islands" cited, 428 n.

Bam, 165; vatula bam, 228-31

Banana leaves: for dress, 26-7, 304; used in magic, 512; seeds as necklaces, 305

Barter of fish and vegetables, 26, 92

Bathing games, 247 (and see Sea- water)

Ba'u string figure, 398-9

Ba'u village, 416; endogamous dis- trict of, 457, 499-500

Bawdiness, see Ribaldry

Beauty and personal charm: Ideal of, 286-8, 292, 294-7; in

detail, 297-303 Interest in, intense, 345 Magic of, see under Magic


Beauty and personal charm (Cont.) Taboos regarding, 289-90 To'uluwa's formula of, 308-9

Bellamy, Dr., 231 and n.

Belly, desire and affection asso^ ciated with, i66, 169

Belts: making of, 26; wearing of,

304, 305 Bestiality: native contempt for,

469-70, 474; case of, ,474-5 Betel-nut: for chewing, 125, 270,

335-6; for lip-painting, 270;

gifts of, 307 Beyawa, 432-33 Bigayuwo, 546 Bilamapu, 339

Biting, erotic, 333, 340-43, 475 Bi'u (tug-of-war game), 245, 253 Black - grease - smearing [koulo),

117, 292, 296-7, 444 Blackening of teeth, 226, 299, 308 Blood {buyam) : in menstruation,

169; in pregnancy, 175, 188 Bodogupo'u, 529 Bodulela, 87, 315, 329, 529 Bogonela, 118-19

Bokaraywata grotto, 543, 544, 550 Bokaylola, 568 Bokuyoba, 136, 138, 200 Bolobesa, 120, 143 Bolutukwa (Mitigis), 182-3 Bomala, 461-3 {and see Taboos) Bomawise, 139 Bomidabobu, 136 Bomiyototo, 136 Bones as relics, 155-6; their final

rest, 157 Bo'usari, 144 Bowels, 168 Boyowa Island, 9, 171 {and see

names of 'villages) Boys {see also Bachelors' house) : Amorous opportunities for, 250

{and see Ulatile) Boasting of, 330 Excursions of, with girls, 246-7,

326-28, 335-6 Fornication of, with old women,

294, 343 Friendships of, 471-2 Games for, 243-4 Group formed by, 63-4


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INDEX


Boys (Cont.)

Love magic as practised by,

364 ff. Orgiastic licence of, 256-7 Removal of, from home, 520 Sexual intrigues of, 63 ; their freedom, 66 ; the personal pref- erence element, 63, 67, 74 Breasts: native words to describe, 301 ; love-magic associated with, 250 Brother of a woman:

Guardianship functions of, 18, 28, 35-36, 84-5, 129, 201-2, 521 Likeness to his sister denied, sug- gestion an insult, 206, 487 Original, from underground, 182 Taboo between sister and, see under Taboos Brother's wife, taboo regarding,

533

Buhunela, 463 {and see Conven- tion)

Bubivayayta, 431

Budiya, Headman of Kabululo, 87, 529-30

Bugwabwaga, 174

Bukumatula, see Bachelors' house

Bulaviyaka, 71 {and see Dwelling- houses)

Bulubivalata, see Sorcery

Bulubwaloga, 139-40, 317, 530

Bulukiva, see Pigs

Bulukwau'ukwa, 118

Burayama, 471

Buresi leaves, 545

Burials, central space formerly used for, 10, 154 {and see Mor- tuary Ritual)

Bush, the: children's amours in, 56, 65; confinements in, 230; assignations in, 263

Bush-pigs, 190; taboo on, 190; mating of, with village pigs, 190-2 ; associated with garden taboo, 493

Butia flower, 303, 357; kayasa,

254-5 Butura, see Renown Buiva, 319 Buyavi, see Blood Bwadela village, 172 n., 274, 279


Bwaga village, 274 Bivala nakaka'u, 71 Bivaulo, 150, 450 Bwaylagesi, 432 Bivayma, see Yam-houses Bwaytalu village, 417; endoga- mous district of, 457, 499-500 Bivaytwva (white bird), 214-15 Bivoyna, meaning of term, 464-66

Canoe-building: a man's work, 26; magic connected with, 41, 42, 48 Canoes, ownership of, 25, 34; miniature, contest with, 39, 254 Carving, 26 Cat's-cradles {ninukula), 398 and

7/.-400 Ceremonial enterprises, financing

of, 81 Ceremonial exchange, see Kula Change of air, curative use of, 235 Chiefs {see also To'uluwa and other names) : Decorous speech in presence of,

477-78 Dwelling-house of {lisiga)^ 10,

71 ; its platform, 33 Festivities, etc., financed by, 81,

130-1 Hereditary service to, 11 Polygamy the privilege of, 11, 34, 81 ; its economic necessity, 130 if.; the kaymapula, 131; for the heir-apparent, 134 Precedence in household of, 136 Privileges of, besides polygamy,

130; taboos regarding, 457 Respect paid to, 32-3 and n?y

130, 477-78 Social demands on, 81, 130-33 Sons of: their rank, 136; their deputizing functions, 96, 98-9 Tributary districts of, 131-2 Villages placed under taboo dur- ing absence of, 115-16 Wealth of, derived through mar- riage, 130-32 Wives of {ffiyovila) : their gifts from relatives, 125-6; three classes of, 136-7; choice of,


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INDEX


137; head of, 136; substitute (kaymapula), 13 1-2, 134; ta- boo on, 457; prostitution of, in Sinaketa, 323

Yam-houses of, 442 Chieftainship :

Heir-apparent: friction between chief's son and, 16, 97-8, 102; substitute-wife provided for, on death of chief's wife, 134

Rank associated with, 30-31

Women barred from, 34 Childbirth, father's function at, 201 (and see Confinement) ; virgin birth of Tudava, 182, 426 Children {see also Infants) :

Boys: early removed from mother and sisters, 55, 62, 520; age for beginning sexual life, 57; amorous pastimes, 58; also separate from girls, 59

Cleanliness taught to, 446

Custom, their deference to, 53

Development of, 518-19

Divorce, in cases of, 140-7

Father in relation to, see under Father

Girls: accompanying their fathers, 54; age for sexual in- dulgence, 56-7; also separate from boys, 59

Illegitimate, 20-21, 194; their rarity, 196-7; no preventive means employed, 197-8; sug- gested explanation, 198

Independence of, 52-4, 518 ; the child community, 53, 63-4; its two groups, 59

Longing for, 81

Mother in relation to, see under Mother

Origin of, 171 ff., 178-9 {and see Infants)

Parental discipline non-existent,

52 Precocity of, in sexual knowledge and indulgence, 54-6, 63 ; atti- tude of the elders, 56 ; age for beginning, 56-7; amorous pas- times, 56-8 ; initiation by each other, 55; no interference by elders, 59 ; place of indulgence.


56, 65-6; lasting character of

some erotic attachments, 314-15 Recognition of, by the father, if

born in wedlock, 193-4 Relations-in-law, counted as, 126 Training of, in the brother-sister

taboo, 520 Weaning of, 234-5, 5^8 Citizenship rights:

Maternal village the seat of, 7 Mythological grounds of claim

to, II Clans, totemic {see also their

names) : Ceremonial functioning of, 499 Classification by, implications of,

496-98, 500 Exogamy of, 455-6, 503 {and see

Exogamy) Four, universality of, in native

belief, 494-6 Matrilineal principle observed in

membership of, 6, 208-9 Mortuary sagali based on, 347 Mourning obligations of, 151-2 Names of, 496 Reincarnation into one's own,

Solidarity of sentiment of, 163,

200, 505 Stringency of taboo varying with,

513-14 Cleanliness, 444-8 Cloak {saykeulo) for pregnancy

and after, 212-17, 221, 223,

225, 227, 233-4 Coco-nut fibre: for skirts, 304; for

washing, 351-4 Coco-nut oil: for anointing, 220,

228, 234, 303, 308, 353-4, 466;

used in magic, 372, 541-3;

spells of, 549 Co-habitation preceding marriage,

67-9, 74 {and see Sexual in- tercourse) Competitive displays {kayasa)y

37-40 Conception :

Beliefs as to, 173 ff.; spirit agency, 180-81, i88; associated with sea-water, 175, 225; sex- ual intercourse associated with,


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INDEX


180, 181; but not necessary to,

181, 294, 426; the condition sine qua non, 180-3 > also in animals, 191-2

Contraceptives unknown, 197-9 Conch-shells: in the butia kayasa, 254, 255; magic associated with, 348; in magic of re- nown, 360-61 Confinement: in father's or mater- nal uncle's house, 223, 228-9; sometimes in the bush, 230; fear of sorcery, 221 ; the yausa, 229; the travail and childbirth, 230-31 Consumption, 145 Conus shell armlets, 90 Conventionality: its traditional sanction, 224-5, 462; its power, 195, 202, 294, 462, 506; in love- making, 325 {and see Custom) Cooking, 19; taboo on, 71 Copulation (kayta), see Sexual act Coral ridge {raybivag), 326 Corpses: burial of, see Mortuary ritual ; emanation from (bivaulo), 150, 450; signs on, indicating death motive, 358, 459-60 Cosmetics, see Face-painting Courtship:

Decorum observed in, 479-80 Direct methods of, 312 Effect on, of early sexual ex- periences, 311 Intermediary (kaykivi), 313 Magic applied to, 63, 313, 318 Music in, 312

Satisfaction and rejection In, re- sults of, 313-14 Cousin of a man, first maternal female, taboo regarding, 527,

532

Cousin of a man, first maternal male, customary unfriendliness with, 16, 98, 102

Cousin of a man, first paternal fe- male, marriage with, see Mar- ri age — cross-cousin

Cousin of a woman, first paternal {tama), 102, 531

Crime and Custom in Savage So-


ciety cited, 8 n.f 12 n., 35 n.^, 53 n., 127 n., 155 n., 210 n., 236 n., 252 n., 318 n., 321 «., 358 n.f 386 n.i, 460 n., 462 n., 485 n., 491 n., 509 n., 513 «., 521 n., 568 n. Custom, tribal {see also Conven- tionality) : Breach of, accounted as wrong- doing, 195, 202 Children's deference to, 53 Force of, 127; destruction of, harmful, 128-9

Dabugera: betrothal of, to Kalo- gusa, 78, 99, 108; divorces her husband, 79-80, 143 ; intrigue with Monakewo, 79-80, 329; his attachment, 315-16; his love-making, 341-a Dabivana, 168 Dadam (reeds), 360 Dagiribu'a, 145 Dakiya, 145, 377, 532 Dala, see Sub-clans Dances, sale of {laga)^ 250-1 and n. Dancing:

Central space used for, 10 Ceremonial, 50 Drum-taboo incident, 38 Kasaiuaga, 348, 350 Kaydebu, 286

Magic — against dancers {kay- giauri), 357-8, 458, 460; for their protection, 358 Men's part in, 39 Milamala festivities, 249-50 Mortuary ritual, in (vaysali),

37, 154 Miveli, 350 Ornaments for, 24 Precedence of, over singing,

305^ Proficiency in, a danger, 358, 458,

460 Sexual representations entirely

absent from, 397 Tokolimatala, 348 Dancing period {usigola) : sagali

preceding, 348 ; last three days,

349-50; extension of, 252 Da'ui, 277 n.


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INDEX


Dawson Straits, N.E. shores of, 44 n. ^

Dead, the, immediate departure of, to Tuma, 149, 175 {and see Mortuary ritual and Spirits)

Death {see also Mortuary ritual) : Cause of, traced by signs on corpse, 358, 459-60; natural causes for, not recognized, 459 ; sorcery held to be the cause of, 161, 459 Impossibility of, for the spirit,

171 Penalty of, for adultery, in for- mer times, 143, 322, 324, 459

Decorative art: rank entitling to, 32; sex absent from, 397

Decorum: as to sexual intercourse, 69, io6, 110-12, 454; of katu- yausi and ulatile, Z'jz-'i, ; rules of, numerous, 438 ; their strict observance, 477 ff. ; rigid — of husband and wife as to sex matters, in; and in presence of a brother and sister, 521

Decrease in population, 72

Deformity, 288-9

Delicacy in behaviour, 439-40, 445-8, 451 ; in conversation, 488, 506

De-lousing, see Lice

d'Entrecastaux Archipelago, 277 «., 358, 416

Derision, fear of, 19

Desire, organs affected by, 165-7

Digawina, story of, 408

Digiyagaya, 116

Dipapa, 471

Disease, see Illness

Distributions, ceremonial: of food and wealth — in mortuary rit- ual, 37; of food — for preg- nancy services, 223 ; in a kayasa {sagali), 253, 347-8; at milamala, 443 ; as marriage gifts, 89 ff.; of valuables, 90-1,

93 Distribution of property, 24-5 Ditties, erotic, examples of, 240-3 Diving, magic connected with, 40 Divorce:

Cases of, 79-80


Divorce {Coni.) Formalities of, 146 Frequency of, 142 No stigma attaching to, 147 Reasons for, 143-4 Wife's adoption of, rather than husband's, 142-3, 147 Doha, see Dress — Women's Dobu Island, 44 n. Dobuans: physical type of, 306; sexual and social intercourse among, 260, 277 n., 311-12; preliminary love-making, 331-2 Dogina, 168

Dogs: insults to, 447; the case of "Jack," 474; the totemic myth, 498-9 Dokonikan, 289, 403 Dreams:

Erotic, 393-4 Freud's theory of, 385 Incestuous, 393-4, 396 Magic in relation to, 391-6, 403-4; the spell in love magic,

367 Ordinary, natives' attitude to,

386, 393-4 Pregnancy foretold in, 174, 211,

389

Prophetic, 389, 394-5

Standardized, 387, 394 Dress:

Festive, 38, 39, 50; semi-festive, at harvest presentations, 124

Men's: the pubic leaf: its form, 303-4; its material, 303-4; its making, 26; its wearing, 62; its significance, 274; its re- moval, on fishing expeditions, 54. 451; with lover, 332, 336; in lechery, 490; its renewal, 248; taboo regarding, 451; ditty concerning, 241, 242; men's festive attire, 50; women's skirts assumed for a dance, 39

Modesty in, 439, 450-1, 478

Requirements in, 450

Women's: under and upper skirts of grass or leaf-fibre, 22, 24, 50, 304-5; making of, 26-7; the magic for, 43 ; age for as-


580


INDEX


suming skirt, 56; care at ado- lescence, 62 ; renewal of, at harvest festivities, 248 ; display of, 269; worn by men at a dance, 39; longer sometimes worn, 170, 304; widows', on release from mourning, 158, 212-17; pregnancy robes, 223; maternity cap, 234; discarding of skirts — at night, 166, 332, 336; after childbirth, 232; in the yausa, 275 ; taboo regard- ing skirts, 451 Drums: male ownership of, 24;

breaking the taboo on, 38 Drunkenness, natives' attitude to,

452 Dual influence of paternal love and matrilineal principle, impor- tance and effects of, 7, 202 ; tension and friction resulting, 12 ff., 15-16; domestic aspect of, 21 ; cross-cousin marriage a reconciling compromise, 95, 97-8, 103 {and see under Mar- riage) ; economic aspect of, 129 Dudubile Kautala, 117-18 Dwelling-houses:

Building of, men's and women's work in, 26; help in, 126; gifts requiting this help, 91-2

Children's sexual pastimes not carried on in, 56, 65

Decorations denoting rank, 32

Interiors and furnishing of, 22

Ownership of, 18, 25

Privacy impossible in, 54

Situation of, 9 Dyeing, 27

Ear-rings, 305

Ears: ideal beauty of, 298; piercing and adornment of, 298-9

Eatin-r: enjoyment of, 441-2; man- ners associated with, 441-2; privacy preferred, 350

Economic Journal: Primitive Eco- nomics of tlze Trobriand Islanders" cited, 133 «., 248 n., 252 n.

Elopement, 86


Embracing, hugging (kopo'i) : of

infants, 18, 20, 195, 201; of

adults, 169 Endogamy, see Marriage — Endog-

amous . Engaged couples: infidelities of, 69;

advertisement by, of forthcom- ing marriage, 69, 77, 84;

meals never taken in common

by, 75 ; consent of girl's family,

importance of, 85-7 Entertainments, sexual indulgence

associated with, 50, 65, 66, 69 Equality of status of men and

women, 18, 29, 40, 49 Erotic interest, focus of, 295-6 Erotic phase of life, sociological

importance of, 1-3 Ethnographical work, methods of,

282-85, 502 ff. Euphemisms, 446 European physiognomy not admired

by the natives, 307 Excrement, insults associated with,

446, 486 Excretory processes: ribald talk of,

403; delicacy regarding, 439;

arrangements for, 445-6 Excursions, 246-7 Exhibitionism, native contempt for,

454, 468, 469, 470, 476, 490 Exogamy, see Marriage — Exoga-

mous Eyebrows, shaving of, 297 Eyelashes, erotic biting off of, 297,

334. 342-3, 472 Eyes: the seat of desire, 166, 297; of affection and love, 169; ideal beauty in, 297

Face: as object of erotic interest,

295; the ideal, 296, 368 Face-painting (soba), 124, 221, 248, 270, 300, 356; pigments used, 296-7 Facial resemblances, 204-8, 487 Family, the:

Basis of Trobriand social organ- ization, 202, 514 Break-up of, at adolescence of

children, 62 Pride in, 127


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INDEX


Family {Cont.)

Sexual taboos regarding, 456 Father {tama) : —

Children, relation to: physical bond not recognized, 4, 81, 84, 456; regarded tribally as strangers, 161 ; physical like- ness asserted, 204-8 ; reason alleged for this, 207-8 ; rec- ognition of, if born in wed- lock, though in husband's prolonged absence, 193-4; "system of obligations and reciprocal duties," 515, 516- 17; his care and companion- ship, 6, 18, 156; nursing the baby (kopo't), 18, 20, 195, 201; soiling services, 21, 157, 444; bond of affection, 6, 12, 15, 20-1, 95-6, 203, 530; na- tives' explanation of this, 210; no punishments, 52; transfer of authority to ma- ternal uncle, 7; children's mourning at his death, 151; their part in mortuary ritual,

154-7 Daughter: his importance re- garding her marriage, 84-6, 202; his part regarding her first pregnancy, 212-13, 222- 4; incest with him strictly tabooed, 456, 528, 533; not sworn at, 534; step-daughter not distinguished from, 529 Son: ambassador for marriage consent for, 86 ; position of the favourite son, 96; priv- ileges conferred on, during father's lifetime, 209 Household, his place in: a stran- ger (tomakava), 5; the master, 6, 18; only partially the head, 129; his domestic helpfulness, 18, 49 Spirit of, as agent in his daugh- ter's pregnancy, 173, 175 Fellatio, 475

Fellowes, Rev. S. B., 276 Festivities and feasts {see also Dancing, Karibom, Kayasa, Milamala) :


Festivities and feasts {Cont.) Beauty magic before, 220 and ». Central space used for, 10, 50 Dress for, 27, 39, 124, 305 Financing of, 81, 131, 132 Harvest, 26, 123 ff., 248, 260 Male and female demeanour at, 49-50

Fetishism, native contempt for, 469

Fibre petticoats, see Dress — Wo- men's

Fire, origin of, 427

Fireplaces, 22

Fish:

Gift of {takivalelavilakuria) y

92-3 Gift of first-caught, to chief, 131 Myth of Incest, in, 544-5, 550 Poison from, ii8, 120 Refuse of, disposal of, 445 Spine of, used in love magic,

372-3 Stingaree, see that heading Tabooed kinds of, 227, 289-90 Fishing expeditions: a man's work, 17, 25; youths' share in, 64; magic connected with, 40, 42, 48 ; organizer of, the wielder of its magic, 389-90; girl chil- dren accompanying their fath- ers on, 54; pubic leaf re- moved on, 54, 304 Flattery-bond {tileiva'i)^ 215, 352,

368 Flowers: as personal decoration, 40, 124, 305; kayasa of, 254-5 Foetus, 176

Folk-lore, characters of, 289 Food:

Abstinence from, by couple awaiting consent to marriage^ 86, 90 Articles of, 19; bananas, 125.

425 Ceremonial burying of, 348 Ceremonial distribution of (sa- ffali)y see under Distribution Coco-drinks, 125 Gifts of, see Gifts Necessity of, not recognized, 441 Not taken on love-making expe- ditions, 327, 336


582


INDEX


Food (Cont.)

Offering of, to spirits, 389

Sago pudding, ceremonial eating

of, 349 Scarcity of, a matter of shame,

127, 442, 470, 491, Taboos on, seg under Taboos Unclean, totemic myth as to, 499 Fornication, native word for, 68 Freckles, 303 Friendship, 471-2

Fruits forbidden to pregnant wo- men, 227 Furniture, 22

Gaga, meaning of term, 464-8 Games:

Bathing, 247

Children's, sex element in, 55, 57-8

Erotic, 238 ff., 250; reason for na- tive appreciation of, 479-80, 481

Romance in, 58

Seasons for, 237, 260

Tug-of-war {bi'u)^ 245, 253-4 Gardening:

Harvest, 122 if.

Magic connected with, 41-44 and «.i, 47-8

Men's work in, 25-6

Sexual taboo during, 455

Weeding the woman's work, 25, 274, 279

Youths' share in, 64 Gardens:

Gaiety of, at harvest time, 124-5

Male ownership of, 25

Master-in-charge of, 389-91

Sexual intercourse near, tabooed,

492-3 Types of, 122

Visiting, at harvest-time, 124, 248 Gatumijoalila, 365 George, Mick, 191 Gifts:

Betrothal, 85; infant betrothal

ceremonies, 104 Ceremonial exchange of, in the hula, see Kula; in the butia kyasa, 254-5


Gifts {Cont.)

Chief, to a, 130-1, 134

Flattery gifts {tileiva'i), 215, 352,

368 Funeral, 159-60 House-building help, in requital

of, 91 Importance of ceremonial, 90 n.,

Katuyausi, in, 271

K ovist, 126

Marriage, see under Marriage

Occasional (youlo), 127

Personal praise, for, 307

Reconciliation, of {lula), 114, 146

Reciprocity rule, 319, 350, 49J and n., 551

Sexual intercourse requited bj (bunva), 319-21

Valuables, of {<vaygu'a) : :r) t'l kula, see that heading; en marriage, 90-1, 93, 104; resti- tution of, not entailed by di- vorce, 146; on marriage after divorce, 147 ; to mourners, 159-60 [251

Village to village, exchange of, Gigiremutu (=r blackened teeth),

266, 299, 308 Gilayviyaka, 139-40, 317, 376, 530 Gimgivam leaves, 545 Ginger-root used in magic, 358;

512 Girls, unmarried {see also under Children) :—

Adolescence of, 62

Amorous escapades of, see Ka- tuyausi

Childlessness general among, 158-9, 188-9, ^95; child-bearing considered improper, 194-7, 198-202

Excursions with boys, 246-7, 326"

8, 335-7 Forcible methods of, 264 Group formed by, 63-4 Initiative shown by, 269 Orgiastic license of {kamali),

256-7 Sea-water avoided by, if much

drift-debris present, 175


583


INDEX


Girls, unmarried (Cont.)

Sexual intrigues of, 63 ; the per- sonal preference element, 63, 67, 74; their freedom, 66 Status of, resumed by divorcing

or divorced wives, 146-7 Strangers entertained, custom of intercourse with, 259-60, 322 White traders, living with, 186, 198

Gi'vagela bush, 544

Giyovila, see Chiefs — wives of

Gomaya of Sinaketa: his intrigue with Ilamweria, 107, 375-6, 510-11 ; desertion of her on her child's birth, 194; left by his wife, 147; his boasting, 329; his caricature of white men, 338; his magic, 375-6; esti- mate of, 107, 376, 510; cited,

5" GonorrhcEa, 47 Gossip, 329

Grandmother, maternal, 524-5 Gugu'a, 497 Gugivapo'u, 300 Gumabudi, 120, 530 Gumaluya, 119 Gumanuma, see White men Gumasila, 118 Gusaweta, 293-4 Guya'u, meaning of term, 30, 144,

457 Givadi {and see children), 60

Hair on the body (unu'unu), 300 Hair on the head: varieties of beauty of, 299-300; modes of wearing, 299-300; lice in, see Lice; tearing of each other's, in love-making, 333 Hair-dressing, 300; festival of,

255 Half-castes, 208 Hancock, Billy, 217; cited, 293 Harvest:

Ceremonies and social gaiety of,

26, 123 ff., 248, 260-1 Competitive (kayasa), 124 Festivities following: milamala, season of, 261 ; description of,


249 and W.-51 ; dress for, 26, 248; drum incident, 38; chief's food display at, 442-3 ; spirit visitations during, 249, 388,

Gift from bride's family {vilaku- ria), 89, 91-2, 105, 147; after marriage following divorce, 147; annual contribution from wife's family (urigubu), 8i, 85, 97, 104, 105, 121 ff., 132

Head: load-bearing on, 19-20; ta- boo on chief's, 34; as object of erotic interest, 295

Health and healing, magic con- nected with, 41, 45, 47-8, 231,

.519

Hibiscus, 125

Homosexuality: contempt for and repugnance to, 448, 453, 468, 472-3 ; unnatural conditions conducive to, 473

Hospitality, sexual latitude asso- ciated with, 259-60, 322

Humanity, origins of, 182

Hunting: men's work, 17, 25; youths' share in, 64 ; magic connected with, 42, 48, 389

Husband {see also Marriage and Divorce) : Dowry of {'vilakuria) , 77, 88, 92, 97, 105-6; {urigubu), 8i, 85, 97, 104, 105, 121 ff., 132 Household, his position in: a stranger, 17, 44-5; the master, 6, 18; only partially the head, 129; socially indispensable, 201-3; domestic help, i8, 49, 203 Orgiastic excesses of, 258-9 Wife, relations with: good com- radeship, i8, 49, 83, X09, 111- 13; friction, 113-14; attach- ment — genuine grief at death, 162; guardianship functions, 201-3; abstention from sexual intercourse at a stage in preg- nancy, 201, 226, 228 ; till after weaning, 233; the yausa, 229; etiquette in public in presence of, 477 ; peace-offerings if wife leaves, 146


584


INDEX


Husband's brother, taboo regard- ing, 532

Hyde, Rev. C. M., of Honolulu, 479

Ibena, Chief, cited, 181

Ibomala, 113, 116

Ibo'umli, 357

Ibo'una, 99, 143

Idiots, 292

Igamugiva, 213

Igava'u, 212

Igovasi, 360

Ilaka'ise, 137-9, 317

Ilakavetega legend, 404-5, 483

Ilamweria of Wakayse: Gomaya's intrigue with, 107-8, 375-6, 510; his desertion, 194

Ilapakuna, 119

Illegitimacy, scorn and disapproval of, 194-6, 198-202

Illness and disease {silami) : magic to induce, 41, 45, 47, 192, 362, 363, 392, 449-50; magic to cure, 45, 47-8, 231, 519; as punishment for breach of ta- boos, 289; the penalty for in- cest, 504, 511

Iluwaka'i, 143

I misty a, 68

Immortality of spirits, 171

Ina, see Mother and Aunt, mater- nal

Inagwadi, 60 {and see Children)

Incest: Brother-sister, horror regarding,

462, 466 Cases of, 87, 315, 528-9, 565 flF. Clan (breach of exogamy), 503; evasions of taboo, 505, 511-12, 534; disease alleged as retri- bution for, 504, 511 Degrees of, 455-6 Dreams of, 392-4, 396 Family, taboos on, 16, 55, 102 Malasi clan's addiction to,

513 Myth of, 538, 541 ff.; the origi- nal text, 551 ff. ; appeal to the myth, 570-2 Suicide as penalty for, 513 Ineykoya, 155


Infants:

Betrothal of {vaypokala) , 83, 95, 98-99> 535 > ceremonies of, 104-5 'y regarded as equivalent to marriage, 105

Birth of, 230-1 ; father's function at, 201 {and see Confine- ment)

Discarnate spirits the source of,

172, 175-8 ; names for discar- nate spirits, 177; drifting and "wailing, 173 ; their transporta- tion to pregnant women, 174-6 ; manner of their conception,

173, 180-1 {and see Concep- tion)

Food for, 234

Girls as welcome as boys, 29 Nursing of, by fathers {kopo'i), 18, 20, 195, 201 {and see Fathers) Parading of, 233 Washing of, 234 Weaning of, 235, 518 Inheritance, customs as to, 209-

10 Insults, 111, 205-6, 446-7, 483-7; sexual, 112, 485-6, 502; men- tion of names an intensification of, 447, 487, 567 Inuvayla'u, legend of, 413 ff. Inuvediri, 570

Inversion, see Sexual perversion Isakapa, 120

Isepuna: her desertion of Yobuk- wa'u for Kalogusa, 79, 376; her marriage, 79, 83, 112, 3T.7; the marriage gift, 94 Jsulumomoni, 340 Isupwana, 87, 137 Ita<vakayse, bisila, 349 Ita<vakayse kaydehu, 349 Itokoluk'wa'i, 349 Iwa village, myth of, 541 ff.

Janet, P.: Les Medications Psych- ologiques, cited, 363

Jealousy, in marriage, 114, 120, 139, 142; caused by katuyausi, 273, 323 ; quarrels and fights resulting from, 322; motives in, 323-4 ; contradictions in, 323 ;


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INDEX


at a kayasa, 359; as motive for sorcery, 459-60 Journal R. Anthropological Insti- tute cited: (1909), 2S7 n.; (1916) : "Baloma, Spirits of the Dead," 9 n.; article in, 185 n., 192, 249 w., 388 «., 390 n.j

428 n., 432 «.; (1927): 249 «•

Jungle, the, see Bush

Kabisilova spell, 379-81

Kabululo village, 87, 529

Kabwaku village, 447

Kabwaynaka, 120

Kabwaynaya, 103

Kada, 7 {and see Uncle)

Kadamwasila: her marriage, 134; her prestige, 137; her grief for her exiled son, 14; her death, 15; To'uluwa's affection for, 113, 134, 137; his grief for her death, 162

Kadikoko, 297

Kadi'usawasa reef passage, 542, 544, 548, 550

Kadubulami, 99

Kakaveyola, 496, 499, 512

Kakaya, see Washing

Kakayuwa, 485

Kala ivabu, 358, 459

Kalapatu, i8i

Kalimomyo, 123

Kalogusa: betrothed to Dabugera, 78-9, 99, 108 ; his intrigue with Isepuna, 79, 376; his marriage, 79, 83, 99, .108, 112, 317; the marriage gift, 94

Kaloma festival, 255

Kamali (kimali) kayasa, 256-9

Kamroru, 254

Kamwalila, 145

Kaniyaviyaka, 119

Kapwani village, 176

Karawata, story of, 408-9

Karibom, 249-51, 370, 372

Kasana'i village, 87, 96, 113, 181, 488 ; number of bachelors' houses in, 71

Kasaysuya (a game), 239-40

Kasesa, 165; jokes about, 398-9; folk-tales about, 404-8

Kasina magic, 368


Katoulo distinguished from silami,

364

Katubivadela b'wala, 224

Katudabuma, 332

Katugogova, 259

Katumivalela kasakasa, 349

Katwvila, 89, 105

Katuyausi (licentious escapades of girls) : not for those betrothed in infancy, 105, 106 ; motives for, 269 ; procedure for, 270-2 ; missionaries' effect on, 272; limits regarding, 458 ; jealous resentment caused by, 273,

323 Kaukweda Guya'u, 118-19 Kaulagu village, 424 Kaulo, 227

Kavataria village, 96, 143, 415 Kavatokulo, 504 Kavaylu'a, 227 Kayasa (competitive displays) :

Binding force of, 252

Danger of violence at, 359

Festive dress at, 38-9

Flowers {butia wreaths), 254-5

Hair-dressing, 255

Harvest, 124

Kamali {kimali), 256-8

Monotony of, 256

Tug-of-war, 246, 253, 258, 277

Types of, 39-40, 245-6, 252-3 Kayawa, 117 Kaybola village, 173, 178, 272,

425 Kaygiauri, see Dancing — Magic Kaygumita, 301 Kaykaboma, 89, 90, 105 Kaykakaya spell, 220, 366 Kaykivi, 313 Kaykivayivosi, 234 Kayla'i, 96, 481 Kaylasi, meaning of term, 68,

73 Kayleula Island, love magic system

from, 373 Kaymapula (substitute wife), 131,

134 Kaymata, 122 Kaymugnua, 122 Kay papa, iii Kayro'iiva, 544


586


INDEX


Kaysaki, kaytubo, kaylobu, 301 Kayta, meaning of term, 56 {and see Sexual Act and Sexual in- tercourse) Kayta cat's-cradle set, 399-400 Kaytalugi, rabid women of, 183,

277, 422 ff., 454 Kaytatuvilena leaves, 177 Kidneys, 165-7 Kim (a beetle), 48 Kima'i, 566-7 Kimali, see Scratching Kimali (kamali) kayasa, 256-9 Kindred, see Maternal kindred (veyola) and Paternal rela- tives {tabula) Kinship :

Fundamental factor, as, 515 Household, distinct from "classi-

ficatory," 525 Mourning ceremonies deter- mined by, 4, 149-50, 157-8, 159, 450 Principle of, in the Trobriands, 3-4» 84-5, 515-16, 516-18, 524 w. Sub-clan, by, 495 Terms signifying: genealogical diagram illustrating, 515-16, 516 w.; extension of, 525-31, .535-6 Kiriwina Island:

Aristocratic character of, 83 Bush-pig taboo in, 190 Capital of, 8-9 Legendary mention of, 416 Paternal cousin marriages in,

531

Tilataula, relations with, 567 and n.

Villages comprised in, 131 Kirisala, 392; instances of, 394-5,

403-5 {and see Dreams) Kissing, 330-1 Kitava Island:

Kiriwina marriages with, 83

Myth regarding, 543-6

Visitors from, 260

Wanton girl of, 488

Waypulu festival in, 255

mentioned, 193, 417 Kituma, 357 Ki'uki'u, 305


Kolaluvi {lula, peace-offerings),

114, 146 Kopo'i, 18, 20, 195, 201 Korikikila, 339 Koulo (soot-smearing), 117, 158,

292, 297 Koumwali, 493 Kouta'uya, 118-19, ^S^ Kovayse, 349 Kovisi, 126 Koya, 278 Kuhilabala, 339 Kukwanebu (folk-tales), 402 ff.,

426 Kula (ceremonial exchange) :

Butia wreaths, of, 254

Children's, 58

Jealousy aroused, by, 114

Terminology of, 255

mentioned, 90 «., 96, 118 Kula expeditions:

Leader of, the wielder of its magic, 389-91

Magic of, see under Magic

Men concerned with, 26, 35 and

n., 43

Myths of, 291, 346

Sexual intercourse with the visit- ing traders permitted, 260, 322

Sexual taboo before, 455; on wives and sweethearts during,

493 Unsuccessful, consolation for, 251 Uvalaku, 252 Youths' share in, 64 Kumatala, 528-9 Kumila, see Clans Kumilabwaga village, 274; myth

of, 541 ff. Kurayana, 184, 185 n., 293, 483 Kutawouya, 119 Kuwo'igu, 113 Kwabulo village, 403 ; legend of

Inuvayla'u of, 413-22 Kivaknvada (amorous excursion),

246-7, 325-8, 335 Kwaybwaga village, 272; high

rank of, 458 Kwaynama sub-clan: Tabalu mar- riages into, loo-i, 133; status

of, 500 Knvebila plant, 231, 358


587


INDEX


Kiuila, 165; ribald ditties about, 240-1 ; tales of, 410 ff. ; jests about, 482-3

Kivoyaivaga, 369-71

Laba'i village, 355, 496-7

Lactation, sexual intercourse ta- booed during, 455

Lag a, 250, 251 w.

Language: —

Idiom, 68, 461, 516 Pitfalls of, 5, 464-5, 480, 501-2, 505, 526, 531

Lapula, 349, 360-1

Latula, see Children

Layseta, 193-4

Laziness, 88, 107, 143

Lechery, 489-91

Lice, 34, 112, 327, 335-6, 452, 460

Likeness to maternal relatives de- nied, 204-8 ; to sister an insult- ing suggestion, 487

Ltli'u, 426

Liluta village: high rank of, 458; incest case in, 529

Lime-chewing, 156, 160

Lime-pots, 103, 145, 335-6; skulls used as, 156

Lips: painting of, 270, 298; ideal of beauty in, 298 ; erotic caresses •with, 472

L'lsiga (Chief's hut), 10, 71

Livestock, male ownership of, 25 {and see Pigs)

Loads, method of carrying, 19-20

Losa (wife of Yobukwa'u), 79, 138, 317-18

Lo'u (form of suicide), 119-20, 474, 503, 566-7

Louse and the Butterfly, the, 403, 448

Louya village, 274

Love : —

Magic connected with, see under

Magic Nature of, 283-4, 309 '■, Western reaction to, 309-10; Melane- sian, 310 ff.; akin to gambling and magic, 344-5 ; personal preference element in, 63, 66-7, 74, 314-18 Physiological seat of, 169


Love (Cont.)

Suicide caused by, 318 Love-making: occupations of, 227-

8, 231 ff. ; conversation in, 228-

30, 341-2 {and see Courtship) Luba village, 131 Lubay-, meaning of term, 68 Lubayla, meaning of term, 471 ;

veyola distinguished from, 502 Lu'ebila village, 173 Lugiva (vendetta), 448, 459 Lukuba clan, 430, 496, 528 ; its

origin, 498-9 Lukulabuta clan, origin of, 498 Lukwasisiga clan, 133; its origin,

498 Lula (gifts of reconciliation), 114,

146 Lwvayam, 349

Magic {megiva) :

Abortion, of, 197

Ancestral spirits associated with art of, 389

Beauty, of: women's perform- ance of, 38, 44, 350; men's, 44, 220 n., 351; head and face tak- ing precedence in, 296; as to the mouth, 298 ; over a comb, 300; for the kula, see subhead- ing Kula; at first pregnancy, 219-20 and n.; on mothers, 234; not confined to sex mat- ters, 345-6; associated with ceremonial events, 361 ; pub- licly performed, 361

Black {bulubivalata), see Sorcery and Magic — weather

Breath with the words the vehi- cle of, 41, 214, 217

Centre of, 355

Childbirth, at {vatula bam)y 228-31; the vivisa, 231

Counter-magic, 47, 231, 363-4, 378, 519

Courtship, of, 63, 313, 318

Cure of disease, for, see sub- heading Counter-magiq'iT

Dancers, against, 358, 458, 460; for their protection, 358

Dancing period, of a, 348

Dead, in honour of the, 155


588


INDEX


Magic (Cont.)

Differentiation of: by clan,

497-8; by sub-clan, 41 Dreams in relation to, 367, 391-6,

403-4

Evil, see Sorcery

Exorcism, of — use of word lu- guta, 519

Fetching-back formula, 381-3

Folk-tales of, 404-5

Forgetfulness, of, in the spirit world, 431

Formulae of, 213-14, 352, 354-7, 365 ff., 379-82; ancestral names a feature in, 389; checking of, 370; power in, 41

Importance of, 40, 344-5

Incest, of, 511, 512

Inheritance of, 41, 48, 209; sons performing magic in place of their fathers, 48, 96, 99 ; sor- cery an exception, 48

Kula (mivasila), 41-2, 43, 48, 219 and n., 222 n., 346, 351, 370; its distant effect, 391, 392 n.

Love, of: the cause of love, 540; its origin: A Myth of Incest, 539) 540 ff- 1 the original text, 551-65; the rite and spell in, 365 ff.; believed infallible un- less magically counteracted, 364-5; kayro'iiva system, 369, 373; Ubomalu system, 373; kivoygapani system, 373 ; com- pared with other forms of magic, 219 «.; accounted cor- rect procedure, 488, 491 ; per- formed by men or women, 44, 45; privately performed, 361; dreams induced by, 367, 391-4, bodily contacts required in, 370, 479-81 ; importance of, 344-5; realities of, 374 ff-; cases of, 107-8, 144-5, 3^6, 530

Making things, of, 42-3, 213

Malasi clan's, 513

Mci. s, 41-4; women can be transmitters of, 48

Nature of, 41, 344

Personality associated with suc- cess in, 375-7


Magic {Cont.)

Pregnancy, of first: charming the robes, 213-17; the cere- monial washing, 217-20, 222; beauty magic, 219-21, 345; in- vestment with the robes, 221 Pregnancy, to induce, 177 Renown, of (butura), 359 Safety, of, 357-8 Scents associated with, 448-50,

480, 541-2, 546-7 ^ Spells, see subheading Formulae Sphere of, 40-1 ; division by sex,

42-4 Systems of, 361-2, 373; heredi- tary, 41, 48, 209, 373 War, of, 42-3, 492 Weather, 40, 44, 48, 133 Women's, 41-5, 48 {and see sub- heading Pregnancy) Magicians: dreams of, 390-1 ; du- ties of the magician of glory, 360 {and see Sorcerers) Magila kayta, 166 Magistrates: 12, 116, 474; perni- cious influence of, 33 n.2, 140, 566 ; polygamy forbidden by, 135 and n.^; prestige of service with, 143 Mailu tribe, sexual customs of, <